Hey /fit/. I've never really posted or visited this board before, but I figured you guys can help me.
So when I was sixteen I was around a 190lbs because of medication and just shitty eating habits. I began loosing weight that year because I was determined to better myself. I'm twenty now and 155lbs (I got weighed in September so this is likely inaccurate). So I lost 35 in those four years. I recently got a new boyfriend who takes good care of himself and be both like hiking together and other physical activities. I'm a girl. I'm still very slightly chubby. I need to loose another 15 or 20lbs to be truly skinny. I started running 3 miles a day for two weeks now. I look a bit smaller.
What I want to know /fit/ is do you think it's logical for me to feel even more inclined to loose weight because my boyfriend is fit and I love him? I just feel like it's unethical for me not to put effort into maintaining a good physique when he puts effort into his. He told me he loves my body, but if I truly want to loose weight he's fine with it.
Am I being too hard on my self /fit/? I intended on loosing the weight anyway.
>>39385932
*we both
*myself
Sorry I'm fucking retarded
>>39385932
If he loves you for who you are then you really only need to maintain what you have so that you'll stay the same woman he loved/wants to plow half to death.
But if you feel that you want to lose weight for both yourself and him and he's fine with whatever decision you make then go for it.
But remember, don't become someone who you and he can't recognize anymore.
And don't try to emulate the 'fitness' models and runway models.
They're all on various drugs and are anything but fit.
>>39385948
Thanks anon. Trust me I know I need to keep my head sane. My older sister is still having trouble with anorexia and I really don't want to be bulky or anything.
It's more just that I view it as a symbol of my choice to make myself the best me I can be for him. Also if I know I can lose the weight like why the fuck wouldn't I?
>>39385948
And I also just realized I wrote "loose" like three times.
Fucking end me.