how do you build conversation with girls? also, to keep this

>>39539794
>how do you build conversation with girls?
please fucking leave, this isn't /r9k/ or /adv/

>>39539794
My gf and I have been together for 11 years so we've run out of shit to talk about pretty much too. She still calls every day we're not together and wants to talk for 30mins-2hours. After a while of this she said I was quiet one night and I explained that with the amount we talk, I'm gonna be quiet sometimes. Now we joke about how little I talk, and she's cool with it because most of the time she just wants someone to listen. I have no clue how she finds shit to talk about still.

So my advice would be just be completely honest. Listen to her, and think about things you could talk about. But if there's really nothing, then that's cool and just tell her you don't have anything. Worked for me.

>>39539794
Ask her a lot of questions about herself. Don't be too heavy handed with compliments always hold back. Don't be afraid to take risks i.e. jokes or risqué comments. If she is interested it will work if not it won't simple as that, how you say it is of little importance as long as you're not a total tard

>>39539867
gotcha
except i'm not with her yet
>>39539880
so just ask questions? about school? her? it's kinda hard since we see eachother at school so it's not really private

>>39539899
literally anything let her talk. if you're really drawing a big blank then just don't say anything there's nothing worse than forced messaging. Withholding attention is usually good

>>39539899
literally just the most fluff small talk type questions will do just fine

>>39539938
>>39539982
okok i think i get it
i'm used to not talking too much and make things too embarassing for everyone