>see qt girl in yoga at my gym 1 year ago >casually talk

>>42376434

This is part of life. Be proud of yourself that you actually mustered the courage to ask her out. Move on.

>>42376434
Hahaha fucking beta. So beta.

You had more balls than 99% of people on here. Rejection builds your character, you should see your week as going well.

Mine's alright though fanks anon.

>>42376452
What would you have done differently tough guy? I would appreciate feedback

>>42376434
you don't ask girls out in the gym. that's something creeps do

jesus fuck dude, i'm sure people here told you this

you DON'T ASK GIRLS OUT IN THE GYM

>>42376455
He would have cum in his pants cause a girl spoke to him then cried while masturbating later on in the day.

>>42376453
>Rejection builds character

Would you mind elaborating? It kinda just stings a bit. Is there some hidden reward here?

>>42376434

You have a good attitude about things, it's good to have the courage to do something and just say "I'm glad I did it" afterwards

>>42376465
Nobody has told me this, why can't I ask a girl out in the gym? It's not like I cold approached her. I talked with her a few times over the course of a few weeks before asking.

>>42376467
>Is there some hidden reward here?

yeah you learned not to ask girls out in the gym you fucking creeper retard

p.s. you have to get into a fucking conversation or something at least you dont just blind ask a girl out with no fucking leadup lol..did people here tell you to do this shit?

hey creeper asshole please pay attention: asking girls out will get you perma banned from your gym including loss of all fees you've paid, and is classless and predatory behavior, STOP FUCKIGN DOING IT

>>42376467
Yeah man, you didn't cry about it and can change your game up accordingly. She's dating and isn't a slut so you picked a good potential waifu. And the outcome could have been different if she wasn't dating. That isn't a failure that's a success.

>>42376478
>Nobody has told me this, why can't I ask a girl out in the gym?

jesus christ dude. what do you see the gym as? somewhere where you go and want people to come bother you in a way that then makes you uncomforatble for the duration of your workout and from that point on, every single time you see them?

is that what the gym is to you?

is that what it is to her?

>>42376467
Getting everything you want every time will make you an entitled brat.
Also once you get rejected a few times and realise "wait nothing apocalyptic happened to me I just moved on" you will stop fearing it and ask out more girls. From there on it's just a numbers game.

Well played. Truth is everyone takes rejections and she doesn't owe you anything just cause you asked. Only way this is an L is if you are a little bitch about it and don't instantly move on.

>>42376480
she said she was dating someone to make him instantly go away. BECAUSE HE ASKED HER OUT IN THE GYM WITH NO LEADUP LIKE A FUCKING CREEPER

DONT
APPROACH
GIRLS
INTHE
GYM
IT
IS
A
FUCKING
TEMPLE
NOT A CLUB

>>42376479
She approached me earlier and started talking to me dude, I didn't blindly ask her out. Why are you so angry?

>>42376480
Yeah I'm really not sure how to increase my success rate other than asking girls who are hideous lol.

>She isn't a slut

Or I'm too ugly to her and she was just being nice. It was nice of her to say 'No, but we can still hang out in a group setting" as insulting as it felt lol

>>42376482
Also as other posters said, you learned not to ask out girls at the gym.

>>42376480
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That being said the other anons are probably right in saying don't bother people at the gym. No reason you can't speak to her afterwards though. (And by that I don't mean just stand outside waiting).

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this fucking sucks
asking out a girl and she has a bf already

FeelsTheWorstMan

>>42376494
>>42376490
>>42376486
I really don't think it was as bad as you guys are painting it. I don't ask out every girl I see at the gym, and I've actually had success with it in the past.

>>42376481
Surely you've seen people come to the gym with friends and annoy the hell out of you by talking about things unrelated to the gym. Especially women do that. Women are over socialized and wherever they go they are always looking to socialize. That's the rule and exceptions excist, but they are few. Use own judgment.

>>42376497
It probably isn't that bad. Just best to avoid it when possible.

>>42376486
>NOT A CLUB

Fuck nightclubs. I don't want empty sex. I want a fucking girlfriend who I can build something real with.

Caring about getting rejected in 2017

OP you'll your gf, never give up

>>42376497
>I'm a fucking creeper who doesn't understand very, very clear boundaries

>>42376500
fuck does that have to do with asking people out at the gym

you dont go ask girls out at the gym period...i know im among a crowd of fucking savages and retards here but please take this from someone with a higher social standing and understanding than yourself.

jesus fuck its like a fucking golden rule you DONT ASK GIRLS OUT AT THE GYM, AT THEIR WORK, PLACES LIKE THAT

this is so fucking inarguable its just amazing its not only advice its something that separates absolute creeps from normal people and if you get that you are BEYOND help

>>42376497
the issue is that if she turns you down you still go to the same gym so it will be awkward

and knowing the average /fit poster, this could lead to an incident

>>42376510
Are you a girl? Seems like you're speaking from experience here.

>>42376505
>He doesn't go to the gym dressed for the club and goes to the club dressed for the gym.

It is like you don't want people to know your a pajeet.

>>42376434
She's keeping you around because she's still slightly interested despite dating someone. Don't be surprised if her and her date don't work and you become the rebound.

GJDM for approaching her.

>>42376516
>the issue is that if she turns you down you still go to the same gym so it will be awkward

No, the issue is that the gym is an inviolable space of self-improvement and if you don't respect that you are a creep and a fucking social retard loser

>>42376481
>>42376481
>>42376481

so many of you are so obviously lacking in the ability to feel empathy. honestly, genuinely autistic

>>42376516
Agreed, but I don't think it'll be awkward. I'll keep our interactions to a casual wave, and if she talks to me we'll talk. If she invites me out maybe I'll come out? Idk now. I would like more friends.

>>42376434
Just hang around the Asian power lifters.
At least you got someone to spot you

>>42376524
I don't think so dude, I interpreted that as her just being nice? What do I do if she comes up to me and invites me out with them?

>>42376538
>What do I do if she comes up to me and invites me out with them?

to think that in your mind there is some universe where this would occur

A lot of you guys have just outlandishly better looking bodies than me and we could both enter the same bar and I could pull a 7 in 5 minutes while you manage nothing

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>>42376546
So I should accept? Please tell me how. I feel stiff at bars, never really know what to say.

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>>42376538

not trying to be a dick but just say no, if you're anything like me you'll feel like a bitch hanging out with her and her friends

speaking from experience

>inb4 faggot/beta/autist

i am who i am /fit

>>42376559
Seeing how social awkward you are then you should take every opportunity possible to get social gains.

>>42376563
Takes time to get used to any new group.

>>42376563
>>42376559

this is what i'm referring to, you'll feel like you have nothing to say and won't be able to relate to their group of normie friends

i don't want you to end up like me, just sitting there like an autist not saying anything, but if you can hash it then go for it

>>42376563
Yeah that's why I was thinking of rejecting her offer and lying saying I have other plans

>>42376577
I feel like shell be less attracted to me if I don't hang out with her 1 to 1

>>42376580
you don't even have to lie, just say that you want to spend time with her and not her friends

this may sound like burning bridges but at least you'll be able to walk away with your confidence intact (again, unlike me)

>>42376524
i think she was just being nice

>thread about asking a girl out in an environment where you ask someone out and
>getting rejected by
>the "i have a boyfriend" lie which you believed
>has devolved into
>fantasy ways to reject her friendly social advance in the
>impossible fantasy situation that she ever actually asks you to be her beta orbiter

It's a vague type of sadness that doesn't hit you all at once. These are the threads that don't make good screencaps, but all the elements are there

>>42376645

OP did everything right, but sometimes you just have to hold that L

she said no and the reason doesn't matter, best thing to do is move on ASAP and not let this experience bring you down

>>42376669
>OP did everything right

he didn't do a single thing right. no opener.
>duhh i talked to her last week
doesn't matter.
asked her out in the gym.
got rejected and beta'd back when she said something else instead of just waving at her while continuing what he was doing

literally every single thing was done wrong. going up and asking a girl out out of the blue is not what you fucking do, just lol. some of you are so clueless its agonizing

>>42376434
Good on you for the balls
>I feel so fucking isolated it hurts
Just go out with them and become friends increase social circle. Also shes gonna have girl mates aswell

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>>42376679

he did know her though

overthinking like this is a one way trip to low confidence, going up to a girl is hard for most of us and every time we do it successfully it's something to be proud of regardless of the circumstances

you did good OP don't be discouraged and don't overthink things if you like someone ask them out and if they say no it's not a big deal

>>42376479
>t. assmad SJW hamgalaxy

Wow what's with all the faggots saying "oh wow dont ask stronk wombyn out while in the gym"? Now you can't talk to people and eventually ask them out? What's so bad about it if you're not being a complete ass?

>>42376718
"going up to a girl" seems so hard because you're doing it in an unnatural way

your concept of this moment is based around 1950s television drama tropes that were repeated endlessly throughout our culture. are you conscious of that at all?

you have to make a fucking moment. you don't go get her to lean down sideways off the eliptical.

I wanted desperately to ask a girl out one day. There was no moment. I could never get her alone. Finally our science class (university) went to the local museum basically a free fuckaround day. I told her there was something really cool "over here" and i just made shit up to get her to walk alone with me. I asked her out and she made up an excuse and rejected me. But the point was before I asked I already had her smiling. Bitch was honestly just a weird ass loner, wouldn't hang out with a single person from school

>>42376466
HAHAHA TOP KEK

>>42376777
>What's so bad about it

concept is called "if you have to ask, you'll never know". yet another hopelessly creepy guy on here

>>42376523
Kekerino

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>>42376799
>"I AM TOO SMART TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU"
So you're just being a salty beta asshole or a buttmad SJW landwhale. Gotcha.

>>42376810
>"don't ask out girls in the gym, the reason why is self explanatory and wouldn't even be a discussion if you weren't socially retarded in some way"
>U SJW LANDWHALE!!!!!!!!!!!

you're beyond help. stay incel.

Ignore all the spergs here anon, you did the right thing.
The "don't approach girls in gyms" is a meme beta cucks keep telling themselves when they have no balls to do it.

>>42376479
post tits

>>42376784

i see what you mean, it is kind of creepy to just walk up to a girl and ask her out on the spot

the only time i've asked a girl out w/o knowing her name was at a watch store shopping for a new strap

i got the strong eye contact vibe vibe so i asked her if she had a boyfriend and i could have her number, then i got the token blush+smile but she said she had a bf so i dropped it and left but i'm still glad i did it

>>42376467

you did a thing that made you uncomfortable.

it's like babby's first social weightlifting. you'll get socially stronger with more practice. soon you'll lift lmao1gf

>>42376486
>the gym is a temple

I think you need to go some other places than the gym and your house mate.

>>42376479
shove a tampon up your cunt and get out

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>>42376481
>>42376486
no wonder you are incels
>pic related

>>42377074
>>42377155
>>42377182
Roastie or autist are right. Girls don't want you to ask them out in the gym also they don't want unsolicited advice regarding routine/form.

>>42377236
he has already talked to her several times
only thing to do unless you want her to friendzone you is make your intentions clear

What OP did is the right thing, she says no, you continue with your life.
Meanwhile you losers stutter at the cashier in the grocery store.
goddamn sometimes I wonder why I post here

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>>42377573
>>42376603

again be honest, make your intentions clear, you don't want to spend time shooting the shit with her friends you want to build a meaningful connection with her

or you just want smash, either way this advice applies

no matter what happens OP, don't give in to your isolation, you're better than that

better to try and be direct than plan this huge masquerade to lead up to the question to have it fall flat. getting to know someone is usually after they find you attractove enough to organise a date

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>>42376434
Fuck the haters and all the temple creeper BS.

You asked her out and she said no. You move on. Its not weird, because she probably saw you miring her in past anyway.

Plus, you made it perfectly clear of your intents so that you are her "use in case of emergency" backup.

Never understood the wait-until-she-throws herself-on-the-windshield-of-your-car non-creep meeting women strategy. How the fuck are you ever going to find out if she likes you back unless you ask?

Yeah, women say they don't like it, but once they get middle age they spend all this money to get that attention back. Its like fucking heroin for it.

I guarantee the girl was flattered, so long as you didn't turn into a dick or shoot creepy death eyes at her after she said no.

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>>42376510
LOL I've been asked out at the gym and while at work and I'm a guy.

Good job, OP.

I've never had the guts to ask anyone out and I'm 26.

>>42376479
This is and isn't true. If you just go up to every girl, make awkward conversation, and then abruptly ask them on a date without properly feeling them out, then it's classless. If you keep pursuing these girls long after they've made it clear they're not into you, then it's predatory.

tl;dr: it's only creepy if you make it creepy

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>>42376455
Obviously.

>>42376434
If you didn't ask her out you would regret not asking her out.

>tfw I have a loyal and dedicated gf but I'm still constantly fantasizing about asking out hotter women

We've been together 3 years, live together, and she wants to get married. I'm in too deep.

Be grateful for your freedom

>>42376467
You're man enough to ask a girl out, most guys aren't

>>42379185
That's what I was thinking. I'm not some desperate PUA.. I got to know her a bit before and she seems like she has a nice personality in addition to being cute. That's why I did it. It's bizzare that people think I should never ask someone out at the gym, it's like they want me to be alone forever

>>42379296
I don't like feeling so lonely. I'm wasting my 20s not having a gf!

>>42379218
Why do i keep seeing this?

I have fucked girls who had a boyfriend by hanging out with their social circle.
One time I even hung out with the boyfriend a bit.
Just saying.

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>>42376434
Good job lad

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>>42376434
hows your week going /fit/?
>be me at gym working out as usual
>girl from gym aproach me, hey anon can you help me with x exercise
>sure laura (not her name), lemme finish this set first
>oh cool take your time
>finish set and help her out
>so anon tomorrow is friday, have any plans.?
>"as autistic as i am of course not". Yeah planing to grab a beer with friends. You.?
>really sounds nice, i have to do something for work bla bla bla bla...
>oh cool
>so anon, i was thinking we sould go out for a drink sometime.?
>"she is no my type but whatever", sure what about tonight after office
>sounds nice.
>tfw went out with a girl who wanted the D
>tfw even though i did not smash her ass
>mfw im a supreme gentleman fedora tips
>feelsbadman.webm
i should quit lifting and lern some social skills.

>>42376434

You had to do it, and you did it. Sometimes you just have to say fuck it and go for it.

Good job.

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>>42376479
>>42376480
>>42376482
>tfw got over getting rejected just to enter a world of erection problems so now I'm even more scared to approach women
HELP

>>42376479
This is really good bait.

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>>42379218
>Hollywood consults him for one-liners

>>42376434
gross u hit on an asian

>>42379296
If you're having these thoughts now reconsider your relationship.
I can guarantee you things won't get any better from here.

>>42376434
>refusing to even get to know any of them before completely rejecting the offer
What a sleazy douchebag you are. She was probably testing to see if you actually wanted to hang out with her as a person vs. Just being a sleazebag wanting to bone. She probably doesn't have a bf. You failed miserably.

>>42376434
My college has a 70:30 gender ratio, I've gotten to the point of just assuming any girl I'm interested in is taken until proven single after a long string of that being true. Good on you for going for it anon, hope the next time ends better

>>42380026
When she said let's hang out in a group setting I said okay you'll see me around lemme know

>>42376465

Lmao top tier sperg posting. If you regularly chatted to a girl at the gym, constantly caught her smiling/miring, etc. etc., you wouldn't ask her out because "REEEEEEEE MY ILLOGICAL STANCE TOWARDS ASKING GIRLS OUT AT THE GYM REEEEEEEEEE"?


I mean granted you'd have to be non-autistic to talk to her in the first place, let alone pick up on subtle cues that she's digging you

>>42376467
failure is the first step to mastery. you have to fail to learn.

how do you fight the darkness? you stick one little finger out at a time and slowly expose yourself to being unconformable.

>>42376486
>>42376481
>>42376479
this is legitimate autism

>>42376467
What doesn't kill you, makes ya stronger. Get back up and try again. You can't change without a failure. It will hurt but you can't stop or slow down.

>>42379185
I'm middle class though.

>>42376434
lel is this even rejection when it's basically a stranger?
Try getting jilted at the altar.

You had the balls to give it a try at least, most autists on here wouldn't even dare.

Why did you make the thread OP?
I mean good for you, for having the courage, but I don't see the point of the thread.

>>42376452
You fucking retard he put himself on the line. Rejection has nothing to do with anything in this situation, OP should be proud of himself

You child. You moron. You absolute cretin.

>>42376510
>Don't ask girls out at places where you share common interests

Um. Ok... So where then? You basically are limiting it to bars and dating apps. This is why hook up culture is killing marriage.

Ι have to agree that you should you not be hitting on girls at the gym. Reasons:

1)Most girls despise being in the gym and see it as a chore. They are already negatively predisposed. Very low chance of sucess.
2)Girls that like being in the gym are yoga pant wearing 9/10s you don't have a chance with anyway, they are dating someone rich that doesn't gym
3)Personally when i'm at the gym im 100% focused on what i'm doing, which means i'm sweaty, tired and pretty pissed off looking. I get mires from guys for muscles and weight i lift but i don't care.

Anyway, good for you OP, you have more balls than me at least. Just know that gyms are horrible places to meet women.

Also what a cunt lol. Yeah i aint fucking you but you are allowed to bask in my greatness by joining my asian friendzone planetary system

Women are unbelievably cunty nowadays.

>>42379218
i sincerely hope nobody believes this image

>>42383138
A gym is not just a place of common interest, it's more like a workplace for your body where people work mostly individually
Get more hobbies, social hobbies. Dance, theater, art, hobbies where you are encouraged to socialize and where the is more girls than there are guys

>>42376452
nothing beta about it you miserable fuck

>>42376434
that's ok dude, if you didn't ask her out, it would've felt much worse

>>42376478
If you've already talked to her a few times, you can ask her to something casual.

The problem you might run into is it getting awkward between you, and at some point somebody has to switch gyms.

>>42376495
Every girl above a 6 already has something like a boyfriend or husband.

>>42376497
its not that bad. she said she was seeing someone and by the way you tell the story it seems like she was being honest. you did the right thing by just kinda walking away.

>>42379296

I dunno, man. Me and mine have been together for 23 years now. Then again we love AND like each other so...

Good luck, dude!

>it's another 100+ reply thread about girls on /fit/

the obsession never ends on here does it

>>42384164
I want Hollywood to ask me for one liners

>>42378956
its a nice feeling (:

>>42376510
>DONT ASK GIRLS OUT AT THE GYM, AT THEIR WORK
Literally the majority of couples met at work. You're a fucking retard who can't stand people hooking up in the only public place he dares to go to, the gym, where he tries to lift the biting loneliness away, and that's the last place he wants to see people find happiness with a girl.
Or you're just a motherfucking troll, in which case, congratulations, you scored another reply in your sad little game. Loser.

Fucking boyfriends are the worst, I wish they would all explode!

>>42379703
your a terrible person, but just keep pretending what your doing is alpha assuming your not lying

>>42384164
Shut up bitch. You're lucky I even took time to post this. I'm in a consultation rn with Hollywood.

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brehs I just posed as a female milf on a chat site to see how bombarded women get with messages from orbiters. 8 messages in one minute and one of those was another mom though it could have been a dude the way they were texting seemed like it wasn't based on the convo that went like this:
>said she wishes there was a room full of boys to lust over her
>says she loves young men and hasn't had multiple men in years though she has cheated on her husband
>says he doesn't know but has seen her flirting w/ guys
>says when she was 20 4 guys fucked her at once
>says she still fantasizes about that night and felt like a sex goddess
>woke up surrounded by boys
>says she loves teasing boys and making them jerk off over her when they get home
I didn't want these feels Anons, I want to go degeneracy free from here on out no porn, no random hookups, no sexting random roasties. I feel disgusted with the female gender and wish I had never picked anonymously at one of their brains. May have been a fat neckbeard or just a perv but fuck was it convincing and reminded me of the behaviors of all attractive young girls.

>>42376434
>"wanna get drinks sometime next week?"
>She slightly blushes and stalls "ummm"
>"Hard no eh?"
decent response desu

>>42376444
if this was reddit i would upvote u :D

.......maybe even guild?? haha

>>42387589
>i am so fucking isolated it hurts.

Ive been using interpals and it kinda helps, people there are somewhat decent

>>42387589
>Only 8 messages
I once got 60+ messages in 3 minutes when I posed as a 19 year old girl on Whisper and had a picture of a fat mexican chick

>>42379815
viagra and fuck girls till ur over it

So uhhh.
Seeing as how most of the talk in this thread is about the gym, I have a real question.
Don't lie.
What goes through your mind when you see a new fat guy in the gym? Because to me, what I've built up is that you would all just stare or glance and think things like, "Oh there's a worthless idiot, what's he think he's gonna do here? Turn it all around? HA!" and then you all just wait impatiently for him to leave so you don't have to deal with him doing shit wrong or looking at him or wondering if he's gonna walk up to you and say something or, God forbid, ask for help with something.
Thoughts like that are keeping me in my house, but I don't think $1000 worth of 5-50 lb dumbbells, and an elliptical are going to fix me.

>>42376479
>>42376481
>>42376486
>>42376465
>>42376510

Why do autists think that social interactions must follow a specific set of rules that can't be deviated from, do they not realise that normal human beings can judge what is appropriate depending on the situation?

>>42387880
>Seeing as how most of the talk in this thread is about the gym, I have a real question.
>Don't lie.
>What goes through your mind when you see a new fat guy in the gym?
You forgot to add
>asking for a friend

>>42387978
Answer the question.
I was never pretending to ask for someone else, I'm sorry it came off that way to you. I, me, I want to know because I am fat.
It's also why I don't walk around my block in the country because I don't want to think about people looking out their window and going, "Oh, he's trying to improve? Pathetic. What a loser."

>>42387880
I think "good for him for trying" and "I wonder if he knows that working out really doesn't help you lose weight? Probably not.. uneducated fuck"

>>42388016
Don't fucking meme me. I don't need that right now.
Now, what the hell are you talking about?

>>42387880
Usually I think "Oh hey that guy's fat" and then go back to what I was doing.

Literally the only time I pay attention to someone else at the gym for more than 5 seconds is if they're jacked, hot, doing something dangerous, or lifting some huge amount of weight (relative to my lifts).

>>42387880
I just think "there's a guy who is trying to be less fat, good on him". However, if he's just showing up after New Years or at the beginning of a new school semester I'll probably think he's a worthless NYR type whose heart isn't really in it. I also would be happy to help him learn the ropes, because it means I'm starting to look less like a DYEL. I'd take it as a compliment, and I never get compliments, like, ever.

>>42388025
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>>42387880

>caring what people think
In all seriousness i get a warm feeling that someone has taken the first step to turning their life around. Being fat fucking sucks and just being in the gym and accepting that is something to celebrate. Don't be discouraged, most people in the gym are nice and want you to succeed and revel in the joy of health and fitness that they do.

There's a /fat/ thread on /fit sometimes, you should post progress and ask for advice there because alot of them are like you. Scooby is also a positive role-model to look up to

>inb4 lmao taking scooby srsly

>>42388008
nobody gives a fuck about you, I'd watch you but not really care what you do as long as it seems like you're making an effort

the only thing i really notice is people who wander around aimlessly and do whatever exercise or machine they feel like, try to stick to a routine, you need the regularity

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ughh

https://youtu.be/eXTiiz99p9o


google it for more

>>42388025
HERE
>>42388087

>>42388074
Kind words, thank you.
>>Caring what other people think
Have you ever been fat? Being fat is literally all I think about when I talk to new people or newbies show up at work. Trying not to stand in profile. I even suck in my gut almost permanently.
I don't know why I can't stand the thought of someone looking at me and thinking, "fat". Even though it's totally obvious and I can't hide it even a little. I weigh 300 lbs for Christ's sake.

I did post on /fat/. Sorry for ranting like this but I've been thinking about this for a VERY very long time.

>>42388120
Hey man, you just got to realize most people won't even be thinking about you. When you're at the gym almost everyone is focused on themselves and couldn't care less what other people are doing. I was in the same boat a year ago weighed 300 pounds and decided to make the change. Now I'm 225 and well on my goal weight of 180. Just do it man time for thinking is over.

>>42388120
you do relize that everyone is self conscious right?

it's a mental thing you have to get over because once you get /not fat/ you WILL find something else about yourself to hate


It's human nature

Still lose weight tho

>>42388150
>>42388168
Well I will try.
I'll think over how I want to do it, whether it's in a gym or if I do just buy weights and hope no one says I'm keeping them up at night.
But god damn I'm so self conscious that I think people will look at me weird for breathing heavy while doing something that requires heavy breathing, like running.

>>42388192

possibly his best video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilubYTOM1ls

There is nothing wrong in asking girls out in a gym or anywhere else, you autistic faggots

>>42388150
Oh oh!
I have a question that's really scaring me.
How's your skin?
Am I going to be a horrible mess? I don't give a fuck if the stretch marks stay, I just don't want to be fat bastard at the end of goldmember.

>>42388368
I've not had any issue with loose skin yet. But then again I'm still chubby. Loose the weight slowly, gain muscle, and get some extra collagen in your diet. From what I've read it might take a little longer for the skin to shrink back but it will as long as you keep the weight off

>>42376434
People still ask out girls at the gym...?

>>42387880
The other day I was warming up on the treadmill, some fat kid came up next to me and started telling me about all the shit food he eats and how shitty his diet is. I started telling him about carbs and general nutrition guidlines he can follow, and that to lose weight he has to estimate calories to be on a deficit... he was shy at first so I started out by asking him what his goals were etc and then he opened up I had to tell him I have to go start my weightlifting. Anyway everytime he sees me now he comes up to me for advice and it feels good honestly, a lot of people come up to me to ask me for exercises to do and what to do and whatever they're confused about in the gym.

Not gonna shit you, fat people in the gym who are really dedicated and go in there consistently are considered bro-tier. If you're fat and you go in there once per week and slag on the treadmill for 3 hours no-one's gonna grow to like you. You'll just be thought of as "pfft, another waste of space".

Anyway, I myself care about others in the gym but most other people would simply do their workout and leave and not think about anything else relating anything relating anyone else. They'd be thinking about things going on in their lives etc, you're the last thought anyone would want to use brain energy to process. So go figure, if you don't go sign up in a gym, it's just your weak personality, not your fear of judgment or people being mean. You're just shit if you don't go. So go, decide on a day and actually go. Nigger.

>>42376465
my parents met eachother in the gym. They've been married for 20 years now, lul.