MENTAL HEALTH QUESTIONS thread
So I have noticed that I go through periods of extreme optimism followed by periods of hopelessness as if my life is going no where even though it's moving in the right direction.
I don't know if this is anxiety or not but.......
>tendency to think about 10 different scenarios before I take action
>i replay whatever I am about to do in my head multiple times, which psyches me out of the worse.
>constantly worry that I am being watched by someone.
I lift 3-4x a day
31 years old
Good job/education
Fiance
Background info:
>Parents divorced when I was an infant
>I didn't start living with my dad until I was about 6
>raised by my grandmother/aunt.
>While under my dad's guidance, I cycled through 3 different stepmom/moved twice a year b/c he couldn't pay rent. I don't talk to him anymore.
>mom left, found another guy after divorce, relationship with her is like a stranger talking to me.
>>41037337
How bad are the periods of hopelessness? And do you do anything stupid in when youre optimistic?
>>41037397
not OP but I have a similar thing and I do stupid shit when I'm optimistic. What's the prognosis doctor?
>>41037431
manic depression
>>41037397
During the optimism phase, I become overwhelmed with a sense of purpose and joy with life. I walk/present myself as if I just won the lottery, but deep down I know that it's a temporary boost.
Don't do anything irrational. If anything, my libido is through the roof.
Periods of hopelessness lasts a few weeks. I tend to undervalue my life and second guess my life choices. This is also when my social anxiety (general anxiety) becomes quite obstructive. I avoid areas with crowds and tend to avoid public venues.
>>41037447
>>41037447
>>41037337
meditate , and go to therapy
the app headspace worked for me , but there are many ways to meditate . heres a magnet link for it.
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>>41037447
Is one's upbringing a factor in mental stability as you age?
I vividly recall telling my mom not to leave me when I was like 4 or 5. Pretty sure that scarred me for life, which probably explains why I have no relationship with my mom.
>>41037456
Well, then its probably nothing dude.
Meditating is always a good idea, no matter what...
If the symptoms get worse, seek help.
>>41037397
Stupid as in irrationals things? Like buying expensive stuff you cant afford/need?
>>41037447
Bipolar Disorder is what you mean, but OPs symptoms are not bad enough to diagnose it.
>>41037513
Seconding the headspace app
Meditating had helped me out a bit but once I got the headspace app it became much easier to meditate because I had guidance instead of being on my own
>>41037337
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqyjVoZ4XYg
>>41037337
>I don't know if this is anxiety or not but.......
You know full well it is, but, obviously, you're too anxious to actually do anything about it.
>>41037513
>>41037833
Does meditation actually work though?
I know a lot of people say it's so great but they also say that about being vegan and that shit sucks.
>>41038418
>Does meditation actually work though?
for me it has worked . i no longer take ambien to sleep and my stress/ anxiety is better .i meditate for 20 minutes a day , i think its worth it . at first meditation was such a chore but now i see it as a time to relax and better myself.
>>41037337
WHen I see pictures like this I feel that 'extreme hopelessness' you talk about.
Get rid of your porn, that includes any 'high test/THINN' or whatever you might have, and try to avoid it in general. it's hard on /fit/ but you can just hide or ignore those threads.
It helped me.