>tfw you can feel the break up coming >tfw it's all

>>41116336
Fix it then fool

>>41116336
time to do some G4P and get them stacks bruh

>>41116336
Relationships are cool but if they make up the majority of your happiness you're doing something wrong

>>41116336
change everything.

I'm in the exact same spot man, couldn't have come at a worse time too, I have exams and if I fail I might get kicked out of uni for 10 years.

How do yall talk to grills? Since becoming fit bitches like me and I can talk but my autismo kicks in and I run out of things to say/ask.

I remember feel
Dropping her off and going back to your car, knowing that this won't last, contemplating whether you should cut it off in a civilized manneror just wait it out on the chance that things get fixed

>>41116336
Don't worry about it, you might start hanging out with her again 5 years from now and it works better then. It's not like she's dead.

>>41117065
Not calling them bitches may be a good start. Also be interesting in general and interested in them

>>41117065
You don't always need to have things to say.
Serves as a test if THEY have interesting things to say and if they can lead a conversation.

the same thing is happening to me too

she just isn't happy with me, she's scared of the future with me

she just says I'm too childish, not mature enough

we had a big talk with lots of crying yesterday and she told me she either wants to break it off completely, or take a break

so we chose to take a break

I know all the memes about taking a break in a relationship, how it's annalogous to a legit breakup but I don't care

and she's right, I am a fucking man child. I look good, I can talk shit, but really inside I'm the same clumzy kid who'd rather stay home, throw socks all over the room and play video games and procrastinate all day and forget things.

I'm trying to change, but it's so fucking hard.

how the fuck do people grow up. how the fuck do you get into adult life. I got a month of uni left and I'm the same as I was when I left highschool. except I love someone now.

>>41117161
After she's fucked 50 more dude's while in her prime and wants to settle down with him because she's on the decline? Might as well be dead.

>>41117232
>how the fuck do people grow up.
They don't, fake it til you make it broski

>>41117232
You have to want the kind of success that demands discipline more than you want to be comfy all the time. Any other reason for acting mature is just LARPing hoping to get laid more.

If you love her, then shouldn't you want to be the kind of man she can love?

>>41117259
You shouldn't pine away hoping to run into an ex again, but you know women aren't the only ones who make bad decisions and/or get burned in the dating game. Maybe he'll be just as desperate and she'll be basically in his league as a divorced fat man.

>>41117259
If she's that much of a slut then he should be glad it's over and he dodged a bullet.

>>41116336
Wrong board, but don't let the sadness take over the gains.

>>41116336
B L A S T AND C R U I S E

>>41117271
>fake it til you make it
Worst advice ever

>>41116336
Back in December I watched myself actively ruin my relationship. I could quite literally see myself being an asshole but didn't do anything about it and just kept it going. One day I was stressed out and yelled at her and that did it. 3 years together, I was gonna marry her and she left me.

Damn man I just had to get this off my chest.

>>41117232
This is something you should cherish.
I'm nostalgic about the times when I was acting like a little shitstain. I sometimes want to return to that so bad, but my life is restricting me in that regard. I feel like an animal in a cage that needs to act how people expect me to, because otherwise uncomfortable questions arise.

>>41117481
whatever helps you sleep better at night

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>>41117540
How do you fake sleeping all night?

>>41117586
In your case, by bashing your own face in with a sledgehammer

>>41117232
Hope you like the taste of another dudes cum, buddy.

Dumped my girlfriend last night. Feels bad man

I love him, but I don't think I'm in love with him. He's in love with me. I don't want to break his heart.

Fuck.

>>41117232
>I know all the memes about taking a break in a relationship, how it's annalogous to a legit breakup but I don't care
Not exactly. It's actually about wanting to have an excuse for fucking other men, while still keeping you available if she gets tired of it.

>>41118015
The gay dating pool is pretty shallow, be careful what you do.

>>41117991
Gf of almost six years I might add

>>41116336
>hit it off really well with a grill
>she has a bf
EVERY
DAMN
TIME

>>41116336
>emotionally investing in women
>being this blue-pilled

>>41116336
>>>41116336
>Relationships are cool but if they make up the majority of your happiness you're doing something wrong


/thread. This is all that needs to be said.

>>41117530

yeah well those times are coming to an end

if that's what it takes to have her by my side

if I have to become a regular guy, with no dreams or childish fantasies

then I'll do it

>>41118043

what happened?

why did she leave you?

this really sucks.

>>41118026
I'm not a guy, but I might be gay. I don't know. We've talked about this extensively, I'm going through a rough time, he's very supportive. In a way, that makes it worse.

>>41118082
I dumped her. We were long distance (2hr drive) for almost half of it. Just were drifting apart. I spent last weekend with her and it was great. I'm so empty now

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My girlfriend has moved to Greece for 7 months for work.

Sitting here improving myself. I trust her, but 7 months is a long time, people change and I don't know if she has the willpower to not succumb to temptation of big ol' pavlos. Girls NEED attention and i can't give it to her while i'm out there. And even if she did fall to temptations of the flesh, would she tell me?

Everyone on here moans about wanting a cute gf, when you get one you wish you could do without her, but you can't. Consider it a fucking addictive supplement to your life, without it you have no motive, withdrawn you are fearful to live the rest of your life without it and on it you feel on top of the world.

Lads, my heart aches

>>41117065
Just let your autismo free, someone will like it eventually

>>41118125
might as well break up. living apart for 6mos and not in military = relationship has ended

>>41118125
You're already a cuck, you just don't know it

>>41118043
Iktfb

It goes away but only with time. Spend some time alone. What helped me was turning off my radio/music while I drove. It helped me keep my thoughts clear

>>41118125

7 months is fucking nothing.

visit her every 2 months or something. or at least once.

if you've been together longer than half a year you'll be fine.

>>41117232
>so we chose to take a break
At least you're going to get some decent amount of protein dripping out of her cunt when/if she's coming back.

>>41117232
>she's scared of the future with me
she doesn't love you senpai
If she sees you as a means to an end (a comfortable life) then she's not with you for you, she's with you for what you can do for her.

Appreciate what you had, understand and accept that it's gone, and find someone that wants to be with you.

>>41116336
Hey senpai relationships are like that ,at first you are all over each other and you are only gettin out of bed just to go pee as the time passes by it reaches a highpoint and then its all downhill , finding one that will stay with you forever be faithfull and other nice stuff happens rarely or never . My tip is just enjoy the nice stuff and feelings while they last and when everything is over just move on with your life. Others are gonna get bored of you and vica versa no matter what you do so dont stress yourself out about this

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GF of 5 years broke up with me last monday.

NEVER MAKE YOUR WOMAN THE CENTER OF YOUR LIFE

She was crazy in love with me until I dropped frame and showed weakness after she shit tested me about breaking up on the phone.

Went from joking about how we would name our future kids to "it's over" in a month.

[spoiler] I also quit the gym last year, worst decision of my life [/spoiler]

Talked about muh feelings and everything, a month later she came "to talk" and broke up.

We've been through so much together. How can she throw this away

I have an important exam tomorrow and can barely focus
I'm still gonna make it brahs. R-Right?

>>41119103
get back in the gym , chanel all your negative emotions into lifting and improvin yourself and the go fuck some bithces

>>41117065
Pro tip, if you're /fit/ enough women don't care about your autism as long as your penor will land in their vago. Same works both ways, men don't care what stupid bullshit woman spews as long as they get to taste her snatch.

>>41116336
I blew it with the chick I like.
We went from always laughing and messing around together at work to her doing everything in her power to not even look in my direction.
I've never felt more confused and defeated.
I feel so strongly like I had a huge momentum that slammed into a brick wall. Played my damn cards wrong and blew it.
Work is painful when she's there, ignoring me at absolutely all costs.

Hate that I can't stop thinking about her, i wish she would at least fucking talk to me but she acts like I'm the worst thing ever and I cannot understand why.

I got into a car accident, grade 3 concussion (I'm a delivery boy, got T boned). For some stupid reason I'm hoping she would drop the grudge, maybe just to ask if I'm ok. And If I play it cool enough I could try and spark things up again.
But of course, just more fantasies is all it is.

At least you've got to love. You know you can be liked, you know you can get another GF once you're over this one.
I haven't gotten laid in 4 years. Nearly fucking died and first thing I think about when I gain my consciousness back is her. And I have no actual fucking intimate experience to fall back on.
I feel very alone. All my friends have girls, all my friends would have had a chick at the hospital with them to make them feel better. All I had was my family, which I am grateful for. But god damn...I am so alone.

Thinking I should start a tinder.

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>>41119266
Yeah I went back to the gym immediately after she broke up. Felt so fucking good man.

Showing weakness or not, she's fucking stupid to throw me away.

I gave her so much, emotional and financial support (I good money through daytrading and working at university).

My grandparents practically considered us married.

My new apartment is right next to the gym. I still bought hardware for my home gym, I'm probably gonna have both.

Will be good times. I'll worry about marrying and a family when I'm 35. Golden age for men.

NEVER FUCKING CHANGE FOR YOUR GIRL, THHIS WILL BLOW UP IN YOUR FACE

>tfw got first ever gf at the age of 25 few weeks ago
>tfw have had ED for past 6-7 years

>>41119103
This is basically called being in your 20's. Everyone develops grass is greener syndrome in one relationship unless they get married/ have kids. It's only after that really that people actually try to make a relationship work rather than just bin it for a new one. Unfortunately these days there's no need to get married or have kids in your 20's so basically if you're the monogamous/ introvert/ dont need tons of people just a few special ones type you're fucked. It gets better.

Also, women are just one big shit test, and you will fail at one point or another, usually it wont end your relationship, if it did she either wasn't ready for a forever friend or the relationship wasn't as great as your broken heart is remembering - in which case you'll find something better too.

>>41119352
get some cialis bro , a 5mg pill every 3 days is gonna make that shit go away , and if u wanna fuck a girls brain out and make an impresion take a 20 one

>>41119402
the dr gave me 50mg of viagra and it only gave me a 60-70% erection
then i told him and he upped the dosage and got 100mg viagra and it done the same thing

>>41119103
yes, you're still gonna make it. take your time, cry like a faggot for all the time you need then get up and focus on yourself.

>>41119342
>NEVER FUCKING CHANGE FOR YOUR GIRL, THHIS WILL BLOW UP IN YOUR FACE
true words never go out of your way just follow your way and what happens happens

>>41119420
viagra one lasts for like 5 hours and it can be negativly by some foods , cialis on the other hand lasts for like 45-48 hours and food doesnt afect it just dont take any nitric oxide with it

also go check your prolactine lvls and shit

>>41119458
It's not a blood flow problem. No idea what it is, probably low test and jerking off to porn so much growing up.

fucking christ, why do relationships go to shit at this time of the year?

>>41119488
Winter Depression.

Not enough sunlight.

Exam phase.

"New Dawn" kind of epiphanies about changing your life.

Same reason people clean up thoroughly after winter.

>>41119483
stop watchin and relax ! the more you think and stress about it the more it kills your boners , i have ED because of the medications and the bipolar disorder itself but with cialis my cock works always despite the lack of libido

>>41119483
Did you try nofap yet?
Worked wonders for me in addition to consistent sex to be able to relax properly (phycological fear can be huge in ED for young guys)

>>41119530
I just did it for 139 days and jerked off twice in teh past week since it has done nothing for me. (No morning wood or random erections like everyone else has claimed)

>tfw you're over the ex who fucked you over utterly

It'll take time bros. Just give time.

>>41116336
what ever you do, know the barbell will always love you. stay true to that.

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>>41118015
>I love him, but I don't think I'm in love with him
The bullshit women say to make themselves feel better.

>>41119402
this, i had psychological ed for 2 years (on and off but that shit makes you anxious)
bought myself 20 cialis and used them over 6 months, not a single issues since. Im not sure how but i think my brain got conned into not worrying about it even though i know it was just the meds.

>>41119709
Did you have ED by yourself like I've had for years? I havent had proper morning wood in years

>>41119604
>tfw it's always getting dumped by the latest ex that makes you realise you're completely over the ex before her

kinda bittersweet

>>41116336
If you can feel the breakup coming why not ask her if she's thinking about it and what you can do to stop it.

Then do that.

>>41119721
no, i fapped multiple times a day and always got morning wood. If you're not getting morning wood then imo it's more likely to have a physical aspect too (which may just be hormonal or also circulatory).

>>41119744
I'm getting a blood test in a few hours. It's fucked up. I have ED so i never tried to pursue women and at the same time I didnt care about getting with women because i had ED.

My problems are very different to everyone elses here

>>41119778
How about you stop being such a faggot and fix your fucking dick

how can you live like this

are you sure it's not anxiety? if it's biological you better get your ass to an urologist and FIX YOUR FUCKING PENIS

god the people posting here what the fuck

>>41119806
I told you I'm getting a blood test in a few hours. I've finally decided to fix it. It's not anxiety cause the shits been happening by myself for years and i cant get random erections or morning wood even when i sleep

Do you live together?
If not just start fucking other people, she does.

>>41119488
I've been doing better than ever with my gf, but recently she said she's been "pretty sad when thinking about herself" and shit like that.
Probably hassomething to do with >>41119504

>>41117232
went through the same thing pretty much so take it from me
If you really like her and not just here you need to like and respect yourself enough to start being better, like if you want a future with her then pick a major that you can do good in so that one day you'll have a job good enough to support her. Also you need to grow up for yourself so that you can better enjoy life when you're older and aren't living at home or working two minimum wage jobs just to stay afloat. You also won't like to here this but if you're hanging out with your bros and they are just as childish and immature as you then you need to slowly start distancing yourself from them or you won't be able to change. Good luck with everyone anon

>>41116336
you'll be just fine

>>41119947

thanks man, legit reply.

I really do love her, I'm just a chronic procrastinator a.k.a manchild

I'm trying to change, I really am, and I changed a bit and it's a slow process.

I know she can see this, that I'm trying, at least a bit, but it's too slow for her I think.

I want to be with her.

>>41119947

and yeah my friends are a bit immature, but so am I

u can drop me an email if you like because I'm just really sad

>>41117232
>except I love someone now
call me a fag but your post made me tear up a little.
May this be the wake up call you need to get your shit together. Most people don't until they hit rock bottom so maybe you are approaching your own personal rock bottom.

>>41116336
>tfw never had a girlfriend
>just got one at 19
>she's nice and good looking
>we talk a lot but i can't help feeling like i don't really care for her
>feel like i'm just forcing myself to go through with this just because i don't have anything else at the moment
i would feel fucking horrible though for breaking up with her, cause as far as i can tell she really likes me but i don't know if i reciprocate those same feelings.

>>41121131
Not that guy but listen mate.
You don't need online mates, you need real life friends now. I hope you have some good ones.

I do not talk strictily from personal experience. But I've been there for a few really good friends of mine after they broke up with their ~3year gfs.
You need to go out with your actual friends. Go out and get it out. Get drunk, talk shit, whatever. You won't get better in a day, or a week, but after a month, or even few months, it WILL fade. Use those friends of yours during that time to keep you sane. Don't ramble forever about her. I mean, sure, she's on your mind, but avoid her. Let it all out once or twice, and be done with her. Throw away her photos and such, or at least hide them somewhere until you truly get over her. Block her number, social media and everything, mostly so that you don't cave when the temptation hits.

Fuel desperation, depression, rage, everything, into your lifts. You'll make it.

>>41121182

it's alright man

it really is rock bottom

we had fought before this as well

she almost left me a few months ago. but I started getting my shit together. it's hard though, it's really hard. it's a slow process and I fear it may be too slow or I may be too weak. but I fucking love her. and I'll keep trying no matter how clumzy or stupid I am.

I got a question guys

>im 25
>been on 2 dates with girl who is 26
>we both have our own places
>i have a decent job and doing somewhat well
>she has her own business making prob $70k a year profit, and its expanding. shes doin real well for herself
>shes 5'6, 130 lbs, really tight figure
>shes really outgoing, but overall her interests are pretty basic
>i can definitely see myself dating her but shes not a perfect match
>bad news, she has some womens health issues and apparently she cant have kids
>its not that shes infertile, but doctors have told her not to have kids because it would be very dangerous and she could die from the complications

I like her and we have fun when we go out, but ideally im going to want kids at some point. not adopted kids, but my own kids. I know its too early to be thinking about all of this but am i right for being concerned about this? im gonna continue dating her but knowing in the back of my mind that i'll probably have to leave her at some point isnt a pleasant feeling.

>>41122149
You could always rent a womb. Dunno how expensive that is tho. Also, if you stay with her despite all those issues, she's bound to get really attached to you, which I suppose is nice in the >current year .

>>41121206
I know that feel anon, best thing is to be honest with her about your feelings and break it off now, it's gonna be messy down the line otherwise

>>41121206
i know tf bro
i only get this gf because i want a gf and she has some characteristics that i like but i dont really love her for now, maybe one day i will

>>41122230
Thats what i was considering.

She seems really into me so far and gives off the impression of being faithful. Definitely something I value. Just an odd situation for me to be in.

>>41121206
Before you break up with her, honestly think about how goign back to being single would feel. Assuming you guys talk a lot, think about the void that would be created from her not being there. If youre cool with that, and would rather be alone, then you might want to have a talk with her. Be honest with her and let her know how youve been feeling. Also explore why you feel this way.

>>41122271
Wife her
Get a surrogate eventually

>>41122149
Get that dumb bitch on birth control asap and just bust inside her all day until you find a healthier, more viable hole.

>>41121206

fate is funny and you might fall for her hard

specially since you're young

same thing happened to me

life pranks you man, you don't care about her, and one day you can't see your future without her

>>41122149
shit mate, that's a tough problem
It's like dating someone who's going to die.
And here I thought I have a problem cause my gf isnt the smartest, but fuck do i love her sweet silly ass

>>41122311
Can confirm, not there yet but I noticed this slowly happening to me.

>>41122297
She makes good money, and it would be a few years before we would have a kid anyway, id figure better technology would come along and either fix her issue or make surrogacy cheaper.

>>41122298
Shes on birth control but it still doesnt give her regular periods. It sounds really bad but I was going to date her with best of intentions but if something better comes along i was going to consider it.

>>41122330
Ya never been with a girl who had a problem like this. Just gonna roll with it. I've only been talking to her for a little over a month and weve only been on 2 dates. its too early to start figuring out too much.

>>41122365

oh once it hits you... you're gonna feel so fucking stupid and regret not appreciating her more

you'll ask yourself "damn, how did I end up with someone so awesome?"

and then the other girls disappear, you'll just stop caring about other women

you won't even notice them

because for you, only she exists.

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>>41117144
>>41117232
>meet girl 3 months back
>easiest girl to talk to, always had something to say, always had something to say back
>im in love
>hang out almost every day over spring break, best days of my life
>empty feeling gone, have someone who seriously cares about me
>more distant one day, shrug it off but know things are about to end
>dont say much for a few days
>leaves me paragraph one day about everything
>no contact almost instantly
>find out 2 weeks later at a party my friends older cousin trained her with a few of his friends
>we all laugh it off, dude pats my back and says shes a thot man dont worry about it
Feel broken and empty, shit hurts, drink a lot now

>>41117211
This guy gets it.

My gf is basically my best friend. She took an interest in my gaming and ended up building a pc. Now she games with me and does her own thing too. Eventually got her into the gym as well. She's looking really good as of late, even better than before. She's the tall, long legged, elegant giraffe type. 5'9, which is pretty tall for a gril.
I took an interest in her art and she taught me to draw. She plays piano and I half ass played guitar, so I ended up becoming a much better player since I had someone to play with.

Give and take. You dont want some boring slut that you're just keeping around because she's a pretty face. If you cant learn from each other or hold a fluid conversation with ease, move on.
It took me a good little minute to snag this one. It's been a few years now. Likely going to marry her once we're financially set individually.

>>41119278
yeah that's not true unfortunately

>>41117232
You seem like a spineless faggot who has never encountered any harsh form of adversity in their life. Maybe you should try doing something a bit more adventurous and risky and learn from the experience, instead of playing video games all damn day.

>>41119278
You're underestimating my autismo. Saturday night I was at a quiet bar around the time of the kitchen closing. This chick sat next to me and chatted with me and bought me food for some reason. Eventually an hour or so later the bar was closing and she left.

The bartender asked if I got her number, and I said I figured she wasn't interested in me because she didn't ask me what I did for work. He looked at me like I was nuts, but I really just couldn't tell.

This may be a regular occurrence, but I have no idea.

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>>41116336
You're at your most attractive when you're comfortable with being your own person and doing your own thing. If your happiness depends on other people you're just going to cycle through short highs followed by depression.

At least that's what I tell myself.