What's better, to be a sexual object and fuck with everyone

I've met a lot of really unhappy virgins not nearly as many unhappy sexually active ppl

>>41943063
everyone i know who married in high school is still married.

everyone i know who married after college is now divorced.

It seems like every year you spend not dating the person you are going to marry, lowers your chances.

>>41943095
You can have sex and suddenly think. What happens if I don't have sex for a week? Some argue it temporally boosts testosterone, others say sex boost testosterone. Hell, there's a theory sexual anticipation boost testosterone. You could try something mind breaking like doing sexual things without cumming and lift weights to test it.

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>>41943063
>male teacher
>not a female teacher teaching safe sex then barebacking with the basketball american students after class

The artist didn't go to an American school recently huh

>no philosophy, just scientific evidence
sounds like a great way to live

>>41943203
It's not a way of life. I just want untainted evidence supporting both sides to compare them.

I think i remember seeing a study about how the more sexual partners you have, the less likley you are to stay with a partner. I'm sure as you have more partners or relationships it just doesn't seem to matter as much. So your choice, do you want to care about your relationship, try to date people that you can see a future with. Want to just have tons of hot sex with different, exciting people, date for pussy potential.

Unfortunately philosophy rears its ugly head regardless, in the definition of what's "better".
Abstinence is never better though. Hedonistically, sexual activity feels good, so it must be good. Biologically, being more sexually active with more women means more chances to reproduce and more chances your genes will be carried on.

>been virgin my whole life
>now im older and am disgusted by sex before even trying it

what should my magic specialty be when i ascend to wizard mode?

>>41943252
>>41943063
the problem with that notion is that our biology tells us to have multiple kids because we can, and philosophy tells us its better for our society and our self to have the nuclear family

>>41943063
>no philosophy, just scientific evidence

The literal state of your understanding of science smfh

>>41943275
>Hedonistically, sexual activity feels good, so it must be good
So, if krokodil makes you feel good, it's good?
Are you saying that leaving your seed in whores that will abort it is better than leaving it on a caring partner or even renting an uterus?

>>41943275
hedonism needs to be purged

>>41943296
That's right.
>>41943305
Modern philosophy is a pseudoscience.

>>41943252
it's foolish to ask people to present cases for both extremes. any person's stance will be determined by their character and their deeper beliefs. for example >>41943275 presents his own brand of hedonism and uses that as the basis. but what if you don't consider yourself a hedonist? what if your idea of pleasure isn't of basic physical stimulus but rather a more spiritual one?

the dichotomy is also unnecessary. why does it have to be absolute abstinence but for a single partner, or complete wanton sexual activity?

I don't have it but there was that infographic with lower percentage of happy marriage with every partner had highest being 0 before marriage

>>41943319
>Modern philosophy is a pseudoscience.
its hard to call something a pseudoscience if it can be proven time and time again
>That's right.
and to expound on what i said in>>41943296
is that the best course of action is to keep living for the nuclear family way of life, since it has been shown to be the most optimal way of raising kids, and thus improving the future of our society

>>41943329
>it's foolish to ask people to present cases for both extremes
So, I should limit mi perception to one side of the coin?
>any person's stance will be determined by their character and their deeper beliefs
Their stance, not the evidence itself.
>the dichotomy is also unnecessary
It isn't but it doesn't limit the answers either, as your reply clearly proves.

>>41943366
there is no evidence. i can't pull out a peer-reviewed study to prove that promiscuity is immoral, damaging to society, and that people have societal obligations to their fellow man. most people would disagree of course, but then no one can pull out scientific evidence that it is inherently good to seek personal pleasure

>>41943357
How do you prove modern philosophy?
How do you prove metaphysics?
How do you prove idealism?
How do you prove postmodern philosophy?
I agree with preserving the nuclear family.

>>41943396
>that promiscuity is immoral
Leave morality out and use parameters or cases.
> no one can pull out scientific evidence that it is inherently good to seek personal pleasure
There are benefits from hypersexuality, like boosted testosterone. There are also disadvantages like STD or fatigue.

>>41943405
>how do you prove x?
by first looking at each principle and what it is trying to do and see if the world and the actions in said world enforce it

>>41943513
Can you prove metaphysics?

>>41943063
kek
if you think science has the answers for that you are in for a big mistake
only non scientists think like that

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I only have sex because I enjoy intimate companionship, because growing up was quite lonely for me and I'm too cowardly to experience that again. The act itself isn't so special.

>>41943513
go ahead and write a paper about it if you think it's that easy you dofus

>>41943557
>The act itself isn't so special.

sex with you must be shit

>>41943541
depends on what exactly is said theory on, and if by i you mean people or i as in myself? because if its by myself and me alone then i dont think i will live long enough to prove anything right or wrong since metaphysical theories are almost infinite.

>>41943549
t. vegan guru

>>41943063

Its probably best to try not to be a whore. Dont have to be a prude though. If you guys hit it off then go for it.

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>23 year old KV
>a girl I used to like asked me if I wanted to have sex
>I said no
>weeks later, still don't feel any regret

I am growing stronger

>>41943317
This. The world would be a better place.

>>41943063
She must have been ugly as fuck or bat shit crazy.

I did the same a few years back because of the latter. Chick ended up having a kid and committing suicide shortly after.

No regrets.

>>41943063
What are the criteria which define better? If you can't define that how are you supposed to find scientific evidence?

Otherwise you're just an autist trying to put a scientific veneer on his personal morals.

>>41943643
Based. Sex is overrated.

>>41943319
Science is a branch of philosophy you fucking egg

>>41943643
KV?

>>41943834
kissless virgin

>>41943696
I can define it. More pros and cons. Better bangs of buck. More cost-effective.
I don't care about morality unless I talk about morals.
>>41943830
It's might have been a science but modern science is pseudoscience.

>>41943889
modern philosophy*

>>41943875
Ah, so why did you say no?

>>41943063
Sex can always end with children. Unless you are an absolute scumbag, children are always going to tax your income (and unless you are an absolute psychopath, at some point they will tax your patience.) Unless you have prepared yourself to provide for a family beforehand, children -will- through any semblance of a routine you had off the tracks. The only 100% effective way to not have children is to not have sex. Getting your tubes tied and putting your girl on an IUD is a good #2.

>TL;DR: More kids = less cash = less protein shakes = less gains. No sex = no kids = cash = protein shakes = makin' it.

>>41943278
You fuck your hand every night like a degenerate. Stop kidding yourself.

>>41943903
I didn't want to. She's not a bad person and she's okay-looking, but I'm not interested anymore.

I see her very often because we have the same friends, and I've got better things to do than get caught up in some bullshit drama over something I didn't even want in the first place.

>>41943063
Depends whether you're a man or a woman, and whether you care about the person you want to fuck. If you're a woman, you should not sleep with anyone unless you're getting married to that man. If you're a man, you shouldn't sleep with anyone you care about unless you plan on marrying them. Alternatively, if you're a dude, you can sleep with someone you don't care about.

Reasoning behind this is based on statistics of marriage stability vs number of premarital partners. A woman with one premarital partner is the equivalent divorce risk as a man who has had 19 premarital partners. Men can sleep around without it adversely affecting their future marital stability and happiness, women cannot. This is fairly basic evolutionary psychology: men are apt at sleeping with many females without getting too attached, women did not, they evolved to be clingy. Which is why a man shouldn't sleep with a woman he cares about, but doesn't intend to marry (he would be drastically altering her future happiness), but could sleep with someone he doesn't care about at all (still a douchey thing to do, will adversely affect her future happiness, but if he doesn't care that doesn't matter. Plus sloots are generally so far gone it doesn't really matter; they are long past the point that they'll be happy in a long term relationship).

tl;dr- men should bang sloots, but date/marry wholesome, preferably virgin chicks. Women bang the person they plan on marrying.

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>>41943063
Sexual mores are a product of culture. All culture is ultimately a response to external pressures: contention for resources, unforgiving elements, and so on. Our most successful cultures were built on the backs of stringent sexual rules; this is not to say they were always followed, but that the expectation was blatantly clear and consequences dire. Risk of pregnancy, disease, pariahism, and so on transpire unto those who imbibe the hypersexual elixir.

But as we know, culture has lost the weight it once held, technology taking the mantle. With technology the risks have hypersexuality have been all but nullified: pregnancy can be aborted or held back entirely through drugs, condoms are ubiquitous and fairly effective, and the breakdown of less 'physical restraints', such as religion have fallen into increasing irrelevance.

As society becomes increasingly anticultural, the pillars that held this dying culture up will fail, giving way to a new culture which will inevitably be a product of the environment now. Whether or not it will be preferable is not for us to ponder; the change is destined to happen, as no culture lasts forever. All we can do is guide it's direction in whatever way we can.

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>>41943278
I feel you anon, at this point (21 no gf ever) I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex. it's not like I know what i'm missing out on. I think it's not really a bad thing it's means i'm immune to thots

Am I feeling the power of a wizard?

>>41944389
Pretty convincing

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>>41943063
That depends. From a purely individual perspective there's no reason not to pursue your own decadent desires and fuck as many bitches as you want. Abstinence on the other hand benefits a society as a whole because it not only means nobody's getting cucked, but marriages are more stable as well. The number of previous sexual partners *does* influence the stability of a marriage after all (https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/).

>No religion, no philosophy
Religion is the biggest stabilizing force in a society bro, gotta work on them spiritual gainz.

That said, Western society is clearly down the drain. At this point I wouldn't even blame you for putting your own needs over the needs of all, considering we already live in the age of hyperindividualism. Moralists are trying to save a sinking ship. Personally I prefer to keep my distance and watch the fire from somewhere safe.

>>41944516
Honestly sex itself is not the greatest thing in the world. For sex to truly be good tier it has to be done with someone you love, making it more of an emotional thing than just physical. To have sex without that is just masturbating with another person's body, you are not missing out. Work on social skills and aesthetics, get your gf Anon.

>>41944850
i dont really care about sex, i care about V A L I D A T I O N

Scientific evidence is philosophy you fucking retard, what is empiricism?

>>41943063
>are you a virgin, anon?
>I'm abstinent. Sex before marriage is a sin, and I've never really thought about it anymore than that
Checkmate

>>41944861
Validate yourself to yourself, don't rely on others if you are trying to make it

>>41943252
evidence without philosophy is literally an incoherent concept you mongoloid

>>41944861

This. At this point, I am only having sex with sluts just for this. I could just as well jerk off, but thats for losers anyway

>>41943275
>being this unironically autistic

>>41944894
thats like saying dont be hungry to a guy that hasnt ate in two days

>>41943063

Semen is the distillation of the minerals in the body, so naturally abstinence from release is healthy. Long term abstinence elevates the mineral content in the blood, boosting the function of all organs.

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Abstinence is way better.

>>41944917
You don't need sex to validate yourself though.

>>41944975
you do need it though

>>41943063
for Christians abstinence is illegal, except you don't get horny ever.

blowjobs are great, just find a girl who will give you those on command.

>>41943122
>could try something mind breaking like doing sexual things without cumming
Retroejaculation, tantric sex etc. Shhht it's supposed to be a secret, the less other guys know that the better.

>>41945005
sex is validation for women
victory and success is validation for men

What I'm saying is you need to transition.

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Rule 1: Don't be a degenerate
Rule 2: If rule one is broken stop breaking rule one

>>41945954
By my definition monogamy and abstinence for non-spiritual or health reasons is degenerate, as I define degeneracy as "that which goes against human nature".

Once you fully internalize this not being degenerate is actually liberating instead an act of self repression.

>>41945873
men have a way bigger sex drive

>>41946160
Going to the gym goes against human nature. Controlling what you eat instead of just eating everything you can find goes against human nature. Rape and murder are part of human nature.

>>41946160
What a degenerate view of what constitutes degeneracy. Many aspects of human nature are degenerate. Our inherent greed, lack of discipline, and shrot sightedness being chief among them.

You make it in life by conquering yourself, not by indulging every primal urge.

Being thought of as attractive and having a big dick great body etc is sort of how I felt normal and like I had worth.

But in reality sex has been nothing but trouble and I wish I had waited for love rather then lust eternally after women and the occasional major lesbian that would not help fill this hole in my heart. The sex was great though. Leaving them broken and making a woman beg for sex and beg for me to stop is nice.

Still not in the least bit happy.

Maybe I'm just sad again and in a introspective and depressed mood again. I dunno.

>>41946189
>Going to the gym goes against human nature
Incorrect, exercising feels good and is crucial for both masculine and femenine health. Exercising is a rational choice that uses human nature in your favour. Rationality is one of the many aspects of human nature.

The rest are your personal opinions based on the [subjective] assumption that human nature is inherently flawed. This is the typical commie/conservative misanthropic thinking.

>>41946202
Selfishness is more often than not a positive force. You conveniently and wrongly define human nature with primal urges and that is an error.

"Conquering yourself" is a part of human nature, the very fact that "conquering yourself" and achieving your ends brings satisfaction is proof of that. If it didn't bring any satisfaction you simply wouldn't do it because there'd be no incentive for you to do so.

>>41943105

this desu. happiest people I know are people who married their high school sweethearts.

theres still a chance for the rest of us I think, but it seems like youre better off investing big, or committing to never committing. the less committal you become, the more you attract people with the same mindset, and the harder it becomes to find anything meaningful

>>41944890
But believing in shit like that is gay and will be something you regret when you're on your deathbed.

>>41943275
The modern sense of 'hedonism' is just the overindulgence in vain and excessive lusts, ultimately preventing the individual to form influential or aspiring outlook.

Why can't we revert to the Epicurean outlook of hedonism, which refers to the absence of pain, rather than excessive and corruptive endeavours? Honestly, fuck hedonism in a modern sense, it adds no value nor encourages the redeeming qualities of virtue and the abstinence of vice.

>>41943643
t. Ubermensch

>>41943063
Depends on the person and their goals. Personally I can't have sex with anyone I don't see an emotional attachment to, it just doesn't interest me.

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>>41943105
No amount of pussy will equal to having woman you love and there's no better feeling than getting that love back from her.
It obviously depends on the person. Chad will not think of sex as anything more than just masturbation with pussy. Once he'll be 30 he'll find 10/10 that will want him , marry her and have kids and that will be it for him. He won't give a fuck that she wasn't virgin or had 10 dicks inside her, if she's hot and he wants her he'll get her.

>>41946406
>He won't give a fuck that she wasn't virgin or had 10 dicks inside her, if she's hot and he wants her he'll get her.
That's actually not true.

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>>41946403
This, for me at lest sex is the most intimate form of relatinonship between two people. I couldn't just pick up random woman and have sex with her that night. I need to have attachment to her.
If you don't need that good for you but for me i need to feel something to the woman im about to fuck.

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>>41946418
>implying he'll know
Not even Chad is immune to woman's lies. If she's not virgin how can you tell the amount of dicks she had? She can say she only had one boyfriend, or she could have had 10 dicks. You can't tell a difference.

>>41943275
>Biologically
Humans are nuclear you retarded fucking chipmunk. We have been for thousands of years.

Having a few kids who you protect in a family > fucking everyone and hoping someone survives. Empirically the first option always wins and thats why EVERY human society practises it to a large degree.

>>41943063
>black man and white woman
>faggot interracial couple

way to fit them all in one 500x462 picture, you degenerate

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>>41943275
marriage and nuclear family is needed for functional society you retard unless you want to live like fucking cavemen

>>41943910

I actually used to believe that. But I found the opposite happened when my daughter was born. I was locked into caring for her. And that actually forced me into a routine. The gym became more exact because I had very specific windows of time that I could make it in, so I did.

As for the money, yes children take money, but I've never seen any sort of appreciable effect on my ability to buy the things that I need/want

Kids are awesome. Yes they definitely change your life. But I wouldn't trade being a dad for anything.

>>41943910
From your post it obvious you never had kids or even taken care of any.
Having kids is amazing, once my son was born i was pushing myself harder than ever before, just for him. Everytime i was struggling with last reps i imagined him in a few years looking at me. I want to be strong masculnie father figure for him not some weak fat or skelly dad.
Kids boost your test Mr Goldstein.

>>41946433
Chad's fucked enough women and has enough social connections to be able sense if she's been a cock/fist socket with a huge partner count.

I think its all about your mindset and what you expect from sex. I hate it when people say things like sex with someone you don't love is meaningless, maybe you shouldn't be looking for ultimate fulfillment from fucking sluts and just enjoy it for what it is, a good time with a person you're attracted to, it should be as simple as eating a sandwich, not an enlightening ritual.

Barring that you don't catch anything, I think good sexual experiences with multiple woman trumps abstinence. Living and dying with one woman just seems sad, like watching one movie and basing your entire opinion of movies off of that, but at the same time I don't think you absolutely need to bang a lot of woman as long as you find something that fulfills you and gives you purpose.

I'm a 25 yo virgin tho lol

>>41946504
>Chad wants to marry a girl
>she tells him she's not virgin
>Chad says its ok
>secretly he activated his spy network of Brads to check how many dicks she had
>Brads check her instagram, facebook and twitter on top stealing her phone and going through her contacts
>they find out she got gang banged by a basketball negro team in high school
>they send info to Chad
>Chad drops bitch on wedding day
Chad ALWAYS wins.

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>>41943643
>your face when

>>41946466
>>41946483

That's good for you guys but not everyone can't handle parenthood. God have mercy on you if you have kids and can't maintain.

My reason for not wanting kids is because life can really suck sometimes, I've felt so bad sometimes, I would never wish those feels on anyone, certainly not my would be kids. I'd forgo the dad boost just to reduce existential suffering in the universe.

>>41943063
Being absolutely honest - I always wanted to find a girl and get into a serious relationship. But I'm 23 now and I've never been in a relationship. The only sex I've had was with drunken girls from clubs and none of them were particularly attractive of memorable. I've only had sex with three women and that's mostly because my face is quite ugly.

I genuinely feel like I missed my chance of finding a qt and dating/marrying her. All the women in my age range are genuinely horrible. I remember 16-20 you could find girls of all types and personalities and generally most of them were innocent and curious and just wanted to have someone in their lives. At 23, every girl I meet is a major whore, has had like 50 relationships. Every girl has been "hurt" and keeps going on about "fuck boys" and how her last boyfriend was abusive/cheated/treated her bad/broke her heart etc. It's really fucking depressing.

I feel like I missed my chance of finding a young, hot and loveable girlfriend and now the best I can hope for is chad's leftovers, so I stopped trying. I don't want a relationship anymore. I just want to bang as many hot girls as possible and that's it.

The only girl I ever even "dated" was a legit 10/10 - smart, amazing personality, incredibly hot and just generally a great person. But I knew I wasn't enough, I felt insecure and it made me feel like shit knowing I was disposable and she eventually realised it and moved on to the next guy. I see a lot of posts here on 4chan calling guys bitter, retarded etc. when they talk about cucking and generally women being horrible and having low morals and being cunts - but it's usually true. Women are actual memes, they have the thought patterns of a reptile or some shit.

I'm happy being alone for the rest of my life because I missed my chance. Rather that than someone's scraps.

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Honestly I just love women. So I tend to have sex a lot and If I do end up settling down I'll end up cheating anyway. The act itself feels amazing, but I actually like the intimacy and conversation afterwards.

>>41943063
>529+1488
>finding a good partner
why wast your time cucking yourself? go out and fuck as many women as you can and laugh as they come crawling to you when they are 35 and washed up

>>41946579

damn...

>confident, know how to talk to girls
>don't have the drive to pursue them just for sex though, we have to "click" and I'm very picky
>regrets when home alone, otherwise pretty okay
anyone else?

>>41946579
There are still plenty of non-used 18y.o. you can meet m8
Shit's rare nowdays but don't give up

>>41946579
>I remember 16-20 you could find girls of all types and personalities and generally most of them were innocent and curious and just wanted to have someone in their lives. At 23, every girl I meet is a major whore, has had like 50 relationships.
God damn it how does this happen?

>>41946690
>God damn it how does this happen?
social media

>>41943063
All the stories about career women commiting suicide because they can't find someone to fill them with baby batter must mean something.

>>41946690
Chad taking what's his

>>41946728
but social media existed when they were also 16-20. Why they don't turn into sluts when they're 18-19?

>>41946740
back then there werent really hundreds of pages like this with millions of followers
https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/

the fact that the entire female humor is reduced to "I SUCKED HIS DICK AGAIN HAHAHA SO ME XD" tells enough

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Anyone here developed feelings for a fwb? I feel like this is the thread to ask.

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>not attractive enough that girls show interest in me/
>to shy to hit on girls

I think I'll just focus on my goals and improving myself until it happens. Or should I desperately go to social situation and try to meet girls?

>>41946799
you should have friends who have female friends. makes everything pretty obvious

>>41946815
well all my "friends" are stoner and it's always a sausage party

>>41946829
still better than my situation, i cut contact with all my friends. if you have weed just invite a girl for smoking casually

it all depends on your goals, man. long term vs short term

listen. no one can tell you which is right or wrong. some of the top minds were virgins for their whole lives. but then again that chad who's had eugene do his math homework is probably too deep in pussy to care about physics and medicine

some of these nerds here will tell you abstinence is better. but take it from a guy who probably spends more money on plan b than most people here pay in monster energy drinks. it really doesn't matter

horny? wanna fuck some slut? do it. don't wanna waste the time because you want to finally crack the secret to infinite life? do it. you CAN do both btw

but lets say you can't do both. lets say you're really ugly and retarded and can't get laid. buy a hooker. lmao. no really. just make an okcupid and send every single girl a message like "i'm just really ugly and bad with girls and i'll pay you XXXXXXXXXXXX amount of money to touch my ding dong". chances are even if a girl isn't a hoe if she sees your just some lonely beta with no one to catch herp from she'll let your inferior genetic man juice fire from your breeding hose

>>41946839
>just invite a girl for smoking casually
well my problem is that I don't know any girls.

and you cut the contact for a reason right? No friends are better than toxic friends imo

>>41944890
>hey who is he? he looks hot
>he's anon, dont worry about it he's an hardcore christian and believes in abstinence

way to go. you killed your chances getting laidq

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>>41946770
>mfw don left her for his dumb secretary
>mfw he then got a mistress
>mfw he cheated on her too
>doesn't even like his own kids
don is a cunt

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>>41946947
4u

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>>41946799
I started to focus on on my goals and fitness and women eventually became drawn to me. I was a stoner gamer and a big drinker and I dressed horribly.

Basically I just stopped drugs to start working a lot and gaming a lot. Then changed gaming to fitness related stuff and socializing.

I still game but honestly after an 10 hour day at work, working out, showering and making a good dinner there just isn't a lot of time before I have to fuck my girlfriend and go to sleep.

The most important thing in my opinion is to just be honest with yourself and don't try to prove yourself somehow to girls. If you believe that they would be lucky to have you then you will convey that subconsciously with your confidence.

If you don't believe your dream girl would be lucky to have you as you are now then start sculpting yourself into the person you should be.

Really though first thing is start to dress well. Buy some polo t shirts, a leather belt with a nice buckle, some designer shoes and socks. I cannot stress the socks enough seriously I don't know why but people keep telling me I have nice socks. Make sure everything fits. Even if you are skinny buy shit that's tight on you.

Most importantly stand up straight, hold your head up high and sit with your back straight. Posture is even more important that clothes.

That worked for me but I'm 25 now and it took a while but now I've got a house, a sports car and a beautiful girlfriend and I still play PUBG with my friends every now and then. Far away from the depressive angsty prick I was when I was 20

I've had sex with two people; first being a girlfriend who I loved, the other being a a girl I hooked up with a few times.
There was absolutely no connection with the second girl. For just having sex, I was pretty unhappy postcoitus. I felt like I was giving her something that she didn't deserve and I can't get it back. I gained nothing but an orgasm and then kicked her out of my dorm room.
Sex with my now ex girlfriend felt way more enjoyable before, during, and after. Sex with someone you love is much more mental. I don't think there's any better feeling being with someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. Even though we're not together anymore, I have no regrets about losing my virginity to her because it actually meant something.
If I had lost it to someone like the other girl, I would definitely regret it.

>Tl:dr
Sex is more enjoyable with fewer, but loving partners rather than many, but unloving partners.

I have recently discovered how good looking I am (or more like gained confidence after lifting for 2 years). This has been my typical weekend for the past couple of months
>friday (or saturday night)
>clubbing at 11 pm
>always get the pooch way before daylight
>fuck til it's bright outside
>don't give out my contact info/real name
>I can barely even remember their name

Now my goal is to get the full course of poontang.
So far: While(US), Korean, Brazilian, Filipina
I passed on an Indian because I don't know. I might have a chance at a Japanese this weekend because my Japanese friend's date wants a double date so he told me about it and well being the manslut I said sure.

I still live a very normie life with normie friends who I do normie shit together outside of letting myself go during weekends, none of them know about me being a fucking whore though because they're under the impression that I'm a really great guy husband material.

Is the (weekends only)Zyzz life the good life?

>>41947129
>I passed on an Indian because I don't know.
Oh I think I got it now, pretty sure I was subconsciously thinking about all the poo in loo posts and I just couldn't get myself to go with it.

>>41947162
She could have been your DESIGNATED driver if you go too wasted.

>>41946579
Are you me Anon?

A guy can get away with both, unless you're a woman you shouldnt care.

i can only talk for myself.
>Was in a relationship for ~4 1/2 years
>Got together when we were 15
>i thought im gonna marry her
>gf decided to start nopeletsmesuckmoredick.exe and left
>worked out hard the past 1 1/2 years before we broke up and had a decent body
>downloaded tinder and lovoo
>fucked about 20 girls from those pages, couple of friends who were always interested in me and some bitches from clubs

I didn't have sex in ~5/6/7 months.
Sure whenever im horny i would love to have a girl around but jerking off usually does the trick.

I got very cold and i have a lot of hatred for women.
On the one hand because my exgf pulled a lot of shit at the end of our relationship and also kept going after the relationship was already over.
I don't wanna go into details but the post-relationship things were mostly my fault cause i couldn't let go - she took advantage of me anyways.

On the other hand it is because of all the bitches i fucked.
To some of them i wrote nothing else then like 3 or 4 messages where the last one was always if they wanna fuck

Some of those girls looked like nice girls but were complete hoes.
That's just what women are to me nowadays.
Hoes. I know there are exceptions and "my goal" is to find that exception but fucking bitches just for the lulz didn't do it for me over a longer time.

tl;dr - fucking bitches made me a misogynist (at least to some part) and very cold.
I feel like it is a lot harder to see the positive sides of any women i talk to then before i fucked the bitches and was in a somewhat happy relationship

>>41946450
Thought the same, I am not even trying to look for this Shit, I don't like /pol/ because it's mostly browsed by dimwits and permavirgins with too much time on their hands (and callouses from Deathgrip) but I immediately smell the jew whenever I see anything with an agenda
I mean who would have needed to paint that guy fucking the girl as a fucking Afghan refugee? It could have been a white boy, the other faggots white as well, ALL fine by me

>>41944401
this was insightful. what's your age and career, anon?

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>>41947875

>"I want a good pure girl!"
>Fucks around on tinder

>>41946508
>I'm a 25 yo virgin tho lol
kek

>>41947875
Tinder is for fucking, not for real relationships.

>>41948643
>>41948658
every girl uses tinder these days. just download it see it yourself.
yeah, were fucked lads

>>41943122
>Some argue it temporally boosts testosterone
It doesn't. /fit/''s been over this before, especially with the "no fap=incresesd testosterone" meme. When abstinent test peaks, but in amounts so minuscule it might as well never have happened, then long term test tanks. Sperging out about fapping or sex won't increase your testosterone
>others say sex boost testosterone
It does
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=5c392185e96536fa
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are.html
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are_07.html
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse#Health_effects
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Health_effects
>http://www.europeanurology.com/article/S0302-2838(16)00377-8/abstract/ejaculation-frequency-and-risk-of-prostate-cancer-updated-results-with-an-additional-decade-of-follow-up
>http://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20040406/frequent-ejaculation-prostate
>http://urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php
>http://www.frequenturinationinmenexplained.com/ejaculation-and-prostate-cancer/
>http://m.joe.endocrinology-journals.org/content/52/1/51.short
>http://answers.webmd.com/answers/5004889/what-nutrients-do-you-lose-when-ejaculating-or-masterbating-do-you-lose-testerone-
>https://www.healthtap.com/user_questions/1294935-how-long-does-your-body-take-to-replace-the-nutrients-lost-by-masturbation

>>41948707
Tinder has 50 millions users worldwide.
There are 321 millions people in the US alone.

>>41948747
doesnt matter when i can download it and see almost every girl i know within an hour. and i live in a shitty eastern european country

>>41943347
Is this true? Can someone confirm?

>>41948892
It is true
Love is a literally a drug like any other one
The more times you experience it, the weaker the effect is.
Think about your grandparents and great grandparents. They didn't fuck around with random people, they got married young and with their first or second love.

>>41948920
Thise chemicals don't discriminate based on who you're in love with dumbass. Your grandparents got married to the first or second person they loved because the possibility of a better partner (in terms of looks, social status, intelligence, etc) wasn't constantly on their minds. Now, we have all sorts of ways to best "sort" people into finding their best mate (mostly due to the internet and an increase in college attendance) - the playing field is larger than your high school.

Being in love gets boring whether its your first partner or your 50th. At a certain point, you have to acknowledge a long term relationship is a committment to care for each other even when the rush fades.

>>41948610
20, retail. I suppose I'm an old soul.

Anyone else just doesn't feel like trying? I always end up imagining what I'd have to do, all the ways it would change my life routine and just never even try.

I think I'd actually like it if I tried, but it's just laziness or some kind of weird rationalization and I just never try and remain a KV. I'm pretty many of us just let ourselves become cucks through porn and years of inaction. Or maybe we were cucks all along, whatever.

>>41948974
>At a certain point, you have to acknowledge a long term relationship is a committment to care for each other even when the rush fades.

This. Long term relationships are work, which is why the objective quality of a person matters once your dick no longer overloads you with subjectivity.