>all classmates in uni assume I'm slaying women every

>>42723904
oh and forgot my question: How the fuck does a /fit/ lad make use of his aesthetics in order to get women?

>>42723924
Gain confidence. There are plenty of YouTube channels dedicated to this topic. Follow those channels and take their advice. Study psychology a little bit to understand how people think and how to appeal to them more. Godspeed.

>>42723904

So youve been here since 09 but are in uni...reported retroactively

Fake it till you make it. Act like an over confident fool with your friends as a joke and eventually you'll start doing it in front of grils too.

>>42724112
I have been banned a few times back then yeah, but in retrospective it was a pretty good decision for my body to start lifting in my high school years
>>42724092
got any recommendations for channels? I think I lack essential basic skills when it comes to talking to women, but with men it's all good.

>>42724112
>implying he isn't in his 4th year
>implying he isn't in his 8th year
Stop assuming shit, fag

>>42724162
well he is right in that case, when I started browsing I was just turning 15 I think. On another note, I think a big problem may be that I have a fear of getting judged by people, or in general getting exposed to judgement by people. The thought of using e.g. tinder horrifies me, I guess that's why the anonimity here attracted me in the first place

>>42724148
https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCU_W0oE_ock8bWKjALiGs8Q

Taking advice from other people will only get you so far. You have to search within yourself and learn to stop giving a fuck about what others think. There's no shortcut or anything.

>>42724204
In that case, fuck you then, just reported your ass. enjoy the ban.

>>42723904
>spending 8 years on /fit/
post body

>>42724238
looking into it, thanks. I'm sure there's others with similar problems here too, we're all striving for physical perfection but forget the social skills

>>42724247
how does retroactive reporting work? Do you use the wayback machine to do that?
>>42724258
tbhfammo I don't notice much difference between my 2-3 years on /fit/ physique vs. 8 years. Ripped/athletic still, bit bigger than e.g. OCB who was also active back when I tripped for a short period