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guys of /fit/, woman are NOT i repeat NOT what life is all about

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guys of /fit/, woman are NOT i repeat NOT what life is all about

don't get all caught up on them and enjoy life
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>>39525804
> What life is all about
Sorry that is a matter of opinion at the moment. There is no real purpose as far as we can tell.

Anything else?
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>>39525808
>no real purpose
the fuck are you talking about anon? life is ALL about choice, about making it fun for YOU that's it
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>>39525861
Like I said, that is still an opinion. If you can't understand that I don't think you should dwell on the point of living.
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>>39525863
alright, what is your "opinion" then mr. know-it-all?
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>I just want one
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>>39525874
no you don't, learn to love YOURSELF because that's all you've got left after everything goes down
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>>39525804
Sex is a fun way to spend time
The countless hours you need to spend looking for a girl who wants to fuck and the time you need to spend competing with the tens of other guys who also found her arent worth the pay off though

Getting a girl to cream the sheets is a good ego boost but jacking off feels alot better than sex IMO and i can do that whenever
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>>39525869
Watch, you'll get many other answers.
The fact that you're asking me shows you still don't get it. I would have my own OPINION on what I think the meaning of life is due to my life and experiences shaping my core values.

If you have different values and beliefs it would be hard for us to end at the same conclusion when thinking, "Why are we here?"

>PS. I don't know it all. Just like you I'm stumbling through life.
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>>39525882
although i'm from the US i have to say, sex is better than jacking off to some video anon.
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>>39525897
Im not jacking off to some video game though
I usually never cum during sex, atleast not the last two girls i spent time with so the only real "draw" for me is the ego boost i get from watching her cum several times but that quickly fades away
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>>39525896
so you are agreeing with me that life is all about your own choices yes? that only you matters?
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>>39525905
but that is considered to be a cuck anon, you're not cumming during sex because you're somehow not drawn to that gal. maybe lift more?
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>>39525922
I thought the definition of a cuck was someone who knowingly let his woman get fucked by another man
I dont have a woman, i dont care for having one either because ive been there and ive experienced that

I should lift more, im stalling at 200lbs/16% bf so im gonna bulk up to improve my lifts
This doesnt help me cum during sex though...
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>>39525804
>don't get all caught up on them and enjoy life

But I want my dick to also enjoy life and that requires a pussy
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>>39525804
This desu. Breaks my fucking heart everytime I see a guy willingly become a pathetic, writhing pussy that needs female acceptance to define who he is.

Fucking feels great, but not as great as self-respect. Get it together and appreciate yourselves more, you're much more deserving of that than some cunt you're willing to settle with just for the sex.
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>>39525954
does it? does life evolve around pussy? no it doesn't because if that pussy leaves you and oh boy it will at some point you're alone with yourself so get comfortable with yourself before getting comfortable with anyone else
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>>39525963
thank you anon, pussy ain't a mans downfall no more
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>>39525804
Women are a fun past time, just don't take them seriously and don't waste too much time and effort on them.

I honestly find relationships with women just tiring, draining and cumbersome. I find that I am more happy the less time and effort I spend on women. Yeah, sex is great, but if you need to put in too much time and effort then you should reevaluate your choices.

This is the main reason why I am lifting, first and foremost I want to look masculine and sexy, so that I can spend LESS time and effort on women and spend more time and effort on things that really matter to me, like my personal projects, self-improvement and business ideas.
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>>39525970
exactly anon
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Exactly this. Just told the girl to fuck off and found out Starboy is released, going to listen to the album full gym sesh. THIS is what life is about
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>>39525804
this.

just back the KD kickstarter and spend your dollars on something fun.

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/poots/kingdom-death-monster-15/description
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the problem with todays women is that they are all treated as little cupcakes. They want everything from us but the only thing they can give in return is sex and cuddles.

Its just not worth it anymore to have any relationchip witha woman. They are mostly annoying and they will slowly drain every bit of life out of you.

Really don't need that.
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>>39525869
Do you even fucking know what an opinion is

Knowledge =/= opinion you fucktarded twat
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the biological purpose of life is to reproduce and survive

so woman ARE what life is about
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>>39526183

you know that there is a difference between "biological purpose of life" and individual human life?
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>>39526191

yeah, nah, playing shitty vidya, strumming your guitar, creating le ebin kickstarter or whatever other nonsense, is just killing time or a futile attempt to increase social value in order to get laid.

> hurr durr im 40 and i enjoy playing teh vidya forveer xD fuck girls amirite all we need is a mancave and hobbies


wew lad
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>>39526183
Given how many guys there are who chase after each individual girl id say the human race is of no danger of being extinct from underreproduction
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>>39526204

umm everything a human does is "wasting time" so the whole basis of your argument is already shit because no matter if you have a good car or get a lot of money and pussy, you will die in the end.

Wasting time in my sense is doing something you as an indiviadual person don't wanna do such as doing a job just for the purpose of money while it slowly is killing you from the inside.

Playing Games or playing guitar or whatever else you close minded fuck think is a "waste of time" is actually the same as consistently trying to get laid and seek attention from women.

Why should everyone go hunting for women if you don't really want it on your own?

Do what ever the fuck you want to do BECAUSE you want to do it.
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>>39526209
Who gives a shit about the human race you clueless cuck?

It's about fuliflling YOUR biological destiny.

As long as you reproduce, then you won.
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>>39526139
still you're agreeing with me
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>>39526123
exactly anon, they want not only a piece but in fact the whole cake and that's what is wrong with todays woman.
>>39526065
very good my man, music makes life a lot more entertaining and can even give it a purpose
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>>39526272
So i should waste all my time trying to find a girl i can knock up and have kids who will never see me except for when they want money just because "muh destiny"?
Id rather spend that time doing fun stuff, enjoying life and learning things because at the end of the day then id atleast have something as opposed to if i spent it chasing girls who never put out anyway
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>>39526204
>yeah, nah, playing shitty vidya, strumming your guitar, creating le ebin kickstarter or whatever other nonsense, is just killing time or a futile attempt to increase social value in order to get laid.
that is literally LIFE anon, it's fun for you that is ALL that matters
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>>39526255
>Do what ever the fuck you want to do BECAUSE you want to do it.
THIS SO FUCKING MUCH thank you anon, really thank you.
If only you fucks out there would understand that but no instead you resort to mourning about a relationship, i'm a guy i know that it hurts if a relationship ends but it is not the end of YOUR life
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>>39526255

> hurr durr im 12 and everything is subjective you cant say this is more important than that because we are all equal and we all die anyway haha thats why i play vidya all day lol


yeah m8, because staring at a wall all your life is the same experience as fucking 100's of hot women, doing drugs, partying, having real adrenaline rushes etc

Never mind that every single biological creature on this planet is literally programmed to reproduce and survive. I'm sure you've ""surpassed"" that feeble programming by tipping your fedora.
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>>39526309
>>39526204
i know you're trying to troll here anon, but seriously. if you enjoy strumming a guitar, then why the fuck shouldn't you do it? if YOU particularly do not like it, don't do it?
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>>39526294

> id atleast have something as opposed to if i spent it chasing girls who never put out anyway


i see the real problem here. you have already given up on your biological destiny and instead have chosen the regressing into a childlike existence. It's okay but know there are two people in this world, losers and winners.

Winners either are remembered in history (they fuck history) or they fuck women and create babby so it lives on to pass its genetic lineage forward to the uberman

Losers spend their life killing time through escapism, living through others, as all escapism is ultimately expression of a humans desire to reproduce and survive
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Love is sublime and not subliminal
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>>39526309

I dont even play video games because I simply don't enjoy playing them.

Do you understand now?
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>>39525918

You need to get shot
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>>39526332
and you, friend, need to understand that everyones life is different
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>>39526315

I play instruments, have probably played vidya way more than you (and i mean WAY more and to a higher standard than you casual plebs) watch movies, ride my bike etc but i dont delude myself that this is merely mental rest, escapism etc.. the true quest is always survival, power, reproduction.

Don't forget that anon.
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>>39526309
Youre prolly just trolling but seriously mate, get a grip
Every guy wants to fuck 100s of cute girls and thats why things are so shitty
Girls are overrated because fucktards thinks life is all about girls, meanwhile girls dont give a shit about having sex or kids or relationships but realize there are tons of guys who are willing to do anything to get in their pants

Go to any given club and you will see 2-3 girls and about 100 guys, all the guys compete with eachother in hopes of fucking these girls and they abuse this for free drinks and attention
At the end of the night though there are alot of unhappy guys who go home alone and thats their own fault, they can invest their time in better things that actually pay off instead
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>>39526338
that is YOUR quest, anon, not everyone elses quest. and it certainly is not finding a woman
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>>39526341
>they can invest their time in better things that actually pay off instead
this
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>>39526325

so you can easily be a winner by shooting down a school? Go for it anon!
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>>39526342

> hurr durr i can choose not to survive

okay kill yourself then?

> hurr durr ri can choose not to reproduce

until you finally stop being a teenager and your biological drive grows more than a small itch in the back of your psyche
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>>39526342
You're just saying that because you're a nogf loser and couldn't get one if you tried
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>>39526341
>Girls are overrated because fucktards thinks life is all about girls, meanwhile girls dont give a shit about having sex or kids or relationships but realize there are tons of guys who are willing to do anything to get in their pants

wrong. they care about survival and reproduction even more than men.

a womans life is all about survival but she survives through belonging to high prestige groups, aka pretty friends, lots of orbiters, gifts money etc

she only chooses the best men to fuck because she wants her offspring to be strong,
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>>39526358
>hurr durr
anon please

>until you finally stop being a teenager and your biological drive grows more than a small itch in the back of your psyche
i never said that reproducing is not part of being a human, all i said is that from a psychological standpoint a woman will not fix your life or make it better, you're the one in control
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>>39526325
Ive had girlfriends before, ive had hookups before so im far from uninitiated in dating and relations
However i dont see the point, after im dead my genes live on but they dont remember me or care about me
More importantly girls you date dont give a shit about you, they care about what they can get out from you

I know this guy who is suffering from cronic depression, he has no education and works at a mcdonalds but is on sick leave right now because of his depression
He has fucked maybe 25-30 girls that i know of
Would you call him a winner?
Do you think history will remember him?
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>>39526364
stop trolling please
>>39526369
>wrong. they care about survival and reproduction even more than men.
because you read that on some website? no
>>39526374
why do you even want to be remembered? no point, there's so much to do and see anon, do it for YOURSELF not to impress others
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>>39526369

how delusional you are lol
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>>39526354

Is it any coincidence that the shooters always get thousands of female orbiters?


Hitler did not have children, but he truly fucked history. That makes up for not having children, as our very consciousness has been altered and influenced by him.
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>>39526369
This biological bullshit doesnt really apply since girls dont have kids with all the guys she fucks
They have an opportunity to abuse hundreds of guys who throw free things and attention at her because they want to fuck and she knows it

Women dont care about having kids or having relations because she doesnt need to in this day and age, subconsiously it might matter but in actuality girls can use their sex appeal to get stuff and everything they need in life and this is because they dont care as much as guys do
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>>39526387
>Is it any coincidence that the shooters always get thousands of female orbiters?
What?
Most school shooters i know of were bullied and got rejected by one to many girls so that why they took out their frustration on random people
pretty sure these arent the types to have orbiters
Maybe check reality some day anon
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>>39526378
>because you read that on some website? no

No? Because its very easy to see if you stop playing shitty vidya gaems for at least an hour, and start really thinking about humans biological and mental states.

>>39526374

>However i dont see the point, after im dead my genes live on but they dont remember me or care about me

its about passing on your genetics that have survived for literally thousands of years. Or you can choose to throw it away because "wahh teh girls are mean and so hard to get because i have to be better than other men, and i cant play vidya all day wahhh"

your friends probably depressed because he works in mcdonalds and is probably not going to reproduce.

His survival prospects are limited (shit job) and even though he fucks girls, he probably wont find one to reproduce with him.

Maslows hierarchy of needs also applies here. (but of course a bunch of neckbeard on 4chan are far too evolved and mentally enlightened for it to be relavent to them :^)
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>>39526402

exactly todays women are not into family or sitting home and taking care of the family as a mothers.

And thats ok, they can do that but why are people expecting from me to make them happy while the do nothing for me exept sex and kisses.
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>>39526421
>and start really thinking about humans biological and mental states.
so what? does it mean you have to revolve your life around woman? no it doesn't
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>>39526421
>its about passing on your genetics that have survived for literally thousands of years
that might be something that's in your DNA but otherwise there is no reason to pass on your genes in this day and age, yes as a human you want to fuck and reprocude BUT that is not how you define your life for yourself
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>>39525964
>does life evolve around pussy?

hmm, really gets the neurons firing
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>>39526411

lmfao how new are you?

have no not seen the countless fangirls obsessed with reb and vodka?

What about adam holmes?

Hell, even that ugly little faggot adam lanza has some females obsessing over him now.

Don't reply to things if youre completely clueless.
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>>39526438
you have read the rest of my post,yes? doesn't seem like you have
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>>39526326
underrated post
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>>39525950
Check out ejaculationless orgasm.
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>>39526446
don't ever reply to me again my man
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>>39526430

You already do whether you admit it or not. For a fit and healthy specimen, Your entire life biologically and mentally revolves around survival and reproduction.

That is why a functioning human tries to make itself appealing, physically, sexually, mentally. It tries to master skills and improve itself. To further its chance of reproduction.

The ones that don't are either losers, the ones that have no chance, e.g mentally handicapped, disabled, and know they will not reproduce. Often these still try, because their reproductive drive is so strong.

And then we have the latest phenomenon, internet fedora tippers who try to convince themselves that spending their 20's watching anime and killing time through escapism will still be fulfilling later in life, and they wont regret this decision dearly.

I guess its the same as those attention seeking retards who claim they are "asexual".

top kek
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>>39526459
again, read my posts
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>>39526440
>Don't reply to things if youre completely clueless.
Well forgive me for not keeping up on the riveting topic of school shooters, dipship
Criminals and famous guys get tons of attention from females and this is hardly news, not really sure why this is but i think its tied into the fact that women have impossible standards and they can apply these standards to a guy whom they havent met if he roughly fits one of the conditions
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>>39526463
>Your entire life biologically and mentally revolves around survival and reproduction.
that i agree on

but
lifting is not entirely to impress woman, anon and those woman you want to impress certainly don't influence your life that much as you do yourself
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How does one enjoy life without women?
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>>39526437
>BUT that is not how you define your life for yourself

you will when you pass the age of 30 when your infantile little "hobbies" cease to lose their magic

(much like fapping to porn eventually gets dull and stale)
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>>39526484
just like that. stop thinking you have to build your life around a woman.
>>39526489
well then i am sorry for you but that is not how my life or everyone elses life will be at 30+, don't compare yourself to others.
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>>39526474

>not really sure why this

then dont try to act clever you little newfag.

Let me guess, not a day older than 19? Migrated here from reddit, or was it facebook?

In any case, you've revealed your ignorance.
Don't reply to me anymore
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>>39525918

>life is what you make it out to be!!! Xd

Loving this pampered 1st worlder feel good crap, reminds me of when I was 12 and my mom told me I was definitely special.
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>>39526463
You seem delusional friend
No one here claims to be asexual, most posts dont even dispute the fact that sex is a drive men cannot forgo but you seem to be driving home a point that this is the sole purpose for all things

Most guys are waking up to a truth that getting rejected and not finding any women to date makes dating a boring game, its not about finding a reasonable partner to exeprience things with, learn stuff with, have sex with and have kids with but rather an endless shitshow where you and thousands of others need to compete for even a shot at a 3/10 hambeast

Improving life and making a good life for yourself is a much better investment of your time as opposed to trying to impress girls who dont give a shit about you and trying to get them to agree to a relationship with you only to get dumped and cucked a few weeks later when some other dude managed to get her attention for five seconds
Id rather spend my time tending to my career, education, lifting in order to do stuff thats fun and rewarding
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Is this a thinly veiled MGTOW thread?
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>>39526500
could you please stop with all the hurr durr and Xd crap, anon?
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>>39526501
>Improving life and making a good life for yourself is a much better investment of your time
thank you anon, at least you understand that
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>>39526482

Lifting from a psychological perspective is

5% in group/ out group psychology

20% endorphine

20% task completion/progress

40% increased appeal to female

15% other
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>>39526502
MGTOW is mainly neckbeards who cant get laid anyway
Now however most normal guys are realizing its not worth competing over scraps and nothing
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>anon believes that biological impulses are the sole meaning to life
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>>39526501
>Id rather spend my time tending to my career, education, lifting in order to do stuff thats fun and rewarding

like fucking a woman so babby is formed?
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> 5 months of pick up
> no money, no looks, no strength, no fame, no power
> any woman I want 8/10 starting
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>>39526502
OP here, no , all i'm trying to tell you guys is not to get caught up on woman because there are a lot of "tfw no gf yada yada" threads on here
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>>39526522
for some it might be the definition of life, anon, but it does not have to me
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>>39526532

pray tell, what is your "endgame"
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>>39526500
>>life is what you make it out to be!!! Xd
It literally is
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>>39526553

t. 18 year old who plays cod all day
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>>39526550
to live a fun life, no need to chase woman who don't bat an eye. as long as i'm doing stuff which i deem fun for myself, life is good.
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>>39526553

>For me, life is about not breathing. I don't breathe. I dont need to breathe. I control my own life and choose not to breathe.

thats how retarded you are.
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>>39526559
please stop trolling anon, i'm trying to help you ungrateful fucks
>>39526565
did anon say exactly that? no he didn't, stop interpreting stuff into something. you are in control of your life, breathing is something you need to live, woman are not.
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>>39526565
>>For me, life is about not breathing. I don't breathe. I dont need to breathe. I control my own life and choose not to breathe.
Never said anything about breathing?
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>>39526565
You are the retard mate, you dont need women to live
In fact if you need to get laid regularly to live im pretty sure alot of guys would die off
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>>39525804
Women are a total soul suck. I notice that i'm WAY happier when i'm not actively trying to get my dick wet. Doesn't make me asexual, just means that they're not worth the stress and anxiety
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>>39526589
>you dont need women to live
this is something some of you need to understand.
>>39526593
indeed, just do what is fun for you
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>>39526562

> fun

Please, elaborate on these activities.
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>>39526625
fun is subjective, anon, do what you deem fun for yourself
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>>39526629

kek, i knew it.

enjoy your vidya, underage b&
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>>39526644
and you're trolling again, anon. if vidya is fun for you, why shouldn't you play some games?
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>>39526625
Im not him but let me just paint you a picture
Would you rather:

1. Quit work in the afternoon and then grab a quick healthy snack before you have martial arts class, after class is done you take a relaxing shower and go back home and play some games or watch a movie with a friend.

Or would you rather go out, stand in line trying to get in to a bar with music loud enough so you cant talk to your buddy you brought along and pay money for overpriced drinks. You see a girl you try to make a move on, she isnt good looking but 5/10, she has two guys standing talking to her already trying to get her attention and she is stone cold to them so you wait
Finally she is alone and you walk up and she is just as cold to you, she doesnt give a fuck about you, your achivements, your work skills or anything you are or do.
So you end your night at way too late, you go home alone and have to eat something before you go to sleep and then you wake up way too late and feel like shit
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>>39526669
well, not quite what i was trying to say, but yes if either of those mentioned things is "fun" for you, do it, if you need to chase woman to get attention and confirmation, do it. but it is not the definition of life and they do not matter as much as you think they do.
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>>39525804
Lies
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>>39526684
the truth
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>>39525896
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>>39526338
Is your goal in life to become the biggest faggot in the thread?
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The premise of this thread was all right but OP's faggotry ruined it.
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>>39526737
do explain
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>>39526692
I'm okay with looking like this.
Sadly images don't rustle my sprinkles.
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>>39526739
OP still mad about his Ex. Don't mind him.
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>>39526771
i am OP, anon and i'm not mad about my "ex" not in the slightest, just trying to help some of you
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>>39526669

> the only way to have a relationship and breed is to engage in the degenerate club scene
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>>39526793
i bet that's not what that anon is going for
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>>39526703

> he absolutely BTFO me and my manchild friends

> lets call him names

like clockwork
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>>39526793
Im the same guy and if you have other ideas im all ears

>inb4 work, hobbies, school
Girls in this scenario are all taken
Only single girl ive met at work is a flat chested girl who has the IQ of a child and spent all of 2016 traveling with diffrent guys so she is equal to the club girls at best

Where does one find girls who are single and of some quality then mate?
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>>39526805
>Where does one find girls who are single and of some quality then mate?
even if you don't find one, don't make it your sole purpose
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>>39526805

i dont fucking know anon


but you cant give up

i just want to fulfil my genetic destiny

then i can shitpost and watch anime with peace of mind

instead of torturing myself with the feeling of failure from 30 to Death
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>>39526812
Its not my sole purpose, im not really in the game anymore because there are no fish in the sea so to speak
All the girls are gone and all thats left are thousands of guys wondering where are the girls are
If someone claims i dont need to attend a bar or club to find a girl then where do they suggest one should go?
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>>39526849
stop thinking like that
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True.

But it *does* make you a tad insane when you're turning 26 next month and never fucked.
Not so much because of the lack of sex itself - more like the constant feeling that everyone's at a party you're not invited to.

Every time you see a friend hooking up at a club, you look at all the girls around you and become painfully aware that you have no clue how to play this game because you've never tried it.

I sure could wait around, make a few moves on a girl I meet through friends or w/e and eventually get a gf.

Only that I should have done stuff like this ten years ago - i'm too old to waste potentially years catching up on my first teenage relationship.

The rest of my life is well in order - but in this regard, I have to git gud now.

Part of the reason why I'm still a virgin is that I worked so hard to have actual self-esteem and no longer feel worthless taht I just couldn't let go and risk rejection when the time came.

What's a good way to stop giving a fuck and lay low your ego so you can do what's required?
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>>39526868
stop thinking that sex will somehow give your life a meaning
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can we just all agree that women of today are simply not worth wasting our time?

They are all selfish little shits that howl about any stupid bullshit because they were little princess all their life and they make us feel like shit outself for the most ridiculous reasons.

They also don't want to have children and stay home. They wanna work and get all the benefits of being a weaker sex.
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>>39526893
My life has meaning on its own, thanks.

But right now, I'm fed up with not knowing how to deal with girls and watch other people having fun while standing at the sidelines.

Especially because the only reason I haven't been laid yet are only my own false sense of pride, complacency and cowardice.

These are no traits I like to see on myself - i need to find my Balls. Can't run around like this, that's just not me. In no other regard am I like this.
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>>39526868
Treat it as a game. Generally speaking though vipassana meditation is great for reducing the effects of the ego.

t. 21 year old who just learned how to stop sperging out around girls
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>>39526903
I think the problem is overcompetition and a fundamental difference between genders
Think about their position, if you had 7/10s trying to get your dick, thirsting for it and begging you to fuck them and many 8-9/10s aswell who want to date you would you not try to take advantage of this?
I know if i was faced with many many girls trying desperatly to get my attention id never settle for a girl i wasnt attracted to with a bad personality so its not strange girls dont do this today

Tl:dr too many guys and too few women + women having inheriantly high demands = shitty dating for men
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>>39526911
then just don't be a coward
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>>39526917
>Treat it as a Game

Once I get to talking with a girl, I actually can since I've started actually trying.

My problem is more the getting there - I have to figure this entire thing out by trial and error, and through my frieds who get laid a lot I know that there's more than one way to skin this cat.
In fact, it seems that everyone has their own way to go about it - I just need to find mine.

Really, there seems to be about a million different ways in which you can find and fuck girls, I don't know where to start and what to expect.

Also, I'm getting kinds impatient after not having cared at all for so long, which is bad.
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Used to be a whinny tfw no gf but now I don't really care. I focus my time on my projects and doing what I enjoy and I feel much better. I read self improvement books daily now and I force myself to make something social at least once a day. It doesn't make sense to expect someone to love you when you don't even love yourself
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>128 replies
>28 posters
Pack it up lads, it's time to go home
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>>39525804
>woman
zitron detected
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>>39526986
the hell is that?
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Girls fuck guys that they think are better than them. You have to be high-status and don't appear NEEDY. Make HER chase YOU. It's human nature: we want things we can't have.
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>>39527005
agreed. but, a woman should not be the sole purpose of your life.
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>>39526996
there's a pr podcast guy who says "woman" instead of "women" and it gets people really triggered but he doesn't know he's doing it
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>>39527005
>Make HER chase YOU
Ive never gotten this
Girl i like has a boyfriend and several orbiters, why would she chase me and how can i make that happen?
Makes no sense
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>>39527014
Completely agree. But if you have a vision in life and you dominate your path on the way there, the sloots will just come by themselves.
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>>39527032
indeed
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>>39525804
> have gf of one month
> don't have any free time anymore

fugg
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>>39527028
There are several ways to make a girl chase you. You have to be playful and challenging. Use the push-pull technique; not sure how to explain this, but you give her something (compliment) and then you push her away, leaving her wanting more.
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>>39527005
Are you retarded, do you know were we are. This is way too intelligent an answer for this board.
>inb4 people are smart on this board
>ass to grass is terrible for most people
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>>39527081
I do this regularly but it doesnt work, as soon as i leave they are busy with some other dude or going back to their boyfriend
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>>39527141
other guy is more efficient at the "game"
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>>39527404
So i need to go and thats whats making me lose "the game"?
Youre missing my point that girls are bombarded by guys all the time who want their attention, she wont follow you since there are many others standing in line to talk to her
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>>39527141
If she already has a boyfriend, it's obviously more complicated. Make sure that you show interest without appearing needy. Dont go in with a "I want to fuck her" mentality, go on with "She wants to fuck me" mentality. And definitely don't be afraid of rejection.
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>>39525804

Thanks. I needed this.
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>>39527470
no problemo
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>>39527432
Ive been having a playful attitude with some flirting towards her now for a year, no signs of improvement
Im not gung-ho on getting her but it would be fun to see how much effort it actually takes to make a girl fall, right now its alot
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>>39526526
hey bruddy pls post the sources you used :3
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>>39525861
so if someone wants girls, that could be for him.. therefore op is wrong. although, girls are pretty lame goal.
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>>39527426
I was agreeing with you.
I know it works due to being semi austimo with girls, i naturally think they're inferior and it gets me laid. That guy needs to realise he's playing with fire, girls with bf are just looking for attention and he's giving it. She's in a win win situation, he's always going to lose.
>mfw get the girl but always worried she'll do it too you too.
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>>39525804
>Tfw no qt wolf mask wearing, tight jeans wearing, belly showing, not much food eating, pizza delivering, dick touch gf
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>>39527940
i am OP, anon, i can't be wrong because that is my subjective view. all i'm telling you guys is to not get caught up on the thought that a woman is all there is to live for.
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>>39525874
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE DELET THIS
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>>39526326
what does this even mean
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>>39528901
Means I Love You, Even Though I May Not Show It Always. Even Though You Can't Tell, I Love You. It's A Play On Words For Subliminal Messages.
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>>39525804
are men not what life is all about for women then too? because it feels pretty good to have a boyfriend desu, I wouldn't give that up
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>>39528916
is this some new copypasta famalam
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>>39528917
well women want attention 24/7 from every direction so basically yes
>I wouldn't give that up
you wouldn't want to give up that source if attention is what you're saying
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>>39528924
so men never want attention either? why do you even post here?
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>>39528938
not in the same amount women want it
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>>39527732
Hello light.
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>>39528942
yeah so much so that they can charge money for giving men attention

it's not men who want it more at all, that's just silly
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>>39528951
that is not what men pay for, anon, that what men seek from those kind of women has nothing to do with attention in form of validation
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>>39528977
lol please now you're just grasping at straws

men literally pay women to give them attention, whether it be sexual or otherwise

men are the real attention whores, they are so desperate for it they pay for it
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>>39528988
as a woman it might be hard for you to understand a mans thought process but we do not seek attention from prostitutes. ask yourself why that desperation even exists, it's because most woman break a guy to a point where he no longer has the will to pursue a woman and thus resorts to going to said prostitutes, but that's another story.
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>>39529012
>ask yourself why that desperation even exists
because men have a higher sexual urge than women, due to testosterone and libido

you're on /fit/ you should know this dude

men 100% care more about attention from women, sexually or otherwise, than woman care about attention from men, sexually or otherwise

and biological facts support this
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>>39529029
we had the whole reproducing is the essence of life thing earlier today which i fully agree on but what has being on /fit/ to do with anything? people on here seek attention in form of validation out of a reason, woman seek that sort of attention all the time because they can not live without it in some form that is even the ugliest broad has a twitter, facebook and other social media going on for her.
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>>39528917
>Woman trying to rationalize her attention seeking
Kek
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>>39528916
thank you Captain yahoo answers
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>>39528917
das bin ich btw nicht
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Do you guys even lift?
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>>39529148
ZE GERMANS ARR HERE
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>>39529148
What's that translated into american?
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>>39526255
>umm everything a human does is "wasting time"
Depends whether you want to waste it while doing something that isn't fun i suppose
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>>39529270
"That is me btw not" or "That/this isn't me btw". But I just base that on my own language, which share similarities.
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>>39529386
Silly non-american languages i swear
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>>39529386
I smell Dutch.
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>>39529029
>men 100% care more about attention from women, sexually or otherwise, than woman care about attention from men, sexually or otherwise
False
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>>39529447
Danish, my man
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>tfw you realize religion is what kept women in check
>tfw you realize that the more agnostic our society becomes the more women will be sloots
>tfw Atheist but know that the word of Jesus Christ is the one true answer
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>you will never enjoy sunset teatime with Lilly and Hanako
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>>39529522
Christianity benefits women more than it does men. Its the only major religion that does. Secularism is really just neo-pagnaism.
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really MAKES YOU TINK
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>>39529573
you tinkering anon?
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>>39525804
Who in his right mind would actually put a woman on a pedestal?
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>mfw I only lift so I can get women to admire me
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>>39530028
you will feel awful
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>>39530068
What do you lift for, anon?
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>>39530090
myself ofc
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>>39530028
Don't worry, what guy doesn't want to be admired.
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>>39530374
By himself that is
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>>39529560
>a religion that keeps women subject to men in clearly defined roles
>benefits them more than a set of religions wherein one would literally worship females
hmm....
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>>39527500
If she's loyal, it simply won't happen unless things start falling apart with her bf.

If she's not, the effort involved is practically nothing. Chances are, whe'll eve make the moves on you in that case.
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