I finally get a lot of female attention never been more unhappy

>>40079510
>get a lot of female attention
you need attention from men. it'll make you much happier. you just proved to yourself that women don't make you happy. so try the other end of the spectrum.

>>40079510

This is what is happening to me

6 months ago i broke up with a gf of 6 years that didn't make me happy anymore, still was hurted as fuck.

So i jumped into another relationship with a qt3.14 that i was into, we had tons of awesome sex, but in the end, she said she still had feelings for her ex, that is a total loser, she wont' get back together with him, but she also broke up with me.

she wants to keep having sex with me tho.

And she said i was way too perfect for her, but that is nonsense.

Worst thing is i was already getting feels for this girl.

What's wrong with me, why she couldn't love me?

>>40079520
like sexual attention from men?
or just regular attention?

I'm not gay

>>40079510
>p pls respond

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>>40079566
This is /fit/, take a wild guess

>>40079634
no homo tho

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>>40079566
>I'm not gay
Attention from women doesn't make you happy.

>>40079653
read my situation

do i have oneitis?

or just feel bad, because the bitch dind't like me, and my ego is kill????

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>>40079651
>no homo tho

>>40079680
you guys suck, i'll lift twice today to be better that you fucking landwhales

>>40079553
As long as she loves your penis you shouldn't worry. Learn to separate lust and love anon.

>>40079782
thank you anon, i love you, i need this

>>40079510
Nah, I'm guessing you just realized how shallow women are and you're not really being admired for the things you want to be admired for. All those winks, lip bites, and hair curls are nothing when you figure out that, in looking at you, they're seeing they're friend's jealous faces, their exes' regrets, and their self-esteem, rather than your dedication and discipline.

>>40079939
Good shit right here

>>40079939
Fuck dude

>>40079939
it all sums up to this man

>>40079939
Damn, anon. Well said.

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>>40079939
You might be onto something there.

For me it's also a combination of these things:

>I know how people treated me when I was chubby (most of my life), I know how people treated me for the 2-3 years I was 300 lbs whale and I know how people treat me now that I'm 6 ft/180 lbs and look like I lift - I always think "you wouldn't have even spat at me 3 years ago and you would have used me as your drunk driver en route to Chad 10 years ago"
>it's been a few years since I last put my Cum Gun inside a Glory Tunnel so I'm avoiding it because I don't want to embarrass myself (also, small dick)
>I fear false rape accusations, STDs and stuff like that - in my chubby days I was already accused of sexual harassment by one girl

There's probably even more that I can't even articulate but the end result is the same: every time a girl starts glancing/staring at me and tossing her hair or gets nervous and starts scratching her wrist or bumps into me by (((accident))) or comes up to me and starts talking or slips me her phone number/contact info or eye fucks me or comes near me at the gym and bends over right in front of my face or starts touching me or whatever... I feel... resentment, disgust, repulsion, hate, apathy. Same thing when cashier girls pack my bags for me even though there is no need. Or when they talk like robots to other customers and suddenly light up and start friendly chatter and smiles when I get to them.

And I reject them all. When a girl looks at me, I look away with a blank face. When they bend over in front of me while I'm sitting on the bench at the gym, I look away and close my eyes. When they come talk to me, I either don't respond or give them very short answers designed to get them away from me. When they ask for my phone number, I give them a fake one. When they give me their phone numbers, I throw them away. When they touch me, I pull away like they are poisoned and tell them to stop touching me. I might be fucked up beyond redemption.

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I'm also getting more attention, but now women everywhere i go will either mention I'm cute or tell a friend of mine.

Litrelly what the fuck, happened out of the blue. But now i look after the way i dress always, fix my hair, smell good etc..

>>40081098
sounds like you need therapy bro srs

>>40079782
>>40079553
Agreed,

Also find another qt. And then another. And another. You'll date so many qt's that you find out things that old gfs did that you thought was totally fine are completely unacceptable.

>>40081098
Landwhales deserve disgust and derision, their physical body represents their lack of will power, laziness etc. so it makes sense for women to reject landwhalemen and men to reject landwhalewomen. The reverse is also true, a physically fit person shows dedication, health, self-control etc. so these people are attractive to the opposite sex.

"Burr they didn't love me when I was fat" - that's because you hadn't become worthy of their love yet

>>40081162
And what have those girls done to become worthy of my love?

>>40081198
Idiot, you've opened the doors of opportunity, ignore the trash and NPCs and go find your heroine.

>>40081138
No. They expect one of us in the wreckage, brother.

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>>40081098
You are generalizing too much and creating walls around your emotional fragility.

Cone to realize that mostly everyone is an asshole regardless of sex or race. Just keep looking and try to have fun with it.

Maybe you will find someone maybe you wont but you will surely die if get this lost and dont look for a way out of the woods.

>>40081251
Then start the fire

>>40081098
You'll get over it. It can feel good to reject people but remind yourself a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, even if birds used to bully you and they piss you off.

>>40079566
Don't deny yourself, anon. This is /fit/ after all.

>>40081252
Thanks for this post. I'm gonna try DMT.

>>40081351
I don't know what this means.

>>40079510
we said it would get you female attention. not happiness.

Oh and, welcome to the club anon :))))

>>40079939
Wow! That is one o f the most insightful posts
Ever posted on this site.

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>you're attracting the worst kinds of sluts ever since you started lifting
at least they're not fat and ugly I guess

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You could always use and hurt them.

>>40079939
jesus anon

>>40081098
Anon, c'mon. You remember how you were. Put yourself in a woman's shoes. If you were one, would you have dated someone the way you were?

Given a choice between a girl who's overweight, resentful, insecure, etc. or a girl who's attractive, takes care of herself, confident, and so on. You'd be stupid if you didn't pick the latter.

>>40081968
Yeah, but I was a landwhale for 2 or 3 years. Before I was skinnyfat or chubby and they treated me like shit.

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>>40079553

beat that pussy up anon, beat it HARD

>>40079939

Everyone cap this and post it anytime someone here talks about lifting for girls.

>>40079553
more liek what is wrong with her - she probably has self esteem issues and doesn't feel good enough for you, needs a bad person that's more similar to her shitty parents or something like that

wouldnt suggst continuing to fuck her desu it'll just make her more uncertain about what she wants

>>40079510
It's cus you're subconsciously gay

>>40082251
>>40082489
I Will in the name of /fit/

>>40081098
jesus christ you are pathetic dude

how do you put women on this much of a pedestal

>>40079939
>be OP
>gets a lot of attention from external factors
>thinks that this is what should make him happy

>basically like a woman himself, who gets all of her validation and self-worth from other people on social media rather than from within herself

Your little speech here, while correct, doesn't mean anything for someone as beta as him

Seeing the way the "men" on this board react about women is the most beta, pathetic thing I have ever seen on 4chan

People like to pretend /fit/ guys are some "alpha" subset of guys, separate from the rest of 4chan. But the guys here put so much value on women, it's almost incomprehensible.

Jesus Christ, you people are fucking sad

>>40079510
Don't seek external happiness

(wo)men will never ever ever make you happy. They may bring you joy, but they won't make you happy. You're in control of that OP. Go and be great.

>>40083159
Exactly

Women seek external happiness, but that's because they can since they are women and will always have their hoards of men trying to get with them and women who will want to be their friends

>>40083081
>putting women on pedestal

I don't think you know what that means.

>>40079510
Attention from the opposite sex isn't the be all end all to life. Getting /fit/ is great for your body and mind, but if you want to be happy you need to find something that you enjoy doing and focus on that.

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>tfw a girl likes you

>>40079510
Therapy.