hello /fit/ - what is the best way to approach a guy at a gym?

>>41050908
lol idk, ive never thought of it from the other side.. I swear there are like 2 -3 girls who want me notice them. They make eye contact with me often. They seem to act weird when they are in my field of view.. Like hair and shit, I read once that when a girl likes you she sort of copies your mannerism. I swear i've seen this.. It could be all in my head but I am tall. 7 years in the gym and good looking..

The point of that blog post is to be direct, alot of men arent as intune with subtleties as women.. Just say hi and askabout a workout or something, keep it short, then make small talk the next time you see em..

Girls who take their fitness serious are one of the aspects of wife material..

>>41050908
A girl approaching a guy is the one time that 'just b urself and go and say hi' is legit advice.

>>41050908
>what is the best way to approach a guy at a gym?
Wether youre a guy or a girl just walk up and talk to him, he will most likely do the rest and you can relax

About the girls thing i dont consider any girls at the gym hook-up material and especially not relationship material but generally im guessing its a 50/50 depending on the dude but you cant really fail

>>41051005
>I swear there are like 2 -3 girls who want me notice them.
Ive noticed girls who do the same when im around and trust me friend, they just want attention. Its not about you, its about them and their need for validation

Even if you're a 6/10 he will still fuck you so just go talk to him, don't play dumb games and ask about routines and stuff, you will probably be fucking that afternoon.

>>41050908
>What kind of girls at gym would you consider relationship material and not just a hook-up?
None

>>41051092
i don't think irl works like that? it's not like a porno, wouldn't a guy be suspicious of a girl who would immediately suggest fucking? also i would like to get to know him first, bud i don't know what to say

>>41051103
why, don't you want a fit gf?

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>>41050908
Never really though about it, but I work out at the gym solo all the time and if a grill asked be between sets something in the ballpark of 'Jane Doe bailed on me and I don't have a workout buddy today, mind if I tag along with you' I'd be hard pressed to say no. Just work with it from there and if you are attractive to him you could probably set up another workout day in the future.

Only thing I would say to avoid is trying to get between a man and his gains. I fucking hate it when people just want to talk for hours while you are trying to move on to the next exercise but they won't let you leave without making it awkward. If you are just looking to talk instead of working out at the gym you will probably have less success though not by much (none at all if you are a super qt3.14).

>>41050908
my lady,
>relationship material
is not so easy to fake...
just be playful and drop the drama
take your relation with ppl in general serious
and take yourself with a healthyly less-serious

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Dont approach people at the gym

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>>41051158

> i don't think irl works like that? it's not like a porno, wouldn't a guy be suspicious of a girl who would immediately suggest fucking?

>>41050908
What's the guy like? Is he a CHAD? Nerdy GOMAD nerd? (yeah right)

It's different for every guy but if you want a good relationship obviously just be yourself, ask him some banal small talk questions about why he works out, if he plays sports, etc, and then see if he wants to get coffee sometime.

>>41051158
>why, don't you want a fit gf?
There are two types of girls who go to the gym
One goes because her bf goes there and she wants to be with him
The other type just goes for validation and attention

Neither of these are any good for anything, hooking up with a girl with a bf who works out will lead to drama and its not wanted at the gym
Girls who want attention and validation dont put out so they can fuck off

Seriously mate, if youre a girl just walk up and make your intentions clear. We are guys and we like fucking. we arent girls so there is no need to manipulate or trick us into it

>>41051158
guys dont care, you´re overthinking this

just be yourself and talk shit, you wont lose any street cred if you at least tried

Just got a bar you stupid fucking slut.

I'm trying to work out.

>>41051212
>We are guys and we like fucking. we arent girls so there is no need to manipulate or trick us into it

Fucking this, I swear to god girls are retarded, it's simple as fuck.

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You got this, OP.

>>41051232
>Just got a bar you stupid fucking slut.
this

>"i only get 210 phone numbers every night i go out but i want more, better hit up guys at the gym too!"
This is why i hate women, you have bars, clubs, streets, festivals, parties and ALL of the fucking internet feeding you attention and if you want it dick.
gtfo out of the gym, its out place

>>41051288
I would literally never stop having sex with that if I could.

>>41051219
>guys dont care, you´re overthinking this
I'd be pretty suspicious if a girl just walked up to me and said she wanted to bang. I mean, I'd DO it, but I'd have a few questions before I fuck her.

First thought would be that it's some type of setup. She's going to lure me to a bathroom or something, then I'd get mugged by a guy waiting for my dumb ass.

Second thought would be that I'm on some type of prank game show, and a whole camera crew will coming running out of nowhere to out me as some type of pervert.

Third thought would be that this girl may be a hooker, and then I'd wonder if she's expecting money or some type of transaction. Then I'd be afraid to ask about it because if she's NOT a hooker, I've just blown my chance by implying she's a prostitute.

Last thought would be that I better double up on the condom. Because if she's promiscuous enough to fuck a random dude on the street once, she's probably had a ton of dicks in her.

>>41051158

Don't immediately suggest it, you retard. What the fuck does that even mean? "Hey do you wanna fuck?" You'll get limited success doing that, but everyone will think you're a dumb whore.

Just talk like you don't browse /fit/, then go to coffee, then go to your place or his and bang.

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>>41051169
but we have different routines, it would make no sense to "tag along" with him, i would just hold him back

>>41051210
borderline chad (at least looks), dunno if he's a slayer.

>>41051212
so i should start with a friendship first to get to know him? I never asked anyone out, i don't know how this works. i don't want to just use him for sex.

>taking advice from autistic neets to go up and ask to fuck
>kek

>>41051449
ayyyy baby i'm on here meet me in the toilet tomorrow ;)

>>41051449
You are a girl, you cant fail in this. Its impossible, rejection isnt a thing for girls
Go up and talk to him, he will do the rest

and dont be fucking autistic enough to tell him you want to fuck, he should get that from you talking to him.

Listen to Shia and JUST DO IT

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>>41050908
Pic related for relationship material.

I'd nut in any kaffir sloot in yoga pants tho.

>>41051416
i would be thrilled if he browsed /fit/ though

>>41051485
ok but i'll cancel my membership if he rejects me

>>41051485
>rejection isnt a thing for girls
I've turned down a few girls. They were either ugly as fuck, ham beasts, or both.

So OP, if you're ugly, fat, or both, there's a real chance you could get turned down or brushed off (I've done it before). But if you're actually cute and at least semi-fit/not fat, you're golden.

Now that I think of it, I've literally never been hit on by a cute girl. Every time a girl hit on me or tried to take me home for sex, they were ugly landwhales...

>>41051528
>ok but i'll cancel my membership if he rejects me
Ill fucking eat my membership card if he does, unless he has a gf and doesnt want to cheat

>>41051538
>girls.
>ugly as fuck ham beasts
pick one
But yeah, i assume OP isnt a fat ass or ugly because then all is void
you have to be atleast 6/10 for it to work

>>41051543
legit only way you can fail

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>>41051615
Or if she's fat and/or ugly.

Speaking of which, post a pic OP. That way we can judge your chances of success.

>>41051626
this, at least physique pic

>>41051626
>>41051640
i've been gymcelling long enough to have a decent figure and i think my face is ok too. he's really attractive though, how do i find out if he has a gf? fuck, why does this have to be so hard?

>>41051747
>why does this have to be so hard?
>coming from a girl
Dude, you have zero idea
Rule of thumb for dating girls is if she is even close to attractive she has a boyfriend or is batshit insane so thats what guys deal with

Just fucking ask the dude out or talk to him atleast, unless he is autistic he will do most of the work

>>41051747
Just ask you fucking autist. Same shit everyone else has to go through.

post bod pic, stop being scared we post our pics all the time.

>>41051747
Well have you ever made eye contact? If he is interested you would probably catch him looking. Then smile and see how he responds. Then start a convo at a next convenient occasion. That's how I would do it anyway...

>>41051747
>i've been gymcelling long enough to have a decent figure and i think my face is ok too
Okay, so you're NOT going to at least post a physique pic. Any reason? We post our bodies all the time. There's even an entire thread dedicated to it.

>>41051747
>gymcelling
>is a girl
Not possible, desu

>>41051793
no i pretend he doesn't exist, too scared to look at him directly

>>41051783
i don't want to + what if he browses /fit/ too? he will never gf me then.

>>41051840
Are you a tranny role playing?

Why would someone who browses fit not want to gf who browses /fit/ if anything thats a +

>>41051840

>no i pretend he doesn't exist, too scared to look at him directly

if you actually make eye contact and smile he might approach you

you a real autist aren't you, making it hard on yourself

>>41051864
i see many mixed opinions on this board, even this thread

>>41051864
>Why would someone who browses fit not want to gf who browses /fit/ if anything thats a +
Because girls are a massive waste of time and resources and when things do fuck up she will browse /fit/ as well and you wont have that to yourself anymore

Not all guys are thirsty fuckers dying to serve some girls need for attention you know?

>>41051840
>what if he browses /fit/ too? he will never gf me then.
Nigga he'll probably be all over you if it means both of you can shitpost on /fit/ and share a hatred for fatties.

>>41051905
preach senpai

>>41051528
He's going to be turned off by your fucking autism if you sound like you do in here in person.

>>41051948
omg i swear i'm normal irl, but i honestly suck at pursuing guys and i wanted insider info

if you got a thiccc ass then its ez mode

>>41051972
Like I said talk like you don't browse /fit/.

We gave you all the insider info and you're not listening. Why do women ask for advice and bring up problems when they always reject the solutions? Fuck

>>41051972
post bod pic cover ur face.

>>41051793
read
>>41051005
Am I crazy, do they want me to talk to them? I usually keep my head phones in and try to avoid alot of socializing in the gym. I like to get lost in my workouts, but It may come off stand offish.

>>41051747
>why does this have to be so hard?
You're overcomplicating this, just go and ask him for coffee. You have a 99% success rate for fucks sake.
Men do what you do hundreds of times throughout their lives if they ever want a chance of not dying alone.

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>>41050908
>What kind of girls at gym would you consider relationship material and not just a hook-up?
I don't consider any woman relationship material.

Why would I want to settle with 1 woman when I could have many women?
Slut acceptance has made it easy for me to sleep around.

Women fail to understand the male psyche. We have an old adage that tired, aged men with white hair say: "Never get married." As simple as it is true, men are not happy in marriage. No man wants to be chained to responsibility and sameness, as opposed to having freedom and variety.

God bless your souls, you women are empathetic. However, your empathy is your downfall; you assume that we men experience the same emotions as you, the same want for stability, family, and lifelong relationships. Men do not want these things. Some men do, of course, but it's because they've been convinced of it by media, moms, and other forces. A man who has tasted both lives --one of freedom and casual sex, and one of monotony-- almost never chooses the latter if he believes he has the ability to achieve the former. The men who will reply to this post saying "fuck you i want to be married and have kids you dumb fuck!!!" are either homely males who could only ever achieve 1 partner anyway, or they are misled souls who do not realize the the satisfaction of having 7 different friends with benefits.

Women used to demanded marriage for sex. Men begrudgingly agreed. Slut acceptance means that if you won't fuck me, there is another chick with low personal standards who will. Why would I waste time with your demands of marriage and a stable relationship? Easy hoes are all around me. I don't have to put in any work for pussy in modern times. I'm pretty sure it didn't used to be that way.

If you want any of this to change, you need to start slut shaming, hard. Slut shaming is beneficial for all women and harmful mostly to men like me. Without slut shaming, I'll exist this way forever.

>>41052025
You're not supposed to solve their problem, you're supposed to pay attention and nod your head

>>41052172
Fuck if you ever have kids man. If you get a girl pregnant you should leave like your father.

>>41051005
>The point of that blog post is to be direct, alot of men arent as intune with subtleties as women
codeword for, "when men want something they just walk up and talk directly for it, we aren't used to this retarded bullshit where women are too stupid/scared to make a move so they think dropping a pen or some idiot shit is equivalent to flirting"

video evidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=reU4OCi30Fw

>>41051449
Pretend you are new or are interested in his routines, you don't have to squat 500 lbs.

You underestimate how much influence an attractive girl can have on a man. You could probably have him lifting in his underwear for the rest of the day if you tried hard enough.

>>41052172
>2017
>not cheating on your gurl
>kek

>>41052172
i hope your sleeping around leads to you never passing down your shitty genetics

>>41052172
have fun dying alone you piece of shit

>>41052186
>>41052201
>>41052203
>>41052212
All the fugly beta males rolling out, as expected. Enjoy financially supporting my progeny, I appreciate it.

This is the red-pilled life. Our world is not ideal, I'm only here to tell you about it.

>>41052172
did your father treat your mother this way? Would you want a man to treat your sister this way?

You need the ironpill friendo

>>41052172
Haha, I guess I'm brainwashed as hell because the idea of fucking sluts disgusts me.

I'll keep the girl who gave me her virginity for now thanks.

I could probably settle for a non-virgin but never a chick that hooks up.

>>41052233

I'll have you know I've slayed over 300 women and finally saw the light and realized jesus was right and got married now I'm happier than ever praise the lord

>>41052288
unless your 16 goodluck finding a virgin.. Aslong as its respectable numbers and not a coal burner is the best ur gonna get past 20

>>41052300
you high or retarded?

>>41052191
>Fuck off, just trying to have a coffee with my bro.
Thats some autist shit.

>>41052281
No, my father is married to my mother who stays at home and does nothing. He goes to work 5 days of the week and brings home a large salary. There was a time when we were poor, but those times have passed and my father is a high earner. As soon as was possible, my mother quit her job and resigned herself to housekeeping. She contributes virtually nothing to the household, is weak and cannot lift a 20 lbs. object, and nags my father to fix things around the house. Her greatest contribution to the family is dragging the vacuum cleaner across the carpet 1x/week and cooking dinner sometimes.

My father works 50 hours per week, cooks dinner 3x/week, and spends all of saturday doing yard work that my mother is incapable of doing. My mother is old with wrinkles, sagging breasts, and muddled skin. She is post-menopausal and they do not ever have sex. My father is financially supporting a 3rd child, in basic terms. My father only ever had sex with one woman.

I love my mother and my father and I appreciate all that they have done for me, but I am unwilling to flip a coin by entering a marriage contract with a woman who only has 10 years of sex for us planned anyway, will let herself go after the first kid, and will get herself a nice short dyke haircut after she's got me locked down.

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>>41051783
>tfw no autistic gf

>>41052191
goddamn i wish i saw that video at 21. fuck my numbers could 4x what they are right now

>>41052351
if she does become fat and sexless. Then I believe it is acceptable to cheat. But the family system is needed for a strong society... We all have to do our part or be like africa.

reminds me of the bread comic

>>41052373
The family system is necessary for society, but we've been through 30 years now of feminists and Leftists trying to destroy the nuclear family unit. It's no longer possible to have a marriage.

Men have never been particularly happy being married. Just read my post [>>41052351] and tell me if you'd be happy with that kind of a lifestyle.

It's only through coercion and high personal standards that women used to be able to convince men to settle down. It was a pretty bad deal, but men are so sex-crazed that we did it anyway. "Yes, yes, I'll marry you, give you 3 children all with the names you've pre-planned, support you financially at a grueling job i hate, and do manual labor on my free time to fix the house that i bought for you -- just give me that pussy!!!"

The only way men can be convinced to take that deal is with slut shaming. If the community even has a small amount of sluts, say 10%, then the family structure will be destroyed. Men would prefer to pass around the 10% of the female population who are sluts, compared to settling down with any 1 woman.

And if you live in a college town? Forget it. College women are saving responsibility for 5 years down the road when they've already started their career. Most college women FUCK, and they fuck A LOT. There is no fucking reason for me to even bother flirting with or exploring the possibility of women I work with, because I know they're going to want a relationship and long-term bullshit that doesn't matter to me. WHY BOTHER when I can go out on the town and pick up a hot young college slut almost any night of the week?

>>41052311
I deflowered my wife when she was 20. Feels good man.

>>41050908
>What kind of girls at gym would you consider relationship material
one that takes her time to get to know me and let's me know her. If she's immediately sexual I know she's not a relationship material.

>>41052430
And I'd also like to add that slut shaming is built into the DNA of women. You can see very easily that women are programmed to hate other slutty women. Go out with any group of women and you will know this. If you deny this then I doubt you've had any real world experience with groups of women.

If 1 woman is the hottest and wears the sluttiest tit-bearing outfit of the group, every single one of the other girls in that group will talk mad shit about her the moment she is gone. Some may be daring enough to bring it up to her face. If she makes out with a dude that night? It's fucking over, they are going to leave her completely by herself, be mad at her for a month, and she'll be in the bar crying because she doesn't even understand why.

Women get extremely mad when there is a slut in their community and most do not even know why. It's because women intrinsically (instinctually?) understand that a slut in their community hurts them, remarkably so.

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>>41050908
If the dude has any self worth he isn't going to sleep with you right out of the gates. Lucky for you not many guys have self worth.

All you have to do is make your intentions clear without making it seem like he is getting pranked.
>e.g. Walking up to him and asking him if he wants to fugg

Personally, if some qt walked up to me and started spilling her spaghetti all over the rubber mats and then asked me on a date I would be elated.

Then again, I'm not a Chad.

>>41052191
What the fuck is that dumb video. Not any girl that looks around in a place or stretches/flicks her hair is sending YOU (only you and not potentially someone else) fucking signals.

I cannot fathom how fucking retarded people are if they think this means that a chick that does this is into them.

>>41052172
Well let me be the first to say, this guy is right.

>>41052526
R u a woman saying this or angry orbiter

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>>41052521
>Then again, I'm not a Chad.

No matter how much we lift, we will never be Chad.

>>41052521
Also make sure you are dressed like you actually work out.

Can't stand those attention seeking sloots that wear only sports bras and shorts. They are always the same ones that do nothing but meme exercises and baby weight compounds with terrible form.

>>41052537
I'm a guy and don't get me wrong, these CAN be tells, but so can be anything from her asking you for the time to her just straight up walking up to you and asking you whether you want to fuck her.

Besides, why are you even waiting for a girl to give you "access" to her...just walk up to her and chat her up if possible in the setting. As long as you don't associate rejection with your self-esteem, it is fine.

>>41050908
The only answer is this.

You do not approach her at the gym.

Instead you find out who she is, where she lives, what she does. And then you fabricate a chance meeting somewhere other than the gym.

To get her name, check the sign in sheet. Glance at her phone while she checks instagram. Look at her wallet on the floor. Wait for her to talk to someone else at the gym, then later ask that person who she is. Figure out an angle and find out her name.

Then stalk her religiously. Look up her facebook, insta, twitter, etc. Find her address on familytreenow. Wait outside her house in the morning and see what her daily routine is like.

At some point you will be able to be standing behind her in line at starbucks while she orders her favorite drink. You can interrupt her mid-order *- "no whip?" - * and then laugh about how thats exactly what you order. Say "two please" to the barista and then pay for her. Say "hi i'm anon" and shake her hand. Ask her name (you already know), if she's single (you already know), where she's from (you already know), etc. No surprises so just keep smiling and making eye contact. If you're good it will turn into a date right there. If not, don't worry, just "bump into her" after work later and tell her it must be fate to see an angel twice in one day.

Good luck ;0)

Get really close to him and when you have his attention say:
"wanna have s3x? xd"

>>41052599
Ur not a woman, so maybe not act like u know. Women speak a different language friend

>>41052173
Then they shouldn't tell their problems to men. It's our nature to fix shit.

>>41052610
Hadn't thought of this. Thanks mate.

>>reasonably attractive female

You have an 85% chance of fucking
You have a 40% chance of anything going further
You have a 92% chance of having picked a boring chad because what else is there you could know from gym clothes and lifting?
Literally walk up to him and say " you're really hot" and if he spergs it's his fault not yours.

>>41052895
>Literally walk up to him and say " you're really hot" and if he spergs it's his fault not yours.
I did this one time. I still hate myself for it

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>>41052172
I hope you're never responsible for raising a boy to a man. You're a failure.

>>41052964
Good argument

>>41050908
When do you see him again OP? We need to know when we can expect an update.

And not meming, you should post a pic of your body. Can even be clothed with out face. If you are over a 6/10 he will not turn you down. But our advice wont be much use unless we know if you are over a 6.

>>41051780
>mfw when I'm 23 grill and I've never had a boyfriend

Guys hit me up on the reg so I'm assuming that I'm just crazy then despite being physically perfectly doable.

As for OP, why would you approach a man? If he's handsome, he's swimming in puss already. If he saw you as something worth pursuing, he sure would. Also keep in mind that attractive men are 1:2000 attractive females. There's so few of them that they are in extremely high demand.

If I was you, I wouldn't even try. Handsome man, you as the one approaching, there's no way that would end well.

>>41053105
Except in modern society a few top 5% of men get all the attention while 95% dont. This is common in the wild animal kingdom too. One male has breeding rights while others answer to him.

Chances are likely the guy op likes isnt the guy with breeding rights. But you should still take a chance anyway even if he is.

>>41052030
False. If a man is somewhat tall, somewhat attractive, somewhat fit, well dressed and not extremely shy and weird, most women would not mind such man approaching. Every woman's preferences in men falls within those guidelines.

Where as there's tons of different styles, body shapes, breast sizes, ass sizes and what not for girls. There is no way to know whether a guy's type was short haired petite girls or if he wanted a thicccc blonde with bimbo makeup and cow tits. Maybe he fancies artist hippie grills. Maybe he just likes 2D girls.

Women's preferences doesn't vary that much and most men are just normies. Very few hippies or ghots or anything different really. As a woman you should always wait for men to make the first move in order to avoid embarrassing yourself. And if a guy is too much of a pussy to approach you, he is not worth your time or just not that into you.

Was a man interested about something, would he pursue it.

>>41051158
My god are women really this clueless? ITS YOU WHO PLAY THESE STUPID GAMES!
If you show us interest and we're also interested then it's already done provided you don't fucking play bullshit games.
So yea, in a gym everyone is pirmarily in a "mind your own business" mode. A guy is unlikely to talk to you there because of the huge stigma of doing that in a gym. So you have to break that barrier.

>>41053164
>Was a man interested about something, would he pursue it.

Bullshit. Lazy excuses for lazy women. I notice women trying to get my attention all the time, or at least I think I do. But I'm not taking that gamble, besides, I wouldn't know what to say to them any way. They expect me to guess right on something that's never going to be much safer than 50%, then come up with a good excuse to talk to them, then do the majority of the conversational lifting, and for what? Even if I get that far without any awkwardness it will probably turn out she only wanted attention and if a 7/10 like me hits on her that boosts her ego. kthxbye. Where's my reward? What do I get? It's not worth it. Hitting on women in public is a complete waste of energy, nothing comes of it.

When women want sex with a stranger I'm not interested in them.

When women want a relationship they pick some friend of a friend they meet in a private, familiar setting, not some stranger.

People hitting on each other in public is a meme.

>>41053105
>>attractive men are 1:2000 attractive females

thefug

>>41052172
Lol. Statistics are against you - marriage makes men happier, where as being married has a negative effect of women's happiness. Google it if you don't believe me.

Men are much more needy when it comes to sex and women. Throughout the history, men without women/families have caused wars and riots. Men are controlled by their hormonal urges and as soon as you loose your hair or just simply get old, you will fall flat and all the power you think you are holding right now, will be taken away from you.

Modern women are perfectly capable of supporting theirselves financially. Modern women can have kids with spermdonors. Modern women doesn't "need" men, although some women still want men. But women in general seems to be much more ok with being singles, not getting laid on the reg and not having someone to hold your hand.

Men are the pathetic ones and I bet my left ovary that you just got burned by some bitch and now you are acting all cocky and telling yourself how you are in control of the situation, but actually it's just cause you wanna avoid any further emotional trauma in the future.

Alrighty then. Feel free to "go your own way," we women don't really need you anyway. your efforts for the society as a whole will be appreciated, but as a relationship context more and more women are perfectly genuinely happy on their own. We don't need you. And not you, you or you either.

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>>41051485

>rejection isn't a thing for girls

top jej

it is if u ughleh

>>41053164
>> As a woman you should always wait for men to make the first move in order to avoid embarrassing yourself

lazy cunts. this is why we hate you. This is the kind of shit that's exacerbated the current dating dynamic into sausage jousting. You literally think Mr perfect will just walk into your life and do everything.

>>41053269
Translation: Men will fuck anything. Women are holding out for Chad, or at least his friend Brad maybe if they're drunk.

>>41051747
>fuck, why does this have to be so hard?
FUCK. YOU

>>41053314
Thats a weird translation.

What it means is there 1 chad for every 2000 stacy / becky

>>41051747
>why does this have to be so hard
You have absolutely NO RIGHT TO SAY THAT. You don't understand that you literally already won this battle just because YOU ARE INTERESTED! so if you're not fat and ugly, or if he's not loyal to his gf if he has one, this discussion is done. He's practically already fucking you

>>41053302
>>41053247
Don't approach women then. That's not our loss, it's your loss, since we women are the natural choosers and if you don't even take part in the game, some other guys always will and since if you don't gamble you can't win, one of those guys will take home the prize.

Women don't have to approach guys, remember that. So why the heck would we, when we can just wait for one to walk into our lives, as the other anon put it?

>>41053346
Yeah, because men have lower standards, or women have higher standards, two phrasings meaning the same thing.

>>41052025
My dude it's like I felt your frustration through the screen. It's amazing that they genuinely think they have anything to worry about outside of being attractive enough (which is much easier for them).
Women
That's all I can say. Is sigh and say"women". I can't imagine a more loaded fucking word.

>>41053370
Kinda but its true in a more literal sense. It is way easier to be a hot woman. Literally dont be obese and deformed..

Men other hand, first you need the genetic base, then u have to work daily on Diet and fitness. Be tall ext..

I took it literally as it is literal

>>41053368
Women with that mentality aren't worth more than a pump and dump.
Only people who participate are relationship material.

>>41053368
>That's not our loss, it's your loss

It's nobody's loss, no deep relationship starts with a man chatting up a woman in fucking public. The odds that some decent looking woman I see in public is going to be compatible with me for a relationship are absurdly slim. As for my actual strategy you only have to read between the lines. I said:

>When women want a relationship they pick some friend of a friend they meet in a private, familiar setting, not some stranger.

With this understanding of the situation, guess what I'm doing. I'm expanding my "friend" network as much as possible, particularly to women. Because that's how you actually find a partner, not on the street or at a bar.

>why the heck would we [approach someone]

You shouldn't. Approaching strangers is a meme.

>when we can just wait for one to walk into our lives

My bet is he will walk into your life introduced by one of your female friends, or less likely by one of your male friends. And yeah, he'll probably do most of the work early on while you play a little hard to get. That's the successful scenario. The failure scenario is that you fall for the public approach meme, neglect your social network (your real network, not online shit) and keep waiting for Chads to rain from the sky on the day you are finally pretty enough. Not going to happen. Low inhibition guys you approach women in public only want to pump and dump. The failure scenario is you slutting it up until nobody wants you anymore, then wondering what went wrong. Female sluttiness is the equivalent to male virginity.

>>41053460
>Low inhibition guys you approach women

*who, not you

>>41053293
>“However, our research shows that people who experience separation, divorce and remarriage, have very similar levels of health in middle age to those who are married." ~ Dr George Ploubidis

Stop memeing me, lady. If you really believe marriage makes you happier then I suggest you research happiness levels after having children. Harvard study.

The rest of your post is garbage. "I bet you fell in love with a vagina and she burned you lol ur such a loser haha my pussy is so valuable blah blah blah MUH VAGINA" ~typical female "arguing" tactics. I won't address it. Not worth my time.

>>41051408

This right here is why ive never met up with chicks on tinder.

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>>41052610
This is creepy as fuck ahahaha, you watch too many movies.

In all honesty, if your interested in someone go up to them tell them, give them your phone number. You can sit and make small talk if you want or you can go about doing whatever you do in the gym. Your overthinking the whole situation, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

>>41050908

>Females approaching males

If the guy you want doesn't approach you, don't bother. hes probably out of your league

>>41052172
>>41052351
>>41052430
Have you read any self help books? I got similar mindsets from such books.

>>41053534
Or you know he's kinda shy. Or doesn't want awkwardness at the gym

>>41053427
We were talking about the approaching phase. Ofc a woman should put in equal effort in an actual relationship. We are talking about the phases before getting to that point with anyone.

And just face it, if a woman approached you, you'd initially think that she's an early sloot. You'd be less interested, since we as people naturally appreciate the things more if we have had to do work to achieve them.

Men like you who don't even have the balls to make the first move are not even fucking material.

>>41053593
who messed you up so bad you pretend to be female on the internet?

>>41053460
I agree with the social network part, indefinitely. That's the best and most natural way to find a partner. However even in that setup I'd expect the man to express his interest in a more stronglier manner than I'd express mine. Just cause as a woman you really shouldn't just walk into any man's lap.

Although I must say that widening ones social network is hard, especially when it comes to the opposite sex. I have tons of female friends, but the guys we know are either gays or our friends' boyfriends or exes. I honestly don't meet straight guys anywhere outside Tinder. (Which I don't use anymore, but in the past that was the single best way to meet new single men near me.)

So I really don't know how else meet men anyway nowadays. Don't really dare to ask the guys I've dated in the past to introduce me to their circle of friends. That's kinda off.

>>41050908
Make eye contact with him in the mirror but never directly approach

>>41053546
no

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>>41050908
>Its an OP makes thread four hours ago asking for advice and then disappears never to be seen again episode.

>>41053488
So I was right, and you don't even have any arguments. That's fine, I don't even care to argue with you about this.

But just saying that you are utterly wrong if you consider yourself as some gift of God for women. Hah hah hah. I make my own money and I can reproduce on my own. Women are the ones in this equation who can have it all and who are perfectly fine without getting married or having men in their lives. I'm glad that you've found a way of living which makes you happy and I'm even more glad to inform you that I've found it too. Now when we have stopped needing each other's, we can all live in peace.

Oh but no wait, you can't really live without women since you need the sweet summer pussay. Seems to be a very essential part of your happiness, judging by your very first message.

>>41053657
See this shit drives me crazy. Just say hello, girls have done this too me and all it does is confus me

>>41052599
dude the video is made by a woman. you are right these are partly just "i'm single" signals but they can also be targeted.

the video is literally made by a woman, about "hitting on" a single guy...

>>41053648
>I have tons of female friends, but the guys we know are either gays or our friends' boyfriends or exes.

Same in reverse, except no lesbians. Every man just seems connected to infinitely more men and the only women are already somebody's girlfriend. The single greatest source of women are SISTERS. One of my friends is close with his sister. The problem in the particular example is that she only knows trashy sluts, basically. But in general sisters and maybe other relatives should be great match-makers. That would be where I would look, in your case your female friends' brothers, cousins etc. or your own. If you have male relatives your age they might be able to find you dates or more indirectly to just bring men your age around to events you have in common.

>I honestly don't meet straight guys anywhere outside Tinder.

Aaaand you're already ruined. Just fuck guys off tinder until you hit the wall, then get a bunch of cats. Best regards.

>>41052610
LOL are you indian? pls be honest

>>41053719
Obviously not.

The approach was not through parental arrangement.

>>41053714
I live in a different country as my brothers and the age difference is too great for me to date their friends. Also when it comes to my female friends, we don't really want our brothers to date our friends.

I don't know where you are from and how the tinder culture is around there, but I'm European and here tinder is not just a hookup app. I've never had a blunt random hookup with anyone on tinder, but I've actually been on a nice dinners and movie dates and such and met normal, nice dudes which some I have even dated for a more or less longer periods.

I'd in all honesty be a 23yo single with just one sex and man experience if I had ever used tinder.

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>>41053693
>So I was right, and you don't even have any arguments.
I just gave you one, but you didn't read it. I even formatted it the same way you formatted your argument; "there are some studies out there and I'm too dumb to actually cite them specifically but google it and you'll see I'm right."

>But just saying that you are utterly wrong if you consider yourself as some gift of God for women
I'm questioning why you would even say this. I never suggested I make women happy. In fact, I explicitly stated that the opposite is true. I make women not-happy. It's not my goal to hurt women, but some women get attached and want a long term relationship even when I make my intentions clears from the beginning.

> I make my own money and I can reproduce on my own.
proud of u.

>I'm glad that you've found a way of living which makes you happy and I'm even more glad to inform you that I've found it too
.. ok? Let me ask: why do you seem so mad about this? You are obviously emotionally invested in this. All I've done is describe my lifestyle, and you got irrationally mad and immediately started spitting vitriolic comments, like you have been personally attacked. As funny as it was that you accused me of "getting burned by a woman," I can't shake this suspicion that these hilarious "I'M A PROUD BALCK WOMAN WHO DON'T NEED NO MAN" antics you're putting on for no reason stem from a time when you got "burned" by a man.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
To all men who didn't believe my first post: observe this very post chain for evidence. I stated my lifestyle and this random woman flies off the handle emotionally and starts insulting me for no reason in an uncontrollable fit of rage. If you had a long term girlfriend you would need to deal with this shit every day. Me? I can just walk away, or stop posting. It's that easy. I can put it down any time I want to. If you have a girlfriend you need to actually resolve shit, with a lunatic irrational PMSing woman.

>>41053761
>but I'm European and here tinder is not just a hookup app

So am I and yes it is, lmao

I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe you have figured out how to filter out the guys who only want to hook up. Then again you're talking about movie dates which is just code for kissing immediately, so I still think you're a slut. Who tf goes to see a movie with a total stranger unless you want casual sex? Like, you're gonna sit there in the dark next to an attractive stranger and not do anything physical even though there's nothing else to do as you can't fucking talk during the movie. Get real.

>I'd in all honesty be a 23yo single with just one sex and man experience if I had ever used tinder.

That would be more attractive than whatever your count is instead.

i got approached by a few girls asking me questions last month when i was trying to get a drink of water. couldn't really hear what they were saying so i took one of my earbuds out and told them i was "kinda busy right now" and put my headphones back in because they were both fat. finished my sets and left.

well, ttyl

>>41050908
> what is the best way to approach a guy at a gym?
Ask him to spot you while squatting.
> What kind of girls at gym would you consider relationship material
Pretty much none. Signally SWPL bitches on cardio machines or in their cat circle dance or spin classes, or sluts looking to hook up, or wannabe men lifting weights. If I saw any woman actually training sensibly in clothes that weren't showing the shape of their asshole and cameltoe, who didn't look like she was on the needle, I would assume she was already IN a relationship.
> Would you even want to be talked to at gym
No, but I actually lift. The only guys who want to be talked to by girls at the gym are the opposite numbers of the above, SWPL types there for bagel breakfast or pizza night, or man sluts who have already probably tried to talk to YOU.

>>41053802
This is a thread about a woman asking for advice on how to approach a guy at the gym, and then this random man arrives and starts lecturing how men doesn't want wives or girlfriends and men just wants to fuck around.

How is that even related to the topic? It's just you bragging about slaying puss and not emotionally investing (aka being vulnerable and weak) and putting basically putting OP down, calling women sluts and placing your gender somehow above weak women in this context.

You are incredibly egoistic and using every chance you get to tell what an amazing puss slayer you are.

You admitted needing pussy in your life one way or another, I replied saying that we women don't really need men or what's hanging between their legs.

>>41052191
I thought the video was a parody till the end

>>41053899
Seriously this. Hes derailed the entire thread to brag how hes a slayer and hes so desperate to prove he is happy with it.

>>41053899
She asked a question, I gave God's honest truth.
How else should I respond? She wants to know who wants a long term relationship. I said pretty much nobody in this day and age, which is true. Marriage rates are dramatically down.

I then explained why; when hot ass men (especially those in the gym, the men she asked about in her post) can sleep around casually with no effort and no responsibility, why would they do anything other than that? I answered her question cynically, because she has little chance of ever procuring a long term relationship with a hot gym man.

>>41053899
>>41053932
you're both dumb

>>41053933
>hot gym man.
And what if hes an autist like us. He might not realize he is good looking to op.

>>41053932
She's not even here anymore.

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>>41053962
The men you're describing are just ugly. Even if you get a good body you can't compensate for a bad face. Women don't care about your good insertions if you have a bad face.

Look at all the men in media who are worshiped by women. They're DYEL faggots with awesome faces like ryan gosling and brad pitt. Bottom line, OP is not interested in "gym autists" because they are ugly and have bad faces. If she were interested in ugly men, she'd have a boyfriend right now because that's how easy it is to get an ugly boy.

>>41051005
nah dude the most manipulative will even match your breathing and eye flutters

if you notice you're both in sync its like a weird animal burst of emotion

>>41050908
>what is the best way to approach a guy at a gym
don't.

>>41050908
Fuck off dumb slut. What makes you think that you're welcome on 4chan?

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>>41050908
>A girl would never approach me in the gym

>even if they did I'm too jaded to allow anything to flourish

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dubs means connor is natty

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>Reading this thread and wishing OP was talking about me

>tfw 5'7" with Glasses

It'll never be me

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>finally get approached
>don't know how to respond

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>>41053368
really really hate women

>>41053821
>That would be more attractive than whatever your count is instead.
ROASTIE BTFO

>>41054293
>I will pretend OP is talking about me
>I will look forward to my next workout in the hopes she will finally approach me
>I know it wont be me

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>>41054441

>>41054314
same here. I thought she was slightly autistic at first but the more I think about it she was acting like I would around a qt gril

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Holy shit this thread.
1.op please stop. If you are grill that is on /fit/ then you would realize the gym has two kinds of people in it. People serious about working out and attention whores. Either gender can be whores its not just wyminz. Your thirst can be quenched with water and realizing socially men are MORE awkward about meeting the opposite sex so its really not a good idea. They are only more comfy with flirting if its a socially acceptable place (party, bar, social event) so the risk of rejection is higher here for females. Its science behind why men dont feel comfy flirting out of designated areas. Office bad. Bars good. That sort of thing.
2.the mgtow pump and dump wanna be chad isnt special and his autistic reeeees amuse me.Women and men who are worth a damn dont want sluts of either gender. Keep your whores nu-chad, they arent even really people anyway so why should we care.

fucking wish girls would approach me at my gym. When I get looked at it just makes me really anxious and I can't breathe as well so it fucks with my workout.

>>41050908

Lady here. Here's my experience with trying to hit on dudes (although never at the gym because why mess that up):

Think they will all be super stoked i'm coming on to them because I'm a lady and that's what everyone says will happen.

I'm somewhat autistic (even though I'm okay looking 7/10).

It goes terribly, I have no game and am bad at flirting so it's just weird.

They have girlfriends anyway.

Wish I never did it.

Go back to waiting for dudes to approach me OR actually having a spontaneous genuine connection with someone.

Moral of the story is don't expect that just because you are a woman that they will fall to your feet and be ecstatic about you approaching them. It might just be awkward. Probably best to not fuck up your gym environment.

>>41054728
I'm not a frustrated incel or anything but it just sounds like you are going for men too attractive for you to be honest.
Like if I tried to hit on models I would probably get to 3 or 4 digits before I had success.

>>41053984
Bruh ryan gosling is one goofy ass looking dude

You think anyone would be interested in him if it wasn't for his body

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>>41054314

>get approached
>don't even realize what happened until after she leaves

yeah I wasn't cut out for this

>>41054864
realized someone would say think this after posting, but I don't think it was the case. I'm not delusional I know how attractive I am, they were on my level if not slightly below appearance wise. They just had girlfriends, which I didn't consider, and then it was awkward. Since I had no practice dealing with this weird type of rejection situation it felt really bad. Just warning OP that just because you are a woman doesn't mean hitting on a man is going to work out perfectly for you and you have to be prepared for the rejection.

>>41051319
fuck off weak minded beta

>>41054988
Well, isn't that obvious that you could be rejected?
Also yeah some people are in relationships, nothing you can do about that unless you don't care and want to be an asshole.
I would assume it's not the same getting rejected because someone is actually in a relationship vs getting rejected because they don't like you.

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Go up to her and say "Bonjour m'lady! You know, it just so happens that at this very moment, you are using the machine that I wish to use! What a coincidence! So, as I am a gentleman, would you kindly get off of it so that I can complete ONE set? Lovely. By the way, my name is [Your name]..."

That's how you do it.

>>41053933
Well my anecdotal evidence doesn't support your "truth." I know several handsome men who are doing well with their lives and who are perfectly capable of slaying puss, but who are also happy with long term partners in a good relationship. They have both options, they chose to pair up. I guess you are just not as good as you like to think that you are, and cause you can't get a high quality gf, you'll just smash second class women. Good for ya, do as you wish.

But what you are saying is bullshit and doesn't apply to all* men. Now go and be a 14yo psychopath somewhere else pls.

>>41053821
Kissing = slutty? Seriously?

I'm an adult so I don't see anything wrong with kissing on a first date. And I've met nice, mature men who have clearly been interested about me and who have put in effort.

>>41055191
Kissing a stranger. Context.

If you agree to a first "date" seeing a movie you've already agreed to kiss this guy before you ever physically meet him. That's really fucking slutty, and also stupid if you're not even aware of it.

>I'm an adult so I don't see anything wrong with

Ironically childish attempt at arguing.

>>41055236
Honestly what? What kind of a date code is that? If I agree to go watch a movie with someone, then I the only thing I've signed up myself for is watching the damn movie together. I have never made out in the movie theater and I don't find that socially acceptable at all. However if I like the guy, I have no issues kissing at the end of the first date. In fact if I like him, I'd gladly kiss him.

Are you 12 or something if kissing means that much to you? Kissing is nothing but a nonverbal way to express common attraction. Sure I wouldn't kiss just about anyone, but if we are on a date, kissing kinda belongs to the package if everything is going well and there is chemistry.

I really don't understand where you are coming from with that.

>>41050908
>What kind of girls at gym would you consider relationship material and not just a hook-up?
none

>>41055279
There's nothing wrong with a kiss at the end of the first date, chill out. Guess you were out with a bunch of respectful or simply beta guys who didn't go for any action in the cinema. Maybe it's different in your country. In my country women know to avoid movie dates early on because it's assumed you'll make out during the movie. And this expectation is mutual. You will also hear women complain if a guy didn't do anything during the movie.

Regardless of the sluttiness issue a movie is still a bad date because you can't talk or even move much for 2 hours. The whole point of a date is to get to know each other, to interact, and instead you're staring at a big screen in silence.

>>41055350
Okay there's clearly a cultural gab here since in my country we don't really think that way. Movie is a perfectly fine date idea and often followed by drinks or dinner, or a coffee before the dinner. The idea is that now you have something to talk about if other topics fails to spark proper conversation.

I have been on a date with educated, athletic young normie guys whom I've found attractive. There's this gray area between hc alphas and betas too, you know. and I'd be extremely turned off if someone on a first date in a movie theather tried something inappropriate. Even holding my hand is a bit extreme on a first date right away desu.

>>41052172
Sounds like the common theme is that women don't know what men want, and men don't know what women want. And both sides think they know. Because they know they're right.

>>41050908
Much like the myriad of threads on this board, it boils down to just like any other relationship. You establish a mutual and casual interaction that occurs naturally and consistently.

If you're looking for a lay, then you may as well be up front about it, though the gym wouldn't be the best place to make that claim.

If you're looking to go out as per a dating/relationship, then it mostly going to be something like the first part I mentioned.

Of course, the big catch 22 is that you got to make a contact first, and get a small notice in. Whether it happens naturally by chance, or you take the initiative and make some sort of introduction, you're likely just going to play the waiting game.

>tfw the one making the post is a virgin attaining grand wizard status and only had one girlfriend since highschool and has never made it.

So take what I say for whatever it's worth. My problem is that I can notice plenty of girls that seem cute, but never make a move to engage with them, mostly because I'm more focused on my workout, and I can't see myself really being that happy.

>>41052610
>not a pasta

>>41053427
>>41053460
>>41054359
Don't hate the player, hate the game. Or rather just hate your own kind for being so desperate lul

I don't do relationships anymore. Spent pretty much my whole twenties in LTRs, then at some point I realized that there was no advantage to gained from relationships, only disadvantages (cheating, drama, having to share money and property, less personal time etc). There's really nothing a woman could offer me besides sex and kids. So now I only do hookups.

So to me, no woman is "relationship material."

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>>41052610
/v/ had a better idea

>>41052172
This guy is mostly correct. Although I would argue that women are better off if polygamy was the norm. Women are inferior to men in every field except for things concerning sympathy. Women need men to tell them what to do and when to do it. Assuming a man can handle multitasking, then dispersing his attention to multiple women is much preferable than focusing on just one woman as the other women would be left with no male authority.

>>41053695
Yea I was a chubby kid so if a girl looks at me I'll think it's a negative thing because that's what it used to be

>>41052025
i haven't rejected anything, all of this is very insightful. i don't have any male friends so i turned to you anons

>>41052610
>it must be fate to see an angel twice in one day
HAHA i must use this

>>41052935
storytime?

>>41053105
>>41053164
this guy gives me butterflies and i'm too scared to even look at him in the eyes. how to make it clear that i'm interested in him without talking then? just eye contact and smiling (and without looking like im out for dick)

>>41053677
>>41053964
i went to sleep, srry

>>41056175
All I'm saying girl is that if he's attractive, tall and fit, there's no way actual quality females are throwing theirselves at him. I doubt he is playing in your league.

Move on with your life and let him live his.

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>>41056175
>storytime?

here we go...
>been frauding for ~4 months
>getting huge
>at gym
>chest and arms day
>looking swole as fuck
>getting water
>gril (6 or 7/10) comes up to me and says my traps are looking huge
>t-thanks
>asks me how much I bench
>reply about 300 pounds
>wow thats a lot of weight
>haha thanks
>start moving towards the door to go back in the weight room
and that was the end of that. At the time it seemed like she thought I was someone else

I think I'm gonna be a kv all my life

>>41052351
lmao, thats my parents

>>41052430
Man, I don't think anyone has a real problem with the way you choose to live your life, but my god are you an arrogant douche about it.

Do you understand that you don't represent pure masculinity? That other people have independent thoughts and desires that are different from your own?

>>41055350
>so many women being whores doing shit in movie theaters becomes a norm
>other women dont want to appear to be whores so they avoid something fun that pervs ruined
>must be the part of the world im on
Wew
>only the rare majestic respectful man and all the betas ever go to movie dates
>cant go to movie together and see something you can both be interested in and bond over shared experience and talk about the movie as an ice breaker because theres no immediate talking for 2 hours and i dont like it.
Lad

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>>41050908
Well, I'll give you my perspective as a guy. I'd say the best way for a girl to approach me would be A) to vocally mire me (pic related), or B) ask me to help her with something. Either of these would make me feel warm and good inside and would create a good basis for future interaction. For best results, do both.

I don't consider any girl a hook-up, as I have zero interest in those. I consider a girl either relationship material (I haven't met any of those), possibly relationship material (I know 3 of those, I'll have to get to know them better), or not relationship material, a category most girls fall in. The kind of girl I'm looking for shares the same values as I do, is smart, and has a direction life, i.e. plans for the future and meaningful hobbies. One of the three girls I'm interested in I know from the gym. We've sometimes chatted, but I feel like I've been the more active party. If she came to me after a set of benching, told me how strong I am, and asked me to teach her the proper technique, I would be overjoyed.

TL;DR: guys like being mired and giving advice.

>>41056879
wont it sound a bit airheaded if i call him strong?

I hope you are not that cute & fit girl who kept playing with her hair and working out close to me last friday.
Because I would be somehow disapointed knowing you are a sperg like me.

>>41050908
How tall is he?

>>41057151
around 185-190cm id say

>>41057078
europe?

>>41057047
I don't know, I guess it depends on whether or not you are an airhead. Of course it's advisable to have some sort of situational awareness. I'd say that maybe the best time to start chatting with him is when it's there aren't other people around, the optimal scenario being that you are the only two people in the gym, or at least that part of the gym. At least for me it would be pretty flattering, if a girl called me strong and asked me for advice.

How old are you, by the way?

>>41057262
>europe?
yes france,

What car are you driving? Just to be sure you are not larping.

>>41057151
def 190+

>>41051972
From one girl to another, just be confident in yourself and be yourself. It's hard I know, and you might get rejected (we all have been regardless of what we look like) but you never know until you try. My husband and I were always ourselves and honest from the start. That is the best relationship you can have.
Just have confidence.

>>41050908
suck his cock no homo

oh wait girl, whatever man do not care as long he wants relationship

Step 1. ask a gay man who you aren't friends with to rate you out of 10 (the only objective looks rating)
Step 2. figure out what your targets number is, if you aren't within 2.5 points of them, quit now and save yourself embarrassment
Step 3. take a xanax and approach the target. don't come onto them too overtly but make it reasonably clear

if done correctly you should succeed

look at him in the eyes and smile. that sould be enough.

>>41050908
Just go up and grab them by the pussy.
High risk but high reward.

>>41052172
Well I disagree but the butthurt you've created is silly. Fucking whiteknights.

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nice bait thread
>200+ reply

>>41052172
>A man who has tasted both lives --one of freedom and casual sex, and one of monotony-- almost never chooses the latter if he believes he has the ability to achieve the former.

Speak for yourslef faggot. I have lived both, single life bored me in 4 months.

Wierd becasue your life of ""freedoom"" and casual sex is what sounds monotone to me. Why would someone spend their precious life time with basic and boring people just so you can up that pathetic 'more-alpha-than-you-score' is beyond me .


When I met my current girlfriend, I probably was on my peak social skills + aesthetics. And I could be fucking 2 other women at that time, probably much more If I put some time and effort into flirting with retarded sluts, which i never did because they are literally not worth my time.

> Buying into the degenerate hook-up culture so you can feel above by your male peers.
>Putting quantity over quality
>Being emotionally numb
>Not wanting a a caring supportative partiner that pushes the best out of you.
>Not wanting to marry your best friend.
>Not wanting to travel together and do the most random shit with her
>Not having the most amazing sex of your life.
>Not wanting a familly
>Claiming all the men are the same shit-tier garbage.


Fuck how can one post be so unironically retarded?

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>>41057794
>Fuck how can one post be so unironically retarded?
>taking the bait

>>41057794
I think both of you are retarded. You act like someone's whole life is going to be one extreme of the spectrum or the other. If you are like most people, you are going to be single some years, and some years, you will be with someone. Then maybe you will find that magical someone who you think is the one. Then, odds are, at some point it will be horribly ruined and you will be alone again. And the cycle will repeat itself.

But think what you want to man, you sound like you've got it all figured out.

>>41052300
>I've slayed over 300 women
decent loot?

>>41057846

Yeah, maybe we will broke up tomorrow, maybe i'll have to move on. But who cares? I'm in this relationship because I enjoy every moment of it. I enjoy it much more than fucking vapid whores.

But this is beyond what i'm saying. You are really not getting my point, this doesnt has to be your life right now at this moment or everymoment. And of course meeting someone that works for you is REALLY difficult. Fuck i hate over 70% the woman i meet. What i'm saying is that you have to work for it, you have to achive it. This has to be some kind of an end envision goal.

At the end of the day I can always snap an go back to be a tinderwhore, how many of you can say they are in a healthy and happy relationship?

It just makes me sad when people fall for this meme mentality. >>41052172.

why would a fit guy want to have anything to do with some gym slut?

>>41057914
>decent loot?
you don't get anything decent unless you slay a boss.

>>41056329
>fraud and only benching 300lbs
people like you make me sick

Nigga just make eye contact, smile, and if he does as well, you have permission to approach him. Say hey, introduce yourself, say you see him at the gym a lot, then go away. Next time you see him you're technically "gym friends" and can arrange a date without sounding or looking thirsty

>like cute blonde girl at the gym
>tight af
>i'm a recovering fatty and a good 10 years older than her by my estimation
>no way she'll like me

>>41057323
i don't drive nor am i french, you're safe!

>>41057274
i'm 24. unfortunately my gym is never empty and I think his schedule is around prime time. I don't usually train around same time as him.

>>41057345
this sounds like a dream, happy for you! lets hope he's into mildly autistic spaghetti-droppers

>>41058484
i'll try smiling, thanks. hope he won't think i'm thirsty, i usually even avoid going to the gym same time as he does because i can't focus on working out if he's there.

>>41058513
>i usually even avoid going to the gym same time as he does because i can't focus on working out if he's there.
I did the same, switched times because otherwise it was way too obvious I was looking at her.

>>41053368
You sound like a tranny who is trying too hard to act female. Piss off back under your bridge, troll.

>>41058513
I think the best advice I can give is to make yourself seem available to him. If I've understood correctly, you'd want him to ask you out, right? Maybe he already wants to do so, but he's afraid of rejection, because you haven't signaled any interest. If you, for example, verbally mired him and asked him to give you advice on an exercise like I suggested earlier, that would be a signal for him that you might be interested in him. Make him feel special. If there's no moment when you're alone with him, that's okay. If there's plenty of guys around, but you specifically approach him, that might be even a stronger sign that you like him.

I'd say our situations are kind of mirror images of each other: you're a girl who wants the guy to ask you out, and I'm a guy, who'd like to ask out a certain girl. Like I told you, there's a girl in the gym I'm interested in and I would like to approach her. I don't see her very often, because I usually lift in a different city. We've sometimes chatted, but she hasn't signaled enough interest, so I'm not going to ask her out as things stand, because I have no actual reason to believe she'd say yes. However, if she did what I've advised you to do, that would probably encourage me to make a move.

Men and women are biologically different. To generalize, men are the ones making the move, and women are the ones who decide whether or not they want to accept his advance. If he's interested, he'll ask you out if he's not an utter coward, and if he is, why would you want him? Your job is to make him realize that you are open to him, and him only. If you're being as friendly to every guy as you are to him, he feels there is nothing special about him. Don't seem like an easy slut, but just give the guy hints that you'd like to get to know him better.

>>41051485
>rejection isnt a thing for girls

Rejection isn't a thing for girls because none of them make the first move due to being scared of their ego bubble being popped

>>41050908
Ask to work in. Ask him for tips on the exercise. Blush and laugh at everything he says.
If you have the goods he'll go for you because he'll know you're interested.

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>>41051288
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>>41051747
>fuck, why does this have to be so hard?
That´s why we hate you roasties, whore. It´s literally the easiest thing there is.
Go to him, say hi, be cool and ask for a coffee (or a SIP). He´ll do the rest. Easy as that, beefflaps.

>>41052610
This is the most autistic thing I've read in a while, is this pasta?

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>>41060157
>Go to him, say hi, be cool and ask for a coffee (or a SIP)
my sips are ready

>>41056329
newfag here

what is frauding

>>41060253
LURK

>>41058513
You're probably Dutch and I'm 194. Are you the tiny deadlifting gril?

>>41060812
She's gone mate. She probably didn't like you in the first place.

>>41060884
Probably. It's always fun to get mired by mildly autistic grils anon.

>>41060891
Welke gym trouwens?

>>41060812
I deadlift but not in netherlands, sorry :(

Just get closer and say hi, try to make a conversation when he is resting or share a machine with him. I would like to be approached at the gym

>>41052172
So...tren sides?? You must be, you absolute madman

>>41054728
Welcome to male life. Except we have to keep doing it.
I mean it doesn't even sound like you've had a legit bad refusal. I've seen girls laugh at guys and outright racism.

>>41056175
>>never spoken to him
>>doesn't know you exist
>>know literally nothing about him
>>gives me butterflies

You're making me hate women more. At least guys who talk about waifus are derided.

>>41061230
must be love from first sight

>>41061409
âs if this is not a hollywood hoax people force themselves to believe

>>41060918
Olympos UU

>>41060950
There goes ur chad

>>41061612
now you have to post a pic

>>41061917
Heh, why?

>>41062126
i cannot believe there are chads on 4chan

>>41060187
No but feel free to use it, it's all yours friend

>>41060253
Roiding

>>41062148
Would never post a selfpic on this Mongolian Goatmilking board

>>41053293
Nature is against you. Women are naturally monogamous because they get pregnant; men are naturally polygamous because they don't. That is all there is to it unless you buy into memes.

>>41053293
>Men are controlled by their hormonal urges
Stopped reading there.

You can't tell me with a straight face that women aren't controlled by emotions and hormones to a lesser extent than men.

>>41050908

Honestly, I hooked up with one girl in the gym, and won't ever again.
Remember, if you have similar schedules you'll be seeing each other after that day in/ day out.

>>41053293
>your efforts for the society as a whole will be appreciated, but as a relationship context more and more women are perfectly genuinely happy on their own. We don't need you. And not you, you or you either.

Well, that wasn't passive agressive needy in the slightest. The future is "female" because men allow it. We could go full Ayatollah at any time and you could do nothing about it.

>>41050908
Where are you from OP? Just wondering

Inb4 LONDON

>>41062541
Aalborg, Denmark
Sorry hon

>>41051212

>This advice
>Given on the autistic fit sub-board of an Taiwanese Hentai imageboard for NEETS

>>41062541
eastern euro

Just smile and say hi whenever you see him, guys need assurance when they hit on a girl.

>>41051449
You seem really nice desu. Just go up to him if he works out alone and talk to him. He'll be flattered at the absolute least.

>>41051288
You know, a small chest has the advantage of not bothering you at the gym and they don't sag so much as you get older.

>>41052191
So basically ignore what women say and do and just go talk to them if you like them? Because this shit can mean anything.

>>41051169
>workout buddy
What would this even mean though? Everyone has their own workouts.