Why are you so pathetic? You find it endearing or something?

>>39003147
Where's this from?

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>>39003160
The calmer recesses of my turbulent mind

>>39003147
>Do work
Check
>Get girls
Hold up famalam
This is the part where the issues are, this right here.
Getting girls is extremly hard

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>>39003894
No it's not. If your goal is "get girls", then go out and fucking get them.

If your goal is "sit and be paralysed and think I cannot get girls lololol", then lo and behold, that will be your reality.

Keep trying till you get it done, and don't be a crybaby if it seems a little difficult. Just keep at it.

>>39003894
>gettin girls is extremely hard
If you're inexperienced, yeah sure. You just need some consistent "practice" being social and talking up girls. You're just not gonna be a don on your first try.

>>39003961
Kept at the "getting girls" part for almost two fucking years now mate
Its beyond a little difficult

Ive set new PRs in every lift, gone up more than 10kg of pure muscle, got a part time job, got a promotion on said part time job and almost finished my uni degree while having zero luck with girls
Dont tell me its a little difficult, its extremly difficult

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>>39003147
>casual hookups

degeneracy

>>39004010
How often have you asked for a girls number these 2 years? And I mean like in real life, not Tinder.

this is basically my understanding of stoicism (not OP here just a rando)

existential criss can be avoided by recognizing you are a mammal and a man and just filling that role and not being a little bitch because you are a man and a mammal so surely you can fill that role.

its easier to say than implement tho

>>39004010

You sound like a classic 'beta provider'. women are wiating for you to mature and accumulate resources before they bed you. When you're 28 and have a lease and a condo and suddenly 7s are drunkenly hitting on you remember how women treated you when you had nothing and dont wife a single one of them.

>>39004007

>You're just not gonna be a don on your first try.

Speak for yourself, cuck

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>>39004028
>comforting buzzwords to mask the fact that you want something, but feel it is inaccessible to you

>>39004010
Where is it most difficult? What is the major fault area? What stumbling block has kept you there for 2 years?

Audit your demons, then fight them.

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>>39004064
Jesus doesn't approve of casual sex outside of marriage and I already have a gf

You should be aspiring to get a virtuous woman to save Western Civilization not encourage its downfall with degenerate behavior

If you can easily pull hot sluts you should get a hot wife and then start cranking out babies to save the white race and western civ

>>39004050
Two times, got dates both times and it didnt go as planned. One girl straight up left town since school started and the other didnt want to meet up after our second date
Keep in mind these are the only two single girls ive encountered during this period, i wont bother asking for a girls number if i know she has a bf

There is this cute girl at my gym who i made contact with, sweet girl. Found out we had a common friend in a coworker, this friend tells me the girl at the gym has a boyfriend
Me and gymgirl talk and share stuff but whats the point in me asking for her number since i know the outcome

>>39004055
>You sound like a classic 'beta provider'
No, im 28 already and had a career before i started uni but wanted to change it so i had to get an education
Still have resouces on hand, i can theoretically cover most of my living expenses with my stock portfolio dividends but i prefer to reinvest em to make it grow

>>39004100
>gf
That's sex outside of marriage, you sinner!

>>39004059
lel
I was speaking in regards to OP, I'm sorry you have insecurities.

>>39004064
>Where is it most difficult? What is the major fault area? What stumbling block has kept you there for 2 years?
Like i said in >>39004101
Also i dont know whats wrong, i wish i did know so i could fix it
Ive done all the things people gave me tips about and still it failed

>inb4 meet more girls
Yeah ive tried this and i kid you not, all the girls i meet are taken already in some way or form
Please not that very few of them tell me this, its something i find out second hand from other sources but they are always taken

I kept being hit on for 4 months by a girl and everytime i made a move she ghosted me and turned cold, found out she had a boyfriend during this time where she was blatantly suggesting we should fuck

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>>39004137
Two times in two years? No right to complain. Go make that two times per month minimum, and don't complain about anything until those 6 months are up.

Just wanting things to fall into your lap? Don't be a bitch.

Also, this is Two Fucking Thousand and Sixteen. Girls are whores, girls like attention, girls like what's unavailable to them, girls like things being light and fun. If you make it serious, they won't like it. If you act like it means a lot to you, you remove some attraction.

If you act like a fuckboy but with a modicum more sense, you'll do well.

>>39004101
>Two times
There is your problem mate, two times in two years is nothing.

That said, unless getting knee deep in pussy is your life goal, getting pussy should just be a pastime it's not the be all and end all.

>>39004101
So you ask a girl out in average once a year? Try once a week and don't let failure get to you.
You have a 100% success rate in getting dates, so you must have something going for you.

>>39004137
Get out of your social circle and go to new places with new people. And you don't need to know if they're taken before asking them out. If they have a boyfriend they will casually tell you and that will only be as awkward as you make it.

>>39004185
>>39004200
>>39004211
Right now im strapped for time but part of the problem is most girls i come across are taken, i shit you not
I can tell you alot of stories where girls have been super flirty and acted all into me but like i said, i know they got boyfriends so they flake as soon as i show a modicum on interest

I want to meet new girls and find success but its a vicious cycle, not being able to find girls and realizing how much time i invest trying to find girls makes me think its not worth it
Ive actually spent more time on trying to find girls than my studies over the past six months and ive not met one girl who is single

its mindblowing

Thanks guys and im not saying youre wrong, its a numbers game and youre right but i dont know why i cant seem to find girls who are single. hence my current problem and im not gonna give up but i am saying that it aint easy

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>>39004264
>Ive actually spent more time on trying to find girls than my studies over the past six months and ive not met one girl who is single

Interesting. Can you share what your "trying to find girls" routine is?

>>39004284
Simply trying to expand my social circle by trying new activities, getting involved in new things and finding a way to meet new people and girls included

I figure if i try to meet a girl in an activity i find enjoyable its more natural and free flowing with a better chance to connect than just chatting someone up on the street
So far its been fun but all the girls are taken, perhaps i should specify that i have met girls who are single but they have all been 15-17 and im...im just not gonna look for a gf in a 15 year old, even if its actually legal

>>39004361
Sorry dude, but you sound desperate and full of shit in equal amounts.

This. This you fing idiots. >>39003961

>>39003147

What if I just don't want to? I understand lifting and working but I don't understand what's the point getting a girl.

>>39004880
>I don't understand what's the point getting a girl.

Look between your legs. That's your reason. All the reason you need.

>>39004832
Desperate sure, but what would you be after so long with no success to show for it?

>>39004956
I don't know man. Sounds like you're wanting it more than you're working for it, or, if you do work for it, you don't work smart.

Socialising is a game. You just need to get good with the rules. You need to be on the other side. Just smash through Tinder til you make it.

The only rule, is cool.

>>39004943

That's it? I can simply rub one off and move on. less effort.

>>39004956
You're either really ugly or a little bitch and even still, ugly people can get girls. Try harder.

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>>39005130
And much less reward.

Each to their own, isn't that right?

>>39003236
Ha, nice.

>>39005065
I have thought about getting tinder but it just seems like tinder is not a good idea if youre looking for girls to date/sleep with or anything really
To this day i havent met any guy online who has noted success on tinder

I just...want it to be possible and find even a small victory to break the cycle you know?


>>39005141
Would it help you if i said alot of people call me good looking? and all precious hook ups/gfs have approached me?
This however, doesnt help me at all since i currently cant get laid.
What has happened before is in the past, i miss those days but no use dwelling on them

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What if I'm actually autistic? How do I start?

>>39005450
You're actually not though, you're just awkward.

Wanting women, sex, interaction, and much more means you're not actually autistic, just awkward.

Stop believing the memes.

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>>39005505
I've been diagnosed as an aspie. Is it possible to make progress?

>>39006703
Yes. Read the OP, then read:

>http://lesswrong.com/lw/28l/do_you_have_highfunctioning_aspergers_syndrome/
>https://www.quora.com/What-is-superficially-perfect-expressive-language-in-relation-to-Aspergers


Then do your own research/tasking. As I've said in this thread already:

Audit your demons, then fight them.

>>39004264
>i know they got boyfriends so they flake as soon as i show a modicum on interest

Use this line a buddy of mine told me. When they say they have a boyfriend, say "I have two goldfish at home" and if they go "What does that have to do with anything" then say "Well, we were talking about things that didn't matter".