Who here is lifting for a special grill, an ex, for revenge,

>>39612637
I was fat and girls didn't care about me. Now I'm fit and they do, but it doesn't matter because I have a small penis

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>>39612909
>small penis

Are you meming, asian, have low-self confidence or do you actually have a small penis?

>>39612637
I lift for a future BF

>>39612637
I always lift for the next one

>>39612637
Lifting to get revenge on an ex desu

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>>39612953
Me too my friend.

Lifting for revenge on all girls out there.

Originally was lifting for one girl in particular. But apparently she can't unsee the fat me.
So now I lift for girls in general.

>>39612934
Are there more pictures of her?

>>39612637
Lifting to be stronger than my former bullies in high school.
Its so vain since im in uni now but that will keep the flame burning. I dont want to be weak anymore.

>>39613037
same here bro

>>39612637
Yes I did. Used to be 330 lbs when I was 18 and lost weight through diet+more active lifestyle. I was skinnyfat by the time I was 20 and then I got a oneitis. She was a 9 and I fucked things up with her.
Started lifting, got more confidence and experience with women and met her again 1.5 years after. Started dating and we were together for a few months. She turned out to be a psycho.
Also since being fit I hooked up with my first crush ever (a qt I hung out with when I was 13). And currently dating one of the stacys from my high school.

So yeah lifting can definatly change you from being the most undesirable fuck to a 'chad'. But outer appearance isn't the only thing that you need to improve.

Lifting made me more confident, loving, caring, friendly, etc.

>>39613157
I dont know whether its my self hatred that causes my desire for self improvement, or my desire for self improvement causing my self hatred

sure, you can only aspire to get hotter bitches if you're fit af or if you're rich, so the former is way easier.

>>39612637
>who here is a beta cuck?
Ftfy buddy

>>39613175
or start doing the lottery

>>39612637

100% I am lifting to get revenge on a girl I will probably never see again.

> Be me.
> Married.
> Work closely with other broad at work.
> Catch feelings for other girl.
> Nothing physical but we click emotionally.
> Realize work girl is keeping me on the hook for professional reasons.
> Bad for marriage anyway.
> Ghost work broad out of nowhere.
> She emails "WTF"
> Decide to call out work broad for her flirty antics.
> She denies, says she never felt anything for me.
> Delete her number. Leave Facebook, Twitter, etc.
> MFW I miss her everyday.

>>39613170
I feel with you more than I've ever felt.

My Gf is a 10/10 and some girl made a comment that she was too hot for me and I was out of shape etc. Hearing something like that especially from someone else was a wakeup call. Ive lost 20 pound since then and don't expect to stop.

What if i lift because it makes me forget for a few moments about my shitty life?

>>39613018

Learn how to reverse

>>39612637
I lift for my future wife, whom I've probably not met.

I lift to forget I'm a NEET loser fuck for a few hours

>>39613455
I know that feel.

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>Not lifting for America

Did you even vote for Trump?

>>39613170
For me it started with self hatred, didn't want to be an obeast anymore so lost the weight and once I started to love myself a bit I started to improve myself for me.
Dont improve yourself because you hate yourself, do it because you love yourself anon. There's already enough hate and anger in this world, become a beacon of compassion.

I lift so I can get the satisfaction of turning girls down. I'm decently social and can flirt just fine, but I can't get girls interested enough in me to be able to shut them down. I'm hoping getting /fit/ will help

>>39613520
Being this much of an sour stuck up bitch.

Wow anon who hurt you?

>>39612637
so i can keep myself away from suicide

no fuck bitches

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I'm lifting because its helping me get off the drink, and it's helping alleviate my back pain and sleep better.

I also needed an activity to get me out of the house / office routine.

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>>39612637
>be /b/tard
>decide i need to improve myself
>go on /fa/
>discover based rick
>never look back
i dont even wear rick pieces desu

>>39613539
I readily admit it's petty and shitty of me, but I'm long past the point of giving a fuck. I'm not relationship material anyway, so I'll just indulge in some emotional sadism for shits and giggles

>>39613596
What makes you think you aren't relationship material?
Are you afraid if you connect with someone and they get to know the real you they'll despise and reject you?
No use transferring and projecting your pain on others.

>>39612637
My ex moved to New York to finish acting school, ultimately causing us to break up. We've kept in touch, and even though we've both moved on to other relationships, she drunkenly calls me once every few weeks to confess her continued love for me and how she's never felt as fulfilled as she did in our relationship.

I've more or less genuinely moved on and will probably marry my current girlfriend. However, one of my motivations for working out is to keep my ex in love with me through carefully constructing an image of my life through social media. She's insanely talented, and will likely "break out" sometime soon on tv. I just want the power trip of keeping a famous actress desperately in love with me.

>>39613646
>What makes you think you aren't relationship material?
Lots of reasons, but the most simplest one being I don't want to be in one.

>Are you afraid if you connect with someone and they get to know the real you they'll despise and reject you?
That has happened, but that's long gone and I'm a different person from then

>No use transferring and projecting your pain on others.
It will be entertaining. That's use enough for me

there's this guy that's posted a lot here that has kind of beachy long hair and has a god-tier body and i realized he looks a lot like me except i'm skelly and i realized that i could be an 8/10 if i just lifted so yeah that's my goal for now
also i want to get laid fucking highscshool was miserable for me being a skelly babyface manlet you're literally invisible i want to have sex every fucking day like nature meant it to be

>>39613646
Im not him (obviously) but i totally agree with his sentiment and i lift and self improve only to be able to reject chicks further down the road

Having a girl telling you she wants you is a great stroke of your ego and its how i want to use it, most relationships end pretty soon after they are created since most chicks just find a new guy to fall for and promptly move on so why bother?
Just use it for a kick and move on, no need to get bogged down in a relationship with someone who is intent of replacing you after a few months anyway

The shitty state of dating and the effect this has on relationships is the reason why

>>39612637
I want to be strong to protect my current gf and be useful in general
Being attractive to strangers would be a bonus

>>39612637
I had this stripper chick move across the country to come live with me.. we never fucked (constant fighting, bad vibes)... kicked her out a few weeks later, ends up fucking a friend of mine (not a surprise), tells me "you we're impressive enough" probably just to piss me of ... motivates the fuck out of me to just go hard as fuck in the gym.

shitty thing is i'm actually really successful and stable but she likes the dude w no car, job, and 2 felonies, etc... currently in monk mode for last 3 months...

>>39612637
I train because I hate grills and I just want to be alone in my own little bubble, i chase a goal to stop me getting lonely.

Funnily enough, I met a girl through boxing who is also into fitness and trains strength and conditioning at my boxing club.

Feels good, she'll prob fuck me over like all grills but it'll be nice while it lasts.

>>39612909
>I was fat and girls didn't care about me. Now I'm fit and they do

Same, no longer even interested in having a gf desu, I became bitter

>>39612637
I'm lifting for myself, a special girl(male) :)

>>39612637
I don't lift for girls but every time I break up with someone I go through a wave of motivation, break all my plateaus, and get promoted/a better job just to "win" the break up. It kind of started an unhealthy cycle.

>>39612637
Well, I recently got back to gym when a new GF said in bed that she likes to sleep on my muscle. I just don't even how much that made me aroused. Now I'm bench presing every day like crazy.

>>39613565
ahh /fa/ and /fit/

ying and yang

>>39614135
You must remain cold to women like that. I would hang out and fuck a stripper but never date or let them move in

im lifting to get better self confidence to ask out my crush in my french class

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>>39612637
I lifted because of that fiance who cheated on me while i was overseas. I lifted for that future girl that would heal my heart. I lifted with that girl that inspired me to be greater. Now I lift with that girl who is my wife and world

I know that is sappy shit. I genuinely thought I could never trust someone again. but when I found pic related I found my happiness

>>39614283
How does she not fall over?

>>39612637
Who the fuck exercises for the sake of other people?

Not exercising to make yourself better / improving

Pathetic

>>39614297
Yeah I'm not sure how to correct the rotation when posting from my phone :(

>>39612637
One day I am going to have a girl that I think is worth all of this effort and more, I'll want to be the best version of me possible. This motivates me whenever I am feeling lethargic

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>>39614297
Went from
>21
>fat ugly friendless virgin
>Dropout
>Actively considering suicide

To
>22
>Back in school 13 credit hours
>A's through C's
>Maintaining my lift routine
>Still friendless virgin

I'm trying to make it.

>>39614407

Keep on keeping on, brother

>>39614234
for sure... I'm not even trying to date her .. just frustrates me that we did fuck and i had her here baka ... shes hot as fuck

>>39614439
pics of her

>>39614407
Good progress m8, keep it up

>>39614407
You're pretty good looking now, keep up the good work.

>>39614407
You're gonna make it brah

Revenge i guess, want to beat up older siblings that always picked on me from birth to middleschool. Those bad memories are etched in my brain need some closure

>>39614440
i cant... but she looks like rikki six

>30% bf 200lbs 5'11"

Broke up with my gf about 2 months ago and had ended up like this

>17% bf 170lbs
Me two years ago before I got caught up with the gainz goblin

Met my ex recently and she was claiming how she had moved on completely and got with other people, it shouldn't have bothered me but it did so I hopped back on the gainz train and come next April/May I want to be lean(er than I was before)

>>39613663
Evil. I love it

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>>39612637
Ill post my story again it's been in a few like this.
>Be me 18yo college freshman
>Start school @ 5'9 and a skinny as fuck 140lbs
>Meet girl in my dorms, she lives a floor below me
>Completely fall for this girl she's a solid 8/10 and an amazing personality.
>Being the beta fag I was I got completely friendzoned
>She starts talking about how she likes muscular guys and compliments guys in dorms with 'toned' bodies.
>I don't really tell anyone but I start hitting the gym
>Get refered to this board by a friend
>Taking diet and routine extremely seriously
>About a year later I'm not 5'11 175lbs with a nice bf% and actually kind of proud of myself for once
>See her at the start of second year.
>She's gained a little bit of weight (maybe 10-15lbs?)
>I'm still really in love with this girl.
>She starts acting all flirtatious grabbing my chest and shit saying "wow you've changed so much" or stuff to that effect
>Says that we should go out and see a movie like I wanted to last year with her
>Explain to her that I would rather stay as friends
>She's all taken aback looks kind of insulted
>Go to the library just sit there for a couple hours and reflect about lift n shit
I know a lot of you will say just hit it and quit it it's ez pussy but she rejected me so hard last year and apparently mocked me for it so I had to do my best to keep some self respect. Cheers

>>39614567
You should have physically assaulted her

>>39614567
Wow, respect bro. It would've been easy to fall for that trap, good on you realizing you deserve better


We're all gonna make it brah

For a wife that I guess I'll meet eventually. For now I just use a method of gettig a oneitis every few months that is a few points ahead of me but not out of my realistic reach so I feel motivated to improve

>>39614407
crazy
you went from a 4 to an 8

>>39614567
Good job not falling into the trap, friend.

>>39614407
good work m80, keep it up

My current bf is fit and while I first starting dating him I ballooned. He kept saying things like, "Why are you eating so little? Have more of this!" Unless he was intentionally trying to make me a fatty, I don't think he realized that he could eat immense amounts of food because he worked out/had a god tier metabolism and I couldn't. I had never had a guy telling me to eat like that before and fell for it because I do love food. It was grim and I gained 15 lbs before I knew it.

After I gained weight, he kept making fun of me for being a fatty. It made me really fucking angry and motivated me. Now I'm 22 lbs lighter and still going. He stopped working out but he still looks fit. Now I'm working out so I can look better with him.

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>>39612934

you will never
>go out on a fun morning hike with this qt for cardio
>gather delicious, healthy wild plums for vitamin gains
>bang lovingly and bareback on a picnic blanket in the warm spring sunshine, surrounded by nature and not another soul for miles
>cum inside her to conceive strong, healthy babies who will inherit all this land one day

why even live

>>39612934
That's some tirelli tier photo

>>39612637
>Be me skinnyfat Betta bringing cucklord.com
>Know this 5/10 grill, became friends with her and shit always talking
>Became best friends grab my bakls and ask her out and rejects tells me sgea not looking for a relationship
> One month passes she's dating a guy literally cured myself to sleep
>Decided to better myself and start lifting came to /fit/ after zeez died and get motivated with he's story
Now I got a gf i saw her yesterday and she was kind of mirin
Feels good m80s

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>be sad last Wednesday.
>consider drinking my sorrows
>check fb before bed
>See a message from high school sweetheart who left me
>talk and try not to spill spaghetti
>tells me to come see her at hookah lounge
>get there dressed to the nines
>she is drunk, high and depressed about her bf
>tells me how shit her life has been and how leaving me was really a mistake.
>have a polite night and leave

Don't know what to feel to be honest.

I still love her but she is now more or less trash. I don't want to be in a relationship with her, but I really wanted to bone since I she was one of those purity ring girls when we dated.

>>39612637

i don't lift for my ex, but every time we hang out as friends she always tells me how disappointed her dad was when we broke up. so that's cool i guess?

>>39615235
>how disappointed her dad was when we broke up. so that's cool i guess?
Sort of. In part she broke with you to piss him off. What else would disappoint him? What's his opinion on her dating a black guy?

>>39614567

Keep improving. Dont stop moving foward.

>>39614567
Congrats bro .

>>39615218
fuckkk i see this incoming with my ex... my ex and i broke up a few months ago, because she got new "cool friends" who make her do whore things and i wasn't cool enough for them. since I already partied up hard when i was younger i thought it was stupid and didnt feel like going with them. she was a virgin before me and now turning into trash... I still love her atm and she won't have me back, probablyh gonna be in your situation a year from now

>>39615276

i dumped her actually. her dad is jewish and apparently he called me a "mensch," which is a yiddish term for a respectable, upstanding person.

>>39615327
Ex-gf dad mires are the rarest of mires. Treasure them, anon.

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>>39615319
Brace for some cosmic feels.
Simultaneously being validated in knowing you were right but still dealing with the fallout will be weird as fuck.

>>39615319
Brandon?

>>39613386
>Ive lost 20 pound since then and don't expect to stop.
Are you planning on disappearing? Surely the shame is not that big.

>>39615426
Yeah?

>>39614407
Wow. Nice work.

>>39612637
lifting to be juicy as fuck for myself and a special track and field grill in my classes that has the finest ass i have ever seen

>>39615356
I'm gonna be working as an intern abroad for 6 months and after that do a study exchange so at least I'll be gone far away for a year... Feels bad though, I'll be working on my future and she's probably sucking some other dudes' cocks. Hope she won't be on my mind too much when I start work and have new experiences, I was actually really depressed for a couple weeks about it but finally got out of it a bit now :/

>>39615426
and no my name starts with an R, (I'm >>39615319)

>>39613206
wtf man. You have a wife!!

>>39612989
underrated

>>39614567
Good Jerb, Bruh. Makin' it.

>>39612637
I'm lifting to be the best possible version of me. Mainly for myself, but being the best for my eventual lover is a part of it too. Lifting for revenge is for losers in my opionion.

>>39613206
Don't be a degenerate. Deus Vult.

>>39613386
>at least 20 pound overweight
>has a 10/10 gf
are you Chris Pratt from the past or what?

>>39614785

pirelli? the calendar?

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Chyeah I'm a girl
Got into lifting before my ex and he was starting out so I encouraged him to lift with me
Ex takes it way too seriously and starts injecting
I don't want to go to the gym with him anymore because of his anger issues, he doesn't want me leaving MY own apartment because he'd get jealous if he didn't know where I was
After two years, I'd gained probably 30-40 pounds, he did not gain much muscle but when he started hitting me I ended it (for obvious reasons)

Fast forward it's been ten months about since the break up
Lost most of the weight and am gaining my muscle back
If he sees me again I'm gonna be able to stick up for myself

>>39612637
She was my first gf and she broke my heart lads, and she darkened my perspective of this planet. Really really fucked me up for about a year.

I used to lift for her but now I mostly lift just to boost my own confidence because lord knows I need some

lifting hasnt boosted my confidence it made it worse because now i feel like i need to improve on all these parts and cut down and gain more muscle

I lift for the girls who didn't want to date me and married ugly dadbods. They will see me and regret.

>>39612637

Nobody on /fit/ really lifts, anon.

Girl I dated broke up with me, because I didn't believe in her fairy in the sky. She was quite the looker though.

I'm lifting partly because I want to become a better version of myself, who goes out more and isn't so afraid of rejection, and partly because I'm a bit bitter that I lost to fictional belief over legit chemistry--and maybe rub it in to her for breaking up.

>>39614407
We're all a Chad on the inside. It's there. Somewhere. Might have to dig a bit, but it's there.

Venting here lads, sorry.

> Date girl for three years
> Perfect match for each other
> Very understanding, smart, beautiful
> Would do anything for her, loved her as much as anything
> Never even argue through three years
> Always talked to me if there was a problem
> No family issues
> One day she just wakes up and says she isnt feeling it anymore
> Takes her three months of treating my very coldly before I tell her I think she's too weak to pull the trigger on a breakup and was just trying to make me fed up with her first
> She starts crying, I pretty much breakup with myself
> She can't even give me a reason past she doesn't feel the same way anymore, just woke up one day
> Says we could revisit in like a year and maybe get back together
> This is all after talk of moving in together and marriage
> Family point out she probably wants to fuck about and fall back on me in a year as an insurance option if it doesnt work out
> I love her so much, but I'll be damned if anyone treats me like that
> Losing weight (not fat, but want to be primo), spent 200 on teeth whitening, spent 300 on nicer clothes, working harder than ever.

All I want to do is make her miss me, so I can hurt her and say no. I did everything for her and it still wasn't enough. I'm sick of women. I've never heard of a guy just waking up one day and falling out of love. But girls do it all the time.

>>39612934
Wow the google image search comes up with a photographer whose entire portfolio is "hot girl outside with a nip slip"

>>39618086
This hits close to home. I haven't lifted in forever and have become a fat piece of shit out of depression. If I ever get back into it though, it's just out of spite do I can hurt an ex. Fucked up thing is though, I know they'll never feel the same pain because they're all cum dumpsters.

>>39614742
astonishingly underrated posted.

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>>39618120
>If I ever get back into it though

>>39614154
Don't be so cynical, you're setting yourself up for failure

>>39618097

she deserves better...

I'm a pretty angry person, lifting gives me an outlet so I don't lash out at random people

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>>39613157

>Seriously dating "one of the stacys from my high school" several years and several dozen cocks from the carousel later

Woah, you must be hella ripped if your body got good enough to be some used-up slag's safety net! Sick dude!

>>39618200
Thanks bruh. I kekd. I'm also saving that for my phone background

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>>39614742
Man, this post made me feel way too much.

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>>39618289

courage wolf is an old staple of /fit/

Why do you faggots put girls on a pedestal like this

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I lift because I feel I'll never get another petite qt otherwise.

>>39612637
Get a hobby. Girls are pretty okay, but not worth doing a hobby for their sake alone.
You're welcome.

>>39618086
what a bitch

my condolences anon, don't ever get back together with her or humor her in the slightest

>>39618086
>I've never heard of a guy just waking up one day and falling out of love. But girls do it all the time.

You know why that is right? Because everything girls/women do is for their own pleasure and their own benefit. They never do anything thinking about how it will affect others or do anything to benefit others

They wake up one day and instead of thinking how something affects their boyfriend or someone else in their life, they say "well I don't like this therefore I'm done with it"

That's why it's so hilarious seeing everyone here cry about their girlfriends (strangely everyone on this 4chan board has one) or putting girls on a pedestal showing how you lift only to get them

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I lift cause it makes me happy 8/10 of the times.
I look to look juicy and thick, to have an upperhand on the dating market. I also wanna look good and sexy for my future husband, whom I haven't met yet. Be a good rolemodel for my unborn children and foremost give birth to strong and healthy offspring.

One day I'll meet my man.

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>>39618289

If you like that one, maybe you'll like this one

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>>39612637
Never going to make it

Lift for yourself

i lift so that i can be less autistic. I just want to have more friends and be less depressed lol.

>>39618823
Is troy a /fit/ movie?

>>39618742
That's respectable

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>>39612637
I started lifting after the end of a three year relationship my junior year of high school. I was hurt and betrayed but lifting helped ad has helped since. I remember showing off my legs to my ex and my Father when they started getting toned and how she kissed me and told me that she liked me working out, it actually motivated me to workout more knowing she liked it. Our relationship ended mutually, she lives far north of me but the real reason is was that I was too afraid to tell her that in that same night I began to feel very strongly for her and have been thinking of her ever since. She moved on, she's with another and though I just ended getting back together with the ex I first mentioned I think about a "future girl" (though I'd rather it be my north star) and this endline from the chapter On Involuntary Bliss in the book Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Friedrich Nietzsche. "Happiness runs after me. That is because I do not run after women.
Happiness, however, is a woman."

>>39616730
Wew
Sorry
Did you call the police on him?

>>39612909
>>39614158
How small are we talking? For most girls it's not a deal breaker

>>39618086
are you literally me this exact bullshit happened to me last month

After 3.5 years
>"just not feeling it"
but now I'm lifting again for the first time in almost 2 years and 10x more social than I've been in about as long

>>39618575
Girls do it too, I think we all put significant others on pedestals

>Break up with ex about a year and a half ago
>She moves back to home state
>She gets engaged
>Start lifting and treating myself better (not because of her. I just needed to)
>Finally feeling a little better about myself
>Really busy with school and new workout regiment so not spending any effort on women right now
>She texts me like a week before thanksgiving telling me how much she loves me and misses me
>I admit I miss her too
>Tells me her fiance was doing drugs at work and she doesn't want to be with him anymore
>Then tells me he's taking work off so that they can move back into his parents' house cause they can't afford to live on their own anymore
>She said she'd text me as soon as she could
>Still hasn't texted me since a few days before Thanksgiving

I know she's just using me to get back at him for fucking up. She probably told him what she said to me and that she sent me nudes and shit. I just wish she understood that her saying she loves me and then not texting me for weeks afterwards puts me in a shitty mood. I just cant wait till I lose this weight and am confident enough to finally just go out and fuck some slag.

I lift because you gotta be fit to get deployed in the defence force breh

>>39618575
>>39619116
It's called the halo effect. You build their positive qualities up and ignore their negative ones.

>>39612934
돼지 좋아하는 여자도 있다 엄청마르고 어린여자들이 선호한다

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>meet incredible girl in college
>somehow end up dating her
>struggling in school though, depression is setting in
>end up becoming a useless, unmotivated sack of shit
>she was the only reason i would get out of bed
>she breaks up with me after 2 years
>become more depressed
>finally get my shit together
>start lifting and build a ton of muscle, go from skeleton mode to halfway decent looking
>new major in school, top of my class
>land big internships, love the work
>have tons of job offers, accepted an awesome one
>just took my last finals in school
>life is great
But I still think about her every day. It's been almost 3 years now. I've got everything I want in life... except her.

All of the above

>>39619197
Keep at it brother. Don't let her get to you because she's just problems for you. if you forget her, your confidence will rise, you'll fuck bitches left and right, and settle down on your terms with a girl who actually cares about you.

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>>39614567
good shit anon

you'll find a girl even better than her

>>39614407
Bruh keep moving forward

>>39618086

man, same thing happened to me this past July. Treated me like shit for a few months and then broke it off in favor of what I assume to be partying and hooking up.

She called me crying a couple months later saying that she was sorry but I had to stick to my guns and tell her that it was finished.

I thought it would be satisfying but I didn't even feel good about it F A M

>>39619080
gross pic tbqh

>>39612637
>to be more attractive for their future grill
This one. Mostly so I'll have easier access to higher tier qts to choose for my future grill.

>>39619197
no fuck that bitch, it just sounds like she wants to use you 2bh

>>39619292

If it's been 3 years, she's not the same person anymore. You're in love with the idea of what she used to be

You aren't the same person either

move on my dude

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>>39615028
>Zeez

>>39616212
Revenge is the absolute best motivation.

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>nice girl breaks up with me
>get serious about lifting
>find another girl a year later
>she leaves me for a chubby guy that broke his back deadlifting less than 1 plate
was it worth it
did we really accomplish anything

>>39619365
>the idea of what she used to be
>move on
The frustrating part is that I know that's the issue.I know that she (as a specific person) is not the one for me, I don't want to date her again, but I do want someone just like her. She had all the qualities I wanted.

>>39614742
Fuck. That's the dream

>>39619391
>she leaves me for a chubby guy that broke his back deadlifting less than 1 plate


Character is more important than physique.

>>39619413

most people don't know what they want. Keep focusing on yourself, you're doing the right things. Eventually you'll find someone new

i am >>39619350 we kinda in the same boat m8

>>39619432
i see your point but i try to be a good person. someone who backstabs their friend by shit talking them to their girl so they can get fucked is not a good character

>>39613695
Same boat as you. Didn't end up being as good as I thought it would. Realized how shitty it was and made me feel even worse. Now I lift because I'm dead in side and have nothing else to do.

>>39619114
>>39618086

>>39619350


You all waited too long to put a baby in her.

>>39612637
Love of my life likes another man, basically friend zoned me but now she won't even give me the time of day. Lifting to ventilate my emotions

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>>39619391
legit almost teared up reading that

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>>39612637
>Went out with on first date with qt 3.14159265, probly a 7/10
>went bowling, ate sushi, sat on some steps and talked for hours
>retained spaghetti and power level
>she's into animu
>she cosplays
>identical sense of humor
>it gets chilly, grabs my arm
>"omg anon your biceps are like bowling balls, do you lift"
>butofcoursem'lady.wav
>her eyes light up
>mfw

Being /fit/ finally pays off after 3 years, thanks lads

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>>39612637
>be overweight loser in hs
>started running my senior year
>dropped a considerable amount of weight
>fall for some qt3.14 uni cheerleader freshman year
>dropped weight but couldnt drop my social awkwardness
>told me I wasn't good enough for her
>almost kill self, but keep working out to save myself
>fast forward to this last march
>Admitidly, I am pretty lean and big now since I started lifting weights at the end of my freshman year.
>far from the autist I was back then.
>a few months after nasty breakup with bitch ass ex of 2 years
>start banging girls left and right
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>Im a frat bro, do stupid activities for university through it
>get paired with cheerleader's sorority something like our fall homecoming but for greek community
>meet cheerleader girl's sorority little sister and hit it off at our pairing's "skit" practice for our greek week.
>hot half japanese half white ahtletic girl from hawaii
>practice 2 days a week, and talk to her during it
>take her on dates, hang out
>win the skit/ play thing during greek week, have a after party with our pairing
>meet little at the party, make out go up stairs to and talk to cheerleader girl together
>little goes to bathroom, talk to cheerleader
>long time no see. We all cool now? I was pretty damn awkward back then, but I had good intentions.
>"Yeah. After looking back at it I should have gave you a chance. You really were the best guy around for me then and I screwed up big time. Now I will probably end up sad and alone for the rest of my life"
>yeahyouwilllmao.jpg
>"Well, life happens. Great catching up with you. Your little and I are leaving now! Catch you later"
>"y-you too anon"
>Sleep with the hot half Japanese girl that night.
Feels good to get some underhanded revenge, sleeping with their friends.

>>39619536
pics?

>>39619483

nigga i don't want kids

>>39619479
>Realized how shitty it was and made me feel even worse
Don't tell me that. I really don't have much to hang on to anymore, and I want to know that I can at least be satisfied with something

>>39612637
>gf of like 3 years treats me like shit, to the point I do like 3 months weekly therapy sessions
>doesnt talk to me at all on my 18th, thats the last straw, I'm blind (cant even remember doing this kek) and just tell her its over
>still feel shit after, drinking more, school is finished so Im not doing much
>know I need to get in better shape, and going into desk job
>join gym, go 3 times a week (still doing my best, but this time of year things pop up so I might miss a session)
>not sure I'm losing weight, but im getting stronger which is all I really wanted
>secretly wanted to make her angry/jealous/regret treating me like shit, because shes shallow like that
>accidentally find new gf at a party
>start dating a few weeks later (been 8 months so far)
>recently she told me she was miring my ass at the party
>shes always latching onto me when I have to leave, and likes that I can just stand up with minimal effort and walk to the door, when shes wrapped around me

Not what I started lifting for, but I'm happy it's what I've got.

>>39613386
>she has you this insecure

It's already over faggot

>>39619549
This is too good to be real bruh, if it is I'm legit happy for you

>>39619639
It honestly is. And the funny thing is that the cheerleader girl actually said that to me. Big ego boost too. I didn't really get a concrete expression from her if she was sad or not but I could here it in her voice.
Probably one of the best things that has happened to me to date.

I injected steroids into my ass on Monday because my GF left me last Sunday


Fuck it lol now I'll use my gains to seduce her friends and give them this roid dick

I go the gym to get stronger for baseball cuz I want to go D1. I was offered by various D2 schools but took the Junior College route because I didn't get any at the end of my senior high school year. I just want to stunt on the girls who curved me & get far doing this so I can spoil my future kids and wife.

>>39614407
You're an inspiration bruh. If you can do then so can I.

>>39618086
You're the safe bet, you're the beta bucks

Beta bucks don't generate tingles and feels.

Lift more

>>39619197
anon listen to me, next time she texts you do. not. respond.. Leave it to the wind my man and look ahead.

>>39614611
Hey me, what's up

>>39619668
if it was an ego boost why are you crying about it on an anime imageboard loser

>>39619639
it's not real its another fake story posted on /fit/ that's a fantasy

>dood i was like such a nerd then i became a complete alpha banging girls left and right becoame a frat bro had this insanely hot girl fucked her too then the hot as fuck girl from before said "man i messed up not getting you in particular you were the best guy ever, i screwed up, now ill be alone the rest of my life"
>thinking a hot cheerleader sorority slut would ever say this to ANYONE

>people on fit are so retarded they actually believe bullshit like this posted here

>>39614407
fucking killing it dude. keep going you can definitely make it

>>39614407
>selfie spot
fug this planet

good job on progress bud, though arms look noodlish

>current year
>Not lifting for the race war

Unironically the reason I started lifting, lifting for women is some weak shit

>>39615028
poo in loo

>>39615346
fuuuuggg

>>39613386
That's why I started, dated some of the hottest girls in school but always felt like I was lucky to get them, and you can't have a healthy relationship like that, honestly.

>>39614407
Bro you went from ugly aus fuck to model Material good Job!!

>>39614407
Selfie spot.

fuck sakes.

>want GF
>don't want fat GF
>am fat myself
then why the fuck would girls give two craps about me if I'm fat myself?

>>39620964
Stop being fat
Fat men don't even exist to me

>>39614742

>go out on a fun morning hike with this qt for cardio

This legit made me sad. I gotta get my life together.

>>39619413
you just want tfw in a relationship
it's a very powerful high to have someone choose to love you
it's also very dangerous

I'm with a girl now that I lost interest in after a couple months, but now I'm addicted to the relationship
>will continue
>will take someone better if/when they come along
>will feel like douche bag

>>39619275
이 형 맞아요. 근데 한국에서 태어난 여자들은 부자들 만 좋아해요.

>>39619391

Where the fuck is this pasta from?

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>>39614567
Respect.

>>39619570

Just saying if you don't put a baby in her within a couple of years eventually she'll fall out of love.

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Anyone here just want to become stronger? I've banged plenty of sloots and I have a wife and child. So maybe to protect my family?

>>39614567
True Alpha

>>39612989
Calm down Elliot

>>39614567

You are an example for your peers

>>39619080
great pic, also fuck north star bud...

>>39622149
>So maybe to protect my family?
Now that you mention it, I have a little sister and I'd like to be intimidating/command respect to any potential boyfriends. Same deal if I ever have a daughter of course, she isn't gonna have any pussy, numale boyfriend.

>>39619391
>The person she's with isn't really you. It's a better version of you, a thinner less obnoxious version who can control his temper before saying something cutting, who doesn't geek out and talk too much, who is free from the flaws that make you who you are and assure that nobody else will ever want to share their life with that person

Fuck man, that's me in every relationship I've been in

>>39612637
Revenge lifting here.

>>39612637
>>39612637

>ugly girl likes me in high school
>I ignore her
>she grows up hot and starts talking to me like "ha arnt you sorry you were mean to me"
>Say sorry and whatever, eventually she see`s a picture with my shirt off

>tfw her teaching me a lesson turned into me banging her

>>39619094

4 inches

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>>39619391
>that last paragraph
Fuck...

>>39612637
I had a girlfriend of 2.5 years and was lanky as fuck at 6'1 (probably weighed 150lbs). She ended up getting a new boyfriend very quickly who was built and a football player in high school.

Fast forward two more years: I am now about 200lbs and the football player has slimmed down to almost what I was when I dated her.

I don't lift for her, I lift for myself. I'd rather look in the mirror and see a jacked and self-motivating guy than see a skinny guy with her by his side.

Needless to say, she texted me a few months ago about meeting up, but I just let it go unanswered.

>>39615319

oh god I know that feel

its fucking hard bro

For once in my life I feel like I don't want a gf or attention from girls. It's oddly a very good feeling

>>39612637

I lift for two things. The first is to be productive and contribute positively to my country. There is nothing worse than an overweight workforce.

Secondly is to provide a stable and sensible life for my wife and kids. As a father and husband it is my responsibility to teach them how to be healthy and appreciate fitness. A healthy body leads to a healthy mind.

ex messaged me yesterday asking if i want to meet. I said yeah, then changed my mind. Not getting involved in that shitshow again, even if she does have a nice ass

>>39613170
this is a feeling I've never before been able to put into words

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I lift so I can sleep easier at night and not pace around my room debating whether to kill myself or kill the people that wronged me then kill myself or if I should be successful out of spite.

I reached my goal before and it was so unfulfilling, life just seems to pass me by......

>Story kinda like zyzz
>Skinny one, other boys used me for benching etc.
>Really started to bother me
>Winter
>Started doing street workout, home improvised gym
>Started realising father actually gave me some really great genes, aesthetic abs, really nice traps I got only from doing shoulder workouts
>Summer, got my shirt off in front of my parents
>Mum miring, father proud as fuck
>Last year in school
>All schoolmates who used to bench stopped doing routines,
>Beer bellies started to pop up
>Fucked their growth because of those HARDCORE DEADLIFTS BRUUHH
>My time to shine, wore a simple white t shirt
>When I had a presentation I could see a teacher miring,
>A lot of grillz told me I changed
>Still didn't make it but I'm getting there
>My ex saw me working out in the park, she was with her skinny fat bf
Feeling so fucking good fit, thank you

I was always a chubby-ass kid but after highschool I lost weight and girls just started trying to talk to me. Had a gf at point of weight loss, eventually became her caretaker due to some unfortunate circumstances, then because she was a crazy bitch I had to leave. She pushed me to get fat now I've get stretch marks and I'm trying to be fit now to make up for bitches I passed up the chance up to fuck, desu.

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>>39612637
I'm lifting for Hitler! SIEG HEIL!

>Oldest of 5
>We were made orphans when I was 13 because of a car crash
>Got moved around a lot because we were always getting in fights with other kids, (We never started the fights)
>Got sent to a farm at 15 were there were already 4 other kids.
>Oldest was 19 and the only biological child of the foster family
>He was a bully and would lash out at us, he also had his eyes on my twin sister which still makes me feel sick sometimes
>Basically started going to the gym to get stronger, he targeted me a lot because I put myself between him and the younger ones, and I like to think he was mad that I was 6ft at 15 and he was only 5'7 at 19
>He stopped bullying us when I was around 17 cause I think he realised I was probably stronger than him at that point
>Me and my twin sister moved out after school and went to uni
>Bully didn't bully the younger ones when we were at uni because he was scared of me, cause I told him I'd break him in half if I heard he'd done anything to them. I was probably 6'4 and around 220lbs when I left the farm
>Now 23 me and my twin both have good jobs and share a house were we are the guardians for our younger siblings who live with us there

Basically started going to the gym to make sure I can take care of my little sisters and brother

>>39614306
Retard, you don't exist in a vacuum, when it comes down to it, you lift for other people one way or the other

>>39626744
respect

>>39615319
Oh Jesus Christ, mine did this to me 1.5 years ago. Almost identical stories.

I'm now dead inside.

>small
>Weak
>Not taken seriously outside of my political rhetoric
>Liftan
>Bulkan
>Getting stronger
>50lbs of muscle later
>Realize that I had small but noticeable body language gestures that betrayed my thoughts
>Realize that the people I sought respect from weren't important
>Turning more heads than ever
>People that mocked me when I was younger are now in miserable relationships or lots of debt
>Married to Qt virgin wife
>Saved 90% of untaxed income
>Quit video games and TV
>Realizing that most people create their own bonds whether it's with addiction to consuming bad media, going into debt that won't benefit them, or by not trying to continually improve
>People fall for the new car meme, new house meme, clubbing meme, new shoes meme
>I have seen everything that is done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a striving after wind.
>It's all about lifting and building that family empire

>>39613170
damn... this desu

>>39618086
I am also unfortunate to know this feel bro. She woke up one day and decided we weren't good. 4 months later we broke up. This was after she pushed marriage for about a year-and-a-half and I was finally ready to pull the trigger and she left me

>>39619483
You're an idiot. All that would lead to is a brokenice home and child support

>>39618254
Kek dude, you dont know my highschool. Nobody was a stuck up bitch there, the chads were real bros and nobody got bullied or looked down at. With stacies I meant the really attractive group of women in my highschool.
Feel sorry for losers like you, why dont you go back to /r9k/ and wallow in self pity while not bettering yourself and hate others because of your own shortcomings.

>>39612934
fake tits right? just another vapid cunt?

>>39614407
Great stuff, u went from unbangable slob to presentable.

>>39613663
I like your style

>>39623538
Deal broken

>>39616730
Buy a gun if you live in a country with freedom

>>39628576
Is 8 good?

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>>39613663

>>39614567
A L P H A
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>>39620698
You don't have to bench 300 to shoot nigs with an AR

>>39618086
>I've never heard of a guy just waking up one day and falling out of love
I did. It happens. Get over yourself you pathetic fuck. She hasn't done anything wrong, that's just how things work sometimes.

>>39614567
atta boy :)

lifting so I can finally feel comfortable with myself when I look in the mirror.

I have an idea in my head of what I want to look like and who I want to be and I'm just trying to get there man.

>>39614567

A+ for integrity my man.

>>39618097
also young boys staring at women sexually...

ex accused me of being on gear after seeing me for first time in a few years at uni gym

>am not on steroids and people are retarded

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>>39617747
>We're all a Chad on the inside

>>39628587
>dicklet detected

>>39614567

R E S P E C T
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>>39612637
>In high school I was a big dude
>6'4" 285lbs but with some muscle since I played football and was actually good cuz I trained properly
>Dated this girl who I thought was the absolute best thing in my life.
>Over our winter break her old crush returns from college and she completely ignores me to hang with him.
>Feels bad
>We break up not too much later
>It hurts me bad bros, real bad.
>Fast forward to mid/ late summer
>I come back home to visit after getting a football scholarship from Duke to play
>I had been dieting in the winter and was at about 215lbs then bulked up to 235lbs
>And the football weightlifting regimen there is fucking killer so i was actually looking breddy gud.
>Walk into the pizza shop i used to work at with my ex (that's how we met) to say hi to the people i knew still working there.
>They all compliment me about how much I've changed.
>Then the ex comes out to look
>Her eyes go wide and she starts talking to me commenting about how good I look and stuff
>I kinda blow her off and talk to my old manager who was a total bro
>I go to sit down and wait for my food
>My ex comes back out to talk to me and keeps asking me questions and wants to know if I can hang later.
>Im getting sick of her bull shit until manager bro call her out on not doing the dishes and she leaves.
>Later that night she calls me and tells me how she can't stop thinking of me and how good i looked.
>I give her one word responses and she asks if she can come over to my house later that night.
>I say, "not a chance in hell." then hang up.

I know this sounds overly alpha and shit, but even after we broke up she was telling me she still loved me and missed me while she was blowing other guys. She fucked with my emotions real bad bros and i was finally happy again and her trying to get back in my life made me pissed

>>39629798
Was talking to a friend about this today

>Every guy needs to date some evil bitch in order to crush his naivety.

Don't worry. We know the feel.

You did good.

>>39629798
fake or real you did good OP
we are all proud

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>>39629839
>>39629842
thank you brehs she made me feel like a pathetic cunt. We're all gonna make it

My BF has lost a lot of weight and I am super proud of him, and I wanted to lose weight for him. Also I would like BF to like me more.

>be me
>Graduate High school
>Go on long term back packing trip before shipping off to basic training.
>meet girl on trip from MD, (Im from CA)
>hit off for the rest of the trip.
>Only had her first name
>Go through basic training, infantry, jump school.
>Get to my unit.
>one day mindlessly trolling facebook in barracks.
>Go on a wild goose chase and eventaully find this gal on facebook.
>Message her
>Proceed to light and fan flame of long distance relationship for the next 3 years.
>After deployment to Afghanistan and x100000 hours on skype: finish army contract and drive off post to go see her.
>spend week with her and fall absolutely in love.
>spend the next year starting college and flying to maryland 1-2 times a month to see her and travel parts of the country (Meet both all of our extended families)
>Absolutely fucking in love, same sheet of music. Gorgeous gal. Genius. Cultured.
>that good love where you both go out of your way to make the other happy.
>Moves out to california in september for school and to be closer to me.
>I move a few cities to be closer to her.

...

>within the month she starts school she starts getting distant.
>prunes me off social media.
>One day takes off to SD and blows me off for the weekend.
>comes back and tells me shes done.
>Find out later she was cheating on me.


4 fucking years and a combat deployment dudes.

I had literally picked out the engagement ring.
I dropped down to 138lbs (5'9")

Back up to 150 now.

+150lbs on my PL total.

>>39629912
Holy fuck man. That's horrible. Not trying to be a dick, but long distance rarely works. I've been in 3 serious relationships that all ended at a distance (started out not).

>lifting for girls

bruh I lift so i can lift really heavy shit and hear anime music blaring in my head while I'm on my last rep.

I don't see how anyone can workout if they're not having fun.

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>oneitis for a girl for years
>hang out everyday hoping she'll date me
>eat out all the time and get fat as shit
>apparently she's gay/bi and I find out she has a gf
>feel like shit and turn to lifting to get my life back
>fast forward 1 year
>lose weight, new car, new job, etc.
>cute girl from work randomly asks me out to lunch
>goes well, start dating
>happiest I've been in years
>tfw a few weeks ago she breaks up with me without explanation

Help brehs. Why even lift anymore?

>>39629927
I've literally been dead inside.

This chick was fucking high caliber tier too.

Talkin' Miss America state-titles, talking classical ballet, talkin' oly lifting.


4 fucking years.

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>>39612934
That reverse led me to some strange photo collection

>>39614407
Jesus christ no offense but I didn't start off half as bad as you did, and you're hot now. Actually just gave me more motivation than anything else I can think of.

Good work lad, keep it up.

>>39619391
>that pic
Wer...we're all gonna make it, right guys?

>>39629973
Because don't you wanna rip 5pl8 one day?
Jesus man, lifting raises your overall quality of life, why the fuck would you sabotage yourself.

>>39619536
Godspeed, anon. You've made it.

We're all gonna make it...

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>>39614742
God dammit anon, stop giving me feels.

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>>39627888
Nah. I couldn't find the models name but the photographer is David Dubnitskiy. From the looks of it and judging by his choice of models, he probably only shoots with unenhanced women: https://500px.com/david-foto

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I only lift for my One True Waifu and patron saint.

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> Dating amazing Christian girl for nearly 2 years, solid 8/10
> She's moving 4 hours away, we agree on sticking it out together and doing long distance (I'm an idiot beta cuck I know)
> 100% in love with her, we discuss about moving out together etc, etc
> She starts going really cold on me being really blunt over text
> Know something is up and ask her if she wants to meet up to talk things out
> Gives me the "work is so busy I've been having to work 7am-11pm every day and night so I can afford to move out"
> Feel like shit and start getting worried she might be cheating on me/avoiding me on purpose
> She breaks up with me a few weeks later around the time when she's supposed to be moving away over Facebook , try calling her but won't answer
> Kick myself for being such a beta doormat
> Drinking my sorrow away most nights
> Few weeks pass by after she broke up with me
> See her friends who moved up with her snapchat story
> Her drunk making out with a dude in a shitty club
> My heart fucking stops for a second and I feel like I've been punched in the gut
> Realise there's no point in just wallowing in my room drinking my sadness away
> Find motivation and make a pledge to better myself in every way and start putting myself out there more

That was 8 months ago and now I'm feeling so much better about myself. I've got a new much better paying job, looking the best I ever have and also fucking my exes bestfriend who still lives near me
Sometimes sadness/anger over loosing someone is the best motivator, we're all going to make it brahs, also sorry for the wall of gay text

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>>39630918
>https://500px.com/david-foto
Looks like I found a new /fraud/ pic

>>39612637
I lift because I could never respect anyone who would respect myself in my current state but I also don't want to die alone and childless.

>>39631138
You'll make it brah.

>>39618086
Serves you right fucker.
So you did everything for her huh? Why the fuck didn't you start improving yourself when you were with her?

All these fuckers that got dumped and start to improve their life to "make them pay" are fucking hypocrit.
Why nit lift and start working harder when she was with you?

You even said she was cold for 3 months. She was KIND enough and loved you enough that she gave you 3 fucking months of her life to give you a chance yo change things. Instead you didn't do shit and waited for it to be over. Now you can play the victim and are trying to hurt someone who you loved and who probably still loves you.

She was right for breaking up with your ass, you are a pathetic excuse for a man.

>>39626744
This is amazing
Movie tier
Stay great

>>39629912
I feel ya, bruh. That's absolutely terrifying. You couldn't have made any difference. I'm just wondering why the fuck she would cheat on you. Did you give the guy a beating? You should imo.

>>39631138
Always bothers me how they shift so rapidly into slut-mode. Just don't let yourself be treated like a doormat.

>>39631647
girl detected pleas fuck right off

>>39612637
Im lifting for my gf

>>39613170
This quote should be put on a wallpaper with a Greek statue

Holy shit the amount of 5 yearsold on this board. It just shows how empty and fucking newfag they are at lifting.


Sure, in the beginning its about your ex, your girlfriend, a woman or that. But along the way of lifting weeks and months you start forgetting why you even did it for.

Right now, im lifting 6x a week. I used to lift 3 years ago for my ex. Shortly after i went zyzz mode and lifted for the sloots and right now, i just lift, for nothing and no one. My mind is at ease and my drive is my own mindset

>>39613663
Devilish

You're all pathetic. I lift for me.
Besides, BF is lifting so I can't have him rising to 8 without matching him.

>>39626744
Inspirational.

>>39614407
>Trying to make it.

No, you're GOING to make it.

>>39613565
Nothing to do with a grill.

most guys start out lifting for an ex gf or future gf but in the end they discover that they're doing it for themselves

>>39619536
where'd you meet her?

I just need a qt that's into anime desu

>>39632015

>in the beginning it's about your ex, girlfriend, a woman

Brah, you must be new here if you think 90% of the board has even been to a gym.

>>39614742
i mean that could happen to me someday

>>39613206
these fuckers don't get how marriage works

you gotta get some therapy or perhaps marriage therapy

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>lifting for other people

>>39615319
This happened to me as well. Fuck, why do girls friends always have to ruin them?

>>39612637
Is it bad if I'm lifting out of pure spite?

The self-loathing in me is strong. I've never been happy. I have never been satisfied. I look in the mirror and am disgusted by what I see. I lift because I want to change. I improve myself because I can see the man I want to be.

You can change too. It starts right now. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. But right now. Begin to work on yourself and when you wake up the next day you will feel better than you have ever felt.

>>39613170
I think it's more about about a desire to become your true self. The hatred comes from existing in a body that you know isn't yours

>>39626996
>>39631874
>>39632276
Thanks guys

>>39620698
You need to be strong to stop them from shanking you when they sneak up on you at night.

>>39614407
you got this m8. keep it up

>>39631647
Whatever happened to"be urself"

>>39612637
>lifting for other people
topkek

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>>39618086
>I've never heard of a guy just waking up one day and falling out of love. But girls do it all the time.

>>39612637
lifting for my gf
one year ago i looked at my self and thought "she can get a better one"
started lifting and now she is mirin all the time

>>39626744
What happened to the manlet bully?

>>39618086
Know the feels brah similar story rebuilding myself atm.

>>39627658
Oldfag here, saving money is the most actionable key to happiness.

Protip: As prey animals, happiness in life is just the removal of worry in some form or another.

>>39635568
I'm not sure I think he still works on the farm, last time I saw him was probably 5 months ago and he was drinking alone at the bar.

>>39635568
>>39636610
T sister says he got married but his wife apparently filed for divorce because he's an alcoholic.

source she still keeps in touch with the foster parents because they were good craic

>>39612637
I too started lifting for grills.

Nowadays I mainly lift for pure narcissism and to scare children on the streets.

>>39614567
I don't get the congratulations because you rejected her. You knew from the start what she liked and you became that thing and now you're sad she likes you now? It's like you meeting a chubby girl and rejecting her but seeing her next year and she's now in good shape and is sexy as fuck, it's not bad that you like her now.

Anyway, bitches are bitches, do whatever makes you feel comfortable, just don't get into some anger or depression state because of something so normal.

Always lifted for myself since I used to be pretty fat (5'10", from 235lbs ??bf to 185lbs 17ish% bf). Recently got with a grill for about a month and was about to gf her. Then...

>grill goes to NOLA for vacay
>meets up with old friend from school
>dude is swole black dude
>pretty sure they fucked on that trip
>she comes back and things get awkward, we break up
>find out dude is coming in town every other weekend
>got cucked

At least it was only a short 6 weeks or so, so not a big investment of time, but damn it still sucks. Better now than 6 months or 6 years. Anyway, starting to hit the gym more seriously again. Not sure that body type had anything to do about it, but at least this gives me some focus at the gym and keeps my mind off of the shit.

>>39613565
/fa/ggot

>>39612637
Well one of my main goals is to become as beautiful as possible so I can reject girls and then they will feel bad.

>>39614407
you look like harry kane
gg

>>39636471
I'm saving to make money. I'm not going to be a victim of my desires

> to be more attractive for their future grill?
this so much
i couldn't imagine that any grill could love fat me.
lost 20-30 lbs in senior year of high school, that was mentioned quite a lot by people. as well as by this 9/10 28 year old teacher who told me that i looked like a man and asked whether i went gym.
that made me feel good

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>>39614407
Thanks for the insperation Zuckles!
You have a good day cunt

>>39618935
nice

>>39614407

Well, good luck man. Honestly.

>>39631999
Not a girl. Not a pussy ass whiny bitch like you.
>>39635114
If "urself" wasn't good enough for a girl then dont whine if you lose her.

>>39619536
nice work