>just work and lift >single, autistic, hate leaving house

What kind of work? Are there no females there?

Go on a dating site or craigslist.

>autism bux and lift
>single, autistic, hate leaving house
>29 years old

its over. fuck.
Memes aside (none of that is a meme) I've never seen anything for myself, other than just being alone all the time, and just existing for no reason.

>These tits are making me thirsty!!

Barf. Apply yourself, OP
Didn't read btw

I read your post
Kill yourself OP. Please

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>>42239738

>Fear leaving the house


being single and 30 isn't the problem, problem is you are insecure and thus "hate leaving the house"; comfort turns you into a vegetable you gotta challenge yourself, but first you gotta make mental/spiritual gains then everything else will fall into place

>>42239738

You're a 30 year old man in good health with stable job that you enjoy? Maybe even a career that's brewing? You're in a western country too?

Man, your life is just beginning. You can literally do whatever you want to do with it. Just pick a goal and go.

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>>42239738
If youre 30 and still havent realised the persuit of boobs is futile and pountless then I dont know what to tell you. Also have you considered fly fishing and hardcore porn?

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>>42239738
>24 kv
>wake up at 6 am
>lift
>work (medfag intern)
>go home
>play wow at weekends, since i dont drink or smoke i have literally 0 friends
I've been doing this for a year, all i have left are my "gains"

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>>42239738
Start working your way up the pyramid.

Make list of goals, start knocking goals off the list one by one. One at a time. Biggest one first.

>>42239738
Shame this is photoshopped. Still, pretty busty without it.

>>42239795
>>42239785
what did he mean by this

age is a meme

>>42239978
gains are all you need breh

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>>42239738
milkies

>>42239738
>tfw missed on on hs megatiddy girl
>tfw missed out on college megatiddy girl

Now I'm in the "Real World" and there are none or they're so haggard as to make them unbearable.

OP here

I had a GF for four years who I thought I loved. In the end she drove me crazy and I cut her off.

I was miserable as fuck with her. Just as miserable alone. Even more miserable fucking 5's off tinder (all my status allows for)

FUCK. I hate being a whinging cunt but this is my only outlet

How do you find MEANING

>>42240375
BASED

>>42239756
Thanks for posting man. feel the same.

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>Have a GF
>Wish I was single so I could hit up tinder

>>42240689
I'm 8/10 guy and still have a hard time pulling chicks on tinder. Is it because I have a shit social status? I have no game too, I expect my looks to do the work, i guess i have a grill mindset kek. Tfw 8/10 and still can only get 6/10 girls easily in clubs.

>>42240091
sauce on original?

>>42239997
>tfw been stuck on belongingness and love needs since i was 22
>30 now

>29 year old KV
>being a virgin for so long has turned sex and intimacy into more of a bizarre abstraction in my eyes
>I have the parts, I can feel the biological urge, but I'm having trouble translating this into action
>women intimidate me, feel depressed if I occasionally catch feelings for someone because I know that I won't do anything
>gradually turning into an emotionless husk
>quietly terrified of whether my lack of experience will prevent me from forming a normal relationship or if I'm fucked forever

I guess I should get some professional help.

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>>42240719
I made a fake dating account once with a female model to see how many messages it would get. The account got over 1000 messages in 24 hours.

I'd imagine chicks tinder accounts are the same.

>>42240719
You arent an 8. If you are, you know. 7 is way above average however, and more than most men could possibly wish for. But an 8 you are not

>>42240850
at that point just buy a fucking $20 hooker
you don't even need to impress them just get your dick wet.
It drives me up the walls how stuck the fuck up some of these /fit/ dudes are when it comes to getting laid.
Male sexuality is so god damn easy, this is why shitty men become gay.
wait, I lost my train of thought.

Has anyone else here only ever been with girls that are way out of their league?

>>42240891
Fugg. With fresh haircut, tan and some tinted moisturizer i feel like a 8. Guess you're right, am probably a 7 :ss. Gonna cut more to get them sunken cheeks. >>42240866
Yeah, even 6/10 girls are getting mad attention on tinder so they have their pick. Tfw not chaddy enough to smash hotties.

>>42240933
>out of our league
someone here doesn't understand how hypergamy works.

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>go to party
>super hot blonde at beer pong table
>she's the center of attention
>I move in and start talking to her
>we end up playing on the same team and eventually go dance
>she says we should go somewhere a little more quiet
>we go to the garage and we're there by ourselves
>we talk the whole night and it's great
>she says "I'm not like other girls I don't really hook up with guys on the first night"
>saying this as I'm feeling up her thighs cuddling under the blanket
>night starts coming to an end
>roommates that gave me a ride there say they're leaving
>fug I won't have a ride home if I stay here with this hot girl
>she says she's gonna change into something more comfortable
>i walk out of the garage and she's literally in lingerie
>autism intensifies
>tell her I have to go
>she looks confused as fuck
>hug her and get her number before I leave
>text her later, but she never texts back

Not that retarded anymore thank god

>>42240997
>giving up a safe means of getting home for some pussy
made the smart decision anon, taxis are expensive :^)

>>42240997
>YOU FKIN WAT M8?
Dear god man, I would sold my left kidney to drug cartels to afford the uber to go home after smashing that shit like hulk

>>42241019
are you 12 years old?

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Stop being autistic, faggot. Best decision I ever made.

>>42240997
Eh at least tell yourself that you destroyed her self confidence as well. If that's any consolation, what a situation geez.. I honestly don't know how I would have reacted.

>>42241035
>Decision
Good meme. You can't fix social anxiety, im 20 and have been trying my whole life.

>>42241132
>You can't fix social anxiety

You can fix how you deal with it.
The greatest human achievements have been made by people who were scared out of their minds at the time, and a lot of performers are terrified every time they have to go one stage.

Start using your balls.

>>42239997
I must have my esteem needs in order to talk to my friends.
When i feel like i failure i ghost them.

>>42239750
Dont do this

>>42240618
>there is none just accept it or take the ultimate pill
watch kino, the Leftovers

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>>42241132
It's not easy but yeah you can. For me, empathy was the key. What I felt is that it can absolutely decide my day how people interact with me. If someone smiles and is kind, it can make me happy as well.

If you can get used to keeping in mind that you can also brighten other people's day by just being warm and kind, people will also be more likely to be kind to you. If you are bitter all the time and can't control your depression, people will be moody with you as well.

Be honest, be kind, be yourself and don't try to be funny if you feel like you can't really talk about anything. Try to be interested in people, listen to them, ask what they're doing or how they feel. You'll get used to it over time. I'm pretty autistic as well but after working at a multinational company for one and a half years, everyone seems to enjoy my company even though I'm kinda boring and kinda look like the high school prime mocking target nerd.

This is not the only way to get over yourself but working out alone won't be enough.

>>42239756
that sucks but I'd be your friend anon

>>42239738
for fuck sake, just go to a bar and wait. some silly bitch will come up to you, women from 18-50 love guys in their thirties so long as we havent fallen apart physically.

we age slower, you'll be fine.

how does one respond to a single emoji on tinder?

>>42241700
you don't, you drop that bitch and search for a new one.

>>42241700
dont

>>42241748
>>42241749
flawless advice

think about it op

do you really want to be dealing with a emoji sending bitch all day?

>>42241678
>just go to a bar and wait
really? just sit at the bar and someone will come up to me? even if i'm alone?

do i stare at my phone while i'm waiting for this magical girl to suddenly appear?

>>42241820
watch a game or something, people do just hang out in bars...
its easier to strike up conversations with guys, striking up a conversation out of the blue with a woman will usually result in a rebuke so you cant keep doing it over and over again in the same place..

if you can, forget all about picking up a girl, chill out anyway and let it happen by itself

>>42239738
hello anon i feel you

>>42240618
>I had a GF for four years who I thought I loved.

>In the end she drove me crazy and I cut her off.

What happened ?

How did she drive you crazy ?

>>42241820
>stare at my phone
that's the ultimate beta "don't talk to me" closed body language

>>42241858
correct. eventually some woman will give you a hard stare, which is an invitation.

>>42240997
Dude, wtf ?

Why didn't you just find a cab ?

I don't know what is sadder, your life or mine.
tfw be aesthetic as fuck, not manlet (6 ft 1 in), social (many friends), but so fucking autistic with girls that I can't even get laid even if the girl wants to fuck me.

>>42241896
>hard stare
are you sure its not some other reason?

>>42239738
i'm 27 and NEET

so basically i just lift and play video games

i'll probably have to get a job at some point, i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers

>>42241948
>be aesthetic as fuck, not manlet (6 ft 1)

>social (many friends), but so fucking autistic with girls that I can't even get laid even if the girl wants to fuck me.

Just ACT confident, dress well, smell good and talk to them.

>>42241858
>watch a game or something
what if there is nothing going on?

and are you suggesting i drive to the nearest bar to watch a game by myself, instead of watching it on TV or streaming it (and drinking at home)? seems like a lot of work, especially if i drink a beer, don't want to drink and drive

>>42240904

You forgot to say no homo bro

>>42242179
go to a bar that has something happening in it perhaps?

>>42241964
>i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers
No, you just like people supporting your life and your hobbies.

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>Moved in with my partner, she's great
>Started getting serious about my passion - it's looking like I might be able to make a career of it
>Moved into a new, great job in the meantime
>Finally getting fit
>Gettin' gud at Overwatch
>Got to a buddy's best man and the godfather to another one's kid

It's been a fucking good year so far, man. Feel like an adult.

>>42242309
>>Moved in with my partner, she's great
This is where you fucked up and will probably regret this decision.

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>>42242316

Nah, it was the right time, and it's been going great. When you find a good woman, you've got to commit. Hardly in abundance these days.

>21 KHV
>Not terribly autistic, I just have no confidence with girls even though I'm at least pretty fit from climbing/cycling
>Never had any intimate contact with a woman
>start lifting seriously
>stop watching porn
>suddenly much more comfortable making eye contact with girls even just passing by, giving them a smile
>tinder it up, start chatting with some girls
>be a gentleman, actually ask a girl on a date to a restaurant (don't just use some shitty pick up line unless you are 9/10 or better)
>lose my virginity to the first girl I meet on our third date

It's really all about confidence bros. I'm sub-ottermode and barely look different in clothes than I used to, but fapping less frequently and not watching porn really made a change. Don't be a beta, but don't try to act like a Chad if you aren't one, and you can get a girl. Of course, finding a wife material girl isn't that easy, but you have to get experience with it.

>>42241964
>i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers
>i'm 27 and NEET

you're basically a nigger lol

>>42239738
You seem content with this so keep on doing what you're doing

>>42239978
You re in the process of getting your career. Don't worry being a physician can consume your life if you want it to so no need for friends

>>42239756
what are autism bux how do you get them

28 kv, barely leave the house.

Moving to a different flat soon. It's close to a real nice bar, like 300m. I'm going to make all kind of social skills, brehs. Wish me luck.

>>42241890
I'm pretty sure she had BPD. And in the end I couldn't live with her. But I'm a spaz myself and don't like having people around me for extended periods because I end up exhausted trying to deal with them and present myself as I like to be seen, whether they have BPD or not.

>>42244814
>28 kv, barely leave the house.
if you haven't made a change until now you won't later. nothing will change. you will stay inside at your new flat

you have no idea how socially stunted you are. 15 yo kids are better in socials situations than you ever will be

>>42239750
this won't magically get you laid if you're an autist

hell, it's probably even more difficult. even 5/10 sluts get 400 messages a day on dating sites, it's just so much fucking work competing with ~50 other guys

>>42245125
She was hot as hell too, I still jerk off to her nudes with a diamond cutter while my dick gets limp with other girls half the time.

With that said after living with her for 6 months I was still sick of fucking her. It's like you just can't win.

>>42244814
What are you gonna do when you realise that you feel 'happier' (less stressed, more content) staying inside on your computer?

>>42241948
Iktf

At this point in life many people are starting to think I'm gay just because I turned down so many women because of autism around them.

I just haven't got a fucking clue of how to interact and be witty and playful around them. I can't help but be a serious, stiff faggot around women.

>>42239756
>>42244673
seconding this

>>42245255
The feel of having no gf hit me real hard in the past few weeks. I want one, buddy.

>>42245306
i'm the opposite. i find most people boring as fuck and conversation gets awkward fast. women talk about the most uninteresting shit most of the time and i just can't stand it

>>42239997

Mazlow's is bs, btw, the caring nature of human relationships and the importance of the ability to see meaning in one's own actions in life both show that Mazlow vastly overestimates the value of physical needs over psychosocial and metaphysical ones.

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>>42239997
> most people don't even get to the third stage

>>42242309
Way to go buddy!

>>42245353
Almost every guy out there has a relationship and gf.

>>42245367
except on fit. almost everyone here doesn't, never has and never will

>>42239997
How do you get to stage 3 without faking it

>>42245328
That's what I think too, hence the reason why I can't be witty, playful and teasing around them. I'm interested in politics, history, fitness and sports but seriously, what women talk about just baffles my mind most of the times. But hey this is the reality so I better fucking adopt to it...

I don't want to come off as an arrogant faggot but I've often thought of myself as being just too smart for women. I know it sounds incredibly gay and obnoxious but still...

>>42245367
It's more than having a GF. You can have "friends" and a "gf" and still feel like you don't belong.

>single
>27 with a stable job which lets me buy whatever I want
>enough time to go to gym, work and then work on my hobbies(drawing/music composition), and then some to play vidya
I am living the life. Why the fuck would you guys be sad ? Is there something I'm missing ? Something I'm supposed to do ? Are you guys implying I need to get a gf or I won't "make it" ?

>>42245464
I'm rarely sad when I'm alone at home but I feel like shit at work when all the qts are talking to everyone but me.

>>42245464
people have different goals in life. some don't care about having a family at all while for others it's #1 goal. some people are fine being alone while others can't stand it.

>>42239738
>>42239756
Satire or reality?

Anyway only you yourself are holding you back. Godspeed!

>>42245489
I could never comprehend the idea of being sad because of someone else. i mean it is justifiable when somebody close to you goes away, or dies, but why the fuck would you keep your happiness hostage to a "qt" girl who doesn't give a fuck ? If you want her, just do normal conversation thing until you convince her that you're not autistic, and then you'' probably be happy. Will you be happy then ? To what end ? maybe your qt f will cheat on you, maybe you'll stop liking her, maybe she'll get fat or maybe you'd start liking some other girl and cheat. Getting hurt in some form is inevitable. Why not just do your thing ? Want a gf ? Get a gf. First step to happiness is being content with your life and knowing what you want. I know I don't want a gf , and if i got one I can't cheat on handle being cheated on, and I definitely don't want to hurt a girl by telling her I don't love her anymore. Basically just BEE yourself

Your in the prime of your life, stop being a fucking sad cunt and be a sick cunt bro. You are a failure and you have only yourself to blame.

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>>42239738
I think most people on this board are stupid as fuck for not being their own bosses. My 18 year old brother has his own business making him 3k a month and he just graduated highschool. Are you telling me that my 18 year old brother has higher test levels than all of you fuckers?

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I'm 20 and I just got my first gf last year, I was KV. I can tell you from experience that getting a gf will not fix your problems in life, make you happier, etc on its own. Not having a gf is a symptom of the disease (which is autism), not the disease itself. Just go outside, do social events, do things that make you uncomfortable, and pretend to be confident. Combined, those things make you an interesting person and add some substance to your life, which girls like.

>>42242274
well yeah that's obviously a given

but i thought it'd be interesting to add that i have an ideological objection to working as well

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>33
>V but not autist, just afraid (by now terrified) or messing up
>last "gf" was 17 years ago
>job, money, friends had families and moved on, social life ded, can't make new friends
>lost all taste for life, just work and come home
>think about death constantly
>yesterday started finding white hairs in hair and beard
>feel like I'm 75, waiting to end it

Anons, we pay for your outlook on life and constant pessimism. Smile more, love people while you can, develop hobbies. I think I'm done.

>>42247552
Join some meetups motherfucker, you're 33, not 83, your life isn't over yet.

>>42239738
Speak to a psychiatrist.

>>42244673
>>42245317
>live in western europe
>get autismbux

>>42247552
red watch sex guides
Take viagra
lie

>>42247574
Where I live meetup isn't as popular, and I couldn't find something I was interested it.
>>42247681
Are you a simpleton? If I just wanted to fuck I'd get a hooker, I have enough money for top-end escort. I want companionship but who the fuck would want me, I'm an aging inexperienced fuckup that longs for death and doesn't enjoy his life.

>>42247704
:( I'm sorry you feel that way. Is there anything you could do or anything you could ask a friend or family member to do to help?

>>42247743
I have one close friend but he's always cold and doesn't know how to give support, if you try to consult him with how you feel he just stays quiet and says nothing. The others (family included) don't know I feel this way and I'm not going to tell them, old folks got a lot on their mind and shouldn't be supporting me at my age, the other friends are now distant and we rarely speak, they have wives and children, they don't have time to call me up and ask how I'm doing.

I see everything through these fucking deterministic, nihilistic goggles that paint reality really dark but seem to give a really clear image. Like everything I see now I see more clearly than before. I know where I stand when I'm miserable.

>>42247743
I'm 23 and in pretty much the same boat as that old failure you're replying to. There just comes a point after which you're never gonna be normal and your life is fucking over. Everybody's been having sex for a decade and you're just unable to even imagine how to interact with people because you share none of their life experiences. Everyone can tell just by looking at how you walk and talk that you're a loser. And even if you had a chance at getting a girl, you'd be bitter as fuck about having to play the part of a beta cuck provider. At some point you just start to want to hurt all the people who shat on you, and fucked up your life as much as possible. Every moment that I'm not distracting myself on the comp, at the gym or by studying, I'm living some form of a revenge fantasy. And it's getting more and more difficult to even do those things, because life is getting to be so unfair that the hateful images just won't stay down.

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I'm 27 year old male who's never been on a date, no work experience but shitty part time jobs and a stint at a factory. I have no friends right now, all i do is lift, eat and sleep. I've dropped weight but I''ve been lifting since 2010, however i just now am focusing on diet.

I feel so hopeless and like I can't get out of this rut. shit sucks, I wish i had someone to hang out with and do shit with. yet it's another weekend doing shit.

It's eating my soul, I lift as a means to escape now. I don't play video games anymore because they lost their luster back at age 24. I'm feeling very tired and my brain fog is thick. I don't even drink caffeine,soda, or watch porn. I also exercise daily.

I need some love in my life, some companionship,and something to do. I know to obtain these desires I must seek other people. But I can't connect with others,it's so fucking difficult for me to establish a bond. I feel like i'm losing my mind. there were times where I could have landed some friends but i messed it up by sperging out unknowingly.

>>42247843

I'm 39 and share all those feels. I can tell you it
only gets worse. More anger, more bitterness, more spite and contempt. Get out while you're young enough to do it or it'll over for you like it is for me.

>>42241012
Found the virgin go back to /r9k/

this thread is too fucking depressing. Peace bitches.

Stop feeling sorry for yourselves and get your shit together.

>>42247979
it got easier for me so not sure what you're on about

you probably never even tried to deal with your emotional issues so stop giving others shitty advice

>>42247979
33 here. How do you make new friends after 30? How do you even find people who aren't caring for a shitting, screaming baby 24/7?

>>42239738
Lower your age by 10 years and enjoy the influx of fresh poon on dating sites. True and true.

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>20
>no vehicle or license
>controlling, violent family
>getting nothing accomplished in community college
>toaster PC and no consoles
>asswiping job with rotating shifts
Is it already too late?

>>42247958
Fuck man are you not on tinder? I bet there are some pretty desperate 30 year old women on there that are single and if you're /fit/ they will be attracted to you

>>42248017

Your statement makes no sense in relation to my comment.

>>42248034

I have absolutely no idea

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7JcGYilsuE

>>42239750
Used okcupid last year. Never spoke to anybody on the actual website. First message was along the lines of, "

"You mentioned you like Indian food. Can you recommend a place and can I take you there?"

They don't wanna do that shit? They won't respond. They respond? Well you get their number and just talk from there as needed.

First four dates I was clueless as shit. And could have fucked two of the girls easily (the questions they answer can show you if they are okay with fucking on date1 and so forth). But was too stupid. After those, dates, started getting easier and easier.

Now it's just a simple matter of finding somebody of value on that shitty website. I think I fucked half of the average weighted women in Des Moines IA on the site before I closed the account.

>>42248044
Grab a job at an ISP working their tech support rep.

Shits easy and most top 100 companies pay decently.

>>42241132
>I'm 20
>trust me I know

Yea, you don't kid. You don't have a fucking clue. Just becuase youve been trying your whole life doesn't mean you've being doing it right. And since you're only a child I'd say you haven't been.

>>42248105
I was commenting on how your post came out as overly pessimistic, when with some practice you can learn not to let the world get to you and/or avoid the people who make you feel like shit. It doesn't matter whether you're 20, 30, or 40.

>>42239738
Get some mires, get lowkey molested at the club sometimes by thots, hotties don't me leave me hanging when I chat em up, girls show some interest yet I'm still too fucking autistic to close them deals. Fucked on the first date with some girl I had a massive crush on so I'm not a kissless virgin but even if I manage to finesse them ladies what do I do when the h hour comes? They will see in all talk and no moves

>>42247552
Ah shut up, I'm 23 and have grey hairs. At least I'm not balding. Yet

>>42241964
hahaha you have the nerve to put down single mothers and niggers when youre doing the same shit. Seven years younger than you and supporting your neet ass.

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>>42240997
me in highschool

>>42240997
literally every girl says something like "I don't usually do this".

This thread is why parents need to kick their kids out of the house at the age of 18

Sink or swim anons

>>42240618
Creation, anon. CREATE. Dive within, find your truth, and find a way to relate it to others in the physical realm

>>42242309
Wew lad. She's already fucking your friend

>>42239756
Never too late, unless you are homeless without money. Join sites to meet people via casual hangouts (cards, drinking, film) then join dating sites.

>>42239955

also this. I'm in my 30's a fuck up, but women are still interested due to having a career goal and staying in shape (not fit standards but not dad bod).

My quest is to gain x amount of disposable income to party in the summer (next year).

Can we do a get together and pretend like we know each other?

All these responses about women

What do you when you're 30 & they stop exciting you? It's all the same shit I've seen before, literally tens of thousands of times when including the internet. And on the internet they don't stink, or talk back.

The only answer I have is drink & lift. Not sustainable ;/

>>42249228
Femenine traps, not joking

>>42249228
The only objective answer is be a wagecuck

>>42247667

Wat? Elaborate

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>>42239738
>dropped out of college
>work in construction
>half of my friends ditched me for a better life
>other half refuses to go out and have fun, all we do is drink at each others houses
Forget approaching women, I'll be lucky to get a chance to approach one. Where can I possibly meet women?

>>42244673
It's just a fancy word for welfare.

>>42245345
>being this dumb

If you don't have food, water, warmth, rest you die.
Even if those needs are met, you still need safety/security otherwise you get PTSD'd or mental breakdown.

>can't even feed self, but living to the most potential

>>42239756
Travel.

>>42239738
Start going to church even if you are a fedora.
I did, works wonders.
Make sure it's a non denominational type, don't want to get involved with those fucking arrogant dick heads with chips on their shoulders like Catholics

>>42250245
Most birdie advice of the day award goes tooooo

>>42250281
*normie fuck me

>>42242721
>taking a filthy tinder whore on a date
lol, you didn't make it, you're a cuck

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>>42250281
>>42250288
>tfw being confused as a normie

>>42250261
Why go to church? To meet housewife-tier girls?

I havenn't had friends since I was 13, and that's caused every problem in my life.

I have ADD and I'm weird as fuck, a deadly combination of weirdness and being annoying that drives people away from me.

Not having friends led to social isolation, and also never meeting girls

Becoming isolated meant I became lonely, miserable, bitter through high school, so I didn't learn how to interact socially with peers, which carried over into college so i basically had the same existence there

All the isolation, misery, loneliness, etc, meant I had nothing to work towards, so no motivation, mediocre grades, shit emaciated body.

Graduate college, move back home, terrible relationship with parents, only child. Can't even get into grad school and work a shit job around other people who are actually successful

Now a 25 year old kissless friendless shut-in (besides work) who has never even attempted to get a girl and now I'm scared to not only try to get a girl, but even friends, because everyone has always hated me so I don't want to burden others with my presence. I've basically been a shut in since I started high school at 14. No life experiences at all. But honestly my virginity doesn't even bother me.

If I try to have "real" conversations with anyone and don't just crack jokes, or try to actually hang out with people, it will become clear very quickly that I have no friends, no girl, no life, awkward corner sitter, the people I talk to will repel from me because of this, and I'll be worse off than when I started.

I'm just grumpy, sarcastic and angry cracking jokes all the time. Can never be serious about anything, always have to make observational jokes or "witty" comebacks.

I listen to the things my coworkers talk about and literally cannot gather myself to care about their lives. I just get annoyed by most people.

I basically just exist and go through the motions of life at only 25 years old, the "prime" of my life.

>>42239738
Lifting will never cure autism

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Captain America= Freedom and individualism

Iron Man= Big government

>>42242721
How did the night you lost your V card go? Like where and how did it progress? Help a wizard in training out please.

>>42248044
Sorry, anon, but if you aren't a big-dicked millionaire by 20 you are FUCKED.

>>42250414
I think I'm on this path

>>42250530
Prepare for pain then

Why do you think you're in this path

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>>42239738
> 2016 starts at my new Job, moves closer to my work, lost contact with my old friends
> October / 2016 Father Died and lost my job stop communicating with the new ppl the I have meet
> 2017 going to start at college again, struggling with anxiety and depression.
>sometimes at night anxienty hits really hard
>idk if is over, but i know i can do better just have to keep move on
>im 25 btw

>>42240389
What? HS megatiddy girls stay the same age year after year. Same with college.

Same here, but 29 and I don't have a job.
It's strange, I already had all the girls I've wanted, all the respect you can dream of from people, but I'm here now.
Sadly, all of that is what betrayed me in the end, which is why I'm here.


Heh, I still have my sweet Kesha and her new song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-Dur3uXXCQ

I tried so hard and got so far but in the end it doesn't even matter.
I had to fall o lose it all but in the end it doesn't even matter.

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>>42239738
Read this. Helped me a lot and I'm a huge sperg

>>42239738
>30 years old
It was over 5 years ago.

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>>42250688
fuck you, this is actually powerful as fuck

>>42250710
The part about "you can't win an argument" is what helped me.
Even if you prove your point you are at the same time insulting ego of others. You have to use line like "coudl you tell me WHY do you think like that" and "god knows I'm wrong a lot of times but i think X is ..."
you sorta have to walk around the point and get indirectly let the person get to a conclusion

>>42250414
Anon I think you're just an edgy fucking kid, An attention whoring, insufferable person with reddit spacing. You also use your shitty meme illness(ADD. Not ADHD, or autism/aspergers, fucking ADD) as an excuse for everything, but I believe, and I was able to deduce this just by the way your write, that people genuinely hate you because you are an utterly negative person. Excuse for your shit body, shit grades, shit life. Not one positive thing. Not one. Even the most loser people have one fucking thing they can look at and feel happiness. You, you are a failed human who never tried. Your whole posts sounds like an edgy stacy's tinder "haha social anxiety haha sick, twisted and with a wicked sense of humour haha sarcasm haha"
Fuck off retard

>>42250791
>have shit life with no positives
>that in turn makes you into a negative person
>which then makes people not like you
>which then makes you more negative

uhhh ya think

>>42239738

No, just work and lift makes you an autist. You have to improve socially too. You got trolled.

>>42239756
>and just existing for no reason

that made me kek because it's all too real

i was injured for 3 months so i'm kinda okay with just being able to lift tho

my problem is that I don't desire much more than to just lift and be a neet. it's just that the world hates me for it

>>42239756
>tfw when too intelligent to get autismbux

>>42241132
Wrong. I'm 29 so I'm ancient around here. I used to think like this when I was 22-23 too. It wasn't until I was 26 or 27 when I really saw the light and started to turn my life around. It's hard but it's just like getting huge--you need to work at it everyday and it's constant.

>>42239825

How do I achieve mental/spiritual gains?

>>42250616
>HS megatiddy girls stay the same age year after year. Same with college.

Sadly, at 24 I know I'm too old for mega tiddy college girls.

I had my chance bro, don't make the same mistake I did.

>>42239738

>get money
>get gains
>no women in your life

Trust me mate, you have it real good.

>>42253384
Read more. Meditate more. Get /fitlit/

>>42241602
This. I think I should stop treating people like enemies or animals.

>>42253648

/lit/ is a hipstervile where pseudo-enlightened leftists go to pretend to eachother they're cultured. I've seen more talk about actual books on /fit/, though they talk about the same books every time.

>>42239738
same except I was just made redundant and don't have to work for next 3-5 years

going full hermit

>>42247552

The sooner you begin to understand that nothing really matters in life, the sooner you stop fearing it and start living.

>>42248044
im everything you said except i dont have a job

>18
>live in small town
>don't really want to go out, everyone my age is just a fucking alcoholic, since there isn't shit to do here
>almost nonexistent social life
>my summer consists of hitting the gym and playing runey

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>longtime gf
>goes to america to work for a year, says we can make it, she'll come back and we'll marry
>starts acting weird while we're LDR
>get tinder pro and set location to where she lives in america
>she has a fucking tinder account
>confront her, she tells me its for her to find friends
>stop talking to her
>mfw she's still on tinder

>autist, in my thirties
>well paying stable job
>running, cycling
>virgin, trauma and anxiety towards sex
>can't form normie style relationships with people at all
>no social life
>decided to try quitting porn a week ago
>got super horny today and trying to not fap too, getting blue balls
>I call a hooker, thinking fuck it, whatever
>we set up a meet, she asks me to call again to confirm when I'm close to her place
>aight, on my way and a bit nervous, but things looking real smooth
>so I call again but she goes "oh, sorry honey. there's this guy coming for two hours now actually, so... maybe later?"

>>42251433

Exact same situation here.

I just learned to not give a shit about anything unless it was responsible for my livelihood.

I still feel like I'm "behind" sometimes, but I look better and enjoy living more than literally everybody I know who is "ahead" of me.

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>>42241132
Jesus fucking christ you are one phatetic fucking cunt I wish I could fucking smash your face, tell me fit how can anyone get to this level, a fucking 20 year old, fuxking christ im fucking mad I need to go lift, please kill youraelf, im serious youre a fucking waste fucking hell.

Where do you live? Send me your email lets fucking fight, im 100% serious if you're in the states create an email and post it here, Boulder resident here ao come fucking trough, fuck.

I'm definitely on this path, apparently like many of you. I just work and lift too. How I wish I kept in touch better with that qt oneitis after college. I think the reason I'm how I am today, all ronery and autistic, is because I never had the balls to make a move. And the regrets have been heavily weighing upon everything I do in life. Even if I had been rejected, I'd probably feel so free right now. But I still dwell on it every single. fucking. day.

Yeah yeah I should do something about it right? It's really not that simple. It's not too late for the rest of you, brehs.

>>42239978
See this is retarded, making friends when you're shy/anti social takes effort.

I was rock bottom depressed kissless beta, no friends besides losers 15-18. After i turned 18 decided to change, made friends got more fit and lost virginity to first gf at 18.

Two years later become neet, depressed, lost all friends.

Decide to get first job, get job as clothing assistant. Actually go gym, working/lifting/study/practice socializing.

2 years gained 10kg muscle, 20k cash, planning to moveout soon, girls mire me, guys mire me, finished my studies but changing career and i make friends with people easily. Also im about to get car license afterallthose years.

PUT IN THE TIME AND EFFORT AND LIFE REWARDS YOU.

oh hey you're me in ten years

>>42240866
It's tinder. They have to match with someone before they can chat.

Have you guys ever talked to a grown man before?

You realize the majority of men go to work, go home, and drink beer right?

If you have a wife and kids it's a different story, but the vast, vast majority of men with no kids literally just go to work and drink beer till the next day.

>>42240850

You've literally never even kissed a girl at 29?

Fuck man, I'm sorry.

>>42241132
>im 20 and have been trying my whole life.
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