I've been lifting and boxing for about four years now, and

>>39929393
>I've had a lot of dudes telling me my muscle mass makes me unfuckable
In those words?
>I'm too tall.
My gf is 185cm and wears heels
>I'm pretty feminine and I worry I somehow look grotesque.
Tiny manlets think this
>I just needed to vent
Yeah 4chan is not really open to people just venting. Have a point to your story.
>what do they even get out of trying to bring others down, what's the point? :(
Its fun. The same reason why bullies exist. The same reason people create in/out groups, a basic function of human societies like nations or religions. By excluding others, an in-group gets tighter, takes better care of eachother and makes the chance of survival higher.

You can't get happy from other peoples happiness and it doesnt seem like you do. Keep it up.

tlddr
>>>reddit

how can we know if you are too muscular if you don't give us a full frontal nude picture?

>>39929552
This

fuck them, figuratively not literally

get new friends who aren't petty and support things that are good for you

if none around, read books

>>39929393
im 178cm, there is nothing wrong with you being taller, people have personal sexual preferences, and thats ok, but no one has the right to call you things like grotesque, i suggest cutting them out of your life.

>>39929393
If you think it being to muscular might get in the way of your relationship goals/whatnot, you could just gain like 10-15lb, then you would still be strong, but visible muscle wouldn't scare guys who aren't into that off.

If you just don't like how people you know are treating you, find new friends/acquaintances.

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>>39929393
Some people are just shits, find people that support you, challenge you to be better, sticking around with "friends" that put you down and denigrate what you do is not healthy.

also, post nudes.

>>39929393

That's not nearly enough muscle, even for a woman to look grotesque
Even if they find it it unattractive, they don't get to talk like that
Your friends are probably just losers who would feel better by bringing you down
You can totally vent here
Now that you're /fit/, i suggest you go over to /lit/
Stay badass.

>>39929393
Would you date a manlet?
No? Then don't complain.
Btw I'm 181cm and all my Gfs were 178-183cm tall.

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>>39929393
The pic you posted isn't even muscular (in the male sense), you being female don't have the required hormones to even become muscular in a masculine way, you should keep lifting.

>Like, what do they even get out of trying to bring others down, what's the point? :(

They get to feel better about themselves, if they push people down, they feel as though they have risen higher.

>>39929630


Yeah, but maybe she doesn't talk shit about manlets being manlets

>>39929393
Also, OP, try not to listen to the faggots on this board either

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>>39929393
you are doing something respectable with your life and constantly improving yourself. your friends and are therefore intimidated and put you down to feel better about their lazy selves.
anyways, muscle girls are hot. if anything, your looks weed out the dickless manlets. I'm glad, though, to hear muscle girls are really insecure so I can start hitting on them

>>39929393
>One night when I was running (usually a safe neighborhood) a guy tried to push me into a hedge and rip my shirt off, and I could literally fight him off easily and I'm just a lot less anxious in general now.

Fake.

>>39929573
>*figuratively and literally
ftfy

>>39929775
Unfortunately not fake though. Like do you not know that some dudes get off on doing shit like this?

>>39929524
Obviously not in those exact words bc I'm Danish, when translated then yes.
I guess I don't see the appeal in trying to make others feel bad instead of improving oneself.
I'm sorry if you didn't feel there was a point, hopefully we will go back to debating protein content in semen so the standard will rise again. :)

>>39929573
That is actually good advise, thanks; I just worry I'm cutting someone out of my life due to being oversensitve.

>>39929579
Thank you, that's good advise. I'm just one of those people with boo hoo sad childhood and insecurity, so I worry I'm overreacting.

>>39929594
That might actually work, I'm just not sure extra weight is a good idea when I'm in the healthy range, and I worry it would slow me down when running.
I think maybe new friends are the way to go, thanks. :)

>>39929597
Thanks anon. :)
It's just kinda hard to believe one deserves better friends when pretty insecure, but obviously new friends would probably help with that.
I am unfortunately way too shy and paranoid for nudes. :(

>>39930179
Your friends are just being jerks. There are plenty of men I know that find fit women attractive. And the women being critical of you for being fit are probably just being jealous and trying to bring you down because that's what women do to each other. You'll probably out live all of those women due to your better health early in life. Like other anons are saying here, get new friends.

>>39929629
Thanks a lot, anon. :)
Yeah I think it's perfectly fine if I'm not people's type, but some dudes just get really agitated; "You would be pretty if you weren't so muscle-y" and they say it with pathos like I sat on their hamster.
The weird thing is that I don't really think they're losers; most of us are in a STEM masters program together, but it's kinda like anyone who cares about sports is automatically shallow. It's weird.

>>39929393
>I'm 181 cm and a cis femanon
Yeah, nice story. No one wants to rape lanklet women you cunt.

>>39929393
Ok, but do you like bread?

>lose value to dyel gentlemen
>gain value to high test built autists.

I like your box too, pootykins. I'd creampie it.

>>39929630
I actually don't care about height in dudes. The last guy I was into was quite a bit shorter than me, and I got the feeling it bothered him. It was shitty because there wasn't much I could do about it. He ended up dating my short and very petite friend. She's a really nice person so I wish them well, but it did make me pretty sad.

>>39930371
Yeah I wouldn't Date a woman too that's 5cms taller than me

>>39929631
Yeah, I didn't even think I was noticably buff until people started pointing it out. It started when I was doing my thesis where I could mostly work from home, so whenever I felt frustrated I would go lift. I'm a mathematician so trust me I ended up lifting A LOT.

You're probably right, I just have such a hard time understanding that mentality. It's like the endgame is that everyone, themselves included, feel shitty.

>>39930371
Pic of friend? She sounds hot

>>39929647
Thanks anon. :)
The traits I dislike in men are actually stuff like whiteboy dreads, manbuns and shitty tattoos. And shitty personal hygeine.
I feel a lot of dudes are paranoid that women are constantly judging them based on height when like... idc. That last guy I really liked was pretty short, but I wasn't his type. Shit happens.

>>39929747
Thanks anon. :)
I don't really get what they would be intimidated by though, by since I'm just trying to stay healthy, nothing special. I actually started lifting and boxing to combat insecurity and social anxiety, and that's the part that's improved my life the most.
I actually dig short guys, but I feel I tower over them even more so than with other dudes. :/

>>39929393
Brienne ?

>>39930389
That's totally fine, but choosing people based on height has honestly always weirded me that fuck out. Best of luck though.

>>39930169
>Danish
Yeah there's half your problems. You're from the Cuck'd north.

>>39930259
Thanks man. :)
Sometimes it's just hard to tell when criticism is bullshit or not when it comes from someone who usually acts like your friend. "They're just jealous!" is a line I use with caution since it so often comes from people with martyr complexes.
/fit/ usually cheers me up though since I actually see pics of girls with bodies similar to mine, often getting nice responses. So that's a confidence booster. :D

>>39930341
You have some issues that I feel unequipped to deal with

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>>39930169
>Danish

>>39929393
Take a pic without your face showing and post it.

>>39930342
Bread is the light of my life

>>39930242
No reason you couldn't hide you face...

>>39930369
I was with you up till pootykins desu

>>39930551
Denmark less so than the rest of Scandinavia. Janteloven is still holding out

>>39930436
She's pretty hot but it would be psycho of me to give her pic to a bunch of strangers, no offense

>>39929393
5'9 is tall but not grotesque. At least you're not 6 feet.

And being that built is fucking great to any red-blooded man.

>>39930544
Man I wish, Brienne is life goals

>>39930389
the hell is wrong with you people?

I'm 186cm and i would 100% date a girl taller than me, ESPECIALLY if she had a fine lifting/boxing body like OP

this is why we can't have nice things, i swear to god

>>39929393
Show your booty.

>>39930551
I feel there was a lot more joy and light in the world before you all got obsessed with the whole cuck deal

>>39930789
Stfu Nigger

>>39930815
no u

>>39930693
Listen it's Fimbulwinter here in Denmark and absolutely nothing has been shaved for a month, so I'm not sure what you are hoping for but I admire the effort

>>39930549
>>39930769
I mean I fucked one once, she was 186cm, 5cm taller than me.
But going out with here was very weird.

>>39930759
Google tells me it translates to 5'11", I hope you're right though. Thanks :)

>>39930825
>I'm not sure what you are hoping
What did she mean by this?

>>39930838
Okay zero judgement, I'm just legitimately curious, was she on stilts or something?
If she was on stilts she was a keeper

>>39930767
She gets a lot of shit by pretty much everybody though. Stand tall and carry on.

Muscular girl with body similar to OP pic reporting in.
don't feel put down by anyone who puts down your physique, i've found that the guys who find it unattractive usually lack strength and muscle themselves. Guys who like it are guys who lift and are /fit/ themselves. Weeds out the weak. Rock your body girl and ignore those who don't appreciate it you're better off that way

>>39930913
Thanks a lot, anon, that actually made me feel a lot better. Hope you keep doing the same and take pride in your achievements! :)

>>39930769
Hi anon, thanks for saying that, it made me feel better. :)

>>39930977
Listen I wasn't joking about arctic winter, I'm sitting in a million fucking layers and if I flash something it will in all likelihood freeze off
You're trying to murder my tits here, anon

>>39931032
Good excuse, I'm finnish and it's almost -25° outside and I'm sitting naked at my computer you fucking faggot

>>39931108
That's because you're drunk.

>>39930789
Protip: there wasn't, you were just 12.

>>39929393
Clearly the guy that pushed you into a hedge thinks you're fuckable, so don't worry about it

Girls with muscles/tall are hot, unless they got a very manly face.
Female roided up bodybuilders are gross however

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>>39931117
Nice racist meme

>>39931162
He still ran away though so I would not describe that as a sucess

pics or it didn't happen

This is the "fuckability" scale for all men. Any other standards are lies:
>breathing
>not fat (tho some guys like fatties so even this is kind of borderline).

If you meet those criteria, you're good to go!

pics :3

Are you a virgin?

>>39930314
Physicist here. Stem students are among the most retarded people when it comes to lifting. Many are ugly antisocial shutins that complain about people being shallow but are quick to judge others solely based on their appearance because they're insecure fucks.

Next time they tell you that you're "too muscley" just let them know that that doesn't really matter as they don't have a shot with you anyway and laugh it off.

>>39931275
Creepy dude was actually filming me on his phone when he tried to take my shirt off and I think it might still have been filming when I kicked him in the balls
I actually wish he would post it somewhere because it would cheer me up

>>39931396
god i wish that were me

>>39929393
>>39929393

People who haven't acheived much always want to bring others down. As for the guys that wouldn't fuck you because of your mass, hey they're entittled to feel that way, but they're absolute dicks for saying that to you, they said that to make you feel bad. Fuck what they think. Keep doing what you're doing femanon :-)

>>39929393
>>39930169
You don't have to lose the relationships with your friends, but you don't have to care much what they say, either. That they say that muscle is gross on women and that you're too tall reeks of them being insecure in either their own muscle mass, their height or maybe their masculinity.
I see it too. When my friends and I discuss girls, many of them say "she's too tall" or "nope, too muscly" about girls where I don't see the problems. They're all completely dyels and have never been close to being fit in their life, while I'm the only actually fit and athletic person in the group.
Don't care at all what your morbidly obese friend thinks of your fitness level.

I'm Danish too, and I'm very used to seeing fit girls, but the vast majority of them are cardiobunnies. A girl that actually looks strong is still rare, even in the big gyms in Århus and probably Copenhagen too. People are not used to it and many probably feel insecure about themselves, which makes them want the out-of-the-norm fit girl to be more like them - because they don't want to get off their lazy asses and become fit themselves.

Beklager hvis det blev rodet til sidst, er selv lige kommet hjem fra træning. Bare bliv ved med at kore dit eget lob og gore, hvad du vil. Held og lykke med det. Godt nytår!

>>39931312
>Breathing
I think you are a bit picky, Chad

>>39931392
STEM high five! :D
Yeah, when I started out I was convinced that all the stereotyping couldn't possibly have basis in reality, but sadly a lot of it does. Especially the poor hygeine; I have seen so many people pick their nose and eat it during lectures. DDDD:
And I literally know someone currently writing her thesis about how unhealthy it is to exercise in the city, trying to prove that you should literally not exercise at all because it will give you cancer. DDD:
I have met some amazing people though, who are kind and ingenious, but it's hard to stay in touch with them because they work in completely different areas than me or are completing their degrees abroad.
Anyway, I definitely think you're right, and that laughing it off is the smartest way to deal with this nonsense.

>>39930825
It's time to go outside to raid and plunder Valkyrie

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Pic related is not attractive in my opinion. Impressive but not attractive.

>>39931460
Thanks a lot, anon! :)
What confuses me is that they're quite successful in many other ways, so I don't understand why they don't just do their own thing.
I agree; I think it's really important to respect people's boundaries, and definitely no one owes me sex or attention. But it's so weird to me when people go out of their way to be assholes especially when my own code has always been to not comment on people's looks unless it's a non-creepy compliment or they specifically asked. Yeah, I'm just gonna keep doing me, thanks :)

>>39929393
Do those men go to the gym or not?
They're probably afraid that you would be stronger than them in bed and would have more endurance too.

>>39931496
Hi anon! Yeah, the best thing is probably to try and ignore them when they're being shitty. At least it's not just me they talk shit about; it seems like there's not a single person they see who is acceptable. I'm not a complete doormat and I've tried to call them out on it, but they always turn it into concern trolling. They're not always shitty though, they really have helped me a lot during hard times, that's why I don't want to cut ties.

Yeah, there's not a lot of lady lifters here, though we do have Mia Sand who is my alltime inspiration.

Det er ok - tak for dit svar, du har squ nok ret. Også godt nytår til dig! :D

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>scandinavian (((women)))
Fucking disgusting

>>39931515
> :D

Your caste disgust me

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>>39929393
Girls usually have too high of a bodyfat for it to look muscular to the uninitiated, the only thing that makes you look like you lift are traps ( literal trapezius muscles)

>>39931646
I don't think so; they seem to go through phases where they're super psyched about getting fit, but it never lasts more than a few weeks.
It's honestly kind of sad to me if they feel that way because I'm not competitive at all and don't like comparing myself to others.
Sometimes it's fucking ridiculous though, an out of shape friend of mine REFUSED to let me carry a crate of beer for him, like it would somehow emasculate him to let me help. Like... just let me help so you don't fuck up your back? There wasn't even anyone else around. D:

>>39931703
Jeg må indromme, jeg aldrig har hort om Mia Sand, men har lige googlet hende og kan godt forstå dig. Hun ser ret stærk ud! Men hun har ikke en mandig kropsbygning overhovedet, snarere tværtimod. Det er satme feminine kurver, der vil noget!
Jeg forestiller mig lidt, at der er forskellige holdninger til veltrænede piger forskellige steder i landet (eller også er det bare mig, der er fordomsfuld over for folk opvokset i storbyen). Hvor er du fra?

>>39931757
Anon, why are you so upset

>>39931757
That's the beasuty of it. It goes both way with sexual liberalism. Being quite picky and prude, I was in the same numbers at that age.

It's not hard getting laid here, and it's wonderful.

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>>39931811
Seriously, fucking ignore those faggots don't even pretend to be friends with them, they're bringing you down, what kind of friend would tell someone that he looks like they hardly could get a boyfriend/girlfriend when they're obviously working on their body in a way that isn't cardio faggotry, you know how hard I'd go to town just on the fact that you have big tighs and a tight ass? I'm not a nigger either.

The, only thing that might make others feel intimidated by you might be your height, but even then, tall girls give birth to strong aryan sons.

You browsed fit too early. You shouldnt have friends by the time you start lifting, hermit mode is real

I don't know if pic related is good enough for you but that's what I can offer, I wouldn't hesitate to ask you out for dinner.

>>39931890
The last part sounded like I was trying to get a date on fit, I'm not that desperate yet though, so forget that

>>39931594
this chick is definitely on some sort of steroids. I don't think I've ever seen a woman to muscular to be hot that isn't on steroids

>>39929393
The worse thing you can ever do for yourself is lift just because it makes you attractive to other people, because the kind of people you will really enjoy being with (not necessarily enjoy just fucking) aren't going to care about whether or not you're muscular.

If you enjoy lifting then don't stop, absolutely keep doing it. Keep taking care of your body and when you want a relationship or even just a sex buddy make sure it's someone who has always been supportive of your lifestyle with lifting.

If they criticize your life choices, even when those choices help you, then they're not good friends. Imagine if this wasn't lifting, but you quitting smoking or drugs. Why would you keep friends who tried to convince you to keep doing drugs or smoking tobacco? Tell them how much this matters to you and if they don't get it then find new friends.

>>39931890
Dude...

>>39931829
Mia er hardcore, og nok det bedste bevis på at styrketræning ikke gor kvinder maskuline. Jeg er fra Nordsjælland (Helsingor), men plejer at træne i KBH tæt på studiet, men det er mest cardio bunnies - og al respekt for det, men det ville være rart med lidt afveksling. :)

>>39931834
Not an argument

>>39931869
Shut the fuck up you degenerate subhuman piece of shit

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>>39931869
Unironically kill yourself

>>39931811
>It's honestly kind of sad to me if they feel that way because I'm not competitive at all
You don't get it. They just have low self-esteem (Many Such Cases!). They know a man shouldn't be weaker than a women, and feel inadequate.

When you improve yourself enough (man or woman) many of the people "below" you will feel insecure. Fit guys get it too: hot girls mire but others will avoid eye contact even though they're interested, because they're too shy and intimidated.

What's your lifting/boxing routine BTW? Lifting 3x/week, boxing 2x/week on rest days? I want to do boxing without giving up lifting.

>>39931911
The red flag was not really the dinner invitation, more the birthing of Aryan sons part

>>39932008
Det har du ret i. Alligevel har jeg på fornemmelsen, at selvom hun stadig er feminint bygget, så er der nok mange piger, der ikke vil se sådan ud, og der er nok mange fyre, der ikke er så vilde med det :/

Satans, jeg håbede måske lidt du var i Århus ;)
Kan godt forstå det med afvekslingen. Hvor jeg træner er der cardiobunnies, overvægtige piger, der nok lige er begyndt, og så en enkelt kvinde, der ser monster stærk ud og også lofter noget respektabel vægt. Jeg er dog næsten sikker på, hun tager steroider, og har ikke set hende længe, så hun er måske smidt ud...

>100 replies
>no proofs

oh /fit/

>>39931980
That's a really good point and I agree. Fortunately I'm definitely doing this for me; getting fit has improved my health so much, I've learned to defend myself so I feel much more confident and it helps a lot with anxiety and stress.
The thing is that while these friend are often petty or bitchy, they have also genuinely helped me with the big stuff, like when my dad died. I think they fundamentally have a lot of good in them, but they have some issues with themselves that they can't deal with. When I try to make them clean up their act they turn it into concern trolling, so maybe the best thing to do is to stop internalising what they say (hard when they're your friends) and try to shake it off. idk, they just sometimes make me very sad, but there's still a lot of good to their personalities... Thanks for replying. :)

>>39932027
>>39932041
stop being so jelly. Sex feels good. You should try it.

>>39929393
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>>39932169
Fuck off back to /soc/ nigger

>>39932203
fuck off back to /pol/ double nigger

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>>39932169
Do you even know where you are?

>>39932203
>muh depressive and destructive lifestyle!
>>39932263
yeah, /r9k/ is always open for your beta shit.

>>39932087
Tja, det er jo også helt i orden at have præferencer, desværre ender det tit med at folk hater på alt hvad der er anderledes. Jeg kunne godt onske mig lidt mere variation i hvad der fremstilles som den "perfekte" krop.

Haha, så lille et land er Danmark jo desværre ikke...:P
Hos mig er det en god blanding af cardio bunnies og zumba damer, men fred være med det, så har jeg jo det gode for mig selv. :D

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>>39932275
>muh dik me fuck woman ooga booga u mad xD

>>39932165
Stop dine forbandet smileys

>>39932307
what?

>>39932311
Stop dit triste livssyn :(

>>39931869
>>39932169
>>39932275
Is that you op?

>>39932375
Nope, definitely not

>>39932348
Stop dit glade livssyn : ------- )

>>39929393
A tall juicy lifter Danish (or northern European descent) girl is literally my perfect woman. But then again I'm not a salty manlet and I want my offspring to have even better genes than I.

>>39932411
<3 nej <333

>>39932452
Haha, that's nice of you! Unfortunately I don't think I'm your girl, my family has really shitty genes - different kinds of cancer and heart disease and don't tend to live past 55-60. Then again they all have /had terrible lifestyles. My primary reason for getting /fit/ is literally trying to stay the fuck alive

>>39932046
Red flag for liberals

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>>39929393
I married a girl who is 182cm and lifts heavy yet is still very feminine when she wants to be. She also boxes, muay thai, krav manga, wrestles a little bjj and I know for a fact she can kick my ass but I trust she won't and she hasn't.

If a man is intimidated by a girl who they perceive is strong, it is because they think she is capable of defending herself and they do not want a balanced and fair relationship. So, not really someone you should put any weight in their opinion of your fuckability.

I am 190cm and male. We both met through lifting. Also she is Swedish.

>>39930888
What

>>39932298
Præcis! Nogle folk kan ikke tage, at andre ikke er som dem. Og folk har det især svært med at nogen ser ud, som de selv gerne vil se ud.

Nej, desværre :P
Sådan kan man også tænke på det, bliv ved med det!
Jeg smutter igen. Godt nytår, held og lykke i fremtiden :)