ITT: Fit Feels. Ever since I got better looking and started

>>41309478
Have you tried talking to girls instead of hanging around in their field of view hoping to catch them mirin and being satisfied with that as your sole victory?

I think this would help you with your anxiety in the long run.

how often do you get mired by women, op?

I've been lifting since I was 16. Girls used to openly mire and flirt with me. I browsed /fit/ daily, ate greek yogurt oats and chicken a lot. Participated in the fat hate threads and even harassed some of the fat people i knew/generally acted like a douche to dyels.

five years later my doc puts me on heavy antipsychotics that cause me to gain extreme amounts of weight in the past year. Now I'm obese, my facial aesthetics are potato tier, and I sit at home all day when im not lifting or practicing sports by myself.

on the bright side i'm much more content because of the meds. I wish I wasn't such a fag in highschool, but w.e

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You're a selfish ego-maniac.


Not to say that I can't relate to this. I have felt this feel many feels ago.

But you need to get over yourself, friend. You're not the center of the universe. You are, ultimately, nothing.

I've always been desperate for validation because my parents didn't want me but had me anyway

>>41309536
This is the part in your story where the main character faces some shit and has some deep lesson so he can appreciate the happy ending.

What is this part called book fag?

>>41309558
what is there that's nothing?

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>>41309577
my lesson was enjoy the moment and check these dubs bitch

>>41309586

Everything

>>41309489
>Have you tried talking to girls instead of hanging around in their field of view hoping to catch them mirin and being satisfied with that as your sole victory?

Yes, I did.. And I have gotten laid with attractive women I've casually approached before. But still, if no woman around is displaying at least subtle signs of interest in me or somehow trying to get my attention, I feel "not good enough", and that shit destroys me from inside.

>>41309517
Eh, I'd say more often than not when I go to a room or a place with women around, I'll have a few women subtly or not so subtly display interest in me, and I have been told I'm attractive many times before.

I should not be this insecure and desperate for constant validation, but I am.

>>41309588
nigga, fuckin checked

>>41309478
Life's been pretty good for me lately, especially after getting back with my 9/10 ex and just having a lot of awesome things work out. The only problem is that all the exams I've been studying tirelessly for basically kept me out of the gym for more than a month. I ended up losing some weight and generally just feeling weaker both in and out of the gym.
But eh, exam season's coming to a close, I should be good now.

I get you OP, I feel the same way. If I'm anywhere (ie party, workplace, class) I have to get some woman attracted to me, even if I don't or can't act on it.

Some people might think it's bad but that's the only reason I'm not a shut it autist anymore who plays video games 24/7 anymore.

>>41309478
> Finally got a girlfriend
> she's cute, but thicc on the brink of being a little chubby
> we don't have much in common personality wise
> she's a pretty basic bitch kind of girl, but we have fun and we're comfortable together
> I'm flirting with other girls and getting their numbers because I don't really feel anything for this girl
I feel like a douche

>>41309717
Just break up with her, don't be a prick and ruin her trust in men forever.

>>41309536
>heavy antipsychotics that cause me to gain extreme amounts of weight in the past year

uhhh care to explain how this works?

>>41309729
I really don't want to break up with her, not yet at least

Don't get me wrong. I'll NEVER cheat on her though

>>41309717
You should feel douchey but it's natural to keep looking if you're not satisfied.

OP, you need to stop being so butthurt about people not being attracted to you. Everyone has their own preferences, you can't cater to em all even if yr aesthetic AF.

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>seeing girl, been banging her
>she tells me she's talking to other guys, but "me the most"
>tell her its me or them, she doesn't want to stop
>ghost her totally
>calls me today from a different phone number after three weeks
>"anon why did you block my number?.... How have you been?"

So I guess she came back, I have reached new levels or uncucking myself and it worked. meanwhile I had totally forgotten about her and moved onto other chicks.

Still gonna bang her again tho, why not lol

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>>41309717
Eh, have fun with her and then ditch her when you get a better option, it's what she'd do to you if she had the chance. That's not even a bad thing, just how the world works.

>be skeleton
>put on 30lbs of mostly muscle
>get tons of compliments and admiration from normies
>somehow feel even skinnier and less confident in body than before

>>41309796
Your first mistake was getting attached to a girl that clearly doesn't know what she wants or simply doesn't want to settle down with anyone.

When she mentioned she talked to other guys you should have just said "whatever" and kept banging her while looking for better lays to replace her.

>>41309820
well, now you feel the pressure of performance, which you never had before and makes you feel vulnerable

Living in the limelight

>>41309704
OP here.
You basically described me with less words than I did in my original post.

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>>41309796
>Why did you block my number?
>What do you mean I can't suck other dicks?
>Don't you know it's 2017

O-okay, I g-g-guess having sex one more time wont hurt.

>>41309789
>>41309799
I guess I'll keep prowling while fucking her. It's comfy and her pussy is tight as FUCK so that's nice

She's obviously more attached than I am, but I don't think either of us are super attached

>>41309536
quit being a faggot and get back into shape, you know you have it in you.

Girls can smell your validation seeking stench from a mile away. Find ways to be content without external things/reactions. The best I know is meditation.

Classic intermediate. Thinks he has it figured out and focuses on the results. Becomes rigid.

>in public
>alright who's checking me out
>maybe
>nope
>ehhh
>nope
>maybe
>definitely
>haha caught you mirin bitch

Never return the look or go for a number then follow up with alone basement sit downs 7x52

>>41310188
>Girls can smell your validation seeking stench from a mile away.
I don't think they can, i'm VERY GOOD at faking pure confidence, indifference and aloofness.

>>41309704
>tfw i was finally confident enough in myself to go from meeting a girl for the first to making out with her and getting her number in the span of one night

finally reaping the benefits of fitness and it feels so good

>Not doing validation seeking behaviors
>They can't smell my validation seeking

You can fake them, that's fine. Generally more powerful when it integrates with who you are though because you cant micromanage everything

>>41309478
You sound like a narcissist, anon

You need to find something to be proud of besides your vanity. Your brain is an important muscle, make some fitlit gains

>>41310689
Great now he'll become one of those guys trying to prove to everyone how smart he is. Treat the root cause, you're not happy and need others approval to feel better.

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>Met girl on Tinder a year ago
>Hook up
>She's funny, sexy, short, short is my fetish
>End up hanging out and banging 3 times that day
>Head back the next week
>Have a connection with her like I've never had before
>She heads off to uni 200 miles away
>End up forgetting her and getting with my current gf
>Happy with gf
>But still occasionally spoke to tinder girl not sexually just as friends
>Connection and bants never died down
>More time passes
>Haven't spoken in a few months
>Forget her again
>Past 2 nights I've been dreaming of my tinder girl
>Our future together and I wake up happy as fuck

Weird feelings desu

To make it /fit/ related, in my dreams I finally made it and was shredded.

>>41310858
>Tinder girl
>Relationship material

Pick one.

>>41310875

It's why I never asked her out anon.
Only ever banged her and left.

>>41309478
Stop be such a whiney bitch, you sound like a little girl who needs attention all the time.
You disgust me

>>41310892
You did the right thing, stop idealizing her. She's just some random bitch and you'd probably regret having a relationship with her.

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>>41310892
>heavy breathing
fair enough

>>41309536
My doc put me on risperidone and lamictal when i was 24...shit fucked me up for 3 years til i decided fuck it. I was gaining fat like no ones business

I'm not sure if this is so much of a /fit/ feel as it is a manifestation of my where i'm at in life but lately (for like the past year or so) i've been feeling like absolutely nothing is of value and nothing is true. whereas before i was really focused on following my purpose in life and setting some core values and just building myself up and being excited about the world, now i feel absolutely nothing in regards to anything. i know logically what i'm supposed to do if i want to do this and that with my life but there is just no emotion behind it.
and all in all my life is going great, my girlfriend just moved in with me, my job is going great, lifting too and i'm attending all sorts of lectures and seminars to further improve myself. so why this emptiness? anyone dealt with something like this before?

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I decided to get fit like 1 year ago. Now I'm trying constantly to escape the thoughts of my ex gf cheating on me
I'm trying to see friends the more I can, but when I'm home it's so easy to bring myself to tears
I lost half of the weight I hardly gained to appears like a normal man, I can't motivate anymore even when my best friend wants me to go workout with him
Maybe one day it'll go away

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>>41310042
> I-it c-c-can't get worse than last time, r-right?

>>41310858

>ywn marry that girl that got away
>regardless of if she was a tinder slag

>work with girl who is 5/10
>have playful banter with her often
>find out she has cancer and is downplaying it
>get career type position elsewhere (several states away)
>drinking games with coworkers to celebrate
>after party me and 5/10 are sitting together
>she's flirting with me and I'm deflecting because I'm not really interested
>it comes out that her cancer is terminal now
>well fuck.
>I wind up sleeping with her because.... if a terminal cancer patient wants to fuck it's like a moral obligation right?
Why do I deal with emotionally complex situations with my penis. Goddamnmit now it's gonna be weird for my last few weeks at this job.

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Seems like my self esteem slowly builds up until I start to feel decent amount my body and myself and then something happens to destroy it.
>Be at uni gym last week
>Finish my second to last set of deadlifts
>Was also working biceps that day
>Towards the end of my workout, pretty much max pump
>Cutie comes into gym with this gross dude that I have in my english class.
>Weird dude who sits by himself and always wears the same nasty clothes, reeks of BO
>Guy is super skinny, greasy as fuck hair, face achne, wears shitty clothes to class and in this case is wearing a walmart wife beater and basketball shorts
>He goes to the bench press, benches the bar for a set and then just lays there
>She sits on his lap and they are talking
>Finish up my deadlifts and go for one last set of curls in front of the mirrior for dat dere pump
>I can see them in the mirrior behind me
>Part of me hopes she will look at me and mire
>Nope
>Finish up my curls and put the weights back
>Turn around just in time to catch her coyly squeeze his crotch and smile at him
>Walk past them, eye contact with her for one second and she quickly looks away.
>No mire. Just a normal, awkward meeting of eyes.
>Leave the gym and feel like total shit.
It was like I was invisible. Im no Chad but I have a decent face and a decent body especially with a pump. Im easy going and have lots of conversations with people, I'll be the first one to start them up with a stranger in class or at school
Yet somehow this nasty disgusting creep has some cutie sucking his dick and I dont even have a girlfriend or anyone who is even interested in me.

>>41309820
>be fat fuck
>lose 150lbs of mostly fat
>get tons of compliments from normies
>feel even fatter and less confident in my body before

Finally under 200lbs for the first time since elementary school. 30 more lbs and I'll finally be normal BMI and not feel fat, h-haha, r-r-right /fit/?

>>41312774
maybe you cured her. was it hymen cancer?

No matter how much I work out I feel I will never feel confident about how I look. I will always hate my body and think it's too lumpy in one area or too stringy in another.

I'm cutting and I suddenly though "and then what? you'll be lean and then what?"

Dunno man I'm just really fucking depressed and I feel like I'm never gonna be happy and confident and not constantly thinking about how I hate myself, food, or gym.

>>41312848
Nope, lymphoma. Some super rare kind.
The sex was actually awesome because the lights were off, I was still drunk, and she's on that implant so I busted inside like 6 times. Ugliest girl I've slept with though and I've definitely got mixed feels about the whole situation.

>>41309778
If you're flirting with other girls you're already cheating on her

>>41309717
Every time you cheat you run the risk of creating another feminist. Don't do that shit. Just end it with her if you don't want to be faithful.

>>41309717
Yeah man up and tell you don't feel like you will work out

>>41313296
>Every time you cheat you run the risk of creating another feminist.

also this. To be fair having someone fuck around behind your back is the worst thing you can do to someone who gives a shit about you.

>>41309820
This stems from a newfound awareness of your body. It happens. As I've gotten thinner coming down from being a fatass I've noticed that although I'm looking better and better I still feel like shit sometimes. All I can do is keep going though.

>>41313170
the moment he stops flirting she will ride other guys.

>>41310875
Not him, but we don't get to choose who we love.

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Who wants a depressing anti-fit feel??

I stopped lifting about a year before meeting the girl of my dreams. When I should've been having the best time of my life, making lasting memories with the most amazing woman I'd ever met and likely ever WOULD meet, I was instead crippled by the insecurity I had once repressed by going to the gym. Things didn't last. That was a few years ago, and for the last couple years she's been dating her long-time friend. The way things are going they're probably going to announce a pregnancy or engagement any day now.

I had only ever dated dysfunctional skanks before this woman. My relationships had been so superficial up until that point that I'd started to wonder if love was some kind of stupid, soppy Hollywood myth. But this girl made me feel things I didn't know I could. I still think about her all the time. It was a one-time event, there's no "getting her back," so I decided not to just bury it all nice and deep. I've avoided talking to her and haven't told her that I think about her or how I felt. To spare my dignity.

I've got no illusions that a stellar body would've turned me into a Chad and saved the day. I'm fucked in the head, and not even a perfect body could have replaced the years of mental adjustment and maturation that I needed to feel at peace with myself, but sometimes I wonder... if I'd never given up on lifting, could I have flown that close to the sun for just a little while longer?

I guess I'll never know for sure.

pic related

>>41313379
/r9k/ is the other way pal

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>never had a girlfriend
>never kissed a girl
>never held hands and walked with a girl
>people constantly ask why i don't have a gf yet
>somehow manage to convince them with "haha y'know studies"
>people constantly say"haha i bet anon bangs chicks every night"
>laugh along but die slowly inside

Just fucking kill me now

>>41313635

I dont get posts like these. You know you fucked up, you know that love isnt a myth and YET you still think you missed the ONLY chance EVER to be happy.

wut.

>>41314203
iktfb.

How old are you?

>>41314266
23

I just want it to end

They said college was the best times of your life

>>41314664
As a grill in the same situation (I know guys are pressured more but still) this gives me hope that i can find someone that won't literally lol at me for never having held someone's hand.

>>41314676
L O N D O N
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D
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>>41309604
This guy gets it.

>>41312629
Do we lift just to escape these feels?

>>41314676
It's probably because you're ugly though.

>>41314676
I never get horny even when I am drunk in clubs. I act too friendly around everyone so even when I try to give signals they brush it off as me being friendly. Everyone probably thinks I get laid a lot so they must think I pump and dump. I act naturally around grills and they don't think I am strange or a creep or anything. I don't want to show them my muscles because then I'd know they just want the D and not me.

How come you are in the same boat?

>>41309478
>lifted all the weight i've currently got in my homegym
>don't have $90 to buy 2 more plates

bittersweet

>>41314745
>How come you are in the same boat?
Had bad anxiety growing up and could never form proper friendships let alone even imagine talking to a guy. This led to me missing all the stuff people do which leads to friendship, like parties, going out, etc. I never built that base, now I have nowhere to start.

>I don't want to show them my muscles because then I'd know they just want the D and not me.
I have a similar thing where I feel bad if I ever look pretty because i think people will just hit on me for the V and never want to know me.

>>41309796
Not bad you are doing well I would have kept ducking her and others but ghosting her works too. Fuck her again just be weary of a serious relationship

>>41309820
Its that drive to self improve. I've got the same thing and it just encourages me to eat more and lift more. If I thought I looked okay I would probably stop going to the gym

>>41314797
How old are you? You may have not reached expire date yet. Do you ever see 16 year olds together and wish that you got to have someone to goof around with

>>41312629
I know this feel, she was smarter and more motivated than me well traveled and I could see her outgrowing me. Even when weren't dating anymore we still fucked like crazy. I fucked it up and knocked up a random girl I didn't even knew she rightfully didn't want to raise another man's kid. Now I date my son's mom who is cool and cuter than her but pales in every other area.

>>41314858
Nearly 20 but with the way people act around me, I feel like a complete outcast for not having done...anything. I'm a complete friendless weirdo too, everyone went off to uni after HS and now I'm alone.

>Do you ever see 16 year olds together and wish that you got to have someone to goof around with
All the time. I remember being 15 and thinking "I can't wait to have a boyfriend and experience young love" because it looks so fun and carefree. Imagine what I would feel like if i knew that would not happen anytime soon lmao. All I want is someone to goof around with

>>41313379
Truest shit you ever wrote. It's like fishing you must throw all the fish back because you have all the fish you can eat at home but when you go home to your girl you must smell like fish so she knows you can still fish.

>>41314967
You got a kik or something? If you got a steam we can hang out and play vidya or something, I feel bad knowing you don't even have frendos

>>41314755
Don't worry bro your going to make it

>>41314909
Another woman's kid*** sorry

>>41315005
>You got a kik or something?
inb4 unsolicited dik pics
Ah well, I'm lonely enough to talk to anyone.
kik: qoasts

Don't have steam, unfortunately never grew up knowing the glory of vidya

>>41315019
ill just have to see if one of my coworkers or something has a gym membership i can piggyback on for a week, gimme a little chance to show off, i guess

>>41310858
Did you also meet your current GF on tinder?

>>41311259
You're not doing what you love.

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op is a faggot

>>41309577
Anagnorisis

>>41314676
>>41314745
>>41314797
>>41314858
>>41314967
>>41315005
>>41315172
JUST KISS ALREADY

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>>41312799
Are you me anon?
>Better looking than any of my dyel friends
>Everyone gets attention and pussy, I don't even get sluts at clubs

>"Just talk to girls man"
I can't if I feel like an ugly piece of shit. I used to be a fat fuck and now I can't assume otherwise. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I think.

>>41311259
Actually I feel the same. It's like nietzsches motormophosis. First you are a camel following leaders and trends (in this case bettering yourself), then you become the lion wanting to destroy everything ( i think it's something like wanting to leave humanity behind) and at last you become the child. Empty, with no values and nothing to strive to or nothing to fight for. You're an empty sheet of paper now anon, write your own story.

>>41309478
Am in a very similar situation to you.
Have been lifting for 2 years now. Gained over 30lbs of solid muscle and am currently 165lbs but I should be over 190lbs by now and nice and mens physique tier body but I'm not.
I've taken too much time being obsessed with being validated by sloots online.
The hotter the sloot the better it makes me feel.
It started as an alternative to porn.
told myself "at least I'm getting nudes from a real sloot and not watching porn"
But it's slowly progressed into me having literally hundred of nudes saved on my phone, I have hundreds of snapchat sloots that I don't even know on my snapchat, and at the end of the day, I barely even talk to girls IRL because I can sit in my bed fapping while they show me their tits and ass and masturbate with me
>This is why I should have never started lifting solely for female attention
I could have been top tier body already but I got too distracted in jailbait sloots :(

>>41316794
post snapchats boii

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>>41316808

>>41312879
hard situation bro, for her obviously, but for you aswell. Sex is still an intimate act and you wont forget her, always knowing, that she died a slow painful death.

>>41316848
all of em

and kek thats what you fap to? :D::D:DDDD

>>41316848

How jailbait-y is this sloot?

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>>41316866
Nah she's just the tease. Don't fap until I get a girl playing wth herself and showing me her pussy and ass and shit. But I'm pretty sure I can't post nudes on here so heres another one
But srs I've probably spent over 500 hours in the past year or so doing nothing but collecting nudes and fapping to 16-18 year old sloots with snapchat

>>41316864
That's a real fucked up way of putting that. But yeah. She's a sweet girl, I'm just really not attracted to her. Kinda wish I had not done it, and instead just held her. But what's done is done.

>>41317085
Actually you did good, took one for the team. She probably wants nothing else, but to enjoy the time left.

>>41312774
If she really was dying and she really liked you physically and personality-wise, I think what you did was extremely noble.

Giving the most intimate part of your body to someone to help pull them out of total darkness and despair even if it's just for a night is probably the nicest thing anyone could ever do for another person.

If I had terminal cancer and I had a crush on a girl way out of my league who went to bed with me to give me what will probably be "my last time".... I would consider her a saint and not a slut.

>>41309478
I'm the same way. You're a narcissist, that's just how it works.

>>41312774
Plot twist:

She doesn't have cancer.

>>41309478
Feels pretty good at the moment, I was pretty caught up over some qt I met but couldn't get with because her parents were really strict despite her being 18. But been hitting gym hard and doing a lot of stuff towards self improvement so started to realise I could do better. She was pretty heartless at times and has a lot of faults I'm starting to see so I think I'm finally over this bitch.

As a young teen I was a socially awkward mess but worked my way out of it, now decent looking ottermode guy. I've been able to flirt with and attract girls when I meet them. Part of my growth was getting a job I enjoy and can work from home with, but it meant leaving uni and not being in an actual workplace. So I've lost my access to lots of women, I'm 20 and don't know what to do, I guess I need to start joining clubs and hope there are some people near my age

>>41317115
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>>41317500
Well it's not like 6 months to live. But it's a rare kind of lymphoma only 24 people have been diagnosed with and she got declined for an experimental treatment, so she's just got no options.
She told me she got declined for the treatment and I asked how it's all going. She just said
>it's getting worse. A lot worse. But it's fine.
With this look that clearly said she's not fine.
Later afterwards she told me she had days where she was throwing up blood and I felt bad because all I could think was
>thank God that didn't happen during
And she told me they don't currently have any treatment for it.
But I don't know how much time she has left. She still works and goes to classes and plans for future semesters so i think there's time for her.

>>41312774
>>41317144
Now that's a near death experience.

>>41309577
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWt0-dy3s4E

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>>41314832
thats what I thought anon but trust me on this one the day where you feel satisfied with your body will never come. You will always feel too small or too fat, you will feel "fine" with your body eventually but your will never ever be truly satisfied.

I cant say I am Zyzz himself but after lifting for 3.5y now with good progress I know that I look atleast decent nonetheless if I dont have a sixpack I feel fat and if I have one I feel too small. Such is the life of a /fit/izen.

>>41312774
I wouldve done the same anon, it might get a little awkward but honestly in the moment my immediate reaction wouldve been the same.

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>Be 19
>Been lifting, running, and boxing for about 4 years
>Pretty normal and polite when dealing with normies
>Been with plenty of girls, but none of them want anything more than hook ups
>Never been on more than two dates, let alone a gf
>Always some bullshit reason
>All my friends always say "anon how are you still single"
>I wish I knew why

>>41309717

im in a similar situation. dont really give a shit about the girl anymore desu, altho her personality is 10/10, she is borderline cakelet with a 6/10 face.

im really considering to just hit on other girls at this point really, but i am not a douche sociopath and have a consience..

whats worse is that she has a guy roommate, so i might be actually getting cucked by a cakelet. this guy is a like 6'3 (I'm 5'11) and a little autistic, wanks 3 times a day and no gf. apparently they never even kissed, but i doubt that.

fuck it, tomorrow is friday, maybe i should let lose

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>Growing up
>Friends of the family, girl same age as me
>We did everything together and were inseparable
>In teenage years used to spy on her and her friends
>When rating guys with them she would rate me as a 10/10
>Them adolescent confidence gains
>Ask her out at 14
>She says no
>Confidence gone and only declined since
>My first time putting myself out there to a female was shot down
>Even at that stupid age, didn't talk to a girl properly again for 3 years
>Still used to fap to her underwear
>Our families grew apart
>Stalked her on Facebook for years
>Watched her change
>Shit boyfriends
>Parties
>Weird fashion and haircuts
>Drugs booze and cigarettes
>She now looks like shit
>While I lifted to regain confidence in my teenage years
>Still lift
>But still mad I never had the fairy tale romance of growing up together and falling in love
>Waiting for the right girl to come change my outlook on life
>Until then I'll keep fucking and lifting

That's my feel for the evening. Just gonna go commit snapicide

>>41311269
stop being a prisoner

>>41317755
Did you at least say "thank you hungry skely" during?

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>>41309588
checked

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>package tracking won't update
>uni housing department won't email me back

Please just respond and acknowledge my existence.

>>41314203
I'm in the same boat senpai. when people find out I'm no gf, they think I'm gay or a creep. I just suffer from high anxiety and low self-esteem cuz.

>>41311259
Iktf except I have no gf and nothing is going right. Actually, there's a faint hint of sadness and longing about half the time, the other half is just numbness and boredom of everything.

>>41321301
Hahaa, wtf happened to us anon?!

>>41312799
You kind of sound like a shitty person DESU.

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>>41309478
God damnit OP. You sound like me.

>will go out on the weekends
>Maybe get mires maybe not
>still usually end up chatting with some grill
>never feel like they are good enough. Always some boring, hobby-less, basic bitch sloot.
>most of the time I feel like I would be more satisfied in the gym or camping instead of at some bar/club
>If I get no obvious female attention feel like some kind of inferior piece of shit despite knowing for a fact I am superior to 90% of other men.

Sure, I know I should approach more women I might be pleased with but those are rare to begin with but still fuck these feels

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>>41321484
I know this feel. I sometimes think maybe the girls sperg out as much as we do, but also because they're legitimately more stupid.

>>41309796
You did good. Ghosting is always the best option.

>was dating grill senior year of uni(she would later become my gf)
>we were graduating soon and lived far apart so I didnt want to commit to a relationship but wasnt going looking for any other chicks
>exam week
>she gets all pissy and says shes going to go on a date with another guy
>I felt like fucking shit because i'd caught feels
>fuckit.jpeg have to study for exam tomorrow
>completely ghost her and try to ignore feels
>hours later shes texting me sorry and shit keeps trying to call me
>I dont reply to a bit of it
>her best friend starts calling me
>eventually pick up to tell the friend that I've got shit to do.
>blablabla grill im seeing BEGS AND PLEADS to come over and apologize in the middle of the fucking night while im studying.
>all I say is "sure, whatever"
>shows up at my house bawling her eyes out pleading for forgiveness.

Fuck that was longer than I thought it would be...moral of the story is that nothing drives a girl more crazy than ghosting them ESPECIALLY when they are going to do something they KNOW you dont like to try to get a reaction out of you.

>No social skills
>Can't relate to anyone
>Becoming more and more isolated
>Urge to socialize always persists
>I want to die

I can't sleep HELP

>>41321484
I was with you until

> despite knowing for a fact I am superior to 90% of other men.

Calm down Elliot, it's okay.

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>at grocery store buying fruits and vegetables
>wearing tank to show off gains like an autist
>drop full bag on ground after paying
>face goes beet red
>apologize to bagger even though it was her fault
>cashier forgot to scan milk
>line is being held up now
>she double charges me for it and I pay without mentioning it
>decline receipt and jog out holding bag with both arms
Why am I like this

>>41309796
Good job anon, don't let that narcissistic bitch use you. Continue breaking her down and squashing her shit tests.

>>41318536
Post pics of her anon. Let us R8 your would-be M8.

>>41319110
>A small loan of a million keks

>>41321608
Good job anon, you handled that thot.

>>41323051
kys

>>41309567
Bingo

>>41310858
that doesn't seem fair to your current gf

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> 26
> never had a gf
> got /fit/ recently
> women start smiling at me
> one even confirms that she's into me
> don't know how to deal with it
> still alone
> not sure if i just want to remain alone because i'm comfortable being single, it's the only life i've ever known
> regardless that crushing feeling of lonliness
> friends around me falling out or getting into relationships
> i'm still single
i'm okay

>>41324219
just try your luck with a girl, see what happens. What do you have to lose anyway

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>>41324266
but they're all so boring

>>41324266
A complete disintegration of what you consider yourself? If you're single for a very long time it's very difficult to adapt to a lifestyle built for two. You have to make sacrifices. In making those sacrifices you will change who you are. You might not like how you change and you will never be able to go back.

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>Lost 20+ kilo in about a year
>Keep getting asked if I've lost more weight near every week
>tfw i skip meals and don't eat anything more than i need to because i crave the attention that i never used to get
I'm getting to the point where i need to start eating unhealthy shit because i can't do set meals without feeling like I'm stuffing my face, and I'll be a skellington if i keep on going this way

>was a good looking guy until 20
>gf cheated on me, i spiraled and gained a TON of weight (got to 330lb)
>slowly took control of my life
>now 29 and after a few years of really improving myself I look a lot better (though still fat fuck), am way more confident, and am strong
>doesn't really matter because I'm still completely alone, 0 friends, no relationships, just have my family i talk to once a month
>work night shifts so my human interaction is essentially 0

There is a guy at the gym I go to that lifts pretty heavy too and I want to talk to him and try to make a friend but I don't know what to say or do. I have 0 social skills after nearly a decade living in isolation. Doesn't matter how strong I get I'll still always be alone. I joined the military because maybe I'll make some friends there and that kind of atmosphere seems like it would be good for me.

>>41324276

Not trying to be mean but you need to get used to it tomokoposter, most women are boring.

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>tfw have big crush on Karlie Kloss, but only 6'0
Anyone else?

>>41324294
Those are limiting beliefs. That is fear talking. Rise above anon

>>41309717
Break up with her you faggot, the poor girl doesn't deserve to be cheated on just because you don't have the balls to cut it off

>>41325259
Not Klossy in particular, but this chick that is 6'1 while I'm 5'11

Im caught up in a 4 year dry spell, the last time I had sex I was fresh out of high school and I'm 22 now. Im in the best shape of my life, but I have non existent confidence because nothing ever happens despite who I hang out with. Now it's too the point where I think my lack of experience is so bad that no girl my age would ever want to have sex or a relationship with me because they could easily find a guy who actually knows what he's doing. Im frustrated and feel stuck, I don't know how to get out of this vicious cycle

>>41314676
Literally just ask any guy and he'll accept, it's really fucking easy for women. It can even be Chad, it doesn't matter.

>>41318536
I had the audacity to hang around said girl for 14 years man. It killed me inside. Sure I fucked other women and had girlfriends but I did not love any of them.

I ended all of it 2 weeks ago. Just lifting, studying and working. Higher goals are first, women are last for me now.

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>>41325259
Based off of pic related, no.

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>Started job as postman because I like being outside and the pay is pretty damn good
>Work maybe 22 hours a week and get paid for 33 hours
>Making all kinds of calf gains
>Feet hurt too much to squat
>Knees are breaking slowly
>Struggle to eat back the calories I need to just maintain
>Walk so much I'm burining off what little gains i had made before I started
>Back to square one
>Back to lanklet

Might sudoku my job if I can't balance it out soon

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>>41318460

>>41326043
Jesus christ, we allow these people to vote.