People who've gotten fit while being with the same girl,

>>42223978
I cheat a lot more now

>>42223998
Lol, why?

>>42224016
Chicks actually show you desire and are literally all cool with just sex and keeping it discreet because they dgaf

Different now then when i was a dyel

>>42224034
Yeah, but what is wrong with your gf? I don't respect cheaters at all.

>>42224078
Different anon here but also a cheater. Yeah I feel like shit about it. What can I say? Life is complicated. I love my girl, but I also love sleeping with other girls. I know this is an untenable situation and I'll have to give up one or the other, but dammit I don't want to!

>>42224034
>>42224105
Never have I ever been so disappointed in /fit/. I understand the lookism and the incel threads but cheating is way too far, Go on, keep justifying your shitty behaviour.

>>42223978
>>42224105
Never cheated, still understand.
Like Jesus ... but other way round

>>42223998
Same. I know I'm a disloyal piece of absolute shit for doing it, but I keep doing it anyways.

>>42223978
She's noticeably more attracted to me. All I need to do is flex my arms a bit and she's rearing to go. She's always had a higher libido than me though, so it doesn't do to much for me personally. One bad thing is that we originally started getting fit together, but I was better at it. i.e., said no to sweets and big portions, exercised harder and more consistently. She felt a bit left behind, but we talked about it and it's alright now. She still gets kind of defensive when I give her tips tho. Like if I ask if she really wants to eat dessert or if I call her out for missing a workout. She's under the impression that I didn't work as hard, but she's very inconsistent. It's kinda frustrating and sometimes I feel she's just devaluing what I accomplished to make her self feel better.

Overall, things are just as good as they were before, we just argue about fitness sometimes.

>>42224078
Well as it turns out all girls sort of smell abd taste different, and as it so happens my girl isnt the best smellong or tasting, or looking that ive been with

Shes great, but as far as sex is concerned shes not even top 5. But thats the tradeoff. Good looking girls are fucking vapid retarded whores with no personality to speak of. Taste and smell great, but theyre terrible people.

Never had much of a player phase in my life so now that everyone wants the dick all of a sudden i thought i might discreetly. This is what ive learned.

At first she whined and acted like a child because it made her feel insecure. But I didn't give any compromise as it has always been one of my goals to be big and lean. She wants to fuck a lot, and we've been together for over 3 years.

>>42224141
How long have you been lifting for

>>42224119
They don't justify their behaviour. They are honest and not making excuses for being a cheater. This is better than not being a cheater but otherwise being complete beta cuck.

>>42224334
They'll makd excuses irl while they act all high and mighty here

>>42223978

literally not at all

>>42224105
I use to be like that. Obviously you better not marry her you fucking idiot. What kind of life would you show for your children after you get caught. And yes you will if you get married.

Dump that stupid bitch you are pretending to love faggot, your dependent on her emotionally and trapped in routine life. If you are seeking life improvement start now or never.

>>42224141
I left my gf after i suspected her of cheating of me. We go to the same gym and now and im significantly better looking then the old days. I booty call her all the time now cause she still loves me. Fucking dumb bitch, i hate you for lying to me ao il keep hate fucking your tight snatch and then ignore youe texts for the week until my boner is unstoppable

>>42224463
Nah you don't know me sonny. I know fill well what I'm doing and if i ever get caught up i can't really make excuses.

>>42224506
T. Bimbo

>>42224528
My highschool sweet heart for 6 years, cant call me names.

>>42224578
Bimbo is the name of a tripfag in the fraud threads that has almost the exact same relationship problems you do. It was a small board specific joke.

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Sleeping with other girls while having a gf is the ultimate alpha move.

Your sexual strategy requires you to implant your seed in as many women as possible. You are literally bad at life if you don't.

>mfw I tell my gf about a girl I slept with while I was out of town
>mfw I don't allow her to see other guys
>mfw making me happy is her ultimate goal

Now, it's fairly difficult to find a girl who is redpilled enough to understand the satisfaction of this natural dynamic. However, for those ''cheaters'' out there, keep on cheating. Be discreet, however. You're doing her a favor by cheating, but she can't know it because she'll fuck her self out of the best thing that's happened to her. She may suspect, especially if you have a lot of female friends, but as long as you aren't a weak beta, she'll be fine. In fact, her desire will grow.

Stay mad, sexlet cucks. While you are trembling in fear of losing your girl, I'm showing mine who I'm swiping on Tinder.

>>42223978
Sex improved alot. Squatting her and carrying her around occasionally made her feel like a princess.

Recently broke up with her because she became too controlling and I still have a life to live. I guess its time to move on to fucking dumb slut whores with no personality again. Hopefully i find some cute, goofy, fun, and worry free chick in the process. Wish me luck bros.

>>42224823
Your gf is a pathetic cunt, your dating a cuck lmao

>>42225046
better to date a cuck, than be the cuck, mate

>>42224506
Make sure you use protection. I don't know your specific ex or situation, but "bootycalling your ex who's still in love with you" is usually a recipe for having a baby you don't want

>>42223978
She got really insecure. She always talks about getting into better shape but doesn't. She is thicc but could def drop some pounds. Luckily she doesn't try to make me eat like shit or bust my balls about going to the gym. She blows me more now because she's afraid of me leaving her. Things are good.

>>42225046
Women cannot be cucks by nature.

>>42225132
>associating with cucks of any form

Kys

>>42225171
Is she really a cuck if she doesn't know about it?

ITT: Don't let your GF get fit

>>42225046
Women can't biologically be cucks. A cuck is someone that raises another mans child. A woman can be 100% certain that the child that came out of her vagina is hers, a man on the other hand can't be 100% certain that the child that came out of her vagina is his.

This is the same reason why we want non-slutty girlfriends, but still want to fuck sluts on the side. Fucking a slut on the side has absolutely zero biological consequences for the woman.

A cheating woman is worse than a cheating man, simply because of the implications that she wants you to raise another mans child.

This is why I would never take a cheating woman ever back and find men who do pathetic.

>>42225165
If you bring a kid into the family that isn't hers, and she cares for it, that's cuckholdry.

Obviously not as simple for a man to bring in a child that isn't their partner's as it is for a woman, and a man can't lie and tell her it's hers like a woman can, but w/e.

She can reach her clit easier without my belly in the way.

>>42225241
>Fucking a slut on the side has absolutely zero biological consequences for the woman.
Well, unless you catch something, and if you get hit with child support, that's resources her own children with you will miss out on, but pretty much.

>>42224823

Why is Gary linekar shitposting on /fit/

>>42225261
If you're fucking a slut, then you better wrap your shit up. What's the chance that the child is even yours, if she's a slut? Or if it is, then it's still a minor deal compared if it was the other way around, your gf getting pregnant by another man.

>she's cheating
>she truly believes the child is yours and intends to keep it
>you also think it's yours because you have sex very frequently and no signs of cheating
>9 months pass
>paternity test indicates it's not yours

What options do you have in this case as a man?

Your one and only option is to leave her with her bastard child.

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>>42224823
you have to be over 18 to post here

>>42223978
She puppyguards more. I mean ive always been conventionally attractive but before I got fit I was kind of a skinny prettier boy and now I'm a bit manlier and notice more diverse and older women looking at me.

Basically she doesn't like me going out alone at all, I love her and would never cheat and she knows that but she says she doesn't like people thinking they can hit on me. Luckily she really trusts my friends and doesn't freak out when we hang out or go out on the town, it just makes her kind of uncomfortable and she always wants to fuck as soon as I get home.

Pro tip- after you reach a certain level of attractiveness take your girl with you to get your haircut. Seeing another woman run her hands trough your hair and talk to you one on one causes jealousy sex, which is best sex.

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>>42224823
I would have never cheated, years ago. Then my gf at the time, with whom I was legitimately in love, cheated and dumped me.
Biggest awakening I've ever had; it started me on my course for self improvement.
But now that I have another gf, that I love but am not in love with, I am tempted to cheat, purely out of lust for other women.

I hear what you're saying, and the world isn't as rosy as I used to believe, but this is a kind of redpill I don't think I can happily swallow.

>>42224105
This is my fear. Getting fit has improved my confidence and raised my test. It seems so easy now to do it. I'm just able to go up and get someone's number now.
I haven't done anything with them, just a test to see what would happen.

>>42223978

gf used to have low libido. Still does.

Lmao don't be all butt hurt when your love cheats on you back, you scum of the earth will feel it in your bones. You get what you give

>>42223978
Unlike the other guy, my girlfriend asked me to cheat on her now because it turns her on. Shits cash.

Sex is generally better, just more physical attraction.

Hmm, different angle here, but I tend to hook up with a lot of girls with boyfriend s these days. It doesn't help that I'm Mr. Melanin, as that detail in particular has the boyfriends in tears when they find out. I've gotten a snap from a girl that featured her boyfroend blubbering with the caption "look at this loser emojicrylaugh"

>>42225897
C U C K GF
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>>42225889
Girls only cheat on cucks and losers.....so guys like you. Sorry bub

>>42225913
I've had chances to do this but didn't go through with them. The thought of this happening to me kind of puts me off it DESU. Never been cheated on, and I don't plan to get that sort of karma from being a homewrecker.

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>>42225241
>What is a cuckquean

You actually don't know what cuckoldry means, huh?

>>42223978
She loves it, sex is better, everyone is happy.

Also her friend want to fuck me, which happened during 3some and couple swap.

>>42223978
I met my girlfriend when I was like 200lbs, over a couple years I put on another 20lbs from a change in job and the fact that she's a damn good cook.

When I decided to start losing weight I went full bore. Ate only once a day, spend hours at the gym, rode my bike 13 miles to work.

I dropped the weight before she even realized what was going on. And by the time my pants were getting loose she started getting all psycho defensive. I "needed to eat more" blah blah blah.

The last straw was when an old work friend came up to me at the bar. She's a cute blonde girl from california, the whole valley-girl-90210 thing going on. My girlfriend flipped her shit and started smacking her for "hitting on her man" despite the fact that the girl is a fucking lesbian and in a 10+year relationship at the time.

I broke up with her right there, it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

4 years on and I haven't been with a woman since. I'm done with them.

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no gf before
no gf after

honestly don't mind getting to 40 and still being a virgin if it means i meet someone who will love me at 40

>>42224137
you seem like a reasonable person. I think you are doing good with your gf, just don't be arrogant when giving her tips and you're all set

>>42225983
>4 years on and I haven't been with a woman since. I'm done with them.
Sounds like she won in the end.

>>42224506
Sounds like a vicious circle man, you should move on.

>>42225992
this.

i get 'mired and eye fucked literally everyday but none from girls i like. not a virgin like anon but have fucked enough sluts to know that theyre not worth my time. rather have a girl i actually like

>>42225992
In the same boat as you bro...
I've had opportunities but I've passed them up. Would rather wait for someone that at least means something to me even if it doesn't last forever.

>>42225526
your gf seems a bit jealous.

>>42225149
>>42225149
i can vouch for this. had unprotected sex with a girl that was crazy for me that i didn't care for at all. she pinned me down and kept fucking me and made me come inside her. i was a skelly at the time so i wasnt strong enough to push her off. luckily she didn't know my last name and i cut off all contact. i might have a kid out there but i'm not paying child support for it and she wanted it so it's her burden.

now i always use protection and don't have sex with girls i wouldn't want a kid with.

>>42226049
>now i always use protection and don't have sex with girls i wouldn't want a kid with.

I'm guessing you are not into one night stands then

>>42225241
>we want non slutty girlfriends

As someone who has been dating a more modest girl who won't wear skimpy shorts or underwear, i can tell you nothing is farther from the truth. Every time i see a slutty girl around town i go into animal mode and i can barely control myself. It's getting bad. But i can tell non slutty girls do nothing for me. I like to see what my bitch is packing and i like other guys to know i get to wreck that shit. Everyone's different.

i have been chubby / fat my whole life until 3 months ago, and my girlfriend used to tell me how much she loved it. i never really agreed with her and once i expressed that i was unhappy with my body she started crying and told me not to change. i broke up with her 3 months ago because i realised that she just didnt want me to get healthy because she is incredibly insecure. i went from 90kg at the time of breaking up with her to 73kg as of today. i posted a progress picture on my snapchat story a few nights ago because i am looking a lot leaner and healthier+ i have never seen my abs before in my life so i was excited. last night her and all of her friends were sending me videos of her grinding up against other guys at the club and groping their crotches while yelling out "fuck (my name)". sorry for going off topic but i don't have anyone to talk to about this because i lost all my friends when i started dating her 2 years ago. why are some women so insecure and bitchy that they have to put other people down? is this a thing that all girls do? please bestow me your wisdom. i am still young (turned 18 this year) and she was my first girlfriend. i hope i dont have to turn gay because if all women do this then i'm literally just going to suck dick from now on.

I don't know who's trolling who in this thread, but am I the only one that finds cheating under your partner's knowledge absolutely disgusting?

I mean, I can't be the only one right? How can you be in a relationship with someone that's comfortable with you sleeping around? What the fuck?

>>42225955
i live life by the golden rule too.

"treat people how you'd like to be treated."

i wouldn't want some guy fucking my gf so i don't fuck other guy's gf's. i've had 2 chances to and i declined both.

>>42226068
You want a non slutty gf, but you want to fuck the slut. It's not that hard

>>42224105
>Life is complicated.
nice excuse you piece of shit

>>42224493
>What kind of life would you show for your children after you get caught
Business trips were invented for the sole reason of preventing this

>>42226106
No, i actually want the girl i hang out with all day to be slutty. Read my post.

>>42225956
Get your Jewish porn fetishes out of here. Cuckoldry is when a MAN is tricked into raising another MAN's child by a woman. Your mental illness, sorry, "fetish" will not replace the meaning of the word.

>>42226075
wtf was her problem lol, seems like an insta dump and move on.
>i hope i dont have to turn gay because if all women do this then i'm literally just going to suck dick from now on.
You'll be fine

>>42225837
Literally all i use tinder for. Just to see how easy it is

>>42225352
>you also think it's yours
>paternity test indicates it's not yours

Except that second step doesn't happen because the cuck always thinks it's his. Only the in the cliche case of a significant racial difference between child and parents do cucks notice and demand a test. In most countries you need the woman's permission to do a paternity test so cucks can't even get a (legal) test if they want to. The legal systems of most countries are a complete joke when it comes to this. A PATERNITY test should involve an alleged father and his alleged child, any involvement of the mother exposes feminazi ideology at the highest levels of a legal system.

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>>42226127
No, cuckoldry is a fetish where you see your significant other getting railed by another, and you're aroused by it.

Raising another man's child is usually the sign of a beta. Unless if you're the type of step dad to beat the shit out of the kid. Then you're rad.

>>42226078
normies out

>>42226152
Literally learn to google. The term cuckold is ancient. It comes from a man being duped into thinking he fathered a child, duped into wasting his resources.

Sexual arousal has no part in it and this fetish is very, very recent. Stop watching the sexual Jew.

>>42226152
>raising another man's child is usually the sign of a beta

This, but i know a guy who's in an LTR with a girl who has a young kid, and she's way out of his league. He's basically raising the kid but he's probably a 5 and she's an 8. I actually think that's a worthy tradeoff if you aren't good looking enough to get an 8.

>>42223978
Because only have a few acceptable ways to get attention, the best one is probably having a hot girlfriend and showing her off.

>>42224105
>dude life is like.. so complicated xD
kill yourself

>>42226178
Not at all. She's only with him because he's a big enough cuck to raise a kid that isn't his.

She'll likely divorce early and take half his paycheques, too.

>>42223978
Ya, she's super insecure now. When she cums she grabs my shoulders and chest hard.

>>42226178
Unless she's a widow, you're basically leaving yourself open to her ex coming back into her life. It's not worth it.

>>42226178
Only if it's a realistic prospect that she will let him impregnate her and be faithful. I wouldn't be surprised if she will do neither. Young singlemother = mentally ill slut, doesn't matter if her looks make her "an 8" if all you get to do is pay her bills.

>>42226075
Women can't stand rejection and they will try to destroy you with all means possible to get their petty revenge.

Jokes on her though, she's riding the cock carousel and will probably an hero by the age of 30. Her insecurities will make relationships impossible and it will get the best of her.

>>42225246
Cuckoldry is a form of sensitive passive weakness. Women are meant to be passive and weak. Furthermore toleration of the male having multiple partners is hardwired into a woman's DNA because it fits our pack mentality where an alpha male has all the women and the beta males sneak in and fuck on the side, hence a woman's natural tendency to cheat.

A woman taking care of a child that isn't hers is motherly instinct and inherent to a good hearted woman. A man doing it is a pathetic cuck who thinks with his emotions and not with his brain.

>>42226075
Bro you got out at the right time. If she was good looking and dating you when you weren't it was because she liked the idea of being "the best you'll ever get", and you bettering yourself very suddenly put you in her league or above it. Alternatively she is not a looker and she knew that you would realize how much better you could do if you got /fit/. Either way, she's a cunt and I wouldn't worry about it senpai.

>>42226102
Do you think Chad would decline the offer from your gf, given the chance?

All is fair in love and war, anon.

>>42226161

>normie

Never had the opportunity of having a relationship before. If I did, I wouldn't waste it on some fucked up cuck fantasy. This kind of shit can't be healthy in the long-term.

>>42226119
You are literally asking to be cucked. Don't say the Internet didn't warn you.

>>42226223
Everyone has exes you fucking imbecile, that's just the risk of doing business. Learn to fuck and make money and she'll never give a fuck about her ex.

>>42226161
It's normalfags, you fucking normalfaggot. Take your r-selected promiscuity back to tumblr.

>>42226310
Yes, because having an ex is the same as having an ex who also fathered your child, who has a legal right to see said child and will therefore forcibly be around you frequently.

>>42226075
Brother I feel you, I've been in the same kind of situation as you. It hurts even tho you're the one who broke up with her.
You just have to accept that there are 5 stages of grief, and one of those are anger.
They will get angry and do fucked up stuff to get back at you.
The key is to put it all behind you and try to shake it off.
I know that it's harder than it sounds, because that stuff hurts...
and NO, not all girls do it at all. I think it's a mix between their personality and how the breakup itself went.
If you wanna write about it or something feel free to drop some contact info like discord or something and we can chat.

>>42224823
I cheated on my ex-girlfriend with my current girlfriend almost a year ago. I broke up with my ex obviously, but I never told her I cheated. I gave it to my current girlfriend straight before we started dating and apologized for using her, but she was cool about it. Though I didn't suffer any consequences and my last relationship was worth ending anyways, I still feel a lot of guilt. I've been told my ex is still very hung up on me. I wouldn't know personally. I don't talk to her unless she messages me first, and in those rare cases I'm consciously too polite. I wish I could apologize to her somehow but know it's impossible. I have nightmares about it sometimes. I'm a sensitive fag. I know for sure I'll never cheat again.
tl;dr for your sake, never cheat. The pleasure in your dick isn't worth the pain it puts in people's hearts.

>>42226421
>The pleasure in your dick isn't worth the pain it puts in people's hearts.
Gtfo moralfag.

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>>42226483

It's really sad that a lot of people are acknowledging that their significant others have become insecure and get enjoyment out of that. I'm not surprised the majority of you are unhappy on this board with personalities like that.

>>42226543
I think it's like a double insecurity, they are insecure, therefore it boosts their ego if their SO is insecure.

>>42224105
I hope she cheats on you

>>42226421
wow same here man

cheated on my ex girlfriend with my now current gf

feel fucking awful about it. will never cheat again. one of the worst things i have done in my entire life and now im an absolute saint in terms of faithfulness with my gf

>>42226285
karma is a real thing. the universe gives you what you put into it, like a slingshot.

>>42226326
>r-selected promiscuity
Oh sweet, this is a good insult for roasties. Thanks for the knowledge anon

>>42226061
one night stands are a degenerate product of jewish propoganda designed to destroy western values.

anybody who participates in them is contributing to the destruction and eventual enslavement of their people.

>>42225913
hot, thanks for the story bro

>>42223978
>>42223978
She respects me more now. After 1 year of lifting, she started to feel insecure so she started lifting as well. Sex is better because she has more confidence now.
Also, having a common hobby in general helps a lot.

>>42224078
I have a bf that im with for 2 years now. I've cheated on him 3 times so far but I still love him. Sometimes you just wanna try it with different people

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>>42227234

Any morr spicy stories

>>42225997
Sounds like I have all my money instead of spending it on women.

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>>42226075

>>42226979
t. incel

>>42226075
>18 years old
>posts progress pictures on MUH SNAPCHAT like the millennial faggot he is
>then calls girls insecure

>>42226310
I won't have any exes if I become a NEET for the rest of my life.
Checkmate

>>42226743
Karma isn't real. The Universe is an inanimate object. May as well get some while the getting is good

>>42227968
the universe always tries to balance out. in mathematics, water level, temperature, air pressure, etc. what makes us any different from the mechanical workings of the universe? we're just extremely complex equations, but equations none the less. if you push the universe, the universe will push back.

>>42224034
one day the chickens will come home to roost

>>42224506
>suspected gf of cheating
>left her
>now gf is getting all sorts of dick
>she's still the only person he fucks

in before "i fuck other chicks"
>until my boner is unstoppable

no, you don't, you just get sloppy 2nds.

literally cucking it my man.

>>42224137
never try to make a woman better, they just resent it
if she won't change on her own get the heck out of there

>>42228081
Say that to countless billions killed throughout human history for no fucking reason at all. I don't even mean just war, I mean witch trials, innocents caught in gang violence, plain victims of psychopaths and sadists.
I don't like the notions of karma and a God that can punish the wicked because it takes the onus off of us humans to punish the wicked.

>>42228081
>>42228184
Also, physical potential and equilibrium is not at all similar to our morals and ethics.
A tiger eats a gazelle, should he be punished?

>All female friends tell me I'm "getting too big" "it's scary" etc
>Catch them dropping more subtle compliments and mires than ever before
>Not even big by normie metrics
Conclusion is that nearly all girls like big guys but pretend they don't because of their bizarre adherence to normalcy (ie liking skinny tumblr fuckboy types)
At least sorority whores are honest about their obsession with built Chads

>>42224078
Different anon, recently joined the rank of cheaters after finishing my cut and constantly gettin mires. Nothing wrong with my wife, i just can't just fuck one person anymore, hard to say no to women throwing themselves at ya

>>42223978

GF is ultimate gains goblin. If she starts working out she's fixing to upgrade. Smash whatever you feel like and can while you're young. No need for commitment until you're older and emotionally BASED and not addicted to pussy like crack cocaine. Don't even bother with monogamy unless you can pay for all of her shit and however many babies she wants to pop out. Then just keep her barefoot and preggo while you both get fat and old together.

no joke.

>>42224078
You should disrespect cheaters, anon.

>>42225983
Find sluts to fuck. You need a sexual release as a man. Good luck senpai.

I don't understand how dudes cheat. I mean talking to women and trying to seduce them is such a chore to begin with.

>>42227968
Are you an inanimate object?

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>>42229006
I agree.
For women I can mildly understand as they are constantly approached and they can see the opportunity there and all it really takes is them to say yes just once from the many attempts.

But for men you generally would have to go out of your way to setup all of this shit.

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>>42224137
>sometimes I feel she's just devaluing what I accomplished to make her self feel better.

This so much. It's not just my gf though. Everyone around me does this shit. I always get something like it must be my genetics or fast metabolism or some shit.

When I show them my routine they even have the audacity to say they have a "similiar" routine and that they also eat healthy.

CLEARLY NOT YOU OBESE CUNT

>>42225992
>love me at 40

I have bad news... At that age girls are looking to settle. They'll only pretend to love you because you have resources.

>>42225913
indian, arab, spic, or negro?

>>42226075
Yes women, especially white women, are fucking crazy. They have entire sites dedicated to release their crazy mainly in the form of bitching about other girls and how to capture a man and never let him go. It saddens me that female brain is wired that way.

>>42229040
Women want have a strong desire for sex too, they are just not as blatant about it. if you're actually attractive and you observe how women treat you, it's pretty easy to take it from there. Women also find you more appealing if you already have a girlfriend.

>>42226118
There's like 3 women who work for my company in different parts of the country that I regularly nail on business travel. We're all married.

>>42224463
What the fuck did you expect? OP asked for answers and he got em. If you're gonna be pissy about it, channel it into lifting and get fit. THEN tell us whether or not you'll cheat on your other half. That is if you have any mate.

>>42223998
lel

>>42224139
what are your cheating strategies?

Out of town? Clubs/bars? online dating apps?

You not worried about fucking a mutual friend of your gf and her friend?

>>42226075
They don't, you are both still young and she sounds very immature. Just think if that's her response she still has feelings. Laugh, never look back and get those gains. You will meet someone better but enjoy yourself until you do.
We're all gunna make it

>>42226075
You did the most alpha thing a man could possibly do. You told a girl "NO". Be proud, and improve yourself more. Think, if losing wweight makes you this happy, and your ex this salty, what'd a good job do to her. You need to become perfect so that she realises what she missed out on, and commits suicide. It's the only way

>>42225997
It's not about a woman.
It's about all of them.

I understand your sentiment but I don't know how to explain this better. It's just dealing with the world mate, for better or worse. (Not the original anon, btw)

I used to swear I'd never cheat, and I still want to believe in a world where someone can be loyal, but in my life I've learned that loyalty has been my biggest vice and I've always gotten shit on for it. So I just changed and started being like everyone else. I was loyal for two relationships, now I dont give a fuck.

I don't believe people really appreciate someone being loyal to them. If anything, it builds resentment in them for you. They just don't want the sting of knowing someone cheated on them.

>>42226075
If what you're saying is true, some women are crazy like that. Ex's also build resentment even if they're the one who broke up with you. My ex broke up with me and the last time we talked she told me she was getting plenty of bone.

Most aren't. Good for you noticing she was pathologizing you and trying to hold you back. Women tend to do this to try to keep people domesticated. Mothers in particular do it to their male children.

Anyway, just block them, keep progressing in yourself. Believe me, I've come out of a 6 year long relationship. It took me 2 years to 100% get over the breakup, but I did, and when I opened up my eyes and took care of myself, now I'm in a situation where I have to choose between like 5 different lovers (it's a whole different kind of anguish). You won't miss your ex.

>>42224119
Don't worry, she probably has cheated on him like 4000 times before and y'all suckas feel guilty about cheating once. kek

>>42227554
Did you post a picture of what you imagine is you and me and you're comforting me and fucking TOUCHING me bro?

>>42228587

How did women/girls see/treat you differently at your different levels of bodyfat?

I've heard that 12% is ideal, and lower doesnt do much

Why the fuck can't you idiots just get over your dumb ego's and have a sexually open relationship?

Fucking other women = rad and fun
Tag teaming your girl = rad and fun
Secure domestic relationship = healthy and good
Redpill hypermasculinity = insecure pleb bullshit

If ownership is the only reason your woman is with you, you're a cuck no matter how loyal she is.

>>42223978
Been with her for 6 years. She hated the fact I ate well for years due to her own insecurities. She always try's to guilt trip me on working out which again is her own insecurities. She also has low sex drive which annoys me when friends are with chicks who are animals.

My brother did while he was with his ex. She got jealous and needy. She didn't do anything do anything about this jealousy and she didn't improve herself whatsoever to combat this insecurity. She slowly gained weight and lived as a slob. He loved her all the same and reassured her of his faithfulness. He ended looking fuarking aesthetic, she ended up cheating on him.

>>42226049

>she pinned me down and kept fucking me and made me come inside her. i was a skelly at the time so i wasnt strong enough to push her off.

kek you were literally raped

>>42229006

Its much easier to have sex with women when you are in a relationship.

A lot of guys go to bars wearing wedding rings for this reason.

Social proof + being unobtainable = vagina tingles

>>42228081
This is the dumbest shit i've ever read. Observable scientific principles are not equivalent to purely mental constructs.

>>42229175
>like 3

If you cant be sure whether it's 3, is it really true? I'd like to think if i were "regularly" nailing 3 chicks i'd be able to identify them in my mind.

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>>42223978
>Staying with the same girl

>>42226075
>has no friends
>has snapchat
>seemingly the only reason for having snapchat is so your ex's roastie friends can bully you

>>42224137
>I ask if she really wants to eat dessert
kek

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>>42227968
>>42228081
>>42228184
>>42228195
>>42226743

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I feel like I'm the complete opposite of the general theme of this thread. I cheated when I was a fat fuck, but after getting reasonably fit I've been completely loyal. I think I was searching for more validation when I was a fat fuck, and since I've become happy with myself I don't need the same external validation.
Cheaters, if your cheating on your girl, just end things. You don't actually love them, your just looking for something stable while you try to get some point as well, you might as well be single and have an easier time getting laid, since that's the actual goal for you.
>T. Been there/done that, not worth it

>>42223998
>>42224134
>>42224105
>>42225897
>>42225977

Who knew /fit/ was so full of fucking degenerates? You people make me sick.

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>>42229606
>>42227554
this meme has to live on bros dont let it die

>>42229356
>I was loyal for two relationships
I dont know when i'll stop being loyal, im on my last straw as well even though loyalty has been my raisn d'être since childhood, this world just keep on brining it down and destroying it piece by piece.

>>42231147
I don't get how someone who knows what it's like to be cheated on can consider cheating on someone themselves.
It really shows a complete lack of empathy for the person they're with, especially since it should be easier to envision yourself in their shoes.

>>42226264
>an hero

It's been a long time, hasn't it?

>>42229647
So many things wrong with this post.

>tfw don't want to cheat but had crushes on 2 different girls while with my current gf of 3 years

>>42231231
?

>>42229728
>Low libido

Aren't there a hundred different ways to increase a woman's libido

>>42229006
In a study men and women were shown pics of the opposite gender and told to rate them 1-10.
Then another group shown the same pics but told that some of them were in relationships
Men rated the woman the same regardless of relationship status.
Women gave 2 more points of attraction to a man they were told was in relationship.
>Really gets the noggin joggin

>>42224139
Probs gonna get buried, but I totally know what you mean about the different smells and tastes of girls. Both their mouths and cunts.

>>42229063
fuckin this bro, my friends are absolutely noselling me getting noticeably better (im in the best shape of my life, happy af). Just yesterday my mate sandbagged my ab improvements, basically being like "oh, thats nice".
Motherfucker has fat on him like the michelin bloke, and has a beergut at the ripe age of 24.
people get pissed off at someone elses success i guess.
jokes on him tho, i aint the one with dem gross chub arms.

>>42229063
If u & they have similar diets & routines but u have better gains...
Maybe u do have good genetics bro..
Why be mad about it?

>>42223978
does this fuck in the picture want to get hit by the forkside of a hammer? caus he looks like he wants to get hit with the fork side of a hammer

>>42226075
she just wanted a beta male cuck
you are not good job anon
>>42226264
also this

>>42223978
Partner is less interested. I was really slim before, gained in my lower body (which I was trying to fill out) and got a nice shape to my arms and got told I had 'chunked up'. He's gained weight, and complains a lot about disliking his body but won't exercise. I feel less confident than before I started to exercise.

Jelly of these people who got fit and just increased how often they got laid.

>>42232717
Jelly

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I always think about cheating all the time because in the back of my head I feel like my girlfriend is lieing to me and probably cheating herself. I've worked at a night club and I've seen woman do the most sleezeist grimeyist stuff to thier significant others and I just can't bring myself to 100% trust any female.

>>42232813
im guessing you're a grill in which case most guys prefer slim chicks without much muscle. so i would just cut if i were you to get closer back to that.

>>42224823
This. I've been
With at least 200
Women so far

>>42232813
I would counter >>42233140 this suggestion with the fact that lifting increases testosterone, and testosterone increases libido, sensation, and orgasm.

>>42233080
Fuck I feel the same way

She's in L O N D O N on a trip how could she not be cheating

>>42223998
Same. I'm gonna be with a girl now over the weekend while she thinks I'm working. It's not that I don't love my girlfriend, she's just not enough

>>42233214
All the guys there are ugly and submissive

>>42233214
Bad part is that I love her too much. I have way too much pride as a man to ever condone even the thought of getting cheated on, I would drop her in a instant if I found out she ever lied to me..... But I won't lie...I'd be destroyed.

Recently broke up with my girlfriend, we have a house together so are flat mates at the minute.

I went to my first boxing lesson today, when I got back I mentioned it and she looked at me and started saying it was 'weird' and doing lessons is for children. What the fuck is her problem?

>>42228081
He's right you know. That's the first law of emodynamics.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLbF26JBJ9I

>>42233308
she's a woman

>>42233308
>>42233554
Basically. Doing something to improve yourself for your own sake is inconcievable.

>>42225149
Can confirm

>>42223998
There are few people I detest more than cheaters. I understand a man's need to satisfy his cravings, but it's one of the lowest betrayals you can do to someone.

>>42229647
this is the best post in this thread.

>>42233080
Females are terrorists. Don't get negotiate with terrorists.

>>42229647
t. STD ridden scum

>>42233308
>she's on about it being her

>>42223978
I was pretty chubby, not fit at all. Gut, love handles, fatty thighs with a 5.5 that I wish were bigger yet my gf would get wet just from kissing or listening to me talk. Once I started working out, sexually there wasn't much of a difference since she had always been sexually aggressive and higher libido than mine. Instead she started encouraging me, making sure I got my macros, would keep me from eating shit food and basically fuss over me. She's always been jealous but I'm the same way, I'm very protective and possessive when it comes to her so we're both on the same page. Never once tried to sway me away from working out even though she has quite a couple of insecurities and it makes her super self conscious so I know she really love me and I love her. Feelsnice

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>>42226075
she sounds toxic, you made a good move

don't play her games or shittalk her, ignoring her/them completely will make you look better and also drive her crazy

the real test is when she tries to re-connect, if you can resist her (((tricks))) and just hate fuck her it can be fun, but also fraught with peril (fake rape claims, stds, intentional pregnancy etc)

chose wisely bro

>>42224034
>Different now then when

Different now?
Different then?
DIFFERENT WHEN?!!?

No GF at the moment, but I have noticed everyone around me treating me different. Guys in general that I might meet treat me better (despite being 5'7 manlet), more respect basically. Since I don't look like shit, women are much nicer to me in general and tend to approach me, saying the weirdest shit sometimes (I suppose this is what they feel when guys do "cold approaches".) Some family members of mine were happy and ask me for nutrition advice, others try to purposely sabotage me.

As for me personally, I love it and will never stop. I'm not even "buff" right now either, I suppose I do look much better compared to the average person though. I'm no Arnold though, that's for sure. Probably the biggest change I noticed was being able to walk up a flight of stairs at work without being winded, while looking at all my coworkers huffing and puffing while taking sips of their sodas.

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>>42224823
Holy fuck you're alpha man. We all believe the bullshit you're spouting. Miring as fuck!

>>42226078
My girlfriend recognizes that I'm a man, and that monogamy is unnatural.

But there is no way in hell she can sleep around, period.

This has worked well for us, for 4 years now.

>>42226078
You're not alone. I view few people lower than cheaters. I assume those that engage in these kinds of behaviors aren't really capable of forming deep connections with other people. Infidelity is commonly associated with sociopathy.

>>42234199

I know this guy who got cheated on years ago and that was rough for him. Years later he found a nice girl, went to the gym, got big, and after settling down he cheated.

I was suprised because he of all people would know how it felt to get cheated on. A while ago he said that all of his friends who were faithful at the start now regulary cheat and that he doesn't think being faithful exists anymore. Sounded like a cop who has been hanging around people with poor impulse control for too long.

>>42226075
You won. She's trying to make you jealous, because she wants you back. Don't fall for that shit. Not all women are like this all the time, but they are all like this when you have the upper hand and they get desperate. Relish in the fact that she's making a fool of herself, maybe even respond to her friends with something like, "Didn't know she was such a slut, guess I got out at the right time". Then watch their heads implode.

>>42226075
I hope you put the video up on her parents facebook lad

>>42234363
In this case, I would say that his infidelity is a learned behavior. He is using cheating as a defensive mechanism, precisely because he realizes that opening oneself up to a relationship wholly leaves yourself defenseless. After all, if you are cheating on your significant other then the brunt of infidelity loses its edge when you --in his mind-- inevitably get cheated on.

It's sad, the same happened to my brother. He's a good man, but he let the love of his life ruin him and now he views it flippantly. It is strange how our experiences change us.

>>42234684

True, also he said he was very succesful on tinder and was fooling around with three girls in secret but it just sounds tiring and complicated.

>>42233140
I know slimness is a preference for many but my increase in muscle just got me out of auschwitz mode, I was under 48kg at 5ft7. I'm only 55k now but I appreciate what you're saying Anon.

>>42233204
>tfw you becoming fitter means your bf doesn't want to have sex with you but you want to have sex more than ever

>>42232813
>He's gained weight, and complains a lot about disliking his body but won't exercise.
Might not be that you've become less attractive but he just has to take notice that he isn't improving and feels insecure that you are

>>42233308
So you can't learn anything new into adulthood or...?

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>>42233740
What's the difference between pms and a terrorist?

You can negotiate with a terrorist

>>42226178
>raising someone without your genes
>somehow a good deal

?????????

Don't get me wrong, raising children who aren't your offspring can be noble (e.g. adoption), but if you're raising someone else's child as a price for pussy, you're just being beta.

>>42235398
Women on their PMS are emotional terrorists

And i don't negotiate with terrorists.

>>42231861
got a link to it?

>>42233532

A whole basket of kids

my gf and i broke up due to distance but we still talk and love each other.
is it wrong if im fucking other chicks?

>>42234476
This.

>>42235894
yes, as long as she knows what is going on. She doesn't have to know who you're fucking, but at least let her know that you've moved on in some way.

>>42233671
your boyfriend is cucking you as you read this bitch

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>>42233080
>>42233214


This.

What should I do about it? It's breaking my head. I can't seem to trust girls after reading/hearing so many stories about them cheating on their bfs like it's nothing. My worst fear is being cheated on and never finding out and her behaving like nothing happened.

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>noticeably happier
>don't fight as much, love to be around one another more
>started lifting at the same time, went different routes
>super attracted to him, cant stop touching his arms ect

We're just happier. But we also started getting into fitness together. It's sorta like a club. It is hard to relate to people who don't like to lift anymore.

>>42224823
>keep on cheating. Be discreet, however.
>While you are trembling in fear of losing your girl, I'm showing mine who I'm swiping on Tinder.

>>42236170
some dude on /r9k/ was like
>I cheat on principle so it doesn't hurt me if she does

>>42236170
I'm trying to hold back liking my gf so much and just focus on my MMA and weight training. Having someone play you for a fool behind your back even when you really love them would be devestating. But I feel like as long as well invest in our selves it will be easier to bounce back from a hard fall

Are bedroom is dead and she is mentally hurting herself trying to keep up with a healthy diet.

Bout ready to dump her

>>42236327
What happened to her libido. It couldn't habe just vanished. I never understood dead bedrooms

>>42236270

Yeah, that makes a little bit of sense but I despise cheaters. I don't think I'm good person or anything if I don't cheat, but I couldn't do something like this to a person that means something to me. Maybe I'm fool.

>>42236294

Yeah, it looks like the best option. Trust her enough if she hasn't given you any red flags before and continue improving yourself. But my biggest fear is my girl cheating and me never finding out and staying together. I'd probably kill myself if that happened and I somehow knew, I'd feel like a total loser.

>it's another "fit thread where guys all say how women are terrible people and only care about themselves and their own interests and desires and i as a 24 year old kissless pathetic permavirgin am supposed to somehow care about the fact that i don't get fucked over by them by getting into a relationship with them" thread

>>42224105
>>42226641

She's 100% cheating on him. The thing that I've learned in life is that cheaters are too stupid/self absorbed to realize how flimsy and unbelievable their lies are.

If you cheat you have to lie constantly and that shit is so obvious.

>>42236374
She tried to tell me she didn't have a sex drive and just had sex with me to make me happy I should have dumped her on the spot

>>42224334
The excuses for allowing themselves to engage in deceit with their partner isn't justified by feeling bad about it. The bad feeling is causally the confession that they know what they're doing is wrong and hurting other people.

If you lift big weights for the purpose of slaying pussy, your "gains" will be a net loss when you discover you can't fill that hole in your life with promiscuous sex. It is soul crushing, even for guys... but moreso for women. You are harming yourself, those you interact with, and damaging society as a whole.

>get big and strong lifting weights
>still a weak, empty, ambitionless faggot

>>42225794
Same situation. Feel you there. Love her, not in love. Got some other girls who are interested. Kissed one on the mouth, just quickly though... no feelings for her. Just fun.

I know that it's biologically a correct thing to do, but society and shit still influences my thoughts and feelings a little bit.

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>>42227694
>I dont use social media

>>42224823
Spoken like a true beta male

>>42230806
do you forget where you are m8?

>>42232055
If he looks like that he might genuinely not give a fuck. There are some people who have the strong belief that looks are secondary at best. It could also be that he is concerned you might outgrow your friendship and trade him in for a better version, since you are becoming a better version of yourself while he stays the same.

People don't like change and don't want to be reminded that they are lazy bums if they are, which is true for the vast majority of people.

>>42230806
>4chan
>not-degenerate
kek

>>42226075
>last night her and all of her friends were sending me videos of her grinding up against other guys at the club and groping their crotches while yelling out "fuck (my name)"
They do it because they are below you. You are better than them now and they loathe you because of it. Some women are better than others and this one was clearly one of the worse ones. You just gotta find somebody who meets your standards better and you'll be set

I unironically think that relationships are dead nowadays, its like marriage. Its a failed institution, something we as a society have to give up on. I am 31 right now, I've been in and out of relationships since I was in junior high school, I broke up with a bunch of girls for different reasons including them cheating on me, my last relationship was 5 years long and I basically built my life around that person at that point, I was 23 when we started dating, we went through some movie shit to stay together and it was good while it lasted. We broke up and after some months she went to live with the friend she told me to never worry about, some dude she met on the internet. It wasnt till some very bitter 2 years that I got over it and left the bitterness behind, got my ass into the gym and worked on myself.

Its been almost 5 years now since I've been avoiding relationships, I'm tired bros. I feel like I gave it all I could give and I got nothing worth showing for it. In this time I've been thinking if I should open up and stop pushing away people who have interest and after thinking about it long and hard my conclusion is that its not worth. We live in a very selfish world where people just want to live the most to meet the some false expectations that the western society has pushed down their throats, everyone is looking to make the best of their time like they are in some sort of race against time. They are so cucked by society that they are working around the clock to meet some random standards of happiness. 'Fuck X amount of bitches so I don't look like a loser", don't be like that bros. Do what feels right for you, as someone generally older than most here thats all the advice I have, don't be cucked by societies standards and live your life in a way that you won't be disgusted by looking at yourself in the mirror. The only one who carries the weight of your head around is you.

>>42226118
Business trips were invented before social media.

>>42232055
>basically being like "oh, thats nice".

That's because he was wondering why the fuck you wanted another dude to care about your faggety abs. What did you want? a whole poem about the beauty of your godly physique? Fuck off faggot.

>>42224506
You're pathetic. You're lying to yourself. You think you're so much better than his girl but you're so horny and lonely that you keep fucking her. You're fuckin up dude

>>42224823
you and your pig girl are degenerates

>>42225132
no its just as retarded

>>42236111
trips of truth

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>>42229634
I started cutting at 35% bf. I was fat and invisible to women. Coupled with severe social anxiety, i was absolutely lonely. The fat quiet dude at parties who just follows everyone around.
Dnp got me to 22% and after tren i was 10%.

I get hit on at red lights. At grocery stores esp target. That's where most of my numbers come from.
At 10%, i can literally have anyone i want. I have girls following me around at parties, being extra nice, grabbing my butt esp when drinking in a group setting, a co worker telling me shit like she can't "escape me" after one fuck..., when this bitch used to ignore me.
It's so weird how i can say or do anything i want, and bitches still wanna fuck. I am not used to shit like this, brehs
>pic related

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>>42239797
Wrong pic. Well, meant to select this one instead.

>>42233671

Spotted a virgin

>>42233308
Women try to bring you down so they can feel better about themselves. It is known.

>>42233740
Spotted the redneck

>>42226170
It comes from the cuckoo bird laying it's egg in another birds nest.

>>42228081
I find this offensive, you're telling me when a new born baby is born and dies within a week that's just the universe 'balancing out'

>>42239807
A FUCKING LEAF

>>42223978
this is entierly anectodal
but dude I know whos gotten fit with a average 6 or below gf, the gf always becomes insecure and cheats preemptively

>>42226280
I'd kill my boyfriend if he cheated on me, so fuck off with your bullshit theory. We don't like to be cucked either

I got /fit/ and left my french gf behind bc she didn't keep up with training.

Then I moved to Bangkok because test is freely available OTC for about 5USD bayer and the women are insanely easy for fit white guys

Now I smash russian backpackers and money grubbing thais on the reg and feel more fulfilled than I ever have in my life.

>>42224823
she's not redpilled, she's a cuckcake, it's a literal fetish

>>42224823
Literally the biggest liar in this thread. It's not that I'm angry and in denial, it's just that it's not possible for someone who browses a gay pride image board to be in this situation. Unless she is also fucking other dudes behind your back that is.

Yes I went from skeleton to ottermode and ahe went from loving gf to jealous crazy bitch I'm single now but during that change the sex for better and better until she finally slapped

>>42240156
Kek

>>42239797

woah you took dnp and tren at that weight? had you lifted much at all before taking them?

Im semi considering blast and cruise, but my career may have travel and it might not work out transporting / sourcing in many different locations

>>42237835
I'm a young anon and I thank you, sir.

>out of the house 12 hours a day
>still work out three to five days a week depending on the program

Your time management sucks. Git gud.

>>42237835
I'm 34 and I've been married since my late 20's.

Just because you failed at it doesn't mean everyone else does.

>>42223978
>1-2 years into our relationship
>be me, a fat fuck with titties and shit
>start losing weight and lifting
>she says "I want you to be healthy but not all muscly, I'm not attracted to that"
>4 years into relationship
>lose 70 pounds total and get some solid muscle gains on shoulders, chest, arms and legs
>still weight to cut on stomach
>she can't keep her hands off me and I'm not even done yet
>admits she loves the muscle
>best sex we've ever had since I've become healthy

Why was I a fat fuck for so long fit