Is it normal/okay to become physically fit solely to get a girl

Why the hell are people so determined to have this entire website agree with their reasons for lifting? No one fucking cares why you decided to get /fit/, just shut the fuck up and go pick something heavy up for multiple sets until you get what you want, no one needs to explain to you why your reason is better or worse than anyone else's.

>>41150766

Sure except it won't work unless you have a nice face, a good personality and are tall.

Money also helps.

>>41150766
If that's your only reason, you will stop before you even get close.

>>41150766
No it's fine anon but surely it's no 'solely for her'. If you don't want to look as good as you can for yourself too then you might never make it.
About 50/50 here desu.

>>41150766
>Is it normal/okay to become physically fit solely to get a girl who's gorgeous ?

It's normal to try, but it never works

my chubby friend is a fucking ladykiller, but he goes to clubs and parties a lot

if you want to pick up any girl, you should learn how to game first, at least

>>41150766
>Is it normal/okay to become physically fit solely to get a girl who's gorgeous ?

It is normal to daydream about such things yes. Particularly if you're unfit and even if you were fit you'd probably still fall short.

>>41150811
You should learn how to game by way of working on yourself. That means working out, keeping fit, wearing clothes that fit and look fashionable, having a decent job, etc. the only way to game is to become alpha and make bitches look like options.

>>41150766
Yea, its why most people are inspired to better themselves in the furst place is to attract the opposite sex. Anyone who isn't working toward attracting the opposite sex and making themselves more marketable are low test and sexual dysfunctional.

>>41150766
Yeah, but first thing gorgeous girls look at is face and height.

>>41150910
you forgot to add social skills. You need to be out there, have friends and do fun activities.
Seeing someone surrounded by pretty girls and chill guys having fun is straight up proof to girls he is of high value

>>41151005
Funny, I'm neither out there, having fun or doing anything fun with my life yet I still have plenty of women coming my way.

In my experience, you dont need to be some hot shot. High school is over and the older you get, the older women get, they care less if you're surrounded by cool dudes and hot girls.

The thing I noticed that they cared the most about is this, look good to attract them, look presentable so they can show you off to friends and family, be able to socialize well enough to hold a decent conversation with family and friends, do something with your life (a career or working towards one) and don't make them feel insecure. A lot more is being said about you nonverbally so be keen on body language. Both the bobdy language you are sending as well as other chicks. You'll be able to pick up on the ones interested in you right away without having to spit a whole lot of verbal game. Why? Because they don't really have any fucking game themselves and will go with small talk because thats all they really know. Too many guys trying to come up with some complex game for simple minded creatures. Don't make it hard on yourself. She's either into you or she's not and no amount of game, social skills or whatever is going to change her mind. Just as obese women arent going to turn me on no matter how sweet they are to me or how big their tits may be.

Inb4 money. You can just pay for escorts with money if your only concern is sex or "compainonship".

>>41150766
it's normal but also retarded. things that are attractive to girls are, in order, personality, face, height, body, money.

>>41150766
The real key is to make that decision for yourself not worry about whether a bunch of random people on the internet agree with your train of thought

she still not gonna want anything to do with you

>>41150787
fpbp as usual

>>41150766
Doing anything besides asking a girl out, solely in order to get a girl is retarded.

>>41150910
>become alpha
You're born alpha, sorry to break it to you little """man"""

>>41151200
This

>>41151571
>simply
>not
>true

If alpha was a genetic state it would be a few thousand years since alpha's would have taken over.
Last time i check, little curly haired semites, from saudi to syria control your bank in your own countries, and your oil supply abroad.

Sorry to break it to you, little slave.

>>41151177
Everything you said is true and i agree with almost all your points. I just want to add up on that.

I have college degree in engineering, well paid job, apparent and a car. I have wide circle of friends and I organised parties with 10-20 people almost every weekend.
>Do not underestimate power of having constant influx of new girls at your house
Having pretty female friends at your apartment and being generally accepted by everyone makes you an easy focus point of girls. + all those social media pics proving your "social" worth when a girls spies on you
DISCLAIMER: all of this isn't necessary. You can very well be a lone wolf and still score. What i mentioned above has worked for me and it isnt for every body

>Inb4 money.
Depends how much money are we talking about man. Im not talking about crazy sums here, just enough so:
>You can go out on any random day of the week and not worry about buying 4-5 beers
>You can visit any festival/concert you wan't
>you can travel few times a year to fascinating places
>you can have decend clothes that isn't all second hand oversized
By this you my conclude i was dirt poor during college. I had enough money to afford 2-3 beers when out, ONCE a week at max. I bought clothes maybe once every 3 years.
Having enough money not to worry about it makes you much more fun and chill guy to be next to

>She's either into you or she's not and no amount of game, social skills or whatever is going to change her mind.
That is only true if youre talking shorterm. I had female friends that saw me like a brother. Fast forward and we don't see each other for 2 years. I've gotten fit, traveled for a year and she sees me making out with different girl every weekend. BAM, we sleep together.
"Friendzone" doesn't last forever if you cut contacts and improve

>>41150787
fpbp

>>41150766
Hey thats a slut who went to my high school. Got any more?

>>41150766
It's ok, you do your thing. The problem is it's useless, being /fit/ won't attract the most gorgeous girls. Only people with the correct HEIGHT, FACE and FRAME and the charisma it implies do that.

>>41150766

We'll see if you keep lifting when you get over girls.

>>41150766
Yeah do whatever you want, but it's another matter to keep the girl. You have to be entertaining, perform sexually and keep her interested and feeling "safe".

Being fit is just a small part of it

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>>41150766
If you aren't gonna continue if she rejects you, fuck off because you won't be consistent. You have to love what you're doing to be consistent enough to see actual results.

Pretty women release chemicals in your brain. Literally, pretty girls are like doing drugs.

>>41150787
Fpbp

>lift for girls
>nothing happens, don't feel better

>lift for self
>more motivated, girls interested, have to tell a thicc Latina that I'm seeing someone else

I'd try to pull a chad and work two at once but the one chick is lockdown tier.

>>41152632
>perfect face.jpg

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>>41150787
fpbp

>>41150766
It is both normal and okay, but not ideal.

You want to be fit because that is the ideal man. Attracting women should just be a bonus.

>>41150787
People should lift for themselves, not women.

>tfw I have less charisma than a potato
>being fit and having a good job aren't helping me to avoid wizardhood
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