Should you hit on single girls at the gym who are friendly to you, or do you treat it like a "don't shit where you sleep/lift" thing since you go there all the time?
>>40236237
Just be kind to everyone. Gender is a social construct anyway :^)
>>40236237
>treat it like a "don't shit where you sleep/lift" thing since you go there all the time?
I do that now. I tried dating some girl from the gym, but it didn't work out and after that my gym time was never the same. I'm in a new gym now and stay away from the girls there.
i think you should do what you really feel is right and don't supress yourself
if you fuck up, you will have learned a lesson and be a better man for it
i love you anon
Gym is not as bad as doing it at work.
>>40236237
There are 2 possible situations:
1: Talk to the girl get rejected
>have to see her every week as she looks at you disgusted
>all her girlfriends in the gym know you hit on her and failed
>you feel akward everytime as you go to the gym
2: talk to girl and she is willing to go for it
>you have a good time and possibly sex
>you break it off or she breaks it off eventually >be in the same situation as the first one
Its not worth it anon
>>40236237
don't be autistic if you do, guys hit on girls and that happens, just make sure you aren't autistic while hitting on girls and you'll be fine, you can even be friends with her after
>>40237045
>>you feel akward everytime as you go to the gym
stop being retarded! if you feel awkward after hitting on a girl you are a beta insecure cuck, grow the fuck up and be aware that you'll get a fucking lot of "no" on your life.
think with me here, if you ask a girl out like a regular person "hey, wanna go out sometime? maybe get some drinks or eat something?" and she denies you, why the fuck would it be awkward, just play cool and get used to it lol its not like the world is ending because you got rejected