/fit/... what does it mean if I'm not gay but I look at

>>41515261
it means you're gay

>>41515290
but gay porn can't make me hard

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>>41515261
Troll post or not, I feel the same way. I even blush when I'm around certain men. Yet, I'm not gay at all. I've never felt close to the women I meet so it would be an advantage if I found out I was gay.

Am I an entirely different level of homo repression or what? Gay porn does nothing for me.

>>41515290
/thread

>>41515261
>>41515323
It means you're submissive if anything

>>41515261
hahaa faggot

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>>41515369
REEEE, that is true. I hate this about myself.

>>41515261
I can look at a guy and admit he is attractive, or want to look like him etc. But
>I just get the same feeling I get when i look at a really cute girl
>Ive never thought I was gay

Time to reevaluate fag.

Being attracted to someone doesn't necessarily mean you want to have sex with them. The same way you can recognize that a puppy or child is cute, you can also recognize that a man is good-looking or pleasing to look at without actually wanting to fuck.

It's a very primative mind that can't distinguish the two.

Whatever you are it's OOkay. Stop worrying about it

>>41515261

It means you're kinda gay. Not total gay, hard gay, or even full gay, just kinda background hum you're probably jerking it every now and again to some kind of drawn gay porn involving hyper stylized body types kinda gay. Relax and enjoy secure in the knowledge that if you're kinda gay you're mostly straight.

>>41515261
Attraction isn't black and white, people can be different levels of bisexual, mostly gay, mostly straight, gay, and straight.

I'm attracted to guys and girls, I've had girlfriends and boyfriends in the past. Technically I'm bi, but I don't care if people label me gay.

>>41515261
I was the same way honestly.

I honestly had never really thought about being with a guy. But I'd see a good looking guy and know "wow, he's exceptionally good looking". Some of them I'd even react physically to like I would a woman, accelerated heart rate, blood rushing to my face.

It wasnt until I was 28 and a guy came up to me at the bar and asked me if I wanted to dance.

Id had guys hit on me before plenty, always politely turned them down
>"thanks man, but I don't swing that way"
>"oh im sorry!"
>"its all good, good luck"
But this guy was just so.. bubbly, had the biggest doofiest grin on his face dancing in front of me, that when my friends pushed me into him as a joke I just went with it.

Anyways. Four years later and hear I am getting smacked in the shoulder in bed at midnight for saying he had a doofy smile.

I honestly didnt expect it. It was a bit unnerving at first trying to figure out why I had this insatiable desire to call the number he put in my phone and why I couldn't find a reason to delete it. I struggled with actually pressing the call button before pacing back and forth down the hall trying to figure out what I was going to say. And the butterflies in my stomach when I saw him come into the coffee shop we agreed to hang out at really confused me.

>dating for a few months
>text my old man to come out and help me do a front end rebuild on bf's Jimmy
>under the Jimmy pulling shit off
>dad pulls up and says hi, introduces himself
>getting stuff done
>old man says "so how do you know Anon?"
>"oh, we're dating"
>fuuuuuuuuuuuck.webm
>feel dads foot slam on the creeper
>pulls me out from under the car
>"son" he says looking down at me
>"dad"
>boyfriend goes ghost white "oh shi..."
>"since when"
>"I dunno, he snuck up on me"
>"you mean like SURPRISE! BUTTSECKS!!!"
>chuckle "yeah kinda"
>"you happy?"
>"yep"
>kicks me back under the car "then back to work on that pitman"
>betterthanexpected.jpg

>>41516039
This story is gayer than brokeback mountain

>>41516080
Except those fags fucked each other. We don't fuck. Just blowjobs and hand jobs.

I wouldn't mind it. But he's not into it, so meh.

>>41515261
completely normal

you're asserting your competition

>>41515261
I've noticed that's the kind of thing that happens to a lot of people after browsing /fit/ for an extended period of time

>>41516039
actually really cute story

good job anon, as long as you're happy that's all that counts

and yeah, try to stay away from sodomy if you can, shit's not healthy

>>41515261
>What does this mean?
shoulda done SS faggot

>>41516102
>Just blowjobs and hand jobs.

What a completely boring relationship. I feel sorry for both of you.

>have a gay coworker
>hes into fitness
>end up being gym bros
>start spending a lot of time around each other outside of work and gym
>develop feelings for him
>oh fuck ive never done this before
>man up one day and ask him out
>"sorry anon but i think we should stay friends"
>heart shatters into a million pieces
>hold back a tear "o-okay"
this was a few weeks ago.
we still see each other at work and pretend like it never happened
we dont go to the gym anymore
i dont know why but it shook me up a lot. i have been going to the gym at night since I know he wont be there at that time.
my lifts have been going to shit because im just to depressed to eat.
i thought i could have a best friend to love.

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> Taking this long to figure out you're bi

Welcome to the best of both worlds my dudes

>>41515290
FPBP

Sorry you had to find out like this OP.

>>41515261
All you gotta do is say "nohomo sapien" when you see a guy and thatll ward off the evil gay spells

what a bunch of faggots.

>traps and tgirls, if they are cute/hot body
hard af
>regular men
0 sexual attraction

and thats why I know Im not gay.

>>41516210
Dont worry anon, it'll take time but maybe you guys can become friends again. What matters is that you continue forward living your life like you just did. Its better to have tried than to regret not having even tried in the future

I remember when I found out I was bisexual, OP

There's not even a reason to act on those feelings, so really who cares? You can avoid ever telling any close family or friends about it, and still live a full and happy life.

Just don't fall for the meme of "male bisexuality doesn't exist", or you'll be forever questioning if being attracted to men means you're "full gay". Not that there's anything wrong with that, either.

>>41515261
I have the opposite problem, I fap to gay porn regularly but never feel attraction irl

>>41516039
That's cute. No homo of course. Im happy for you!

>>41516974
I'm the same. I feel aroused by women IRL and not men at all but I prefer trap porn and some feminine gay porn over straight porn.

>>41515261
How do I stop being gay?

>>41515261
Maybe you're just a little homoromantic? If you had sexual feelings about men you'd be very aware, doesnt sound like that's the case.

>>41515261
>>41519238
I fell for this girl who claimed to be exclusively homoromantic and exclusively heterosexual.
>tfw she used me as an emotional tampon whilst hooking up with men
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>>41516207
>completely boring
Ah yes, because anal sex is the deciding factor on whether or not a relationship is boring.

I dunno, im pretty happy with the two blowjobs a day, every day. And more if I want em.

>>41515323
>>41515261
Homosex
Both of you

>>41515261
>have legit never been attracted to a dude IRL
>penises gross me out when I see them
>the thought of making out with a dude and feeling his stubble is gross
>am very competitive and dominant
>still want to suck dicks and be a bottom

what did I mean by this?

>>41516210
Here's the thing you should keep in mind.

Your gay coworker has gone through this before. He's gone out on the limb and put himself out there for a guy he was crushing on and got rejected because he was crushing on a straight dude.

Us guys aren't as tough as we make ourselves out to be and the emotions run high when we're putting ourselves out there.

Take some time to cool off, shake off the rejection, and remember that he is your friend.

Right now he's giving you the space you need to deal with getting your feelings straightened out. And when you're ready just start going to the gym again at the same time.

A true friend in this world is a much better thing to have than a bf or gf.

Best part is, once you guys find your place again, if you want to pursue your faggotness then he can help be your guide you disgusting knob gobbler.

>>41515261

Mate the thought of sucking, deep throating and just having a nice big throbbing dick in and around my mouth is such a nice thought.

But I don't find men attractive at all. Like if I was sucking the dick and looked up to see a man attached to it, I'd be grossed out.

Does that make me gay?

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>>41515261
NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

>>41520567
kill yourself

>>41515405
Can't change your social dominance orientation faggot. I'm a literal faggot and I've been bullying pussy ass straight boys like you into sucking my dick since middle school.

>>41515323
>>41515306

I've never watched gay porn.

Because I'm straight.
You're all faggots.

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>>41520620
IF YOU FUCK OFF TO R9K

>>41520654
kek

>>41520665
we've been plagued with a lot of /r9k/ /lgbt/ and /pol/ shit lately.

>>41520564
Ever hear of shemales? Might just be for you

>>41520665
you post this same fucking autistic image all the god damn time. Seriously consider killing yourself.

You're all bunch of beta faggots
and no, you're probably not gay, but you will never command the attention of a room

>>41520689
Why aren't mods doing shit about it? Really close to leaving forever, fit was the last board I enjoyed

>>41520704
Nope, please fuck off to whatever containment board you came from you utter homo

>>41520722
Summer is starting, so college students and high school seniors are starting to finish their shit up and ruin boards by having more time. Given that the election threw a giant spotlight on imageboards as a whole, this summer will be worst ever.

>>41520794
Sad but true.

Used to think summer was a meme, Its not.

>>41520794
>summer is starting
no fuck off. /fit/ jas been going to shit for over a year now.

janitors are finally awake.
fucking lazy pieces of shit.

>>41518754
You don't. Being gay is the best.

>>41522415
>all new migrants want to murder me
>being gay is the best

>trump is protecting gays from that

>>41516039
28 is pretty late to realize that you're gay

did it really never occur to you until then?

>>41516234
now OP can troll /lgbt/

>>41522502
That's why you cultivate Nazism. Gets rid of a the niggers and makes the straight boys prettier.

>get on bus
>see cute guy
>stare at him the whole way
tbf I can't remember last time I saw an attractive woman, I live in a shithole

>>41516102
what, you don't buttsex? that's not even gay. even I would date a guy if it was like that

>>41515261
Nigga you gay

>>41520567
I wasn't like this before I found /fit/. Who knows if its causal but still

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>>41515261
OP again. Weird part is it's not like super handsome guys. Just good-looking but still just "cute" guys. Such as Rob McElhenney or pic realated

The idea of assfucking, and getting fucked in the ass, repulses me though. It just doesn't seem like male butts were meant to be fucked.

Sometimes when I go on omegle (looking for girls) I'll see cocks of course, and some of them.... well I stay looking at. But getting blown by a dude also repulses me, as does blowing a dude.

So if i'm attracted to guys... but not to gay sex... wtf am I?

>>41515261
thats some gay shit

>>41523307
Either a closet queer or just a guy who can admit when men are attractive.

No one here can tell you what you are, bro. That is for you to figure out on your own.

>>41520452
Not that anon. A tight ass feels 100x better than a bj. The best BJ i've ever gotten doesn't even come close to the pleasure from the best ass I've fucked. If you care about each other and want to try it, take baby steps.

>>41523307
You're an idiot who can't differentiate your aesthetic senses from your sexual urges.