I suffer from low self esteem
does getting ripped really boost your confidence or is it just a meme?
>>41911785
Do you have the confidence to shower in the gym?
>>41911801
no
but i could force myself to if i wanted
>>41911785
it takes like year or two if do everything right
>>41911801
i don't get this meme... can someone redpill me on it?
>>41911785
It can do. I'd advise getting lean and then building muscle rather than remaining chubby (if you are) and then getting lean later. That way you'll actually see and appreciate results as they come.
It's all a bit tricky really. You can get ripped and feel great or, if you're truly fundamentally low self-esteem, you'll just wish you were more ripped and be just about as miserable.
>>41911785
it helps a bit
but speaking from personal experience I can tell you that while your own confidence and body image will improve slightly, the main effect is that you start noticing how fucking small and out of shape everybody else is
I would advise taking up lifting regardless. its actually quite a fun hobby, and a very good way to unwind after a long day
>>41911785
it does after you've been lifting for a few months
but the confidence boost only lasts for a few months too, after a couple of years you'll be just as depressed as ever
It helps a bit.
>>41911785
yes when you look better, you feel better about yourself, and thus more sure of yourself
If you were an autistic piece of shit before, you'll still be one afterwards.
t. former lardass-then-skeleton-then-meathead
>>41911980
lifting isn't a hobby
is brushing your teeth a hobby
is showering a hobby
>no
its taking care of your body
>>41911801
no one wants to fuck you in the gym shower
>>41911785
It helps