/fit/, I think Tinder is killing my confidence. I've literally never had a second date with people I've met from there, not counting fwb stuff. When I go to bars, girls flirt with me, but I don't know, I don't reciprocate because Tinder makes me think no one wants to date me? It's weird. Ya feel me?
I'm sure the thread I killed for this was shit anyway.
I've never made it to face to face contact off tinder.
>>42165443
It's not that hard, you just gotta take your time messaging so you can be funny. Real life is harder, though.
>>42165432
Yeah well I never got a match that wasn't a landwhale or 40+ years old so cry me a river
>>42165480
Maybe you should lift more
>>42165432
post face/body
>>42165540
this
op stop being a faggot
I tried tinder once, I live in a place that technically fits the qualifications of "city" but really it is just a small town , but it's a college town so there is an abnormal amount of young women here on a seasonal basis.
First day having it I just fill in the pictures take a few selfie style ones so that it is clear what I look like, swipe on some cute girls and leave it till the next day. I'm not gonna claim I'm anything special but I've always been in the top 5% among peers in fitness, even when not on a sports team and I woulnd't say I'm ugly but lets just call me 6/10 .
After the first few days I got no matches, maybe 1 at most but some of these girls were like 3-4 years older and looked like they were approaching 30. So I lowered my standards and swiped on women who were maybe more of my league, women that I have and definitely could get in real life.
Again, maybe one match, so I just open to test it and swipe on every fatty ugo an 4/10 I see, still no matches.
Im willing to accept that im even under average, even though I have no reason to believe so ,but these tinder bitches are all fishing waaaay above their league, I find it useless ,at least where im at .