>tfw I had sex for the first time and I couldn't cum

>>39326069

It means you've either been watchin too much porn and your brain won't register actual sex as sex anymore.

Or nerve loss due to circumcision.

If the latter go punch your mom in the face and dissown her entirely. Tell her you hate her as much as you love life. Never speak to her again.

>>39326127
My dad was the one who made the decision to have me circumcised, my mom just left the decision to my dad.

>>39326069
Same thing happened to me, it was nerves I think also small comdoms had a chokehold on my dick

>>39326069
Used to happen to me, it's fine because it kind of gives the girl something to work for in the future.

My first time took me 2 hours Andrew girl after that and my current gf took me at least 5 times. There was one girl in between that where I came in 8 mins but she was hot as fuck

>>39326069
Your boyfriend's ass is probably looser than your mom's pussy.

>>39326139
Your dad is a cuck

>>39326139
Your dad is a cuckolded jew-cock-sucking cunt

>>39326146
>8 min
Are you timing your sexy time ?

You've probably fucked your dick up from not fapping

I'd listen to qualified urologists who recommend fapping and sex, over abstinent fundamentalists who think they'll get superpowers from not fapping

>>39326069
Don't worry about it, this is perfectly normal you just aren't used to sex yet.

>>39326069
Why'd you give up? I last long, the trick is to power through and act like you're might never have this opportunity again. I usually make girls orgasim three times before I do once

Same happened to me on the first time matey, nerves I think. Don't worry about it, it's happened now so theres no point fretting. It won't happen next time

>>39326175
Honestly my dick just started to lose feeling and it felt more and more hopeless as time went by. She was a champ though, even tried like four different positions.

>>39326170
>>39326176
This. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

>>39326069
Normal.

Literally nothing bad.

First times are usually not that great.

So all you need is practice, experiment and explore.

>>39326127
I got both.

Best thing to do is to stop porn entirely, and fap as little as you can. Use lotsa lube when you do fap.

>>39326069
Maybe she just had a bucket fanny? I've fucked birds whove had kids and this has happened a few times, just couldn't pop one out.

>>39326069
I had an even worse problem OP. I just couldn't get it up regardless of what I did. Happened to the same girl twice in a row.

Then again I didn't find her THAT attractive.

>>39326069
Dicks are much more sensitive equipment than most realise. Sometimes it's just the nerves of it all, maybe you had a drink and it's fucking with you, maybe you've fucked to long and got a bit numb. All sorts of shit can cause it.

Best thing to do in my experience, cause I've had it happen a few times, is to just relax, stop the sex for a while, if she's cum already that's cool, if not eat her out for a while then maybe just take a few minutes lying next to each other just kissing slowly, stoking her body and shit. Even stop and talk for a bit. Just don't put yourself under pressure to get right back to frantic fucking. Wait until you get horny and hard again, then start again. I usually cum pretty normally after just taking a breather. Only time this doesn't work is if it's down to booze and I'm just too fucked up to really be feeling anything. Also, having an understanding partner who realises it really isn't that big a deal or their fault necessarily helps big time. If they aren't they need to be so you need to improve communication with them and explain this shit. It's a common as fuck occurrence so don't stress about it.

>>39326208
See my post here:
>>39326416

Just take a break in that situation bro. Just lie and talk, kiss slow and romantically, go down on her, use fingers. A lot of guys think sex is just like a race from the start to the finish, even if you turn it into a marathon of an hour or more. When you get more and more tired of pumping away and your dick is numb just stop a bit and do what you find sexy without your dick being in her or being touched really. Maybe some light stroking on her part, that always works for me alongside some kissing. I usually get a bit of loss of feeling around the half hour/45 min mark, especially if I've held back an orgasm once or twice along the way, and have learned through experience it's best to just stop for a break while keeping things sexy/romantic. Usually when I put it back in I'm ready to cum in like 5 or 10 mins no problem.

>>39326069
How do you fap? If you grip more tightly than your average vagina you could ha
ve desensitized you dick.

Or it could have been nerves, basically you were nervous and didn't cum, relax.

Or you could be gay.

>>39326127

your grip is too tight when fapping. had the same problem the first two weeks of fucking.

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>>39326157
>>39326155

Why are uncircumcised fags always so super butthurt?

>>39326069
It's your first time senpai, nervousness makes you either last longer or makes you splooge in 2 seconds. For me it was the former. Usually after the first two times you cum during sex you start lasting like 10 strokes, then you start lasting longer again ime

What are the best type/brand of condoms to use for sex?

>>39326846
ones that fit

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>>39326069
for you sex is a solo activity in front of the pc focusing on an erotic video or image, real sex is very different and takes some getting used to

>>39326069
Legit me irl. Haven't flapped in a week now and haven't been able to fuck my fwb for the past 3 days and I'm crawling up the walls and I bet I won't even get my nut when we do fuck. It's a cruel world

>>39326865
How do you do an exercise like this without hurting your sternum? I try this shit and I have a sore sternum for like an hour and it feels like it's bad to put repeated pressure on a bone.

I can only cum by jerking myself off, it's called death grip. My girlfriend jerked, sucked, and fucked me for over an hour and I couldn't cum.

>>39326155
>>39326157
>>39326127

You uncircumcised guys are as obnoxious as fat acceptance bitches.

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>>39326971
you mutilated guys are jelly the jews took your foreskin and not ours

>>39326069
Could just be high stamina. I've got that problem. It's both a blessing and a curse.

>>39326315
Last broad I fucked was some hitch from the gym that is super fit.. However she had 3 kids.. She was 40. Anyways bitch was super loose. Ended up fucking her for 1.5 hours and eventually just made her blow me for another 10 until I busted in her mouth. There was no way I could've came fucking her loose as pussy.

>>39328181
damn she blew you for 10 hours? impressive

>>39326971
I think you have that wrong, an intact penis is natural. Circumcised penises aren't natural and people are trying to force their dick skin cutting agenda like it is healthy.

I can't believe people literally defend having less dick. They actually think it's better to have scar tissue, and less nerve endings.

>>39326929
This pic certainly puts pressure on my bone.

>>39326069
see >>39326293
first times are basically your worst performance since it's your first time doing something like that

>>39328910
enjoy cancer

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>>39329108

>>39326069
Just nerves m8. Jsut relax and try again another time.
>>39326127
>Or nerve loss due to circumcision.
lmao

>>39326162
kek

Didn't even realize how oddly specific that was

>>39328753
hahahaha

>>39328753
Top kek

>>39329422
>>39329376
>>39329371
>that guy that comes to a thread just to reply to posts he found funny

>>39329455
kek!

in my first time i lost my shit in 2min with her sucking my dick, after that I gave her oral for few minutes and got fueled up to fuck her for about 35min before i nut.
My second time, same girl, i didnt nut in oral and fucked her for about 45min until i finally lost it blasting her doggystyle

i was so afraid of lasting 1min, ended up lasting more than i wished...
i'd say it means nothing, its probably the nerves and also the condom probably makes it less pleasant. Also, as happens with everyone, you probably overhyped sex, some positions are not that good, but my goat to nut is doggystyle blasting strong and fast..just dont think/worry about this kind of shit, just enjoy it
godspeed anon

>>39326127
>tfw half circumsized

>>39329455
lmao

>>39326416
also EAT SOMETHING

ive had it happen where I am hungry. go for breakfast and then come back and WHAMMO

/fit/: where no matter if your dick is big, small, finish quickly or last forever, you're still a sex God who makes the girl orgasm 3, 4, 5 or more times when you're with her

Pretty crazy

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>>39329455
My seids!

>>39326069
this happened to me. I've only had sex 4 times, and I've never came just from sex. Or just a blowjob either.

>>39329777

no thanks

>>39326069
I didn't cum until like my 3rd because they were bad in bed tbqh

>>39329739
if you can't make a girl orgasm you're probably trash tier at sex

the clit isn't that hard to find m8, you shouldn't need your dick to make a girl cum

>have fucked like 15 prostitutes and have never been able to cum with any of them

I haven't learned brehs I keep going back to them

>>39326069
Porn is worse for ED/anorgasmia than fapping. Were you still looking at porn and just not busting? Because I've had this problem in the past and I tried not fapping to completion but I was still looking at porn because I was bored, and nothing was changing. I still enjoyed porn more than real sex, and I was afraid it would hurt future relationships.

I'm telling you that porn is a worse problem than jacking off. If you are so horny that you can go back to yanking it to your imagination then just do it. But you need to stop looking at 1080p fetish videos that have nothing to do with regular sex. After a couple months it shouldn't be a problem. My problem now is I bust too fast most of the time, but that is supposed to go away with practice.

>tfw circumcised but still so sensitive I can cum in my pants watching something that turn me on

>>39326069
It means you are gay.

>>39326069
OP, you're a closet faggot. I bet ou'd cum if you fucked your Dad in the ass like you dream of.

>>39330473

some girls are hard to make orgasm

like they need to rub themselves for 15 minutes going from slow to fast to medium over and over to get off

>>39326846

the pill

are you guys from the stone age

Thinking of it, I didn't cum either my first time and like a lot of my friends told me they didn't either.

>>39330909
It's weird because I've never heard of this problem. You hear as a cliche that virgins cum so quick but this is making it seem like a fairly obvious occurrence for virgins to just not cum at all.

>>39326069
>tfw 19 kissless handholdless virgin

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>>39328910
Who said it was unnatural? You just sound flustered over a non-issue. You can keep your turtleneck dick, but don't bullshit me that one is particularly better than the other.

>>39326139
Mom left it up to my dad
Dad said to leave a little bit so id have something to play with
And that is why I still have bout a third of my skin

Anxiety of getting a worthless butch pregnant because she's too busy laying on her back all day to pop a birth control pill.. pretty normal to not impregnate a vagtroll fembag

>>39326069
Virgin Nerves. Once you get the puss on the reg, you'll be wishing you could go over an hour

>>39328910
>I can't believe people literally defend having less dick
they do it to feel better. Classic sour grapes. But you can't feel too annoyed for them, its not their fault their dicks are mutilated.

Are you on SSRIs?

>>39326164
Citation on the urologists recommending fapping?

Happened to me, too. But I broke out of it.

>girl is super into me
>she tells me
>5'5", quiet, shy type
>calls me to her house for homework one day (we usually did hw together)
>room is scented
>asks me to sit on the bed because that's where we're doing the homework
>Two minutes in she tells me it's getting realy hot
>takes off her full sweater and she's just wearing a spaghetti top (the kind with small straps) and no bra.
>neatly folds her sweater and looks at me for 10 seconds and then suddenly looks down
>I go for it
>45 minutes later I'm about to insert
>goes flaccid
FUCK
>realize that the penis works when it has blood
>lay down and tell her to ride me
>close my eyes and try to relax
>sure enough, it comes up again

Then I did missionary too, and never lost my erection. I don't have any problems now (never have after that one time)

>>39326127
>It means you've either been watchin too much porn and your brain won't register actual sex as sex anymore.

nice psuedo science that absolutely no one in the clinical community believes

>>39333230
Not him but when I watch porn it gets less and less interesting and I need weirder and weirder shit to get hard- and it does affect masturbation outside of watching porn as well.

>>39332612
Basically, you mean your dad is a retard who doesn't even understand the purpose of circumcision and is so beta that he preferred mutilating his son instead of standing up to a jewish tradition ?

>>39326069
I think it means you're gay

OP dont listen to all this pseudo science. It's not rare that you dont cum during your first time, I had the same. Now I can cum just fine even with condoms. It also depends on your connection with the girl, for me it's much easier to cum while having sex with somebody I truly love.

>>39332566
Actually, a natural dick IS better than a cut dick for all purposes, for the owner of the dick or his partner.

>>39326069
Was she a landwhale?

>>39326069
Same thing happened to me, I was swollen with pride. Now when I fuck a new girl, I can go without cumming for a good amount of time. Give me a few months with her, building a relationship and trust, and I'll surely find a way to disappoint her by cumming too early, especially if I'm not getting ass at least three times a week.

>>39329630
>i was so afraid of lasting 1min, ended up lasting more than i wished...

are you literally me?

Why cant it be a solid 20 minutes and done ;__;

>>39335294
What does a vagina feel like?

I've heard there is suction inside.

>Meet super cute / short+ticc girl
>Comes over to my place, brings wine
>I cook dinner, she's all over me
>Make out and fool around on the couch for 10 minutes
>Rock hard the entire time
>Move to bed
>Remove clothes
>Dick goes limp
>Can't get it up

Kill me senpaitachi, or help me, anything.

>>39335396
not at all.

>>39326139
Have you tried looking up foregen? They have actually made progress.

>>39326127
Im circumcised and still cum prenaturely...wtf, wat do guys? The sensitivity is fucking me up

>>39334698
>>39334679
>>39332701
>>39332612
>>39329642
>>39328910
>>39326938
>>39326157
>>39326139
>>39326127
FOREGEN, really, they will be ready in a couple of years if more people donated.

>>39335552
I mean in 2-4, by the way.

>>39335396
Put your finger in your mouth and feel the inside of your cheek. That's what a vagina feels like.

>>39326069
You weren't aroused.

This isnt some magic trick, this isnt some terrible medical problem. You just were not turned on by the situation you were in.

Its a real shame that this myth that guys have to cum like a fucking hose on demand has become perceived to be a truth.

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Just continue having sex.

Lots of guys dont finish their first time due to nervousness or as anon said above the situation itself.

The first time I did it with my gf we had to take it super slow the first 5 times or so because it was her first time and she was really tight/it hurt her.

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>>39329455

>>39326069
It's called retarded ejaculation (srs), I couldn't cum until probably the 15th time I had sex with my first gf, its all mental. It's a big mix of being too used to porn, jacking off as your only sexual contact, and being uncomfortable with sex. Do some research and it'll pass with time and experience my friend. Use thin condoms too, that was a big thing for me