How do I talk to girls at the gym, /fit/? Most of them have boyfriends

>>41313476
You don't. Maybe if you went to the gym and fucking lifted you'd know bitches will throw themselves at you.

Ask a qt if she needs a spot

>>41313502
t. Chad

>>41313579
Don't do this. It's condescending. You wouldn't ask a dude if he needs a spot would you?

Rule 1: if they have headphones in, just don't even try unless you're Chad

Rule 2: just say hi and start some casual conversation. Don't do something like correct their form that's annoying

You don't need to sweep them off their feet with the first conversation. You'll see them at the gym again eventually and you can just make small talk until you feel comfortable asking them out. Worst case scenario, they tell you they aren't single and you just laugh it off with them and move on.

>>41313476
Smile and ask how many sets they have left, or if they've seen a certain dumbbell or something. Then check out how they react.

The gym must be one of the most difficult places to approach someone.

>hoping that cute guy with the blue eyes is in the gym tomorrow
i'm probably never gonna see him again why do i even hope

>>41313476
If you're under 6'2" don't even bother. The resident megachads at your gym are already smashing the pussy you're just now attempting to start a conversation with.

>>41313783
Of course I would. The whole reason I go to the gym is to find out if anyone needs a spot.

there's a group of 3 ladies at my gym who wear skirts with regular cotton underwear underneath.

>>41313783
M-maybe...

>>41313783
Guys suprisingly do it a lot. Anytime I bench close to 3 pl8 I get asked by old dudes. Sometimes younger guys too.


Anyone have any ideas for girls who just do cardio? There is a cutey that some days just runs on the treadmill then dips. How do you approach her seems rude to mid her walking to get on the next treadmill and talk. Do you try and catch her as she leaves? That also seems wierd "excuse me i know youre trying gtfo but lemme get dem digits"

>>41313502
The problem is women actually steal your gains especially if you sleep with them. Every time I wind up in bed with a girl, I wind up sleeping later, waking later, and missing my morning workout. On top of that, going out with a girl means eating unhealthy restaurant food which makes me fall off my maximum gains minimum estrogen diet.

Is there a way to only attract girls who won't hurt my gains?

>>41313892
>>41313903
Naw fuck that shit I never ask someone if they need one but I'll always do it if they ask me. I assume people know their limits and to insinuate to them they do not even if they don't is insulting. Don't ask me if I need a spot.

>>41313956
yeah naw, HAYULL naw nucka HAYULL naw son

>>41313921
>eating unhealthy restaurant food
Why would you even consider dating woman who doesn't know how to cook? She's an adult if she can't feed herself without buying pre cooked food or going to restauratns she's not gf material.

>>41313783
If i'd be doind some heavy shit i'd like to have somebody making sure that i won't die.

>>41314026
your head is full of doinds.

>Strike up convo with gym Chad over text
>say gn after lull in conversation
>he doesn't text me the next day
Why are gymbros like this

>>41313476
>implying they wouldn't cheat
sonny...

>>41314026

Then you ask someone to spot you. You don't go up to someone assuming he needs a spot.


As a general rule people appreciate it much more when you ask them to help you, than when you offer to help them.

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>>41313476

Best advice is look for someone who has a similar schedule as you. Classes like boxing or swimming may be a good idea too (women that swim regularly can have bangin bodies). Strike up a conversation about casual shit then try to feel her out from there. If she has a boyfriend still be cordial, obviously pull back. It'd be worth staying friends because SHE has friends and probably knows other women at the gym. Good luck anon

>>41313825
i knew you existed

>>41314201
>he doesn't text me the next day
men don't mindlessly text for no reason. are you expecting him to text you every day?

>>41314011
>know how to cook
>therefore must take near-stranger to my home and cook for him to prove my worth

>>41314306
>t.never had a gf
You retard that's not how it works, im not saying it in that way that she has to fucking "prove" herself when you meet her, how stupid you have to be to read it in that way, are you nigger or something?

No joke, I've saved two girls from snapping their shit up and got pussy from one of them.

One was on the seated barbell shoulder press and when she tried racking it above her instead of below her she only got it on one pin so I jumped from my bench and helped her. Got into a long conversation after and she seemed really interested and we fucked a few days later.

Then the other girl was failing a squat without safety bars so I just helped her get it up. She had a pencil neck boyfriend tho who was busy doing 35 preacher barbell curls. She had a thick ass too. Oh well life goes on.

>>41314201
You are boring and not attractive enough you would have to work to get him

>>41313956
>benching the other day
>guy offers to spot me if I wanna try lifting more

I guess he thought I looked stronger than I actually am. I'll take that as a compliment.

>>41314330
>be a nigger
>read as best as i can
>feel bad

>>41314348
I've embarrassed myself and had near-death gym situations countless times. I once fell while squatting because some teenager was fucking around near the squat rack, and everyone in the gym just looked at me for 1 second and did nothing. Fuck's sake where's my rescuing Chad

>>41313820
This, there's a group of about 4-5 different dudes at my gym (2 are even manlets) that talk to every single good looking girl that's a regular.

>>41314201
Men are trained not to text expediently or excessively in order to not appear thirsty or desperate.

This all your people's fault.

>>41314382
In gyms in Eastern Europe you're on your own. We don't show our feelings in public and any display of them will be frowned upon. You could get stabbed in the middle of the day and people would just kick your body becasue it would obstruct side walk.

>>41314295
As a sign of reciprocated interest, yes

>>41314431
God damn. I'm Eastern European but I moved away when I was a kid. Gotta lol every time I visit because the culture is so cold.

>>41314441
Everyday is a bit too much imo, you're gonna lose interest fast.

>>41314425
Men who text excessively aren't a problem.

It's ugly men who refuse to take a hint are.

Basically texting is a means to gauge interest. An attractive man who texts (i.e is interested) is good. An unattractive man we already know is interested but don't care who texts is just annoying, because we keep having to find polite ways to shut them up

>>41314487

>An attractive man who texts (i.e is interested) is good
>An unattractive man is just annoying

And for most guys (ie. not 10/10 super chads), we have no clue what category we fall into because women are rarely upfront/honest enough to just tell guys off.
>This all your people's fault.

>>41314529
>And for most guys (ie. not 10/10 super chads), we have no clue what category we fall into because women are rarely upfront/honest enough to just tell guys off.
>>This all your people's fault.


>any of this matters when texting gym bros

>>41314467

> Everyday is a bit too much imo, you're gonna lose interest fast.

Not if you like someone, lmao.

>>41313921
>minimal estrogen diet
Can you please expand upon this, anon? I've been meaning to research this very thing

>>41314487
You are right


Are you a girl?

If you are then you should post more often with advices like this

>>41314561
I dunno. This guy and I texted every day and it got really stale really fast. Maybe we just weren't compatible personality-wise.

What I would give to find someone who I could text daily and never get bored, send memes and shit to each other

>>41314646
>the opposite sex is for friendship
sexual dimorphism affects more than tits and dicks.

>>41314529
Dude honestly, you're kind of just acting like a bitch now

If they're looking at you and smiling just say hello and smile back. If not don't bother trying.

>>41314658
I'll never understand this board.

>WOMEN ARE ONLY HOLES NEVER BE THEIR FRIENDS EWWW ROASTIES
>b-but wait I just want an innocent qt to hold my hand and wife up

>>41314382
Well are you a girl?

>>41314718
>tfw no innocent gf to hols hands with and make her my wife and raise kids

just

>>41314768
Yeah.

Not that I expected anyone to help but I found it weird how it was just awkward staring lmao

Off topic
>Select all squares with vehicles
>Whole screen has vehicles
>And the next
>And the next
REEE

>>41313476
don't lol

>>41314718
>/fit/ is two people

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Don't bother.
Women only go to the gym with their man or with their dike-man.

>>41314834
legacy captcha girl

Theres this one very young girl (underage im pretty sure) doing RDLs, she does some mistakes (hyper extending at top, going little bit too deep down) I kinda wanted to help her with that but i figured it would appear pretty awkward. So i decided not to, just trying to give good example. I see girls and guys doing dumb shit all the time.

But i happened to take bar off guy that was pinned on bench like twice now.
Kind of stupid that no one reacted to help you tho

>>41314929
lol look at this wannabe patriarch trying to correct women's behavior at every turn. way to perpetuate rape culture, shitlord.

>>41314863
>t. beta manlet that got rejected by his gym crush

>>41314929
I probably mess up on RDLs too t.b.h, I have hyperextended (I think that's the name) joints so I can go way too deep on exercises when I shouldn't as it just doesn't hurt. Lots of girls have that. You could help her, but sometimes you just get a bitch face in return. It's probably best to leave it unless it looks like it'll lead to injury.

>Kind of stupid that no one reacted to help you tho
Yeah, people at my gym will offer me tips while giving me bert stares and going "yeeess..." (that happened twice) but if I completely fall over and look like I'm dying they just stare kek

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>>41313476
>tfw doing some leg work on gym
>tfw cardio bunny with the thiccest ass possible comes
>she goes on the treadmil that's in front of me
>tfw all that ass wiggle
I was only going to run as a warm up for 10 minutes but ended up running for like an hour, i was staring at her ass the entire time.

>>41315025
being "double jointed" and hyperextending at top of the pull is not the same thing

The goal in deadlift is to lockout the hips, not to pull your torso back over the hips. So once you stand upright and kock your hips forward you dont want to further lean back, because movement there is only in lower back, not hips. And if you have good hamstring mobility and can go low on rdls then more power you, but most people will reach a point where their hams cant stretch any further, but their lower backs will try to compensate to get that bar lower which is obviously very risky for spine.

I wont tell people shit until they specifically ask for it. Or if i see they are in direct danger like this guy that stood in front of me doing kettle swings when i was practicing oly lifts.

Sometimes i see girls observing me, and giggling, but i usually have resting bitch face when i recover from heavy sets, and earbuds. Gym is a training place desu and should stay that way.

t. 24 kissless virgin

>>41315155
Thanks for the explanation anon. Because I'm so flexible i usually have no clue if I'm harming myself going so low.

>Or if i see they are in direct danger like this guy that stood in front of me doing kettle swings when i was practicing oly lifts.
Lel, for about a year there was this older guy in my gym who had the worst possible form in humanity. He would fuking swing his dumbbells around in the most hilarious, back-breaking way. No one dared near him.

>but i usually have resting bitch face when i recover from heavy sets, and earbuds.
same. maybe that's why chads don't approach me :/

>have to go through 8 capchas
seriously what the fuck

>>41314253
>It'd be worth staying friends because SHE has friends and probably knows other women at the gym

So many dudes don't understand this.

>>41314253
how do you find out if she has a boyfriend though?

if she outright says "i have a boyfriend" how am i supposed to react?

>>41315630
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqDbb7-dn9A

Personally I don't shit where I eat. Use the gym to lift. Use the coffee shop or bar or whatever to talk to girls.

>>41314201
probably texting other bitches desu

If you're working out you either have a goal to accomplish and you won't bother or you will be comfortable in your own skin to relax and be yourself. Don't try to break up people in relationships. In the gym there are only appearances and fantasies. I suggest picking your future mate from somewhere you actually get to see who they are by how they react in different situations, what they do, the choices they make, etc. not because of their yoga pants.

>>41315630
"Oh ok"

"Bye"

>>41315630

"Me too."

going gym for girls is for faggots. You got so you can feel like a human penis. Have enough blood flow in your lower upper back, quads, basically whole body. Enlightenment is only achieved when you are one with your penis in body and spiritually.

>>41315050
I've done this too bro. All treadmills should have a built in qt for extra motivation.

If YOU have to talk to girls you obviously aren't attractive enough for them . Sorry but any tall handsome attractive man will have women starting a conversation to them or making it very easy to start one.

>>41316178
Average guys hit on girls and get them

>doing lat pulldowns on the cable machine
>chick gets on the assisted pullup machine
>starts talking to me about DBZ
>two days later, go to the gym, and her friend gives me her number
>invite her to ultimate frisbee
>she accepts
>we can't find each other at the park
>she leaves after waiting for 30 minutes
>she says it's understandable cause the park was flooded with people
>I ask her if she wants to go to the gym today
>we're going to the gym at 1

What do? I only really know how to talk about fitness and anime.

>>41316427
ask her if she can go get brunch or something after your workout then talk to her and find out her interests and morals and decide whether or not she is a person you might want in your life.

>>41316453
But I just want friends, anon. Do friends eat together?

>>41316469
>But I just want friends, anon. Do friends eat together?

ok

and

yes


none of what I said means tell her "ayoooooo gurl put dat shithole on mah dik cuz u got dat ass lik stolen food frum kroger"

>>41315630
What if I know for a fact she has a boyfriend, but she never mentions him while with me?

What do?

>>41316627
if she is interested in you
she's probably a monkeybar slut and wants to fuck you for a while before she leaves her boyfriend
which she will again do to you when she decides someone else is better than you.

>>41315324
my sister always says this, but ive always wondered how do you get to the point being friends with a girl that she will start helping you get other women?

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>>41314201
>tfw the gym Chad is your lifting mentor

benched my first lmao2pl8 for reps with him

>>41318005
>my sister always says this, but ive always wondered how do you get to the point being friends with a girl that she will start helping you get other women?

You don't. Best case is that she sets you up with her hopeless landwhale friend who's "soooooooooooooo nice and pretty and smart!"

If she thought you were attractive, she'd try to get you for herself instead of letting one of her friends have you.

>>41315050
>>41316041
The greatest motivation of all: thirst.

>>41318005
She's not going to set you up with somebody that is hotter than her, at best she'll set you up with somebody who's equal to her in her eyes. Usually you just get set up with ugly friends though.

>>41318284
>>41318121
>Usually you just get set up with ugly friends

What if they're really just setting you up with who they think you deserve?

>>41318326
Lmao, do you know what she'll think you deserve?
Some ugly less hotter friend than her that has "great personality and is cute".

>>41318326
They're just trying to get their ugly friend a hot chad because that's the only way she'd get to meet one.

>>41318005

It's less that she'll set you up and more that everybody in her circle will know you as "that weak bitch who stopped talking to me after I didn't fuck him"

My girlfriend deals with this all the time (and her single friends are pretty cute, for the record).

>excuse me

This one girl always approaches me and talks about stupid shit.
I'm really bad at introducing myself to people so everyone I've ever spoken to in the gym I've never told them my name or asked for theirs.
Why does this girl keep talking to me?
I creeped her facebook and she has a dyel shitskin bf. what do?

>>41318354
Do you find it funny that she thinks so lowly of you?

>>41318400
She digs you + wants you to fuck her. Do it and call her bf that she's a whore.

>>41318494
I'm a virgin autist though.
LIFTING CANT CURE AUTISM

>>41318533
Lift harder untill you'll come to a point when if girl talks you to you next thing you know she's in bed with you.

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>>41318548
Girls literally throw themselves at me.
But I can't bring myself to cheat on my waifu.
>pic related

>>41313476
>talk to girls at the gym

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yzjj5SwI48Q

This is the only actually good video I've seen on the subject

>>41316427
talk about fitness and anime.
If it's a hit, you've scored.
If it's not a hit, who gives a fuck.

Strangers talk to other strangers at the gym while they're lifting?? You guys must be full DYEL

>>41316427
>>two days later, go to the gym, and her friend gives me her number
>>invite her to ultimate frisbee
>>she accepts
>>we can't find each other at the park
>>she leaves after waiting for 30 minutes
Why the hell didn't you just call her?

>>41318584
His whole premise rests on the idea that you become the "social guy" at the gym. For well over the half the population male or female no one wants or could become that person for so many reasons.

The only good bit of advice was the fearless approach he mentions earlier on. I'd argue mixing it up with a bit of friendliness too so as help put yourself in the mindset of approaching the girl as, 'just another person', for the initial rapport. After that, you then measure how to move in a flirting kind of way.

>>41318400
Bang her bro

>>41318376
so if i theoretically befriended a girl and she tells me that she has a boyfriend i should not stop talking to her?

>>41314213
>implying i wouldnt too

>>41313476
You wait until you bump into them and it happens organically. Mutual friends, using the same machine, you notice they're doing a lift you don't know that they can teach you, etc...

People go to the gym to.... work out. Keep it relevant and branch out. You can only move so many standard deviations from the broad topic of "working out" so quickly...

Before flirting politely inform them that you have autism and define the condition as well as symptoms, so they don't get the wrong idea.

>>41314884
yea, you and me

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>>41319347

If you are talking to her to fuck and chuck: yes

If you are talking to her because the two of you actually get along: no, unless you're the autistic type who has to have THIS GIRL, RIGHT NOW instead of gracefully moving on.

My sample size of "dudes at the gym who have tried to get with my gf" is only 7, but here's the breakdown:

>3 were cringy redpill types who were very quickly ostracized and I rarely see around anymore
>2 are friends with us now, 1 of them is dating gf's friend the other just goes through women like water
>1 seemed to take the rejection hard and disappeared, I hope he just swapped gyms and isn't in a hole losing gains somewhere
>1 was bi and tried to get with me without knowing I was the bf lol

>>41313783
Alternatively, you could ask her to spot you.

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>>41313817
H-Hello, have you seen my dumbbells?

>>41318567
Maki a shit. A SHIT!

>>41316427
Set up a meeting spot at the park you fucking mong. Meet at a landmark.

>>41318005
Post pics o your sister plz.

As a girl, please don't try to slip in in the middle of our workouts to strike up conversation. Having to stop working out or doing our sets just to make small talk is more annoying than flattering.

But here is some advice: if you see a girl on her way into the gym or leaving the gym and you're in a convenient spot to talk, that's usually a good time to strike up convo. It's better if they're leaving cause that means they're done exercising and they're feeling pretty good about it and whatnot. Instead of saying you noticed her from across the gym you can always start a conversation by asking what her routine is like, or if she does a sport, you know broad general stuff about fitness that she wouldn't mind answering. Sometimes, if the girl looks like a serious health nut you can always ask about nutrition tips and whatnot. And if she does do a sport, you can ask about it and if it's co-ed and she extends the invite for you to come on down, fucking do it.

tldr; Have a normal conversation with her when she's NOT working out, it'll be more comfortable for both of you and gives you more room to actually see if she'd be interested in you.

>>41321534
what is this
why is this here

>>41321554

>how do i talk to girls a gym
>girl comes in to give advice about talking to girls at gym
>what is this

I know most of you fags unironically believe women don't browse 4chan, but autism really does not discriminate.

>>41321578
you can be here all you want, who cares?
but why are you trying to legitimately answer the question?
what kind of faggot shit is that?

>>41321620

>implying i am the grill

/fit/ is half shitposts and half advice

>>41319115
Bad cell reception.

>>41321643
At a park? Nigger, ditch the T-Mobile and step up to a real carrier.

>>41313476
The secret is to have conversations with females without the goal being sex
Talk to them the same way you would talk to your friends

>>41321882
So you mean treat them like... normal human beings? With like, rational thoughts and feelings? Nah, I'd rather bitch about being single on a Mongolian basket-weaving forum

Focus on your workout, meet women somewhere else.

>>41321882
>Talk to them the same way you would talk to your friends

When do you get to the part about tongue punching her fart box?

>>41321534
>women
>trying to articulate what women want
>implying women know what they want

never gets old tbhfamalam

>>41321882
this but flirt sometimes.

>>41322802
Fit chicks are manlets with muffs.

>>41314201
you're a dude right..

>>41314487
Reeeeeeeee

>>41322850
Yes

>>41314834
You must be ugly then.
> why does eery girl in the gym think she's more attractive than they actually are cause they went to the gym one time last week

>>41321708
am i watching cable tv right now

nigger are you going to be there to meet my needs 24/7

>>41313881
shimapan?

>>41321882

No you idiot, you talk to them like you would talk to a girl you are trying to have sex with.

>>41313502
>be me
>22 yo kv
>221 lb at 6' 1"
>decide that's enough
>diet, lift for 1 month
>now 209
>not even close to making it
>girl asks me on a date

What is this power /fit/? Why have I never done this before?

>>41313476
Let them know straight away that you want to stick your penis into their vagina

>>41314201

By not texting back he is making you think about why that is, which leads to your thoughts drifting towards thinking more about him

>fucking a woman who goes to the same gym as you

are you fucking retarded?

thats like fucking a female co-worker, when it ends (it always ends) you still have to see this person pretty fucking often and things end up getting awkward.

if some bitch got to annoyed having you at the gym afterwards she will make a complaint or some shit with the gym and whose side do you think they're going to take? spoiler alert: they take the womans side 100% of the time

>>41324822
>things end up getting awkward.

boo hoo

>>41314718
And you're a slut asking /fit/ how to get fucked by some random gymbro. Guess which category you fall in?

>>41313476
>get labeled as a creep for trying to get them to cheat

If you are anything on the attractiveness scale from cute to model girls won't call you creepy unless you actively be the creep. Getting girls to cheat is so fucking easy cause they are constantly thinking about themselves which is why you never see a whipped-beta female in a relationship

Girls think like this: I am a protagonist and everyone else are side characters to my life.

All you have to do is pique their interest (ie make up an interesting personality and lifestyle) and treat them nicely, then they'll basically do anything for you. Perhaps reluctantly, but they primarily think of themselves so they'll want to.

Setup some private "training sessions" with her and your dick will get ricked. But once ricked on your dick, she's gonna wanna keep you (she'll start talking about sentimental shit like "oh you make me so happy") and that's when you bail.

If a girl cheats on one guy she'll probably cheat on another which is why you shouldn't get attached to taken girls.

>19-20 yo
>scrawny as fuck and never had a gf
>learn how to lift with some new college friends freshman year
>come back to my summer lifeguarding job
>get complements on my improved physique
>towards end of summer spend half an hour talking with a female guard alone at the top of a slide when no guests were around
>go to DQ with a bunch of guards after work
>in the parking lot she gives me her number
>figure she is out of my league because she's actually good looking so I don't call her back
I guess my mind was still lagging behind my body.

>>41316427
>we can't find each other at the park
>she leaves after waiting for 30 minutes
Why the fuck didn't you just call her?

>>41318584
He is dissing all my moves

>>41326803
I know those feels but a different kind of feels

>grow up with an older sister
>Middle School & High school
>got a part time job as a model for Hollister
>everyone is constantly saying how attractive she is
>"hey anon you should give me her number huehue"
>she's a stuck up bitch
>only thinks of herself
>causes my hard working parents an unnecessary amount of stress and drama
>steals a car from them
>steals money

She's a terrible cunt which probably explains why non-amateur porn is a turn off and I'm only interested in cute down to earth girls.

>inb4 muh taste in women > your taste

I legit couldn't masturbate to a victoria secret ad if I tried. My taste in women is so particular that the only way I can tell if a girl is hot is if I'm disgusted by their presence. They could legit be a nice person but I can't get past the looks portion

how to fix

>>41326930
>She's a terrible cunt which probably explains why non-amateur porn is a turn off
Why would you say this? Did you sister do porn? link pls

>>41326958
Not that i know of but i wouldn't be surprised if something was floatin around. Porn that looks like it was filmed with a shoe and a broke college girl is way more dick hardening than some blonde bimbo filmed with a $5,000 camera and a black cock

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>>41326930

>tfw you also have this irrational dislike of attractive people, even though you yourself are now Chad passing

I usually get over it once I get to know somebody, but if a person is above 8/10 (and have been that way for their entire lives) they are usually so out of touch with how it is to be a normal person that they aren't really worth knowing. Literally every Instagram-type girl I have met has been just so unfuckably stupid/uninteresting. I almost feel like I've been monkey paw'd.

>>41321578
There are no women on the internet.

>>41313817
I will :)

>>41313476
Who the fuck goes to the gym to talk to chicks? Creeps. Thats who.

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>>41327528
What if you only go out in public for work and the gym?

A few years ago me and a few friends decided to walk around campus trying to talk to every girl we saw. All three of us were literally average autismo manlets (before we even lifted). Pretty much every girl was willing to talk and most of the numbers we got were real. You just gotta stop being a pussy

Every time girls talk to me I always assume they're taking to someone else and just ignore them until they tap me on the shoulder or get my attention.
Helps that I have a thousand-yard-stare all the time so it looks like I'm completely zoned out and not just a dickhead.

>>41327604
>You just gotta stop being a pussy
Easier said than done. You've got to love/like yourself before others will.

>>41327823
I hated myself too. I still do. It just got to a point it was eating me alive seeing all of these attractive girls around and not doing Anything about it