Tell me about the best decisions that made the most improvement

Leaving this toxic board for a few years and trying to talk to girls/ actually lift/ live my life

>>42291582
cardio

>>42291631
Yet you're here anon, why don't you do yourself a favour and fuck off :^)

>>42291582
The decision to improve.

>>42291582
Realizing that rejection actual hurts a lot less than never trying. This applies to women, work, and any other endeavor. If I had just learned how to nut up and actually ask for what I wanted as a teen I would have lived as a god, but I didn't learn until I was 20. No more wasted time.

stopped playing video games, more cardio, stopped worrying about making mistakes and focused on enjoying life

doing the exact opposite of what 4chan told me to do

nofap and no porn
testosterone + proviron
arnold split

I've went through the Cwicki again last year and I realized I was on the same path as Chris Chan so I got a job in a warehouse and started working out in the mornings. I hate working but at least I get mired at work from the Latina/o's and it give me a good feel.

>>42291582
I stopped coming to 4c....fuk

>>42291582

Saying fuck this minimum wage delivery job and applied for a new one. I don't think there's any better feeling than improving yourself and socially starting over with a clean slate. It's almost like having a second chance in life.

The day I decided to stop posting on 4chan.

>>42292542
Things not going so well then?

>>42291582
Quit muh video gaems. Nu-males and betas hobby.

>>42291582
To stop obsessing over the gym and instead put that energy into my university studies and my job.

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>>42291582
IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER LOL

Quit smoking

>>42291657
>tfw still can't do this and I'm 23

>>42291582
When I herniated a disc in highschool from being overweight and decided to cut out all the shit and start exercising.

>>42291657
This

Not trying probably hurts more then trying and getting hurt and moving on

>>42291582
I stopped giving a fuck about 99% of things

>>42293294
Nice dick l love the smelly

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>>42291582
Hopping on DNP. My life quality skyrocketed since then

>>42291631
>toxic
Libs have the funniest lexicon

>>42291582
quitting drinking easily the best gift ive given to myself

>>42293491
How

>>42291582
Trying to stop caring about how other people perceive me. That doesn't mean I dress like a hobo or act like an ass but it does mean i relax when I talk to girls or study on a Friday instead of partying

>>42294104
Never tired after a night out
Fully aware
Can get on with drunk people but without fuck-ups
Can use the money elsewhere

>>42293465
What made you think he was a liberal? This board is completely toxic he's right.

>>42291582
Started living frugally

Stopped falling for the debt meme

Now I just look at my normie coworkers with their leased premium sports cars and expensive knickknacks and laugh to myself

Why do people need to spend so much to be happy? Find pleasure through self improvement, both mentally and physically.

Best decision was taking a break from /fit/ and 4chan for a few months. This place is cancer and if you spend too much time here without taking a step back it fucks with your head.

Cutting the shit of my life stop forcing myself to please others
Doing what i like
Understanding that conflict is ok and that not everyone's opinion matters

>>42291582
Coming here once a week for one hour tops.
None of you can say this.

>>42294349
REEEE NNORMIE

>>42294285
I find that spending money makes me happy, but usually when it's in quality of life improvements that affect my daily life.

My custom tailored wardrobe, for example, has been a very fulfilling purchase.

I've never been in debt however, because these purchases don't require so much.

(To me, a house lowers quality of life because commute + repair responsibility)

>>42291752
Arnold split is best split

>>42291582


read self-therapy books to better understand my issues, my goals, and develop an absurdly greater perspective of myself and the people i have relationships with. i didn't/don't even have a mental illness (seen therapists to see if i did lol). i did it because i dated a fucking bpd and ended up in an existential crisis lel. everyone can benefit from reading books that deal with DBT/ACT therapy, as most of it is simply deep and focused introspection and self-awareness
it has impacted my life positively in every single regard

>>42294746
I agree on the house.

I prefer an apartment. It's less constant maintenance, plus I'm not tied down to a 30 year mortgage. I also like living high up and looking out at the city and traffic when I'm thinking.

>>42291582
Stopped trying to agree with everyone to blend in, lift.

>>42294148
Go get a dictionary to find out what toxic really means

>>42295332
-relating to or caused by poison.
"toxic hazards"

-very bad, unpleasant, or harmful.
"a toxic relationship"

Sounds like the second one desu, seems like the correct word.

>>42294141
Lel didn't mean
>How is it better
Meant
>How did you stop?

Breaking up with my GF was the best thing that happened to me, I grew 5 years of experience in 6 months, too bad I caved in and we're back together now.

>>42291582
Stopped drinking and smoking cigarettes

Decided to be more fiscally responsible and track my spending better

Shaved my head and grew a beard instead of clinging to my rapidly deteriorating hairline

Bought an Insta-Pot from Amazon, which lets me cook 6+ lbs. of chicken for the week in about an hour

Got a certification that allowed me to find a new job that I enjoy more and pays better

Stopped fucking around at the gym and got an actual routine. Started calorie-counting and made a daily meal plan.

>>42291582
smiling more

>>42295609
ouch man, full story? broke up with my gf of 3 years about 4 months ago and been feeling weird recently

>>42295820

Not much to say, we were together 2,5 years, started distancing from each other, somewhat mutually agreed to break up. I was mad jelly about her fucking someone else during this time so I just blocked all social media sources from her. Only thing that helped me was going out and doing things that scared me.

So I went to parties alone, went biking shirtless in the sun for hours, moved up in my job, got a ton of friends really quickly, basically a new man.

Then I went home for the holidays and the fire re-ignited, that was 1 year ago and all is great but I still feel I could have gone so much further.

watch jordan peterson lectures

>>42295880
that guy is the biggest scam artist

>say some memes about trannies
>get $50 000 a month in patereon

>>42292968
Just give it a try a few times and you'll realize it really doesn't sting that much m8. 23 is still young, I lost my virginity at 21 and I've had a real hell of a decade following. Life starts when you decide to live it.
>>42293154
100% I don't look back on any of my many strikeouts with bad feelings, they were instructive. What I do hate looking back on are all the girls I could have hooked up with in high school that I was too much of a pussy to try with, even with painfully obvious signs.

>>42294300
seriously, browsed /pol/ a lot during my high school years and I eventually found myself becoming very racist and misogynist at the age of 17-18. realized it was from reading all of the weird brain-washing threads on there without a grain of salt.

>>42292901
This. Hardest thing I ever did. Smoking was also the dumbest thing I ever did.

Quitting soda was tough too and I still relapse here and there but I will never smoke again.

>>42296412
Exactly. I've gotten better with asking girls but I still crumble from time to time

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>>42295872
Cuck

>>42291582
Voting for Donald Trump.

>>42292983
Are you me?

>>42291582
Quitting alcohol after 15 years of daily drunking.

I made more fitness progress in 1 month than I had in the previous year, without changing anything about my workouts or diet otherwise.

>>42293491
Good job bro. It can take some integrity to quit.

>>42295933
>Doesn't hide countless hours of contents behind a paywall
>Gives followers the opportunity to support him based on what they think his content is worth
>PhD Tenured Professor
>Con artists...

K

>>42294141
>>42293491
This is the truth

I've been sober for 2 days thanks to naltrexone and I feel like 100lbs have been lifted off my back
>thousands of dollars spent on alcohol and all I have to show for it is a beer gut

>>42291631
kys faggot go back to plebbit to cry about toxic masculinity

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>>42292968
Stop comparing yourself to other people, Anon.

>>42296490
>t. never been to /pol/