Honestly, you probably started lifting to get girls (like me). Has getting a girlfriend capped your motivation to lift?
Over the last 2 years I've been on and off the gym so much, not many gains made apart from before going on holiday (holiday fresh pussy motivation). Now that I'm out of my virgin phase (body count of 12 in 2 years thanks to /fit/) and have a girlfriend, putting the effort in the gym day in and day out doesn't doesn't outweigh the shagging benefits I get (getting grills is easy and don't need to be /fit/ anymore) and therefore motivation is low af.
Now I understand why lifting for girls is a meme.
I do miss the gym and being fit, you guys have any advice for someone in my situation? Thanks in advance anons x
yeah it happened twice.
>Get into shape while fucking women left an ride
>eventually fall in love with someone
>after a couple of years realize u are fat again
>girlfriend betrays u
>repeat
>>42753285
Got ottermode and found a gf shortly after that. I too had motivation problems for a bit but then I noticed that i am gaining fat and losing muscle which motivated me to go back to the gym.
That opened my eyes, and when I am losing motivation I look to the mirror and browse my old progress pics.
Still got a long way ahead of me, and I regret that I allowed myself to get this shape where I am now
>>42753285
Its fucking my gains cause i eat unhealthy when im with her, and also i dont train those days
>>42753330
Same here man. She'll normally complain if I spend too much time at the gym.
>>42753285
It shouldn't be about motivation, it should be about habit
>>42753393
She's trying to goblin your gains
>>42753285
Here we have the perfect example of why you should never rely on women as your sole motivation for improving yourself. Did you think that was just something people said to sound cool in motivation threads? Jesus Christ.
>>42753285
I didn't lift for girls in general, I lifted for a specific girl. She ended up breaking my heart and I started using the gym as an outlet for anger and depression.
I lift to be better than people.
It hasn't capped my motivation, it's as strong as ever. But it's capped my fucking time and supps money that's for sure. But it's ok, her visa runs out in November, then I'll have all my precious gains time back.