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Do girls initiate conversation with you more often if youre fit?

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Do girls initiate conversation with you more often if youre fit? Say youre reading a bookat the beach, will they aopproach you?
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Not really, women are autistic in my country
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>>41217836
Yes.
Which is rather inconvenient when you're autistic and want to be alone while in public places.
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>>41217836
Maybe you should approach them you pathetic beta cuck
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>>41217836
Yes, but not very often. Women are cunts who expect you to do all the work.
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>>41217836
>reading a bookat the beach,

More like their response would be

>eww nerd
>reading is a waste of time.
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Actually yes...

And I still look like a hobo. Mind you a shredded hobo.
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No, it is the man's job to initiate.
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>>41217836
Mhm. Noticed as my bmi went down the more women laugh at my stupid jokes, smile at me, compliment me, look me in the eye more.

The years of bullying still haven't gotten off my psyche and I still am really on edge and autistic.
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i lift and have a clean shaven baby face and i find the answer to be yes, but only the obese and ugly ones. worst part is if you're still an aspie they'll think you're just shy instead of a fat hater
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>>41217936
this. i guess im decent looking because when im out of shape normies and fatties come talk to me but when im in shape 7s and 8s approach me at bars.

still don't know what to do when we have to actually communicate
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>>41217936
do people ever say that you look like you're gonna kill someone?
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>>41217836
yes they do, when they don't they stare at you until you talk to them.
one tip that i learned is to go to a club with a flanel shirt and as you're dancing unbutton it and sluts arround will mire you (you need a 6pack for this to work)
also if you have a good face with a good hair cut you don't need to do a single thing, girls will aproach you, but i know you're not, so get mires with your body from drunk sluts
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>start lifting
>girls start smiling and saying hello
>too autistic to even make eye contact
someone please put me out of my misery
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>>41218280
How old?
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>>41218317
22
My sister says it's because I'm an 8/10 on my best days though I don't buy it.
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>>41218339
Maybe you just didn't spend enough contact with people. I suggest joining club activities, literally anything.
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>>41217836
No because I still have my resting sad face.
Some people's resting faces can be murderous or unpleasant.
Or they can be cheerful and confident.
My resting face looks like I'm lonely and sad.
How to fix, my dudes?
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>>41217836
Yeah, girls make the first move if you're Chad enuf
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>>41218388
Are you actually lonely and sad anon?
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>>41217836
Well yes

As having a fit body is attractive

Its like when you see a girl with a big ass or big tits, you are attracted to those things and and will find any girl with that attractive so you will hit on her


For females is the same, they see big chest, back and arms as attractive part in men so they will look and will find you attractive
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>>41218484
Yes.
My nickname at work is the terminator because I kind of look like Schwarzenegger with my sunglasses on.
I've been called a robot before because I am expressionless when I work out.
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>>41217836
>reading at the beach
>where the sun is bright
>where there are people around having fun
>not reading at home and going to the beach to chill out with buds and babes
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>>41218591
>the terminator
Literally the best fucking nickname ever. You have presence my dude. You're probably tall and pretty built?
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I don't remember the last time I've been approached by a woman.
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>>41217836
Yes
Even though i live in a very closed off and emotionally retarded nation girls approach me more than i approach them
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>>41218669
Yes.
The thing is I have the social skills of the terminator as well.
I'm a hard worker but socializing is very hard because I can't talk like I'm an anon.
I guess the situation where I am most comfortable talking to someone is when I am driving.
That way I don't have to make any eye contact at all.
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>very good looking (according to others) after losing weight at the end of high school
>get checked out and approached by girls all the time
>constantly assume that they're not genuinely interested because the insecurity about my looks hasn't entirely gone away since graduating 2 years ago
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>>41218760
When I was in highschool I was a nervous faggot. Always second guessing myself and would constantly think that other people are thinking how fucking gay I am.

It took a lot of work and I didn't write a journal about it or anything, but I basically decided I was going to change. Everyone's situation is different. Just know that you can retrain the brain, its called neuro-plasticity.

Picture yourself how you want to be, and constantly remind yourself who you want to be. Act on it, learn about it. Revel in the concept of who you want to be. It will come to you if you set your sights on it. Whatever it is.
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>>41218712
You have to go outside to get approached anon
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>>41218874
Thanks for the advice anon.
I wish my parents gave me that sort of guidance.
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depends where you are

i live in scotland and am sometimes approached by particularly assertive girls here on nights out etc, but not usually and neither are my handsome friends. usually are responsive when i talk to them tho

however i often go to florida and massachusetts for holidays/to see old friends and girls there are WAY more open about things. in FL they straight up come over and introduce themselves, in MA they get their friends to come over and tell me and my bro i'm hot. its cute.
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>>41217921
sadly
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>>41218339
It's pretty obvious your sis wants the D man. Chicks don't just throw compliments around like that.
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>>41219002
You'll make it dude, look up the law of attraction. Some really compelling shit, our mind is a lot more powerful than science leads us to believe. I mean just look at quantum physics, our conscience has an effect on sub-atomic particles.

But I digress, my point is the mind is extremely powerful. You just need a paradigm shift so that you attract the right kind of life. I like to think of a prism refracting light into the colors of the rainbow. You are the prism and you choose what energy you will attract and ultimately project.

I'm really fucking tired and rambling, I'm off to bed. Best of luck.
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>>41219090
I thought about it but she's a chubby 6/10, not worth the potential emotional damages and fake rape charges desu
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>>41217860

Finland, is that you?
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>>41219092
>rambling
Yes, we can tell anon
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Why can't I have the one person that I have feelings for? I get to bang sloots and legit 9/10 (even friends and friends friends agree), but I can't have the one.

Why? What is this. They always have bf.
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>>41219297
>They always have bf.
You just summed up my dating experience over the past three years
All girls who are 5/10 or more have a bf, wtf is up with the world today`?
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>>41217921
Maybe dumb sluts but most women wouldn't give a shit.
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>>41217921
America everyone
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>>41219297
>>41219316
It's one part, you only want them because they are tied down or you're using the fact that those girls are tied down to say that you can't settle down.

You simply don't want to admit that you're unable to commit and simply want to have a pity party while you manwhore around town.
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>>41219409
irrational roasty detected

tits or gtfo
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>>41219409
this kind of.

when i joined my uni class i used to want to fuck all the girls. i did fuck them, and now can't imagine wanting to fuck them. the reason for this is because i was the outsider (joined a class that had been going for a year) and i felt as though i couldn't/wouldn't fuck any of them.

i just want to fuck shit i can't have. the best thing a girl could do to get me to fuck her would be to tell me she's not interested, in the least rapey way possible.
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>>41219409
What? I was into her before I found out that she had a bf. When I was going to go further, I saw her bf, and checked her relationship status just to be sure.

I don't know what to do. I'm really trying to respect their relationship, but the way she smiles at me.....
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>>41219449
>I'm really trying to respect their relationship
said every beta ever.

do you know the guy? do you owe him anything? then on you go. its not like you'll be ruining a marriage and fucking up their kids. if she'll fuck you then she has no business being in a relationship anyway. just don't date her after. get her to end things with her bf, or she'll cheat on you too.
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>>41219409
>You simply don't want to admit that you're unable to commit and simply want to have a pity party while you manwhore around town.
Well you are wrong completly, kind of hard to manwhore around when there are no single women. Which has been my number 1 grievance with single life up to this day

Hell, im in uni and 75% of my class is women but not a single fucking one of em is single. Even the disgusing chick everyone hates who is super obnoxious has a fiancé
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Why the fuck would you read a book at the beach. Fuckin A go surf or swim. Tan at home.
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>>41219483
I DON*T WANT TO JUST FUCK HER REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>41219489
>mfw this guy gets the "i have a boyfriend" line so often he thinks every girl on earth is in a relationship
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>>41219522
Except i know because we have a fb group and unless they put "Got a bf" just as a precaution i doubt its a lie
Same goes for the gym, girls are always there with their fucking bf, are they just paying some actor to prevent guys from hitting on them?
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>>41217936
>tfw I'm now paranoid that I'm not actually as hilarious as I thought
...n-no it's fine, I'm pretty dyel anyway
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>>41219556
Dude, you'll never find a girlfriend because you don't want one. You want to bitch forever about all of the good women being in relationships while you bang "9/10s my friends totes said they were hot too!!" girls and pretend that you just can't find the right one.
Really convenient that you can never meet the right one and the right one is always in a relationship.
Accept it as your lot in life and move on.
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>>41219556
>girls are always there with their fucking bf
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>>41219556
>girls are always there with their fucking bf
Not always.
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>>41219587
>Really convenient that you can never meet the right one and the right one is always in a relationship.
Uhh...wrong person mate. I dont want a gf, i just want to fuck but cant find girls who are single and its bothersome to fuck girls with boyfriends
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>>41218413
Read that as "honor" at first
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>>41219556
can confirm, am paid gym actor
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>>41219061
gotta love MFX
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>>41219581
>tfw stopped telling jokes because I'm afraid I might not be able to filter my inner /pol/tard in real time
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>>41217836
>waiting at bus stop
>2 blonde qts approach me
>one asks if I could give them ciggies
>other gril staring at my chest and blushes
>hand them both a ciggie
>too autistic to make a move
>...
>they leave
What should I've done and how to cure autism?
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Yes and no

I'm not like a fitness model physically but my face is very pretty(I'm a male, best way to describe it).

Yeah there is some very blatant and obvious examples of girls showing you attention and hitting on you, but they're rarer than girls that are attracted to you and would fuck you. Does that make sense?

Girls that like me are more likely to be shy and nervous, or to "play it cool", or to neg. It's the same as a pretty girl entering the room. We all have different strategies and ways of behaving to attract the opposite sex.

So yeah, some girls who like me don't even acknowledge me, but I can tell by their energy being focused on me or that they're trying to project themselves a certain way.

Just learn how to flirt, and how to screen for girls who are into you.

You're the guy, you're the one who has to progress the interaction further. That's the way of the world.

So what do you do? You initiate the conversation and small talk with the girl, but you up the eye contact. Ask a few logistical questions or if you're trying to be blunt, ask if she has a boyfriend.

That's my entire go-to line if i'm being aggressive with a girl, never "You're cute" or "You're pretty" just "Do you have a boyfriend?". Then you flirt from there.

If you're not an autist you're going to be able to tell by her reactions if she's into you or not. If it's a yes, go for the number or if you're free, try to drag her on a date with you
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>>41219780

>I'm being negged

asdldklsaasdjklasdjasdj you can't be this retarded
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>>41219780
People aren't going to read your post. Instead they will look at the replies to see if they can get a summary of what you said. Instead they will see a picture of a guy painting with shit, not much different than what I'm doing right now.
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>>41219624
Most girls don't go more than two weeks single. You're gonna have to bite the bullet and fuck those who are taken because the good ones all are.
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>>41219801
>he doesn't get negged
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>>41219780
im average

theres this girl at work that gave me mixed signals when she first started working

but when i manned up and asked her out she literally turned around and walked away in haste

shit was pretty awkward

now its 1 year later, she came back to work (she works summer only) and i have seen her eyeing me sometimes, i got in much better shape (from skinny fat to builtfat) (im fighting myself to stop looking at her desu) but i think she isnt actually interested.

Goddamn why its this all so shit, i wish i could forget about her completely and focus on lifting. Actually gym is only thing that lets me forget about her momentarily
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>>41219835
this is good post, but also bad post because i actually read what he said in entirety.

With that being said the phenomenon you mentioned is actually and interesting thing that i often see on4cihn
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>>41219890

>being this discouraged because a girl rejected you

I understand your frustration, but you have to let shit like this roll off your back, or you will never get over your fear of women. I know easier said than done, but the advice is still solid.
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>>41219879

Do you think that someone who looks like this gets "negged"?

As in, ever?
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>>41219915
Yup. I bet the female equivalents of what you would call a douchebag try to "neg" this guy every day. Have you never been playfully teased by a woman?
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>>41219769
Talk to them.

"So where are y'all from"
"What are y'all's names, mines anon"
"I see you staring, you can touch if you want"

Etc etc. gotta level up your charisma man. Stop worrying about fucking up and coming off autistic and put yourself out there. The more you do it the easier it gets.
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>>41217836
>Do girls initiate conversation with you more often if youre fit?

On tinder they do, yes.
But that doesn't really help me because I'm too autistic to answer anyway.
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>>41219930

I'm no expert, personally I think all that PUA stuff is absolute trash for sad lonely men - however as I've always understood it, "negging" is basically just acting like a dickhead to a person in order to make them feel like they have to win you over.

That's completely different from playful teasing
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>>41219890
Don't shit where you eat and get over rejection.
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No.
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>>41219769
Should've flexed a 'cep
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>>41219930
"Playful teasing" isn't "negging"

But to answer your question, not since highschool.

I don't really meet strangers in bars/clubs but I've never had a woman even tease me. Just straight up compliments when anything appearance related comes up.
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>>41219913
i know that pulling girls is just a numbers game and trying over and over

but
a) i only go out once in a while for shows, otherwise its just work and gym
b) she seemed like good gf material, pretty smart, with good looks and nice smile

>>41219951
good advice, hard to implement tho
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>>41217974
fat girl asked me yesterday if i had a gf i said n-no and she got super quiet when i didn't say anything after that and left about 30 seconds later
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I had long hair and had random women compliment me all the time.

I've never had a random woman compliment me on my body, despite looking much better than I did a few years ago (although not x-box huge).

I think an okay body adds to the attraction slightly but it will never get you attention by itself.
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>>41219963
>"Playful teasing" isn't "negging"

Okay, define negging then.

>I've never had a woman even tease me

Are you sure? Maybe you're just missing it because they're ugly so you don't think of them that way.

>Just straight up compliments when anything appearance related comes up.

Why specify appearance?
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Bald 24 year old here.

Older women tend to (30+), but women around my age do not.
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>>41217836
who is this fluid druid?
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>>41219951
I don't think I could ever last in a job where I wasn't trying to get with someone

Although if it ever resulted in something I don't know what I'd do
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>>41217836
One summer I got down from 270 to 200, not fit at all but not fatass and two fairly attractive chicks came up to me on the beach and asked if I wanted to go back to their cabin for drinks.

I was still to autistic to realize why and just told them I don't drink, and I was out on my bike cyclical had to head home soon.

Got fat again not long after that, was really one of the only times non whales ever approached me on their own. Fat women however always try
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>>41218017
>tfw women only spill spaghetti because you look like a serial killer
Feels mad man.
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>>41219945
negging its trying to put down someone in a subtle way either to make them think they need to work to get your aproval or becasue wierd defense mechanisms or for wahtever reason. The good thing is that it nevers ends up being so subtle if you are aware of what is happening.

If someone is being a literal asshole to you thats probably because they dont like you you autists

Most boyish type of girls neg a lot, you end up noticing a lot when you put yourself outthere, but I'm the asholish-narcicist witty type of guy most of the time, so I might atract more negging than usual.
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>>41219964
It takes a while to get good at getting over rejection. I found that I started with a oneitis here and there to a few crushes to finally just trying chatting up around 20 women and seeing where it takes me. Just gotta expose yourself and take the punches and make linear progression. It wicks but the pain is good for you.
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What do you do when a fat/chubby girl mentions shes fat or puts herself down to you?

I always get quiet and change the subject
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>>41219945
I'm no pua expert and it seems like a way to scam virgins.
But negging is a way of making yourself stand out

The assumption is that, with a hot girl, she'll be used to every guy coming up and telling her how pretty she is and being super nice obviously to try and fuck her. She'll be numb to it and used to the attention.
If you neg her, the idea is that suddenly you're way more interesting than every other guy and must have much higher value

It makes sense if you think about. If you spend your days surrounded by 10/10s and then go to your loser friend's party where all the girls are 5/10s, you're hardly gonna be impressed
But in that friend circle, a 6/10 would be the equivalent of a 10/10
By not giving a fuck and calling her out on her bullshit, it becomes evident that you're just trying to get in her pants

But I think there's a difference between treating a hot girl as if she's not hot, and purposely acting like a dick to her for attention
but both are strategies so...
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>>41220040

What the fuck. I would love for random women to basically just walk up to me and ask to fuck.
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>>41220061
Dude, a lot of women dig the psychopath vibe. Why do you think so many women are interested in serial killers? Use it to your advantage.
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>>41219449
>What? I was into her before I found out that she had a bf.
I think part of the problem is girls without bfs act way more overtly sexual and so they just seem like vapid sloots. But girls with bfs don't, and so you actually have feelings for them
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>>41220109
this, what the fuck?

why don't hot girls ever try and lure me into their sex dungeons? (high school teenagers don't count for obvious reasons)
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>>41220106
>knowing is half the battle
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>>41220106
I'm typically honest with them and tell them that they can work hard to change that. I've gotten a lot of surprised looks before, but many have acknowledged that I'm right after the initial shock.
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>>41220106
Well, if you want to fuck her, you can just say that you like your girls on the thick side.
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>>41220109
>>41220138
I'm pretty upset that this kid threw the Holy Grail into the trash because it had alcohol in it.
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More so in a bar situation.

I get angry at the gym.
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>>41220074

Isn't negging a misc term"? wtf
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>>41220106
depending how fat she really is....?
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>>41220074
>>41220107
lmao neither of you have the slightest clue of what negging is

why dont you actually watch pua shit before explaining to others what it is?
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>>41220202
If you are a CUTE & you 'mir me at the gym... I hate your guts.

I'm sorry. It's what I do.

Me against the world.
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>>41220109

You'll love my anecdote.

When I was 19 I had 2 17 year old girls approach me in a nightclub I went to all by myself (depressed after a breakup). One was chubby and super cute, the other was cute but not my type.

Eventually they asked me to watch a football finals game a few days later, so we sat outside on some grass where a cafeteria had setup a video projector. The fatter one was acting tired and ended up with her head on my thigh, while the other one was sitting almost too close to me and getting giggly.

I wasn't sure if they were really into me or messing with me, and I wasn't really into them for some reason, so I just went home and never called them again.
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A friendly Stacey in my math class makes conv with me sonetimes but that's about it....
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>>41217836
> reading a book
> at the beach
Don't read in the sun, it fucks your eyes
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>>41219483

You're unironically a piece of shit.
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>>41218280

Put yourself in social situations more often. Like anything in life, it takes time and effort to get good at it. Sure you'll probably be embarrassed more than a few times, but with each attempt you become better at it and soon enough you'll become confident in it.
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>>41217836
>reading a book at the beach

cringe
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>>41217836
Passive aggressive.

This is their nature.

I'd rather marry a real solid 7 than fuck a a nation of passive aggressive cunts.
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>>41217836
Yes. But it doesn't help if you're autistic as fuck kek. I'm attractive but autistic and when I go out with friends girls always cone onto me but I know I won't be able to do anything so I just ignore them, give them one word answers and they get weirded out and walk away. Its funny (depressing) to see. You can see their eyes gradually go from "you're hot" to "i need to make an exit at soon as possible". Had one grab me in a club, start grinding with me then she started talks to me, realised I was a weirdo and said " you can go now" like she was talking to a dog. Autism is one hell of a drug haaaaaah
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>>41220219
because pua shit is a shitty scam to convince autists they can fuck supermodels if they pay enough money
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>>41219988
Any advice for growing and maintaining long hair?
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>>41220352
That shit is all in your head
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>>41218634
> not living 2 minutes from a beach so you can do any activity you want on it any time you want
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>>41217921>>41217921
>>reading is a waste of time.
They would not be wrong tho, depending on what kind of books you're reading, you're wasting your time.
If you are not reading schoolbooks or book that teach you some new skills, you're just wasting your time on something that is basically a boring hobby.
Stop wasting your time on Harry Potter and LoTR.
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>>41220000
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>>41220377
Pantene conditioner & brush your hair on a consistent level.
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>>41220394
Could be but I can't seem to overcome it really
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>>41220377

Not really. I had almost waist length hair, didn't get it cut for 5 years or so, at all. Showered once or twice a day, air dried, rarely conditioned.

I have rather straight and rather dense hair, which is why the above worked.
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My brother broke off an engagement. I'm married. Both of us are fit people and live near the beach.

If you are welcoming and doing something fun you can integrate with other people at the beach and invite them to play corn hole, kanjam, etc. with you. I'm basically his super friendly wing man and he slays pussy. Having a hot wife and a baby in tow makes our group pretty non-threatening too.

But, step one is definitely not approaching the social interaction from an expectation that you're going to impale some girl with your dick. You should just be a normal, friendly human with something fun to do and if you happen to get laid, great. If not - you still had a good time at the beach.
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>>41220117
>Use it to your advantage
How exactly? They legit act like I would kill them.
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>>41219449

Move on.
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>>41220497
Play it more mysterious. Be calm, cool, and collected, while displaying confidence. You seem like whenever they're around you you try to change who you are. They see through it because you're likely a shitty actor, and all that this does is it tells them that you have something to hide, which is a major red flag. Be a more confident, more mysterious version of yourself until it becomes the real you.
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>>41218874
Underrated.
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>>41219780
>I can tell by their energy being focused on me or that they're trying to project themselves a certain way.
Fucking R E A L L Y nigga?
How far is your head up your ass exactly?
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>>41220000
Nice quad
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>tfw cute girl giving me mires in my biology class
>she sits alone in the corner of this giant ass class
>don't want to initiate anything because she might be one of "those" girls
>already have bad experience with sluts in my college
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Women are great. Men are great?

Parenting is the key/

Be a mother who leaves a son... instant killer.
Be a father who leaves a daughter... instant whore.
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>>41219007
Yeah girls in the UK are shit
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>>41220664
He's trying to express things not commonly talked about, give him a break. I'll try to paraphrase what I think he meant:

>girl won't flirt openly with him
>but she looks when she thinks he won't notice
>plus when they talk she acts fake (trying hard to seem cooler than she is)

Basically he's describing female spaghetti.
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>>41217836
no, fuck all the retards in this god forsaken chinese imageboard.

nigger, listen to this: women are AS self conscious as men, MOST of them are scared to just go up to a guy and start talking, and if you are "ripped", they will think you are out of her league and will definitely never do it. Again, not all women are like this, but the vast majority is.

you want to be a chad, grow a pair and go talk to the woman, faggot
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>>41217921
People don't talk like that you fucking nerd
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>>41219164
>fake
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>>41218413
Can't even use the correct "new". Don't waste your time.
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>>41219764
>slowly start introducing /pol/ tier garbage into when i talk to women
>they still laugh at stuff like calling nigs subhuman or chimps
Questionable.
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>>41219297
bitch I don't even have anyone to have feelings for
the only times I leave the house are for appointments or work, and ever female I see is way out of my age range except for the occasional customer, and I can't very well hit on customers (not that I know how)
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>>41220327
no i'm not. i don't owe some random guy shit. if it was a friend or if there were kids involved, that's different
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>>41218906
Go outside to where?
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>>41219764
That's because nobody likes /pol/ and yall are fucking faggots that need to learn how to interact with society.
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I started lifting but I'm in no way fit enough to be that guy girls make a first move, but.

>really cute girl in lab practicals
>my labmate couldn't make it for one of the two sessions
>out of the blue she volunteers to be my partner
>teacher declines her, puts me in another group

was very surprised since I've never EVER even looked at her. Which by itself wouldn't be important

>another subject's practicals
>arrive to lab, sit wherever
>she sits next to me
>teacher says we grab a partner
>she initiates and asks me to go with her
>we're sitting on roller stools, so she grabs the table next to me to come closer
>our hands touch
>our hands touch again shortly after for whatever reason I can't remember
>she talks to me normally, initiates conversation etc.

I don't even understand it. I'm usually very dry with new people, which sucks for me because it puts people off. But not her.

>yet another practicals
>be late
>all computers taken
>only place where I can sit *not* next to someone is in the front row
>such cases
>cute girl from other practicals comes later and sits next to me

And we've sat together ever since.

Look. I don't even know why I'm posting this. She 99.99% probably doesn't fancy me and I don't care. I think that if she wasn't a girl I wouldn't even be worrying myself about it, and I'd rather be happy to have made a friend. I am happy I did, since it's great to have a partner and helping each other makes everything so much easier in class. I'm only surprised someone's not ran away from my dryness, like all those before her.
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I want to lift for aesthetics. Any good hypertrophy routines.
>beginners can get great results from any routine
Yeah yeah, save it
Pic somewhat related
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>>41221618
Do you realise where you've posted cunt?

PPL.
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>>41221574
>She 99.99% probably doesn't fancy me and I don't care.
Just... please... try to think from her point of view. Why the fuck would she go out of her way to sit next to and group up with someone she considers just a friend? If a male did that to me I'd just think "what the fuck does this guy want", not "oh wow he wants to be friends!". That's how you flirt, not how you make friends. And INTENSE flirting at that. If she wanted to be friends with you she'd just casually come up and make comments, not this shit. She likes you idiot
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>>41221618
>I want to workout but I don't really want to take anyone's advice because I'm ignorant
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>>41221644
I did not, but thanks anyhow lad
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>>41221659
My greentext is probably biased. I'm probably confirming that she wanted to pair up or whatever when it could have been just a coincidence and not a big deal for her.

She also might just be social, like most women. Besides, we don't talk much outside of class, or even in other classes.

She just needed a stable partner for some practicals, so did I. It doesn't have to be the "hurr she approached me so she MUST be into me".
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>>41218413
But girls are supposed to make the first move on that app
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>>41221720
Are they?

Unrelated, but I hate dating apps. I think they work against most men. Only good for chads. Unless you're a chad I feel you're diminishing yourself by using them.
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>>41220878
what is there to lie about??

he has a ugly, fat sister, who would probably fuck him, but he won't because she's ugly and fat...
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>>41218006
just talk don't think
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>>41218388
smile
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>>41221749
Yeah, anyone less than Chad is only going to hurt their self-esteem on these apps
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>>41218339
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i know social/dating coaches are usually scams but since i applied this videos rather simple action plan I've been able to talk to complete strangers of either sex and they actually like me now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yRVP9PHnEE


tl"dr: if you're feeling shy in a group or date spend 30 seconds doing nothing (stop trying to impress or act cool or w.e just stop trying at all)

then you start gesturing and feeling the energy in your body, kinda think with your body and this will bring you out of your head and you'll stop doubting/thinking yourself
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>>41221880
>everyone who feels shy was trying to act cool or impress

uhh ok that doesnt really follow but whatever
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>>41219061
this is not allowed
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>>41221895
(((uhh))) thats not the point of the video you sperg
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only 5-6s that are over 40
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>>41220488
Underrated advice
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>>41219939
CHARGE PHONE
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>>41218339
>>41219164
Help your sister become fit, feed her extra protein after workouts. pic related
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>>41217921
That's how you choose a woman. If she does that, then don't date her. If she likes to read, then that's who you date. Pretty simple to me.
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>>41221712
have you added her on facebook?
send her a random message, "hey have you done x assignment?"
if she's into you, she'll make the conversation last and steer it away from schoolwork
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>>41220370
Take it with a grain of salt faggot

Also I don't know why people keep saying it is a way to scam virgins, you don't have to pay for anything.
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>>41219092
>our conscience has an effect on sub-atomic particles

Not actually true
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>>41217921
The last time someone criticized me for reading, it was in high school, and even then a friend heard him and called the guy a retard. Where the fuck do you live?
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>>41219780
>You initiate the conversation
How? As in, with what excuse?
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>>41219835

masterful
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>>41221880
How do you talk to strangers m8? I need advice with that. Just approaching random people of either sex and making some small talk.
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>>41223849
you just have to get outside your head and be a man of action sorta thing. watch the video
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>>41220849
I wanna believe you man, but do you have any proof of this?
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>>41220849
>rambles like an autist
>b-believe me man
Women should talk to the guys they want, not the other way around.

Not that I care, I've accepted my fate of never getting a gf at 35.
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>>41223911
Man if you need proof that women are self conscious you must not know alot of them

Not that doesn't mean that you can fuck models if you're a greasy weeb
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>>41219769
1. Quit smoking to improve gains
2. Not be autistic
3. Realize women who smoke are an automatic -3 on the scale
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>>41223972
What if I don't like talking to women? Shouldn't it be easier for me to sign up for a sugar baby site and pay women to hang out with me?
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>>41219835
10/10 well played
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>>41223984
> Not liking talking to women
Maybe your on the wrong team here buddy
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> be asian 6/10 face ottermode (DYEL in clothes)
> not even fat girls approach me
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>be fit
>girls ask me if I've ever had a gf
>I say no, even though I could lie I want to see their reaction. But it's always the same
>always give me a surprised look because I look "handsome"
>"So are you gay?" while giggling
>I usually end the conversation with something autistic
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>>41224040
You picked the wrong starter race. Should have gone with black or orc for that +5 strength and +4 penis enhancement
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>>41224030
I'll be honest with you, I harbor extreme resentment towards them for ignoring me all these years. Now that I'm fit, now that I look good, now you want to fucking talk to me????

I used to defend women, but now I just want to use them and get on with my life. Getting sugar baby's should make this easy for me right?
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>>41224050
>>girls ask me if I've ever had a gf
That's an odd question to ask an attractive person.
At most they'd ask if you currently have a gf.
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>>41224070
I erased 2 steps there sorry.

>be fit
>girls ask if I have a gf
>say no
>girls then ask if I've ever had a gf (somehow expecting me to say, "duh")
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>>41224068
I get where you're coming from man but why would they be attracted to you before you had anything to offer?
People are simple, shallow creatures, you wouldn't be mad at a dog for eating your steak for example.
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>>41222766
sauce amigo?
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>>41224060
B-b-but I have +5 intelligence and +4 income
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>>41224082
I know you're right anon and I'm probably being silly with this. But I've lived through it and it has legit scarred me. It's really hard for me to get over this.
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>>41224068
Former smelly here, understand completely

I started smashing and dashing left and right, mostly out of contempt. It left me feeling hollow.

Don't date a girl your own age, date a young inexperienced one. The girls who past you up are cannon fodder for chads now, but a young one will love you the way you wanna be loved and admire you for your age and strength. This is the way of the world.

Don't be bitter like I was, you'll waste years. Just limit yourself to dating young sweet hearts and don't be afraid to say "haha not on your life" to the older chicks who will inevitably be hitting on you
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>>41224124
**skelly God dammit
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>>41219092
>our conscience has an effect on sub-atomic particles.

that is false
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>>41224092
Personally I think white is the way to go. Good blend of attributes but nothing extreme. Plus if you pick that you get the Privilege special powerup. Just have to deal with assumed racism and bigotry
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>>41224148
thx man, i'll create a new save file
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>>41224124
Thank you so much anon. I'm 28 now so I really saw myself walking this path for a long time but I'll take your advice
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Would you guys rather date a 8/10 whose personality is pretty boring, or a 4.5/10 with the potential to be 7/10 but with a great personality?
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>>41224180
4.5 to low, i usually date 7/10 with great personalities. Above that and women become to superficial for my liking on average.
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If I'm being realistic no estatting I'm like a 7.5 at 6'1 with a 7 incher

I go to the bars and chat up 8's and 9's all night, and make them laugh and throw in a couple stories that show I'm capable of being a "man" no beta, but I can't seal a deal to save my fucking life and they keep saying "I should tab out and go home"

Y tho?
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>>41224180
Potential.


Looks fade anon, at the end of day 8/10's personality will rot you away. While if you can find that girl you really click with you found gold.
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So if I have a 5 in penis erect I should just give up on women right? Foreplay wouldn't give me the edge wouldn't it?
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>>41224229
Go for the quiet/inexperienced type
If you get with a bar sloot that's run the gambit from 4-12" she will be disappointed
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>>41224223

I found a girl whom i can absolutely click with.. but she's kinda like 5/10 at best.. what should i do? Should i just stop being a superficial bitch and go for her?
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>>41224180
does the 8/10 have potential to be higher? does the 4.5/10 need surgery to reach that "potential"?

4.5/10 with potential otherwise. 1 point is nothing and personality is fucking exponential on your looks, i.e. a 1/10 with 10/10 personality is a 1/10
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>>41224260
do it bitch.

One of my biggest regrets is not going for a 5/10 girl who cooked for me because I didn't think she was good looking enough and that my friends would laugh at me.

she had a 10/10 personality....
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>>41224255
Thanks
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women almost never approach
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>>41224269

Let's say the 8/10 is a typical girl but clubs on the weekends and have many "guy friends".

4.5/10 is literally a shy qt3.14 who would do anything to make you happy. No surgery needed, just a style change.
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>>41224296
fug, that's hard

I'd say yes/no depending on how much we had in common otherwise. I wouldn't stay with a 4.5 if she stayed a 4.5 forever, but it's insane to expect her to transform. on the other hand, I hate girls whose idea of fun is clubbing every weekend.

8/10 if her personality is at least a 4-5/10. 4.5/10 if she had a lot in common with me. if both, then I'd probably pick the 8/10 because that's a more sure bet.
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>>41224340

Hmm anon this is difficult choice ;_;
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>tfw reading Vril: The Power of The Coming Race
>Lay down on the grass at uni
>semi-qt approaches me
>Asks what I'm reading
>Tell her
>She asks if I like it
>I'm getting kind of annoyed, so I tell her yes because it's has links to Nazis occultism and start talking to her about the holocaust is a lie and the Jews are lizard people who live in caverns of the earth
>"Oh, that's sounds pretty intense. I got to go now."

mfw
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>>41221574
>>41221659
Reminder that girls will try to befriend losers for "good deed" points.
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>>41217836
The last time a girl gave me her phone number was when she handed in her resume.
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>>41224146
>>41224146
really? I was into all that quantum physics stuff when I was in high school and I was under the impression that observing subatomic particle/s (in this case, a photon) changed its behavior from that of a wave to a particle.
I agree its a retarded jump from that to the Law of Attraction, but that doesn't make him wrong.
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>>41225157
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>>41220421
i don't think us autists think its a waste of time but normie sluts will
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>>41219966
should have told her to do 100 x 100 fork put downs to fill the silence
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>>41225157
>>41225172
>>41219092
What is going on in this thread
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>>41220421
>If you are not reading schoolbooks or book that teach you some new skills, you're just wasting your time on something that is basically a boring hobby.

>Everything I do has to be productive
Take a load of this good wageslaving goyim
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>>41225157
Ye its false, the instruments use to observe them are what change the subatomic particles behavior.
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>>41221548
>yall
Hello, Tumblr!
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>>41221574
Listen you turbo autist you're gonna lose that shit if you don't get the rocks out of your fat fucking velcro sneakers and talk to her more often outside of awkward as fuck lab practicals

Jesus fuck you people...
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>>41221574
>She 99.99% probably doesn't fancy me and I don't care.
anon, if you're still here, that's retarded given the context. More like 99.99% she DOES fancy you.
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>>41219801
Just becoz u get
>Pegged
>>
No.
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>>41226595
he's telling himself that to take the pressure off. the critical point will be responding to her advances no matter how subtle. women deal with rejection even worse than men so if she tries to move things along and he takes her excuses literally (like "she only wants my number so she can call when she needs help/info regarding class stuff") she likely wouldn't try again. he needs to recognize opportunities like that or they'll stop presenting themselves.

others will say he needs to take charge but it's pretty obvious he's not that kind of guy and based on her behaviour it's also not needed to attract her. so no, that's not necessarily the way to go. he only needs to take charge if he notices her trying but failing to do what I describe above. if she starts mumbling something about how it would be practical to exchange notes before the test but she gives up half-way through, that would be the point when he needs to take charge and fix the situation. so it depends on how much courage she has.
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>>41218339
>flex bicep
>"You tell me"
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>>41219357
this...
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>>41224936

Don't worry m8, you opened her mind and she will think seriously about it at home and will raise some great nazi children
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>>41223949

Maybe if you were more open minded and actually tried to take advice like what anon posted you wouldn't be alone at 35.
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>>41217921
Your not in middle school anymore mate, you have no idea what a handsome looking guy and a book could do to the mind of a impressionable young girl.
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>>41217921
Not if /fitlit/
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>>41219939
why do you have tinder?
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>tfw after two years of lifting only guys and old ladies mire me
They can't even be milfs either they're like fucking 60 years old.
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>>41218241
you're going to some proper gay clubs lad
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>>41221878
someone post the webm
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>>41220107
except negging is already a widely known meme so now you just have hot girls getting insulted by strangers for no reason 10 times every day
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>>41224296
I'd take both
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>reading in the sunlight
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>>41224087
boku no pico
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>>41229017
God I know that feel. If I got complimented by as many under 40 ladies as I do 60+ id be rolling in the pussy.
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>>41221574
Anon you have fucking autism. Ask her if she wants to go to something with you before she gets away. If you waffle she will think you dont like her. Fucking next chance ask her find something to go to. Do it you faggot worst case you go back to never even noticing her.
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>>41220106
That i can fuck fat out of her.
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>>41230484
this image is weirdly hilarious to me
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>>41220849

this guy is speaking the truth about the self conscious part. women are absolutely brutal to themselves. them asking if they look fat is a very real thing. not the like obviously fat, but more they are looking at themselves in the mirror and think there stomach looks puffy.
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>>41217836
Keep an eye out on the extended glance I your direction... It's the most you'll probably get. Which isn't too bad.
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>>41230588
>coming into work
>motorcycle helmet, aviators, extra medium shirt
>hold door for 80something woman and her husband
>"you look good enough to eat" she says
Th-thanks miss
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>>41230554
holy kek
>>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CayLv_w4jK8

> tfw this will never happen to you
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I have a semi-smile as a resting face and get approached by women all the time.

Try being more happy .
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>>41231348
I wouldn't say i get approached all the time but I definitely get approached more often now that i force myself to smile I did that for a long time and eventually it's started being my resting face
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>>41231399

a real smile or a smirk?
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>>41221720
>>41218413
What app?
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>>41223949

girls have insanely low levels of self esteem. If you thought men shaming was bad, realize that makeup has actually become the "norm", meaning when girls wake up they look in the mirror and see somebody ugly as shit. You just see them when they're dolled up, but they know how much work they put into looking approachable. Body image issues are also tenfold worse for females. Obviously this isn't all girls, but based on my experience even the ones who you think are "perfect" tremble in the vicinity of an actually attractive man
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>>41217836
I've com along from beein 78kg 24%bf to 88kg 8%bf and i can tell you that girls are passive as fuck when it comes to initiating conversation, doesnt really matter how fit you are... at least in my country
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>>41231642
Bumble. Waste no time. girls have to make the first message. You can extend a match by 24 hours to subtly let them know you're interested. but you get to enjoy swiping and put your energy into matches that seem interested in you
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>>41218874
This man is right
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As somebody who used to be morbidly obese and is now a decent low 8/10 I'd say categorically yes - especially in alcohol situations such as clubs.

However it still mainly is about the face.

Face + dyel body = works
no face + solid physique = you're going to be giggled at
face + solid physique = 100/100 (y) (y) (y)
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>>41231721
Ty anon. Seems like it could be fun.
>>
Was at the gym earlier hitting arms, and this blonde qt started chatting to me, making small talk about how empty the gym was today at about 18:00, since it's usually packed. We kept talking for a little bit but I didn't bother pursuing cos I already have a gf. She had zero ass anyway lmao
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>>41219780
>very pretty(I'm a male, best way to describe it).
Handsome.
What are you? A native english speaker?
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>>41219769
ciggie butt brain
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>>41220001
Thinning 21yo here
How did it affect your life overall?
I feel like my world is ending desu I have a great face and build and get a lot of female attention without trying but I'm worried it will kill my game with the girls in my age group
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>>41221354
You're a piece of shit with no sense of honour. Fuck off scum.
>>
I mean they would before but now it's like 80% of girls are checking me out
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So in summary you just gotta put yourself out there every now and then, plus dumb luck?
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>>41219966

>fat girl

you've dodged a bullet
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>>41226661
wait wait wait... when a grill says I should come over to study for a test it 100% means she wants to fugg?
why wouldn't she just say she wants to fugg?
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>>41228912
this was the best
the autism got bullied and the decent lit threads had humor without 4 levels of sardonic gloating
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>>41217921
>he doesn't read at the beach
That's literally the best part of going to the beach senpai
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>>41231806
nah you halfwit
he used pretty because pretty ≠ handsome

pretty implies youthful finer angular feminime features

handsome implies broader larger masculine features
only dannish euros are this eager to language cuck, r u dannish?

your culture seems as cancerous as US
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>>41234910
They don't want to be perceived as a slut. The main thing women don't want to be labeled as in their social groups is the slut.
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>>41235121
ok so qt blonde invites me to study just me and her. She wanted to fugg but I needed to make the first move and therefore missed my chance?
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>>41234988
Why read at the beach though? You could read anywhere
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>>41220421
>They would not be wrong tho, depending on what kind of books you're reading, you're wasting your time.
>Stop wasting your time on Harry Potter and LoTR.


My dad's friend is a retarded construction worker and tells me the exact same thing. But the truth is, when you are already financially stable and have some time on your hands, absorbing culture(books, films, music) not only makes you a more interesting person to talk to but is also just a patrician thing to do. Not much to do in this world, why not?

>get laid every night by wife
>work out 4 times a week
>hang out with friends fri/sat night
>read
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>>41228991

to feel better about myself.
Had a few serious convos and even met with 2 girls but ultimately decided that I wouldn't want to deal with having a gf.
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>>41217874
This.
>>
I cannot think of a single time I have ever seen someone just go up and ask out a random stranger. This is for either gender as well.
>>
I've been getting mired and approached quite a bit lately, unfortunately every single one is a butter golem.
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>>41225137
underrated
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>>41217836
>be me in 2013
>walking on the sidewalk down a rural area road
>see some girl going into her front door, look around because grill
>she calls to me "Hey, do I know you? I think we've met before."
>she has a European accent, can't remember it
>Say "I-I don't know. I don't think we've met before. No, sorry."
>walk away
>hit me almost right away that I basically told her to fuck off

Here's a double dose of autism:

>last summer
>hiking up some mountain outside town
>get halfway up the trail and come across some qt resting, taking in the view
>"hey," she says. "nice day, huh?"
>"yeah, it's not bad"
>she asks where i'm from
>I should mention I didn't stop walking, and i didn't stop as I passed and answered her
>spend the rest of the hike thinking how I have a chance to talk again on the way back and what I should say
>heading down the trail now
>we meet. we lock eyes
>I smile and pass her
>nothing was said

Hold me bros
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>>41217836
>Do girls initiate conversation with you more often if youre fit?
No, they just stare at you until you notice them and go talk to them.
>>
Never had a girl actually approach me but they will definitely be nicer and more open to being approached
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>>41235680
Yeah never seen this happen in Europe atleast. Maybe at a party or something but never in a public setting.
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>>41220421
>not reading the truthful and zionist-exposing works of his holiness Henry Ford
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>>41219357
books are actually pretty popular with american women.

all romance novels, but hey
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>>41236273
kek just confirmed by a girl as i read it to her and she approved
>>
>>41219966
Brah, she was spilling spaghetti. May have been ugly but that sounds pretty easy
>>
>>41232366
Grow a beard and shave your head when your hair thins too much.
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>>41236250
>Say "I-I don't know. I don't think we've met before. No, sorry."
>walk away
>hit me almost right away that I basically told her to fuck off
What should have been said instead?
>no, *enternamehere* nice to meet you?
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>>41219780
post face
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>>41236499
Yeah, pretty much.

>"Hi, I'm Anon. What's your name?"
>get name
>"It's nice to meet you (her name here)"
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>>41217836

Women won't approach you most of the time, even if you're really hot. The thought will occur to them, but they will decide against it. Why put yourself out there when guys will inevitably hit on you, and you can be the person in power?

Women read. They like hot guys. They like short guys, fat guys, bald guys, whatever. But if you're waiting around for some cutie to ask you out, you're out of luck because most girls will not do that unless you're willing to go WAY under fair beauty/health/intelligence standards.

Stereotypical "assholes" that beta-males hate have one thing in common - they're not afraid of female rejection. Just ask someone out without being a fucking creep and they'll humor it at worst and say yes at best. You don't have the luxury of being a pussy in this situation - you have to be a dick.
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>>41235100
>t. Sweden
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>>41220497
Acts the point, you just imply stuff and they'll fall for you.
Just stuff like "wow, I can't believe it's only the two of us in this room, and how funny that it locks from the inside."
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>>41217836
G-guys? If a girl tells you that you look like celebrity, is that a sign that they are in to you or just being nice?
>t. good looking autist
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>>41236703
kek, I might actually do that.
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>>41220377
My tip is if it is straight hair. Cut it off
Straight long hair rarely looks good on guys.
If it has some curls you are good.
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>>41237548
Yeah Ive noticed. When I ask girls for a lighter, they strike up a conversation more often than when I didnt go to the gym.
Lots of eye contact with girls I walk by and a lot of people are smiling.

I wasnt even really chubbs, more built with a bit of fat. But now I lost some facial fat and the difference is night and day. Cant wait to be done with my cut.
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>>41217921
>being THIS disconnected from reality

MY
FUCKING
SIDES
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>>41219937
>"I see you staring, you can touch if you want"
definitely not this anyway
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>>41217836

yes, but they'll usually just say something retarded like "hi" and then smile at you and expect you to hit on them. when you just stand there looking at them, since you expect they have something interesting to say when a stranger says hi to you, they just sort of stare back at you and then just make an awkward face and walk away as if nothing happened

it's glorious and it easily pays for all the hard work at the gym, but then again i don't lift for girls
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>>41217836
nobody approaches me
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>>41217836
Nope. Women exist and that is their value.
Men are made by their own merit.

So she does nothing, turns up somewhere and stands around while the best candidates come and audition. Regardless of your physical appearance.

On the rare occasion a girl does approach you she is a massive slut and only worth a pump and dump.

Eggs and sperm son. Lots of sperm, limited eggs. Disposable, valuable. Low sexual value, high sexual value.
Don't approach and you won't be ejecting any into a girl because you have to prove your worth with confidence while women just exist.
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>>41237810
Me on the right
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>>41219216
Women in Finland are open and promiscuous. The easiest in Europe according to some studies.
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>>41236273
>feel like women sometimes stare at me (look kind of attractive, but in a weird way for a guy; big eyelashes, big eyes, soft full lips, square jaw with clear bone structure, smooth deathly pale skin, body of an off-season rugby player)
>stare back, expressionless like the void, unsure on what to do
we're all going to make it bros
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>>41237933
Hmmmm
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>>41221880
>Some Chad with max CHA
>Dood here's how to not be shy with this one weird trick

k
>>
>>41231330
expected skinny

why do shirts kill gains
>>
>>41239097

the quality is also pretty shitty, but yeah most clothes kill gains. short sleeve tees are my favorite to show off gains. get a slim fitting one to show off v shape, chest and arms.
>>
My current gf talked to me but I think that's only because we were the only two who didn't know each other in the circle of friends going out
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>>41220370
that's why pajeet and chang are their biggest customers
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