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ok /adv/ this will be a long one, so please bear with me, last year, met two incredible girls (for the sake of less confusion, I'll respectively give them the alias of Israel and Pocahontas) hit it off with both, realized I can only be with one, come this year, I decided that it was going to be Pocahontas, by this time I've connected emotionally with both, bad move, I know. The relationship is going well with Pocahontas, so I decided I have to wean Israel off of me, she refuses because of the experiences we had and it was too sudden for her, cries all the time about it and makes me feel like shit but it's the right thing to do, planned a trip to travel to NY, 2 weeks before my trip I found out Pocahontas slept with someone before we got in a relationship but it was on her birthday and she was drunk, I got mad and revealed to her I had slept with 4 girls whilst getting to know her and 2 days after finding out she slept with someone, I slept with Israel. We decided we'll continue the relationship, I go to NY, things are going well, at this time I've successfully made Israel my friend only based on the prospect her parents are basically leaving her on her own and I'll assist her financially, 3 weeks past, I return from NY, the first week of seeing Pocahontas (my gf) everything is well, up until sunday where she just sends me a message "I want to break up" i asked "why?" she replied "I just feel it's necessary" come to find out that on Israel's instagram there's a shirtless picture of me with the caption of how much she loves me, get furious and message her to take it down, I had gotten her some stuff from NY, so she came over for them and I was done with her but she started crying, made me feel like a p.o.s, we had sex, come this week, gf refuses to talk to me but keeps wanting to see me but only for our interaction to end with "I can't do this" but everyday she requests to see me, later find out that gf and Israel are in contact, exchanging everything that happened
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between them and I respectively, wednesday go to see gf, says she wants to work it out but would appreciate me helping the other girl financially since I promised her I would although it'll bother her, tell her I have to think about everything because I was drawn aback by the entire situation, currently gf is still mad at me and quote on quote "done with me and wants nothing to do with me" she called and told Israel that Friday, gf and I didn't speak up until saturday since thursday only for her to call me 2 am in the morning today when I was already getting over her wanting to know if I'll leave her alone by not contacting her since she doesn't want me to ruin herd happiness, now I don't know what to do since Israel is still sticking with me comforting me but I want my gf back because I felt this connection I never had before with anyone and I love her and she told me the same but it felt like she gave up on me too quickly and she still has not told me she was in contact with Israel but Israel showed me all the messages and to make matters worse, she took advice from her friend to leave me, whose bf cheated on her and she still took him back, should I just give up in this girl or show her how much I want her back? thanks for sticking with me through the end of this long explanation /fit/, sorry meant to post this here and not on /adv/ but was really thinking about posting there. to keep it fit related, I haven't lifted in a month, needless to say, gains were lost
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