>virgin >finally get a gf >finally have sex >would

Maybe if you laid off the porn, you wouldn't be so desensitized to sex.

>>40288528
I had that for a while. I stopped masturbating twice a day and limited how much porn I watched. We also sat down and talked about our kinks and what we were into. Sex was much more fun afterwards.

>>40288528
Your setting odd expectations.
The women you love should always be better than jerking off or you have a problem somewhere.
Maybe addicted to porn?

>>40288528

Yes. It's because, contrary to what porn and pop culture would have you think, most women are generally fuckig terrible at sex. They put no effort into the act itself or into learning how to get better at it. Just like in every other area of life, most women expect to lay there while you pamper them and do damn near all the work. End result: sex becomes incredibly underwhelming, especially in relationships where women care even less about helping you make a memorable experience out of sex than casual hookups do.

>>40288528
yeah you're gay
go jack off to some shirtless men

Anyone else kinda fuck up DUE to porn?

>got into this super debauchery phase and love Abella Dangers crazy ass
>watch her scenes for a while (I nut only on Fridays but I nut like 3-4 times due to refractory period pretty low)
>this goes on for a month maybe
>get with a chick
>realize I have small case of death grip
>just go to town on this bitch like dudes go on Abella first trip in bed
>just super horny for this bitch since we've been mirin each other in the gym for months, can't get enough of her
>by like the 3rd nut and a good maybe 2hrs of sex/foreplay when I need to rest to get hard again realize what I'm doing to her
>right before I nut one last time in the condom I realize she has watery eyes while I'm holding her legs spread eagle trying to slam my dick into her womb
>can't tell if she's just exhuasted or crying, she just hides under the covers when I get out of bed and then kinda squirms into my side when we finally fall asleep
>don't know if I should say sorry or not
>think I ruined it and never see her again
>FF 2 weeks
>now everytime we sex she wants it rough as shit
>almost fucked my back when I brought her to my house after work and she just straight up jumps onto me

how do I sorta ease her out of it or is it a lost cause?

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>>40288699
>>can't tell if she's just exhuasted or crying, she just hides under the covers when I get out of bed and then kinda squirms into my side when we finally fall asleep
>>don't know if I should say sorry or not
>>think I ruined it and never see her again
>>FF 2 weeks
>>now everytime we sex she wants it rough as shit
>>almost fucked my back when I brought her to my house after work and she just straight up jumps onto me


> ywn have this

>>40288528
>had by the fapping jew

never gonna make it

>>40288528
the secret is that masturbating feels much better than sex. sex is just physiological craving

>>40288528
you've fell in love with your hand, don't be ashamed of it.

>>40288699
She sounds like she responds well to you taking control so make the fucking rules.
Fuck her how you want to fuck her.

If you had any idea how gentle I have to be on my gf of 3 years you wouldnt be complaining.

Should I do no fap?

>>40288528
Same. Real life isn't nearly as fun as the fantasy

>>40288699
you're fucking fine lad just remain confident and literally do whatever you want
sounds like she wants u

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>he doesn't enjoy warm, wet hole
wtf?

>tfw had girlfriend
>would still fap twice a day
>whenever we got together I would still fug her twice within an hour of each other

Am I high test?

Yeah this happened to me. I had problems maintaining my boner during sex with my ex since I was still watching porn outside of sex. Long story short it indirectly ruined my 1 year relationship and destroyed me after the break-up.

If I didn't keep masturbating to porn I would still be dating her. I stopped masturbating to porn ever since.

>>40291286
This is me too, but for some reason I can never cum when I fuck? Not saying is bad, partners are usually impressed as fuck because I keep fucking them over and over; but it does get annoying for me and I usually have to fake my orgasms.

But if I jerk off, I cum in like 5 minutes.

Porn addiction + >>40288613

My gf couldn't even give a decent handjob let alone suck dick until I trained her. Also
>Stop watching porn

>>40288613
Yea honestly this is a huge part. Sure masturbating frequently fucks you up a bit, but honestly chicks are fucking awful at sex for the most part. They literally put in zero effort, not even bare minimum. I've broken up with way too many chicks over how awful they are in bed and how little effort they fucking put into that shit. I shouldn't have to wait until the 8th time that we're fucking for you to give me a handjob when I've eaten you out like 15 times already rofl, like what the fuck?

>>40292357
>I usually have to fake my orgasms
As a guy, how?

>>40292401

>This.

Currently dating an american girl, comming from spain i must say the sex was horrible.

First day we hooked up i litterally just layed there and said, you are terrible at sex. Taunted her for the next months and she got a bit better but yeah, i mean sex ends up beeing great because chemistry + we are hot af but i could be a much more memorable experience, i feel you ameri bros.

HOW DO I TRAIN HER?

>>40288528

Anon you're addicted to porn. Completely serious. I went through the exact same situation as you. Even while I was fucking a girl I would close my eyes and imagine a good porn vid I'd just seen

Watch "your brain on porn" on youtube, it will give you the motivation to change your life and quit. I did it and it's the best decision I ever made

>>40288528
Fapping is quick release and it's easier than sex because you only concentrate on you.

Sex is completely different. Think of it as a skill to learn, and you have to develop different techniques with every girl.

Sometimes it's good to have a quick gratuitous fap but it's better to raw fuck a girl to oblivion.

If you fap too much it makes sex more difficult because vaginas aren't as stimulating as your own hand so it'll be harder to get off through sex at first, but the overall experience of sex becomes much more satisfying.

Lay off the fapping and focus on saving it up for sex and you'll soon realise that cumming in her pussy or mouth is a million times sexier than cumming on yourself.

>>40290140
nofap is a meme, do noporn

>>40288528
stop fapping, do it raw, and eventually move to anal

>>40292816
Moan a lot, grab whoever I'm fucking extra hard and pound a lot harder.

Guys can't be assed to check their asses / condoms to see if I did cum. Girls usually praise me and either on the pill / I'm wearing condoms so they don't care either. Hell, I've even started playing along since they seem to buy it, either pretending "I'm still hard" after cumming because they're so hot and saying shit like "Gonna use my cum as lube" and other shit that chicks like.

>>40292357
>>40292816

As a guy who's experienced a lot with boring sex, the secret is to spit on her back, get up and leave.

>>40288528
Dude, nothing beats a blowjob. Nothing.

>>40292872
>vaginas aren't as stimulating as your own hand

What kind of giant sluts do you fuck?

>>40292401
>>40292850
Holy shit i feel sorry for you. My girlfriend seriously is one of only a few that will enthusiastically fuck me well?

>>40288549
How do i into kinks, when ive had no sexual experience though?

>>40292908
I meant in the sense that vaginas don't grip as tight as a fist. If you fap too much you get accustomed to a much tighter pressure than a vagina provides, so sex can feel less satisfying. This is the peril of overfapping.

I felt that way when I lost my virginity when I was 15, but if you both know what you're doing its amazing.

>>40293227
just think about what you'd like you dumb retarded faggot

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Lol I know that feel, u so used to being single/alone relationship seems so unnatural u don't know what to do, u really need to adjust yourself b4 you'll find yourself alone again only Cuz u are too much messed up :)

>>40292899
came here to post this

>>40288528
First time isnt that great dude.