I've always preferred sexual submission rather than domination. I want to prefer dominating instead. I know it's what women prefer, and being sexually submissive hinders my game with women. I won;t approach because I think she would rather have a guy who domination comes to naturally, whereas I would have to force it.
I have had one serious relationship, we had a kid together and she ended up cheating on me. This was 3 years ago, I still see my son, and so have to see her every 2 weeks, so it's hard to just shun her from my mind.
I am not ugly or short or anything, so I don't have these factors adding to my weak mentality. TRP is all about game and frame at the end of the day, guys with the most confidence and self respect do better than the good looking but shy ish guys.
I can form battle plans for almost every other problem in life. No job? Look for one and go to college to build a better resume. Want to look better? Hit the gym, eat right, and groom.
But my innder game is wrecked by a desire to submit and be dominated sexually, rather than be the one doing the dominating. On nights out, I restrict my body language so I don't attract unwanted attention by guys looking for fights.
I'm at my wits end here boys, relapsing and wanking to my ex after 3 months since the last time I did it, has got me close to breaking point.
Please, someone, help.
Fitness related: Will seated barbell OHP make me grow faster than standing OHP?
Just find a femdom online. Problem solved.
Get back with your ex, you were born to be a cuck.
>>41425316
That will exacerbate m,y issue, not help it.
>>41425351
Thanks brah.
>>41425207
You need to relax, man
>>41425207
You have felt intense loneliness in your life, haven't you?
>>41425207
You can't force being a dom, just become ok with being a cuck
>>41425207
Stop jacking off entirely. You'll develop a more sexually aggressive demeanor when interacting with potential fuckpartners
>>41425586
Not intense, I've got some solid friends, a great family, and a son who I adore. I just can;t get my sex life together.
>>41425207
I'm a sub but I get dom af when I get drunk off scotch or bourbon, maybe try that. Other than that just be yourself brah. There's someone out there for everyone.
>>41425723
I'd like to believe that, but you can;t disagree that women, at least 95% of them, want a domineering male who takes control, not vie versa
Don't watch porn
If that doesn't work, don't fap
If that doesn't work, you're probably a true sub. embrace it
>>41425821
So you gotta find one in that 5%, or just find another guy
>>41425835
I went 21 days without fapping before, and relapsed hard after a stressful day at work. Any tips on how to go longer, and are you talking from experience?
>become /fit/
>gf wants me to be her bull now instead of her cuck
I DIDN'T ASK FOR THIS
>>41426109
Good problems to have.
>>41426137
Speak for yourself
>>41425207
Start working with a heavy sandbag. I'm a weak faggot so I only use 100 lbs. It's very different from weights. Even though you can probably do 100 lbs in any other lift easily, there's something about moving a big ass bag that is much harder.
I only do it for a few reasons:
>it's hard
>improving and perfecting standing sex
>GPP
It's starting to get light enough that I can pick it up without struggling too much but I'm breathing heavier after picking it up about 5 times. I feel the confidence rising daily. If I can easily toss around this bag, I can dominate most people, except for giants and hamplanets.
The thing I'm getting at here is to find an outlet to practice dominance. The easiest is physical dominance since that is what we men excell at. You can do that alone and measure it yourself. Other types of dominance require other people to dominate and can be trickier to practice.
>>41426225
An interesting approach, albeit an odd one.
>>41426190
if serious, you're mentally ill
>>41425207
Ask your ex if she wants to start a new relationship with you. But this time, not as your wife, but as your owner, who is allowed to go out and sleep with other people. Even have meaningful relationship with people. Just in exchange for being allowed to service her and be close to her.
Who cares what /fit or /pol/ or 4chan or the internet, or the word thinks. You know this is what would make you happy, and that is all that counts.
>>41426378
I'd say give it a shot. I know I'm getting stronger, which is cool, but the bag is just a tool to work my mind. As it gets easier, I'm conditioning my mind to accept the strength I'm building and that I can actually use it in the real world.
This works for me because it's getting the results I want. But you'll have to figure out your exact goal and find the tool or method to get your mind to accept that goal. We can all be strong as fuck but still back down when a girl that's a foot shorter smacks your head. The real strength is in your mind and controlling your body to do what your mind wants.
>>41426409
as an incentive tell her you'll take her shopping and stuff
>>41425316
>>41425351
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>>41426409
i have nothing more to add to this discussion.
>>41425207
I'm naturally dominant in bed. I've never had any girl be very dominant or aggressive in bed at all. Nothing turns me on more than the thought of being submissive for a petite girl.
>>41425207
You could always become an alpha cuck. Basically regular cuck except you don't act beta outside of the bedroom and you don't go full sissy or anything.