What's the best way to approach cute guys at the gym if you're a guy?
Usually my gaydar is pretty good, but at the gym most of the people come off as very gay to me
Would you be offended if I approached you? (I'm a 20 year oly rather skinny and tall guy)
Depends, post your boipucci
>>42475423
I'd probably let you blow me. No homo.
>>42475423
You are an anomaly. Most people are not gay. Maybe 1 in 50 men are gay. There's a 98% chance you're assuming wrong. Don't approach and flirt with guys at the gym as a guy, it's gay, and you shouldn't do it. If someone did it to me I'd look at them like they were retarded.
>>42475423
Only if someone comes off extra gay and is looking at you first in a gay way.
Though I wouldn't be offended as long as you state your intentions early in the conversation.
>>42475423
Once a gay guy at my gym approached me. He started by asking me some pointless question about whatever lift i was doing. Then he said he had been "seeing me around" quite a bit which is probably gay code for "i like looking at you." I got uncomfortable and ended the conversation, but i wasnt offended and i think if your target is more receptive and keeps the conversation going with you then he's probably gay/interested.
>>42475446
I feel like the gym has a higher % of gays though, because gay people put huge emphasize on being muscled and fit, while there are many dad bods in the straight community
>>42475446
The population of a gym is more gay than the population at large. Lots of gay guys work out.
>>42475450
>>42475450
OP here, I saw a few guys looking at me a lot and i was 100% sure they were checking me out
Turns out they just thought I was cute and that I reminded them of their son but they had wifes...
>>42475535
Wut
Do the same thing that straight men do.
NEVER HIT ON ANYONE AT THE GYM EVER BECAUSE YOU WILL BE BANNED AND QUITE POSSIBLY END UP ON THE SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY.
>>42475775
Yea 2 guys turned out to have children and wifes who I thought were checking me out...
>>42475823
LOL I literally look 10, I doubt I'll get registered
>>42475446
This. It might be a little lower than 1 in 50 at a gym, but the odds are still going to be overwhelmingly against you and they'll be more likely to turn violent on you if you're wrong.
IMO just stick to your own kind, bars or apps or whatever.
>>42475423
>tfw no cute twink checking you out in the gym
why live
>>42475875
>people turn violent just because a gay person speaks to them
Leave your house, you have no understanding of how the world works