if I get fit will someone love me? can I have a social life again?

>again

I guess you could if you had one before. I've never had a social life/friends.


t. 29 year old, lifting 6 years, single dig bodyfat year round, maintaining 1/2/3/4 on PPLxPPL with a bunch of accessories.

>>39757331
Make people care about you breh.
>force yourseld into their lives
>then suddenly leave when they need you most

>"SHOUTOUT TO MY EX, YOU'RE REALLY QUITE THE BEST"
>hold me /fit/

>tfw maintaining relationships is to much effort
>tfw to afraid to open up to others because of trust issues
>implying getting fit will change any of this

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>>39757360
It's gonna be okay man

>>39757362
>>tfw maintaining relationships is to much effort
>>tfw to afraid to open up to others because of trust issues

my friendless life in a nutshell.

i always get depressed when im alone but then shit like this reminds me i actually am just broken and prefer being alone because i cant stand being around other people and interacting with them.

i dont understand why im like this, always been this way my entire life, siblings are all super-normies with huge social circles and im just the odd one out

>>39757331
forgot to mention if it'd get me a qt gf too

>>39757331
>>39757419
Why u tripfaggin breh. You got dem aesthetics?? Post pics

>>39757433
I have the body of a walrus. Been battling obesity for years.

>>39757331
>if I get fit will someone love me?

Only if you love yourself first (easy)

>can I have a social life again?

Only if you let yourself have friends (hard)

>will people finally care about me?

Only if you care about them (impossible)

>>39757441
Lifting will definately help with confidence I can tell you that much.

>>39757331
lauren will never love you

>>39757360
>Just broke up with long term GF
>She did not take it well
>intense guilt

>Every time I go to the gym that fucking song.

>>39757739
Same here. Spent a few days trying to make sense of it all and if it was just toxic for my peace of mind

>>39757720
no shit?

getting in shape does have benefits, but some of those things seem like it relys on your personality and willingness to put in work with your relationships with people.