Why am I so afraid of women /fit/?
I was just at the gym and there was multiple very attractive women in my age range there but I was too afraid to approach any of them.
What's worse is that they looked friendly and shy, they didn't look like bitchy stacey's, they seemed very approachable, but I'm afraid of even talking to them.
How can I get over my fear of good looking women while at the gym? I keep telling myself it would be a bad idea too approach because it could get awkward and it might lead to me not having a good time at the gym, I wouldn't want to have to find a new gym because of a failed attempt. But I'm starting to believe maybe that's just me trying to talk myself out of doing anything because I'm terrified of women.
Do nofap and take pride in your gains
Because you are presenting your glass ego and handing them a hammer.
>>42391940
how stop wet dreams when on nofap?
>>42391871
I think it because you see them as weird or alien because you've never been around them long.
>>42391871
>approaching women in a gym
Only thing worse than approaching them when they're at work. Easiest way to become the creepy guy at the gym.
>>42391940
retarded meme advice. just talk to them, be their friend, without any ulterior motives. acquiring new female friends increases social capital, which will increase chances of getting a gf (or fwb). not talking to girls in fear of getting friend-zoned is the worst, most beta fucking thing you can do.
unless you're hopelessly addicted to porn and you take a significant chunk of your day to fap, nofap is a pointless meme. masturbation is healthy, jerk off before sleeping, it'll help you sleep better. don't lay in bed and fap to porn on your phone, the intense light will completely fuck your circadian rhythm. i'd suggest weaning yourself off of porn if you can only get aroused by hardcore/degenerate content. consider getting a pocket pussy or tenga egg, and use a loose grip. it'll be more pleasurable and your dick won't become accustomed to the iron grip of your man hands.
tl;dr, just talk to girls just because, be responsible with porn and fapping.
keep working on those gains and leave this retarded board desu
>>42392549
> be their friend, without any ulterior motives
how
>>42391871
op please just try nofap for a week and then when you see an attractive female anywhere, you'll be surprised at how your new nofap self will handle the situation, pls try
>>42392321
dont. wet dreams dont count, neither does sex. its not noejaculation, its noFAP. Fapping is degeneracy. Fucking a woman is good,cumming in your sleep means your balls are full and its time to find a woman to fuck
>>42392557
>>be their friend without any ulterior motives
thats how
>>42392645
Is there anything we do without expecting anything in return?
Even when you donate, big part of it is that it makes you feel better about yourself.
>>42392557
Surgically remove your genitals
>>42392671
just be a pleasant person, come across as funny or something man just think about all the things an autist would do and do the opposite
>>42391871
Ask them if they're working out
>>42391871
>I was just at the gym and there was multiple very attractive women in my age range there but I was too afraid to approach any of them.
this is why youre a sperglord. why are you going to approach them at the gym? to try and pull them? it is a bad idea to approach them you fucking retard. they go to the gym to workout like most people, and probably dont want to be interrupted by spaghetti
what was your relationship like with your mother while you were growing up? mine was authoritative and callous and i think that led to me being shy around girls, especially as a teen. just ask waitresses or bar girls, you don't even need to 'approach' them.
>>42391871
Just treat them like you treat guy friends
It's not that difficult, girls aren't a different species
>>42391871
>Why am I so afraid of women /fit/?
You think they have power over you.