>life is shit because i'm a coward and unable to take decisions
>mentally feel like shit
>gym is the only remedy, live life okay-ish but unhappy
>months pass
>same problem still
>now develop a physical tic (shrug my right shoulder all the time and can't control it) probably because of all the stress and pressure and anxiety i'm under
>afraid it will interfere with my lifting aka the only thing that's been keeping me sane
fuck this shit. AND FUCK THIS SHOULDER JUST STOP DOING IT
any advice on how to get rid of a nervous tic?
>>39124439
Treat the underlying cause - learning to deal with the stresses of life.
>>39124462
maybe one day i'll learn it
>>39124518
maybe one day you'll actually choose what makes you happy, instead of going the way which makes you obviously feel like shit?
>>39124518
>>39124439
You sound like a girl and you sound like you like being a coward, instead of changing whatever the fuck it is you're unhappy about anon.
Oh, you're also a faggot.
>>39124439
https://youtu.be/Tce-_LY2x4k?t=37s
>>39124439
>>life is shit because i'm a coward and unable to take decisions
>not giving a fuck about others and just doing what YOU want
never gonna make it, at all, like seriously you won't.
>>39124439
Read some fucking books.
There's a shitload of stuff out there for people like you.
Literally no excuse to read read them and implement the stuff that sounds reasonable.
>>39124439
Start drinking, maybe pick up a drug habit or two.
>>39124940
been smoking dope and getting high as shit for the last 3 weekends. helps only temporarily.
>>39124702
>>39124883
>>39124746
how do i know what makes me happy? should i give in to every single thing that could make me happy without thinking about the consequences for the future?
>>39124910
any recommendations?
>>39125228
>should i give in to every single thing that could make me happy without thinking about the consequences for the future?
yes
take risks
if you don't you'll literally never know if it could've made you happy
if it doesn't you'll get a valueable lesson out of it