>Get /fit >Other guys constantly mean mug and give me dirty

yeah, they're just faggots

>>41019466
Yup. Better learn jiu jitsu and carry mace/a gun if legal, it only gets worse from here brother.

>>41019466
No but my lab partners back in undergrad all thought I was retarded, so I acted the part to avoid doing work.
>jokes on them I was merely pretending to make them do the o-chem yield calculations

It happens, I've only just started noticing a bit of progress and already having "friends" talk me down and flatout insult me for no reason.

They know I'm horrible in social situations and won't know how to reply especially when they do it infront of this girl I like.

Trust me mate, you're best just ignoring it cause if you do anything about it it'll only be met with negative reactions from not only them but everybody else.

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>get good looking
>girls talk to me less bc shy
>guys glare at me and try to assert dominance
>everyone has high expectations when i open my mouth but im not that interesting
>tfw i was more sociable when i was fat

Yep, I feel like other dudes actually see me as a threat now instead of just some forgettable skelly. Why can't people just be friendly?

>Have lanklet friend at work
>Likes to joke around by saying that he's stronger than me
>He does this about every other day
>Is always looking for an opportunity to talk down to me in front of others
>Is super confrontational over the slightest of disagreements

It's sad because I consider him a friend yet he's always so fucking insecure around me.

while some people act out because they're jealous and insecure, some people act nicer than usual because they respect your effort and are genuinely interested in how you did it

gotta take the bad with the good

>>41020111
Girls dont like shit like that around them, just ignore it and make fun of it.

>start lifting
>friends make jokes about me being super strong and ripped, all in good fun
>make noob gains
>less jokes from friends
>make first meaningful gains
>stand up straighter and begin dressing both more my age and with clothes that fit
>cut my hair
>literal same person
>"wow anon you're acting like such a jerk more often lately, don't take roid rage out on us"
>"haha just joking"
>realize my friends don't want me to improve

Sucks I guess

Be glad you're competition now, op.

>>41020267
This. Plus the people who appreciate it and aren't insecure faggots are the one's I'd personally rather be around.

>>41020333
Get new friends.

Anyone else get lots of cool guy nods when they're just walking around all of a sudden?

>guys making awkward amounts of eye contact, not smiling or frowning
>girls here and there slight mire at least

>>41019466
Victory breeds jealousy my friend

>get swole
>guys compliment me on a daily basis
>women ignore me
explain

>>41020333
Those trips seem well deserved
>>41019466
Never listen to lazy angry faggots

>>41020375
You fell for the meme.

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>>41020335
>>41020372
This

yeah. ive also been felt up more by both men and women. and they ask whether I work out. Ill start boxing soon
In general though, people are way more respectful

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Are you guys serious?

I'm actually getting /fit/ precisely because I can't stand a bunch of shitdicks everywhere giving me dirty looks, just because they know I'm too weak to do anything. It happens all the time in public transportation and in college, and it's honestly starting to wear me down a bit because I'm anxious and insecure af.

I'm currently perfecting the art of staring back no matter what, even if it gets crazy uncomfortable, because usually I chicken out and avoid eye contact. I'm terrified of what will happen if they come at me tho.

>>41020375
Look/dress less threatening and have the body language of something they'd think they could control.

Only go for assertive strong guy if you can actually play the part. If you're waiting for chicks to come at you, you can't do it.

you fell for the /fit/ people get respected by everyone meme.
If a person doesn't respect himself, he can't respect anyone else either, and we have a lot of insecure fags in the 21st century don't we, now.
Ignore.

>>41020424
If you catch someone looking at you just stare at them until they look away. 99.9% of people will look away after a few seconds. Ofcourse there is the 0.01% of loonatics who will stare at you no matter what. I encountered a guy like that only once. He looked like a textbook movie villain and we stared at each other for like 15 seconds on a tram. After 15 seconds i laughed and looked away because i couldnt believe this guy.
But yea if you wanna stare people down, most give up after a few seconds

A teacher from linguistics (a girl, of course) makes subtle fun of me, implying I am a meathead, I have never met with stuff like this, because I was skinny dude with glasses, so total opposite. I just go with it, cause what else am I supposed to do? Fuck her? She got a family

>>41020468
If it ever comes to that I plan on smiling, picking up my phone and pretending to take a picture and then type something, just to see if there's a reaction. Is that trying too hard?

>Are you guys serious?

Yes. If you make enough gains some guys will see you as a threat and might be a dick to you. That's just life.

>>41020518
Thats the kind of this you'd do if you want to make someone very uncomfortable and piss them off. Now just as usual most people wont do shit because they are pussies, but the chances of someone actually reacting to that are much bigger than those of just staring at someone.

>>41020431
my daily wear is shitty t shirts, jogging pants, and tennis shoes. I guess it's all in my alpha stature :^)

That's the best part of getting fit imo. When people get jealous of you having any sort of willpower.

>>41020333

Drop them like the shitbags that they are. My hs friends were like that and I thought itd be fun to meet up after graduating college to catch up. They were all broke, dressed like they were still in hs, were still "hurr durr im so random" when they talked to each other.

I got big, dressed well, and got a good job and they were all giving me shit when we saw each other again. People dont like to be reminded that theyre shit.

>>41020424
>someone actively avoids eye contact and starts dropping spaghetti
>get the sudden urge to rip their throat out
At least feign some kind of confidence

>>41020246
no friend would do that shit

>>41020468
if you're riding the subway then 99.9% there are crazy as fuck and will never look away and will confront you if you just look at them

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>>41020602
Truth.

My life improved tenfold when I stopped hanging out with drunks.
You got no idea how good it feels to have friends who work out as hard as yourself, and push you to continue banging iron hard af.

>>41020246
hi anon

I recently had people like this in my life. You have to dominate them or at least put them in their place. It only gets worse. Crabs in a bucket pull harder the higher you climb. Trust me

>>41019980
>better to let a martial arts steal dozens of hundreds of dollars from you than to let a guy steal pocket change

>>41020083
>not being able to do simple stoichiometry
>not being able to do simple division
>not being able to multiple by 100 to get a %
>in a sophmore level course

no, you weren't pretending, you're legit retarded

>>41020660

So what do you do when your friend is showing he needs to be dominated by you?

>>41020083
Calculating yield is some easy shit bro

>>41020705
buy him a buttplug with fox tail to assert your dominance. maybe a set of cat ears to go along with it if you're in that kind of thing

>>41020375
i think women are more covert about it, they will notice and acknowledge it in their mind but wont come up to you and mention it, i guess guys can compliment you because theres no sexual tension or chance of it being taken in a flirty way so theyy can casually talk or mention you got a nice physique

>>41020134
Yeah, that happens to me too. As I was just skinny, girls came to me to talk, since I'm train since 4 years they only look at me from a distance. Being /fit/ has many good sides, but the bad sides are that other guys try to be more "Alpha" around you and girls are scared to talk to you because they think all muscular guys are dominant and aggressive because their skinnyfat ex boyfriends told them that stuff.

>>41020134
>>41020134
Hello, me.

>>41019466
Not really, I'm incredibly frightening physically so dudes usually just accept me as their superior.

It's actually quite refreshing when someone tries to stare me down or walk really close by me, in these cases I usually act respectful because I like their confidence.

>>41020678

Don't go to a McDojo you fucking idiot.

>>41019466
that happens to me too and i was barely fit

>>41019466
its jealousy m8, and it only gets worse the more fit you get and the bigger the gap becomes between yourself and the skinny manlets.

>>41020873
Lol, what you gonna do otherwise in todays world? Snap their neck and eat their flesh on the spot?
Fucking retard

>>41020904
[Glass Him]

>>41019466
I constantly getting these kind of looks even when I am just big-boned. Now I started lifting and most of the looks I get are from drug addicts and drunk 'toughguys'. Doesn't stop me from smashing their head it, if shit gets real.

>>41020873
I must see what classifies as "incredibly frightening"

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>>41020921

>get/fit/
>constantly walk around looking for a confrontation

>>41020945
do you do so with your erect donger out? if not, you're doing it wrong, son

>>41020945
Roidrage everyone!

>>41020940
i love this fucking board

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>>41020904
There's a certain way of looking at people that makes them feel like dirt. Like between a smirk and a squint. I really hate to use it though.

>>41020921
Probably an overstatement but I've been told I'm very masculine and was raised on contact sports. 6'5 in socks 230.

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>be me
>ss +GOMAD for 2 months
>guys try to AMOG me everywhere I go

What is this?

I feel like every Conner Murphy video, there's at least 1 flabby beta trying to upstage him.

How do you prevent this?

>>41021009
>he doesnt enjoy the contest, despite his obvious superiority
>he doesnt realize that he is a darwin's law advocate, turning betas into even worse fatasses, or inspiring them to lift

why would you prevent that

>>41019466
Get used to it man, we've all been there.

>>41019466
Normies ask me how much I bench or fat powerlifters ask me how much I deadlift.

I just say tree fiddy or more than you.

>>41020695
>not already doing the ×100 beforehand

>>41020083
Billy is that you?

where do i cop some fit minded friends?
gym that I go to is the only one within 75 miles and full of low tier people, I am the only one there who even touches the squat bar

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>best friend has really bad anger issues
>he's also a 5'8 manlet
>since I'm more attractive and taller he brings me down
>talks a lot of shit on me
>anytime there is a disagreement he freaks out and calls me a retard
>when we are with girls he always says shit on me and how he lifts like 10 lbs more than me with shit form
>I feel bad for him since he doesn't have many friends
>just kinda stay quiet when he gets mad since he'll probably kill himself if I say anything
>I get more girls than he does and he gets mad because of it and can't understand why

I need a new friend

>>41019466
im the opposite now i started lifting

whenever I see a guy bigger than me I usually mire and immediately have alot more respect

>>41020390
I googled that wagner clemente chap and I came to a twitter of that, dunno if it's the same guy, but it's a hispanic gentleman and I found post after post of hilarious tweets that follow the same two picture formula
1st pic is someone who tweeted how they like or are attracted to single mothers
2nd pic is another tweet by that same person saying how they like soy or gay ass bands

dunno why but that shit's hilarious to me

>>41020695
>thinking sophomore chemistry, organic or inorganic, lab work is anything besides a large amount of busy work
I've taken Comp Sci classes in which they set strange requirements on enforcing Hungarian Notation in Python and forbid the use If And statements. Doesn't mean I don't know how to do it, I'd rather just not.

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>be accepted by nerd peers
>get swole
>all of a sudden its like im not allowed to have nerdy interesrs and am excluded

f-fuck them.

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>>41020424
>not staring at randoms to make them uncomfortable
>mfw plebs cant into normiewatching

> be /mu/tant sadboy into post-punk and shoegaze
> go to see one of my favorite bands
> skinnyfat hipsters everywhere
> while walking back from the bar, accidentally shoulder-check a girl
> she shoves me, yells something about protein shakes, and scuttles over to her lanky boyfriend who glares at me through his problem glasses
> beardo manlet nu-males keep trying to mosh with me during the band's set

I-I just wanted to see A Place to Bury Strangers in peace

>>41019980
This

I've had to kill at least 5 men since I've become fit

>>41023050
>5 men
read that as 10 at first for some reason

Yes but I'm extremely autistic and have mastered ignoring people and avoiding eye contact.

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>>41019466

>Be fat beta nerd that gets fit
>too nerdy for the chads
>too Chad for the nerds

hello darkness my old friend

>>41023049
you have shit taste. I'm not surprised the people there were equally shitty and obnoxious ones.

should've calmed said "watch where you are going" to that girl and watch her freeze in realizing she will never get a piece of /fit/ dick.

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>>41020468
By looking away first you became his bitch.

>>41023049
They don't want normie scum like you around them

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>>41023134

The worst part is, they don't even realize THEY are the normies. It takes insane amounts of autism to get swole, assuming you do it in schedule and with a consistently good diet. It's easy and hyper normalfag tier to be skinny fat and bitch about the in-shape "normies"

>>41020134
>>girls talk to me less bc shy
this is what denial looks like

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>be autistic kino/art-fag
>try to talk to people about it every once in a while
>haha anon! you don't really look like someone that would be into that
>they don't take you seriously on the matter afterwards

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>>41020695
>never took chemistry in school
>don't even know what stoichiometry is

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>>41023179
i'm eating anon!

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>get /fit/
>actually somewhat good looking now
>people ask what other hobbies I have besides lifting
>tell them I watch anime
>no one believes me
>mfw

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>>41023173
i know that feel. its like youre expected to be an ugly out of shape manlet with problem glasses to be in any shape artistic nowadays.

>>41023262
>falling for the ss meme

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>>41023337
>>41023276

I want pedofags to LEAVE /fit/. RIGHT NOW

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>>41023349

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>>41023337
>>41023276
>>41023370
I will pray for your lost souls tonight.

>>41023262
Yes, you count the bar. If you're using an olympic bar it weighs about 45 pounds.

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>>41023057
interesting. what could explain this phenomenon

>>41023023
You have 4chan now. Your new best, and only, friend.

Yes noticing same thing more attention from women and more guys trying to fight me.

However last night I pulled a door instead of push and some old faggot started smirking but I stared him deep into his eyes with my usual serial killer type face (I've been told I look shifty) and his smirk faded.

If he said anything I'd have kicked his ass then and there.

My T levels and aggression have gone through the roof but my sex drive has almost ceased to exist.

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>>41023387
That is kind of you. Could you also ask your god for the sauce on that first pic while you're at it? Thanks.

>>41020134

Funny idea man, but watch some Stephen Fry's QI and memorize the ridicoulus facts and stories and tell them, always gets some laughs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpEn0aM6Jdc

Or lie your ass of.

>>41019466
They're just being tsundre, pal. Go over there and talk to them. They secretly want your ass.

>>41019466
I get that all the time when I'm wearing my riding gear and everyone assumes I'm a guy. Then when they realize I'm a girl they no longer want to fight.

>>41020134
Sounds like you think you're more attractive than you actually are

>have nerdy friends I played magic with
>was always the handsome one of the group
>unironically called me Suave Anon
>was Mr. Skeletal at 6'2 170lbs
>start lifting
>now 220 lbs
>still friends with all of them and they all still like me

You guys need better friends.

>>41023504
H-how do I get genuine "nerdy" friends that don't only have those interests because they feel the need to individualize themselves and get angry when someone that also has physical looks is into that stuff too?

>>41020375
Swole is attractive to gay men, not straight women
>ignoring this fact that's posted on fit daily
Not gonna make it

>>41019980
>Hey everybody it's Jason blaha here

>>41020793
Nope. That made no sense

>>41020375
Lifting and sports cars are meme devices for attracting direct approval from women.

>>41023511

You've just gotta go to gaming stores or join clubs.

I joined the Mt:G club my freshman year of college. The guy who was the president was also on the dodgeball team, which I played on throughout my time there. We ended up living together a few years later and now he's my best man at my wedding in September.

Also in high school I had a group of friends where we'd play dungeons and dragons together pretty much every other week. You just gotta go where people who have genuine interests in these things hang out.

>>41023023
as an ex nerd and ex fatty, gotta say, nerds and fat people are rightfully hated
i and most people like me were such assholy obnoxious retards

It sounds like a lot of you think you're much better looking than you are, and you get confused when they treat you like an uggo.
>I'm too handsome and fit for everyone
Lol get over yourselves, I've seen guys face threads, you are some ugly mofos
>this entire thread is a giant uggo ego circle jerk

You guys are literal autists. Guys look at me and i dont care, why should i? No one has insulted me, only totten compliments

>>41023262
the lower you start, the more you increase
wish i understood the importance of this back when i started

>>41023511

Also to add there were like 2 people in the club that actually were hostile towards me because I looked good, but the rest were all pretty welcoming and fun to be around. They were also literal neckbeards, one is your typical shut-in never leaves the house doesn't like having his picture taken, the other is a bald SJW keyboard warrior.

>>41020390
Thats some fascist bullshit.
The stronger man blindly accepts what is thrust upon him, and the asks for more?
He never questions the powers that be?
What kinda thoughtless drone shit is that?

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>>41023630
>doesn't like having his picture taken
l-literally me

>>41019466
That just means they wanna fug
you should oblige them c:

>>41023647
Exactly.
Most of their retarded philosophy bullshit is about creating loyal citizens and soldiers. Not about awakening minds and making people more intelligent and wanting them to think about how best to live their lives.

>>41020111
Hahaha. What a pussy. Just tell them to fuck off my guy

>>41020915

Nice

>>41019466
>Humblebragging

>DAE have this problem?

No

>>41023419
If you drink caffeine, stop. Finding a calmer source of motivation was a big turning point for me and I'm a lot happier now.

>>41019466

no i dont live in a shithole

>>41020375
time to come out of the closet fampai

>Do my best to avoid eye contact with everyone because I don't even approve of their existence
>Look down while I can tell some dude is mean mugging me
>Look him straight in the eyes the last second
>He looks away
Do they want to stare me down to feel more alpha or do they look at me just for "alpha male" approval???I don't understand

I don't know man, people are nicer to me when I got /fit/. Maybe it's just your face.

>>41020705
just call them out on how they're acting. Speak clearly and look them in the eyes.

>>41020083
that's hilarious lol. I'll be sure to do that in the future.

>>41019466
>other guys feel insecure and jealous around you
>other guys feel intimidated by you
>other guys feel weirded out because your behavior/demeanor is inconsistent with your looks
it's usually one of these things

simply stop hanging out with drunkfags with neckbeards and u'll easily get a girlfriend
^ my life story

See this thread boyos
>>41024521

>>41023647
Fascism is alpha

>>41023179
Whats going on in this gihf?