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Did anyone else fall for the going outside meme? I went to almost

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Did anyone else fall for the going outside meme? I went to almost all university lectures, studied in the library, and my main hobby is sitting around in public, drinking coffee, browsing my phone, and feeling sad about life. I go to the gym regularly. When I moved to London I started sightseeing a lot. I have an office job where there are many people around my age.

None of that helped one bit. I am still utterly alone, no friends no experiences at all with non escort women. If you're an ugly non-normie you have no hope. Thank God I became blackpilled before the delusion of feelgood crap made me talk to people I don't know like some autist who swallowed Mr motivator Americanised shit.

I should become even more of a shut in and try to git gud at programming or something that will give me the money and therefore time (just quitting and having time is stigmatised).

A lot of advice is just world fallacy crap. A comment on another topic also hit home: if companies have no solution to sell, they'll say it isn't a problem. PUAs can't sell better faces (at prices that meet demand)? Sell just world feelgood confidence routine copepills. Mass delusion follows.

Seeing attractive and happy people outside is painful. I missed out on everything and society sees me as a disposable battery. At least my bitterness lets me put in zero effort at work guilt free.

Being outside is

Background:
>aged 26
>no friends or social life since 18
>no female attention ever
>went through university with zero social experiences
>became the loner nobody talks to within two days of my current job
>never been to pub, club, or party
>missed out on all the 16 - 22 formative social experiences that people look back on fondly (teen crushes, school prom, school dances, university fresher's week, any sort of relationships at all)
>know that women all have 5000 tinder matches and think the average male is ugly
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>>42538247
>browsing my phone
degenerate teen. read a book
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>>42538247
you have to talk to people to make friends anon. You can't just sit around in public hoping people will approach you
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>>42538247
>Thank God I became blackpilled before the delusion of feelgood crap made me talk to people I don't know like some autist who swallowed Mr motivator Americanised shit.
>Expecting Mr motivator Americanised shit to approach him anyways

The only person that can help you is yourself
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>>42538247
>wanting to be depressed and cynical
I know a lot of people with genuine depression and its fucking awful. They want nothing but to be happy and feel normal.

Kys already and stop bringing me down
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>>42538247
Post face and body
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>>42538247

This sounds like me in about a month
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>>42538386
This.

I feel you anon, but just know it's not hopeless. I've been in your situation and I went out to rectify it.
No luck on the stable relationship part but I did have some good one-ofs, plus I made at least one good friend and some good acquaintances.

Not gonna lie to you, it was hard, but it was better than being a shut in.

Also, you gonna have to keep lifting if you want any hope of it happening to you too, it's just how it is.
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>my main hobby is sitting around in public, drinking coffee, browsing my phone, and feeling sad about life

I wonder why nobody wants to talk to you.
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>>42538247
You have to put yourself out there anon. Join a softball club, or any hobby club, volunteer, talk to people. I'm kinda in the same boat as you.

>>42538457
This is me. It's gonna get better because I'm working on being more happier everyday. For me, I know it will get better come time. It's just hard when most of your thoughts are negative thoughts
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>>42538550
There are dumb cunts who spend their entire days on instagram and the rest of it getting railed by Chad who get 100s of people pretending like they're actual people with thoughts and feelings and wanting to interact with them
neck yourself normo
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>>42538581
>pretending like they're actual people with thoughts and feelings

I wonder why nobody wants to talk to you.
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>>42538247
WILL YOU LEAVE THIS BOARD AND GO BACK TO POL FFS I HATE YOU STOP COMPLAINING ON THE INTERNET I FUCKING HATE SEEING THIS POST
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>>42538247
So you just sat outside on your phone and now you're wondering why your social life never blossomed?
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>>42538247
OP have you tried spending time around people who are very similar to you or have something in common? For example if you are into video games try going to arcades, cons, tournaments, gaming hang outs. If you like music then go to small local shows, try forming a band, karaoke, festivals. If you're just a real weirdo be around other weirdos. Opposites don't really attract, not as much as people like to pretend that they do. Spend time around people similar to you because they are far more likely to accept you.

Also like others have said you often have to make a move with friends. You have to talk to people, ask them to gang out some time, exchange contact information, ect.
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>>42538581

Yes anon you're to only person with thoughts and feelings.
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>>42538247
m8 i feel you on this
grew up with 1-2 "close friends" and a large number of friends/acquaintances that i went through primary school and college with
always took a ton of effort to get anyone to hang out with me, never anyone reaching out to me
i'm 22 now, i've given up on social outreach. i made one lasting relationship in college and shes my gf at least, but i talk to literally noone else. im not even ugly or awkward idk why noone likes me
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You can still have good friends as an ugly guy. Lots of ugly guys out there with lots of friends.

Getting women is not a prerequisite for being social. You can have a fulfilling social life without a sexual one. Of course it sucks not having women like you, but it's not all black and white.
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