Hey /fit/ Former fatty here. Went from 240 to 180 pounds. I - /fit/ - Fitness

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2017-01-13 03:55:05 Post No. 40004134
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Anonymous 2017-01-13 03:55:05 Post No. 40004134 [Report]

Hey /fit/

Former fatty here. Went from 240 to 180 pounds. I have found myself approached by a lot more women both online as well as in person after my weight loss. The other day, a really fat girl came up to me and asked if I'd like to go out. I said no and when she asked why, I basically said that I've worked my ass off to get fit so I'm not going to go for a girl that isn't the same. Something like that. Anyways, she called me an asshole and is spreading hate about me like wildfire. Am I an asshole? Or am I justified?

Anonymous 2017-01-13 03:59:34 Post No.40004177
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>>40004134
>wanna go out with me?
no i have standards
>what you wont go out with me?!?! because of an insecurity i have???!?!! ASSHOLLE RACIST, BIGOT, XENOPHOBE, FATHATER, PATRIARCHY.

later on /fit/
>but what if im the asshole??
no you're not, you rejected a girl on a more than reasonable standard to hold people to

protip: who cares if you're an asshole

tl;dr: no you're not

Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:02:23 Post No.40004193
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>>40004134
No you're not OP

Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:51:05 Post No.40004640
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Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:51:05 Post No.40004640 [Report]

I'll go against the grain and say you simply should've declined

There was no reason to highlight her looks and weight when a simple "No thanks, I'm not interested" would've done fine.

Plus you probably came across as an analytical asshole instead of an ex fatty.

C'est la vie.

Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:56:58 Post No.40004682
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Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:56:58 Post No.40004682 [Report]

>>40004640
This. People don't like being called out on their shit, so don't be surprised that they go on the offensive when you do.

Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:57:43 Post No.40004691
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Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:57:43 Post No.40004691 [Report]

>>40004682
How else will they know what to improve?

Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:58:42 Post No.40004702
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Anonymous 2017-01-13 04:58:42 Post No.40004702 [Report]

>>40004640
He didn't volunteer it tho, she straight up asked him. Presumably the same way a person who was denied a promotion might ask why, with the intention of working to improve their faults.
Then the OP was honest in his answer.

Might have been a dumb move and will eventually lower his social standing a bit, but no, giving an honest answer to a direct question isn't a dick move if it wasn't said cruelly.