I don't understand "lifting for yourself". My

It's a meme "fitness-related" excuse to post anime girls

I in part lift for myself because if I don't strive for self improvement until I'm as perfect in my own notion of it as possible I'll have more mental breakdowns.

>>40159373
>lifting for girls
>ever making it

>>40159433
But what's there to lift for besides girls? As mentioned before, I don't really care about my own body. I'm 24 and my mom still buys all my clothes.

>>40159373
I think its probably bullshit that you didn't feel any differently.

Too many physical changes at that point.
Your attitude also has alot to do with it.

Were you exersizing? or just eating less?

I'm gay, have a boyfriend of 1 year who I'm sure I'm going to marry, and I lift entirely for myself. He doesn't even care what I look like.

>>40159456
Health. Wanting to be strong. Genuinely enjoying working out. That's what it is for me. I can't change the fact that you don't want these things. Lifting for girls is fucking stupid. Once you get to the point where you're not fat or skinny the amount of muscle you have doesn't effect things as much as you think it would. Muscles won't fix a shit personality.

>>40159456
Im not him but lifting for girls is retarded in the sense that it doesnt work
Girls arent impressed by muscle and even if they were they arent key to happiness
Having a gf is more a drain on your happiness than anything because if youre feeling down, depressed, angry, stressed or whatever you cant let her see/know about it or she will end up cucking you/leaving you

I cant motivate you to lose weight, only you can do that

>>40159469
Eating less and walking. I went to the gym for a couple months but didn't make any gains.

Swear I didn't feel any different.

>>40159518
We can't make you feel it. There is no secret.