>Tfw you're cuddling with her and she says she can't

good4u anon

>>38918883
>Seeing girl for a week or two
>Ping pong messages all the time
>Asks me to come out tonight with her friends
>Go out there not where they said to meet up
>Do a pub crawl with my mate instead
>Texting "were at such and such"
>Getting more tanked ended up getting at txt from her "oh were in the valley now"
>Ended up legging it to the valley waiting for a "oh were at this place at the moment"
>End up going to a strip club with m8
>She txt me at 2 "oh im in bed random chick shit"

Why do they do this? I would of been happy to stay at home and watch mad max with my bro.

>>38918883
Cringed hard, fuck off with this shit god damn dyel betas

>>38918883
can't need the feels now anon, fuck off please

>>38919550
Why are you upset?

>>38919627
most men only get by ignoring all emotions because they don't know how to cope. seeing another man with feelings is immediately met with a negative response.

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>>38918883
is this a bad feels thread, good feels, thread or autism general?

>meet up with qt russian girl for german hw help
>spend most of the time talking and not helping her with german hw lel
>feel like we were getting along so well
>bumps her leg into mine once accidentally
>happens again, w-was that intentional?
>ask her out to bar and rock climbing, says yes right off the bat immediately
>was going to go with her friend and I go with mine
>friend is not going so she isnt going (good choice anyway, just hung out with my m8 on wed. night before he left for 6 months)
>says shes still interested in going rock climbing
>ask her for her number and schedule via email because she has old school flip phone
>mentioned her grandfather was ruski paratrooper in ww2
>mfw It's my dream to be a paratrooper
>mfw I am jazzfag and jazzguitar fag and she also listens to jazz
>mfw she runs and does yoga
>mfw i emailed her friday morning.
>it's saturday afternoon and still no reply
>I didnt ask for these feels, i just want to train

Fuk u Anon. You made it and are sad? Fuk off cunt. When you're a virgin like me, then feel.

>>38919662
Pussy

>>38919690
Relax, buddy.

>>38918883
My boyfriend never gives me after sex cuddles :(

>>38919675
>emailed

???

>>38919690
im a grill lol

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>>38919900
That's what you get for dating CHAD YOU FUCKING WHORE
I HOPE YOU END UP ALONE

>>38920076
someone's jimmies are rustled

>>38919536
Girls just want to be desired
I would know
Because
I am
A grill

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I just want a cutie to cuddle with desu famalams

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Guys i fucked up
>hightest coworker flirts with me and been asking me to hang out
>see her eating salad; ask if shes trying to eat healthy?
>her: yes, i want to get skinny so my butt will look even bigger
>i tell her that sounds like a good approach
>her: this is the reason i cant lose weight. I get like giant servings (points to pancake, bacon and donut breakfast our job is having for us next week)
>i say jokingly: just dont eat anything else the rest of the day lol
>she turns around right away and stops talking to me for the rest of the day

>>38920187
dodged a bullet

>>38920046
yeah, I dont know man, she doesnt have a smart phone. She has this old flip phone, so she cant text or something or she is on a really basic phone plan?

>>38920187
woah.
what are you supposed to say here instead?

>>38919675
We're all gonna make, bruh.

>>38920279
shoulda been like "as long as youre burning tje calories off you can eat whatever you like!"

or insert babygurlpasta

> tfw can't stop thinking about her

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>>38918883
>one of my shirts smells of a girl's perfume
>haven't washed it for months since you last were with her

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>>38920344
>I wonder what she is doing right now

>>38920398
> Wonder which guy she'll talk to next
> Wonder who's going to make her laugh like you did
> Wonder who's going to smell the perfum of her hair on a sunny sunday morning

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>>38918883
Guys I need serious advice
Here's 1/2
>get to know amazing 9/10 girl through some friends
>used to have a crush on her in high school when I wasn't /fit/
>I know she's wild and hooked up with my gymbro 6 months ago
>don't really mind since I get around almost as much
>gymbro says she uses condoms and is safe
>tells me she's one of the greatest girls he's ever met
>we get to talking
>we hang out everyday for a week straight, go get boba, walk on the beach, swim
>take her fishing since she's never been
>has a great time and we laugh at each others jokes
>has a fierce gaze, that pretty much floors me
>every woman I've been with picks apart my sentences and finds something to get mad about
>she shows nothing of the sort
>understands what I'm saying without having to reword things(I've dated mostly ditzy women)
>she's athletic, drives a truck, even tries to wrestle me, competitive about almost everything which fires me up
>great genetics, brown hair green eyes, 5'5
>ask her "what we're doing"
>>were seeing eachother exclusively

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>>38920431
>tfw her cute laugh echoes through the valleys of your mind.
Motherfucker, I didn't ask for these feels.

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>>38920431
STOPPPPPPPPPPP

>>38920443
>caring this much about a single girl

>>38919536

And this here niggas is why we don't chase.

>>38919675
Let them come to you. never follow, meet up with friends elsewhere. Think of it as deer or duck hunting

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>>38920443
2/2
>we hook up that same weekend
>she's a freak and I can't get enough
>things just kind of fall into place and we do everything a couple would
>there's only one thing wrong
>if i mention feelings, a relationship, couples, or anything of the sort she closes up
>unable to talk about anything, after sex I try to tell her how much I like her
>freaks out and tells me to shut up
>she says she doesn't want a relationship at all, but wants to see me
>feels.jpg
>fast forward two months from then
>we see eachother like people would in a relationship, still not a word about her feelings
>were sitting on the beach watching the sunset
>>anon, Until I met you I wanted to be that girl who used guys just for sex
>>I was that girl for a while, but things are different now
>I tell her I was scared she'd use me
>she gets emotional, says she still wants to be that girl, says she likes me but doesn't want to like me
>>I don't want to hurt you anon
This girls leveled me faster than anyone I've ever met in my entire life, and she opens up to me only to say she doesn't really want to be with me, but is because of her feelings for me, am I wasting my time?

>>38920554
gains goblin anon, she's gonna take your soul man.

>>38920431
Fuck off anon, don't do this to me right now. I had gone all day without thinking of her. I better lift to forget these feels

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>>38920547
Yeah i feel that man, but it's not the same. Like I can talk to girls and not drop spaghetti but it's not the same.

>mfw talking to another girl about a movie and I subconsciously thought I heard uzbekistan because Russian qt is half Uzbekistan and I started talking about Uzbekistan for a bit.

Oh no.

>>38920554
Lmao she's a skank dude. You're such a wimp.

>>38920554
>>38920568
This.

What kind of a girl intentionally wants to be a hoe? Like bro, that's a red flag.

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>Invite her over
>She has to do homework
>Invite her over for the weekend
>She goes to another town with her dad that she rarely sees, thats fine enough
>I'm not getting her am I?

>>38920651
No one is every busy, Anon. They just have different priorities.

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>>38918883
>don't want to shower because you still smell like her

I know that feel, bro.

>>38920554

literally just got rekt by a chick like this... if you start seeing red flags get out before its too late

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>>38920568
>>38920633
>>38920637
Yeah I might be a wimp, but at least I took the dive, I'd rather live my life knowing I found out what was behind every door, instead of looking back when I'm 50 and saying "what if I wasn't a little bitch and went for it"
She went through a terrible relationship about a year ago and it took her a long time to recover, she told me she was looking for a way to distract herself and she wasn't going to get into drugs.

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>>38920662
Yeah, I get that.
I hate falling in love, it leaves me vounrable and shit.
Shes so beatiful, like legit amazing.

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>Tfw in a loving healthy relationship with a significant other

It's amazing , i actually smile often now

>>38920678
i love that all of these damaged posters immediately react with "DROP HER" when they hear that she's damaged.
while also being miserable, damaged fucking autists themselves.

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>>38920692
Normie GET OUT

>>38920717
It's the way they deal with the damage that is the red flag. You can be damaged and hit the gym hard or be damaged and be a hoebag and shoot up heroin.

See the difference?

>>38920678
So what, you two parted ways that evening leaving the conversation at that? You didn't, I don't know, tell her to figure it the fuck out. I mean I'm with you with taking chances and living your life but at some point it becomes ridiculous and you need to have some self-respect. If you haven't asked her to make up her mind, you really should soon.

>>38920734
Clearly difference, I see myself as damaged, I think.
I hit the gym, people mire me, I do good in school and work a lot. Make good money, so I can spend a lot.
I still fucking hate my life, I feel lonely as fuck.

I'm working on fixing though, I took my neighbours dog for a walk today. Was good fun !

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Tfw I met a girl who is super cute and skinny and we have been hanging out for the last month. She's really into yoga and jogging and I'm sure has the female version of spilling spaghetti. We both are awkward weirdos that somehow met each other. Last week we made out and we looked like dorks. She doesn't have many friends but is a solid 8, and I lost a bunch of weight and I'm tall.

>>38920717
whiny =/= damaged

>>38920782
I'm happy for you. Have fun.

>>38918883
Wait...did OP get cucked?

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>>38920777
Yeah man, I feel like most people are "damaged" in some way. But it's how people react to it that are the biggest signs to me. Man, no one goes through life without gettting a few scratches. If you did, youd never know what adversity is.

>>38920831
Exactly, its a part of living.

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>fall for qt some years ago
>she's in LTR already
>talks about her desire to marry, move on with my life, get into /fit/, unsperg myself
>stumbled on her fb recently
>relationship with another dude since three months

So much for tru lov, I'm actually getting optimistic.

>>38920554
Sounds like crazy pussy. Sounds like my ex, friendly advice would be to move on and forget a woman like that. But you"ll probably not listen and just do it anyway. Good luck.....

>>38920813
She's really sweet, she's 22 and sayshe she hasn't gone on a date since she was 15. It might be because she has 5 older brothers, I have no idea what in getting myself into

>>38918883
Tfw fucked my girl in rehab
Tfw new years evecuddling in the blanket that has her smells
Tfw boys call me next day saying she fucked someone on new years
Tfw
Tfw
Tfw those feels got to deep

>>38918883
>Tfw she wants you but she doesn't
>Tfw having to constantly think about her
>Tfw it's getting to you more than you would've ever thought
And this concludes our story, i'm afraid

>>38920952
coffin

>>38920431
I will fucking strangle you you fuck

>>38920554
You never ask what you are, you never mention a relationship, when not asked about it and you never say 'I love you' first. Just keep on dating and she will bring it up - or not. But at least you don't sabotage it actively.

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>>38920972
>tfw thought I would be impervious to girl-induced feel damage
>tfw jumped straight in the deep end
>tfw not invincible
>tfw "easy, I just DON'T text her. How hard can it be to NOT do something for a few days?"

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>/fit/ feels threads

>>38921103
>vidya
sure
>sports
meh
>tattoos
no
>jordans
no
>boyfriend
Some friends at all would be nice.

>tfw when she messages you out of the blue
>keeps it short, same recycled shit
>talks about her boyfriend (the same one she tried to land in jail for "rape", the same one she chose to break your heart for
>tfw you swallow the pitch blackness of hate and nothingness and push her away
>all while wanting the girl from the past
>the girl you fell in love with
>who was your first for everything
>who invades your dreams every night
>who used to be your ideal gf
>who you gave your 150% best for
>she's gone now, replaced by this utterly ugly, spiteful creature
>tears won't even accompany you

This is part of the reason why I lift

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>How hard can it be to NOT do something for a few days?"

>tfw I came inside gf today
She's been on birth control for 2.5-3 weeks now, am I fucked?

>>38921098
You and me both anon. Thought it wouldn't be too hard on me, but since this ship has taken off in another direction, even though she might still hear my calling, i feel how much i actually feel for her.

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>>38920554
ok anon i've been through this
hooked up with a girl and she had no feelings for me, we were fwbs at first, ended up being in a relationship for one year and three months
i broke up with her cause she started annoying me but that isn't important.
it took me a lot of time and energy to make her fall for me, i did a lot of shit i normally wouldn't cause at that moment i was crazy after her
at some point she admits she loves me but she isn't to crazy about it, i was just being myself and i'm a little clingy which turned her off
i stopped being clingy, i was suddenly cold, i was an asshole to her, being very dull and such.
at some point when i was walking her home she says : "i don't know what you are doing but you're driving me insane, i really want you"
at that moment it felt good but after that the relationship was too much for me, i got used being distant and she would piss me off if she wanted to me to be cuddly and shit
eventually she gets used to it and is still nuts after me, the only reason i was with her was sex.
in may i told her we are probably going to break up the following summer and we did.

anyway, if you want this girl to realize how much she wants to be with you, make her feel insecure about it, you can still have sex and shit like that but don't say anything about a relationship. this might take a lot of time and dedication, but if you really want it do it. you have to do it very smooth, not sudden, so she won't realise what's going on.
downside to this is, if you get used to being moody and unapproachable, she WILL start to piss you off like it did for me.

TL;DR: if she feels insecure about your so called "relationship", she will want a relationship so she doesn't lose you

personal experience, i've done this with a lot of girls, they got to get attached to you and then you're set.
or you can be a nice guy.

>>38919536
Hahaha the valley, are you /bris/?

>>38921185
>>38920554
>>38920443
Same happened to me, in the long run those kind of girls choose the way, which impedes their own feelings. Only thing to do is be there for her and even then it's not completely sure that she will actually choose you, even if she wants you. Good luck anon.

>>38921166
Yeah that's a bit too early. You should wait at least a month since she started taking it, and have her get her period first as well. Their periods feel different when on the pill so she could have some indicator it's taken effect.

>>38921218
Periods on the pill are fake periods so yeah, wait atleast a month before nutting

>>38920271
The old flip phones are able to text.

>>38920651
>In love
>Don't spend time

Sounds like lust or infatuation to me.

>>38920431
>tfw gay
>tfw m8 isn't a vapid cunt
>he doesn't leave

>>38921118
I know these feels, anon. She was never that girl and you deserve better. Were gonna make it, friend.

>tfw the feels are hitting me harder than expected
i did not sign up for this, after all of that

>>38921218
Shit, yeah I really don't know what I was thinking. Guess I'll find out in a few weeks.

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I don't understand girls

I had a thing for a few months with a girl earlier this year where we went on and off texting/snapping, went on a couple of dates, saw each other sporadically until a deep talk where she said she hadn't moved on from her last relationship which had broken off only the year before

sometimes she seemed really into me and at others I felt distance

we hadn't talked all summer after a negative event but she snapped me for a bit a few weeks ago and then texted me for my birthday recently

what is the point? Could she really be waiting for something?

I have lingering feels for her and it's confusing me badly

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>>38921363
MOVE ON FRIENDO

>>38918883
>maybe you should bring hot guys home
>maybe you're right but
Would have been like what the fuck
Girlfriend knows to avoid that topic with me, fuck her bringing up other guys in convo. She should have said "no, you're the perfect one for me"

>>38921377

You don't really have to tell me, I've pretty much accepted the circumstances months ago

getting mixed signals like this later on though

>>38920554
You should take ecstacy with her in a quiet environment and talk

>>38920058
You honestly have no idea how men deal with emotions.

You think you do, but you don't

>put up a facade during all social interactions
>girl is into the facade-version of you
>once she gets to know you she realizes she wish she didn't
>tfw this has happened 4 times and you see no end in sight

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>>38920431

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>>38921438

Once you start getting real with your feelings with girls it's like they gain empathy but lost respect for you

But my mom's stuck with my dad through all of his emotional turmoil over the years so it isn't all a lost cause

>>38921438
>decide to stop doing the whole facade
>now girls just aren't interested at all

If you don't pull without it, you're better off keeping up the facade

>>38920718
Get out r9kekkle

>>38921438
Haha, boy do I know that feel.
If it's any consolation, I generally despise women. Maybe you do as well?

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>>38921393
Alright nigger I'll spell it out for you based on what you've told me.

If she's distant then she's probably got lingering feelings for this guy / still sucking his cock on the side.

Unlike you this guy was probably assertive, brushed her off when they broke up and went onto other girls.
>(Pro tip, nothing gets a bitch more wet, frustrated and desperate than a guy that can drop them like a sack of bricks and move on to better things)

Ask her out. If she says no then drop all contact, never even think about her again, for your own good.

If she says yes then be direct about what you want. Show some fucking spine. Bitches like to be led.

Godspeed.

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>>38921116
>Some friends at all would be nice.

>>38920958
With a ROFLKEK tho
And im pullin out slo
When we fall up to the party they say everything goes
Check my rolex, it say im the man of the hour
Mad gains in my pocket you can call it pussy puller
>giving this much of a fuck
>fuark m8

>>38921460
It's not feelings, I've always been pretty emotionally distant, they just eventually realize I'm actually incredibly unsocial and boring. Like my entire personality is wisecracking and weightlifting, it must get old quick.

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>>38921486

Ok, there's more to the story. She had only broken up a month or two from a 3 year relationship (and the dude is quite mediocre, I can comfortably say I'm more attractive) and I didn't know that before I got her number and started chatting her up.

She'd seemed really interested the first time we met but then tried to avoid meeting up for a date, finally saying that she wasn't ready to do anything like that after a couple of weeks of talking.

Now other shit happened and I slept at her place over the next month or so then she finally agreed to a date and it was off and on after that. That's what's so weird, she seemed to have really liked me at some points and I mean how many dudes could basically get a girl into agreeing to a date after obviously not wanting to do one so soon after breaking up from a long term. So she must have liked me enough.

Not a hoe type either, not completely shy but fairly reserved. I acted like an ass one really drunk night and things fizzled out over the summer but now she pops back up on the radar? Nothing persistent but as I said I have no idea what the hell is going through her head because it's not following my logic.

>tfw the only girls you want are the ones that dont want you, only because of that fact.

>>38918883
>gets some action once after a 1 year dry spell
>falls in love
You're just lonely breh

>tfw too inept to tell if the qt in class likes me
>tfw gonna die a khv

>>38921516
Why are you getting so hung up on a girl

w h y

>tfw neet for 9 years
>only time i go outside is to buy food
>never meet women or anyone

>Tfw you're cuddling with her and she says she can't sleep
>Tfw you say "Maybe you shouldn't bring hot guys home"
>Tfw she says "Maybe you're right but I made a good choice."
>Tfw you then say meditatively "If I was exactly the same except I had aggressive male pattern baldness, you probably wouldn't like me
>Tfw she is quiet for a moment then says "..I guess?"
>Tfw morning after and you don't want to shower because you still smell like her

>>38921537

idk, it's my personality type. Always been this way. I manage it better these days.

It's not for lack of options, I just err towards oneitis

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>>38920431
who perfumes their hair?

>>38921516
>3 year relationship
>broken up for 3 months
Bro it's obvious she's still hurt. 3 years meant it wasn't just some fake love. It takes a while to get over someone

>>38921564

I wouldn't know, my only relationship outside of hook ups was casual and for 5 months, maybe that's why none of this makes sense to me

can anyone tell me how long it took them to get over a partner of 2+ years

pt1/2
Right /fit/ im gonna lay out some info for you because this shit is driving me crazy at the moment. Do you think my gf is cheating? Im pretty sure all of your answers are gonna be yes but whatever
>i fucked her on the first night i met her
>went on date with her after that fucked her again
>on that date she tells me she was dateraped or some shit about 6 months ago, im skpetical she actually was partly because of 4chan stories and partly because shes telling me this on 1st date while drunk
>she seemed crazy in love with me after 1st date, tried to see me 3/4 times per week while i acted rather cold
>i warm up to her more and we hang out more
>she facetimes me every day, sometimes twice a day, always texts me to tell me how much she loves me and shit for the first three months or so of being with her
>tags me in all the stupid facebook shit like 10 times per day
>she loves spending time with me and doing stuff with me
>come to about a week ago
>she has a lot of guy friends from her school
>she suddenly starts being constantly moody and snappy with me
>constantly tries to put me down for no reason

>>38921608
2/2
>i plan a trip out with her and book a day off work/buy tickets to the thing were going to on the day
>she says she doesnt want to go anymore even though its a month away and theres no reason not to
>goes out to clubs 2 nights a week with her friends and hangs out with her guy friends in the weekdays once or twice (i work in the week)
>still facetimes/texts me everyday saying she loves me but is still a moody bitch in person
>i confront about it and she says its because of muh rape etc etc
>come to a couple of days ago
>she stops facetimeing, still texts me but doesnt tell me she loves me or anything, just puts "hello, hope you have a nice day xxx"
>stops tagging me in facebook shit
>she is going on holiday with family this weekend
>texts me today saying that she cant facetime me while shes on holiday because it would be rude to the extended family shes with or whatever
>one of her beta male friends keeps tagging her in facebook shit with her replying stuff like "we're so alike :'D"
>he replies " i know" with the kissing emoji
I know a lot of you are gonna say stuff like shes damaged goods etc, and I understand theres a hooneymoon period but i also know it doesnt just end that abruptly. I also know theres a tonne of red flags there. I feel like cold dumping her right now but a part of me just makes me think its my insecurity taking over and exaggarating small things to fit my narrative. Fuck /fit/ pls help me.

>>38921625
These red flags are unbelievable

Sounds completely unstable, not gf material

She's probably cheated, and if she hasn't, she will

Dump her, and use your fuckin head next time

>>38921656
thank you my man

>We go out on dates a couple of times
>Out of the blue she says she's starting to like me and she asks me how i feel about her
>I say I want to date her
>"I dont want a relationship Anon"
>???
Genuinely confused /fit/ why did she say she likes me and get my hopes up

>>38920431
FUCK YOU

>>38921666
No worries m8, just write things down and they become so much clearer outside your own head

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>>38921625

>>38921625
ayy mate, understandable you eneded up in the situation, but it's looking fucked. anon already said it, unstable, not gf material...etc eject button breh

>>38921608
>>38921625

She seems like a terrible person desu.

>>38921667
she was testing you

girls want you to be mysterious and distant. correct thing to do is just joke it off or say "it doesnt matter what we call it or what it is, i just enjoy hanging out with you".

Women want to a man who isnt easily attaniable. You just saying you're instantly ready to date her is just showing her you have zero other options.

>>38920076
There is no need to be upset, friend :^)

>>38921516
are you me? literally the same thing happened to me. she went back to that guy though, even though she clearly stated that she has feelings for me.

>>38921556
I can't relate

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>talked with a girl in my classes
>one day hanged out after class and one of her friends says " oh this is the guy youve been talking about"
is that the green light to ask her out? she also said she assumed i was gonna be the type of guy who curls up into a ball in class, and was pleasantly surprised i didnt
former autist here trying to actually live
pls /fit/ youre my only hope

>>38921839
>" oh this is the guy youve been talking about"
yes mate ask her for coffee you literal autist

>>38921185
This guy knows his shit

>>38919536
>>38921203
Not him, but another /bris/ here.

>>38921878
still doesn't work 100%, sometimes they go off seeking out an immediate relationship with someone closer by just for the sake of it

>>38921118
Be glad she didn't accuse YOU of rape. Dodged a major crazy bullet there.

>>38921875
but i dont drink coffee
other options?

>>38919536
Sounds like a catfish.

>>38921969
>"I wanna take you out for coffee"
>meet at coffee place
>order tea
>???
>profit

>>38922016
That would make him a liar.

>>38921521
Wait, are you saying they don't like you because you like them (they see you as needy) or are you saying you like them because they don't like you (they are hard to get)?

>>38920431
STOOOOP NOOO

>>38922016
will do

>tfw you know that she knows that she likes you but won't choose you because of reasons unknown
'tis the worst of 'em all

>>38921605
4 months for me, but it's different for everyone and it depends who broke it up and why

>>38922111
>>38921605
2.5 year relationship ended with her breaking up with me, i honestly needed nearly 2 years to fully get over it, but that's me, not you, people are different in this kind of situation

>tfw gf told me she loves me for the first time last week
felt good!

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>Tfw have a 4 year gf
>Tfw don't know if I'm in love anymore
>Tfw studying abroad and living with this qt german/french mix girl
>Tfw she won't knock on my door tonight
>Tfw she probably is not even interested
>Tfw don't know if I even like her or I just want someone to like me for validation
>Tfw my life is pretty good but I get deppressed for this kind of shit

I didn't ask for this. Should stop thinking about girls and lift harder

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>>38918883
>tfw you get within close proximity of a girl and you remember how good they smell

>>38921555

Underated

>>38922205
Get a side chick like every other successful man in the world

>>38921969
>wanna do something sometime?
>maybe, like what?
>like I paint you green and spank you like a disobedient avocado
>?????
>sex

go for it lad

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>>38921555

>>38921608
>>38921625

To say she's cheating would be a big assumption. I would say it's likely she'll break up with you soon however.

>>38922177
I was the one doing the breaking up, so in a way I guess the period before doing it could count as getting over. Still, it took 4 months to feel proper again. However, I know through friends my ex is still in love with me and it's been 8 months. She has a betacuck boyfriend she uses for emotional support and to mask the feelings she has for me

>>38922205

You almost certainly don't really like her (room-mate I mean)

>>38918883
>tfw I haven't left my room all day.
>tfw probly still won't until monday
>tfw I was actually invited by a qt to a party within walking distance from my place
>there's going to be plenty of willing undergrad sloots
>tfw I prefer to stay in and play Dark Souls 3 all day and night

wew
e
w

>>38922294
>>tfw I prefer to stay in and play Dark Souls 3 all day and night
nice breh, str build i hope?
>inb4 dyel dex build

>>38921116
Nice blog

>>38922294

Mad respect, I did the same tonight for Bloodborne.
>tfw almost finished the chalice dungeons

>>38922311
SL 28 Pyro twink atm.
Getting ready to rape newbs when DLC hits.

>>38922330
yeah m8

>>38918883
Am I the only one that read this like a cuck? I thought he meant she was bringing other guys home and he was still beta snuggling up to her and basking in her scent.

>>38918883
>It's not you it's me
>She actually means you
Ugh, just be honest kiddo

Holy fuck you people are pathetic

>>38922370
why else are we here,on 4chan anon

>>38922349
>Am I the only one that read this like a cuck? I thought he meant she was bringing other guys home and he was still beta snuggling up to her and basking in her scent.
lol, you're corrupted

>>38922370
t. a guy who browses an indo-samoan tapestry weaving post office

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>>38920554

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>>38922370

>>38921392
>reading ability
It's must be weird having a higher number of chromosomes than IQ mustn't it?

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>>38922256
>>38921656
>>38921687
>>38921695
>>38921703
>>38921710
Just found this on her 'friends' insta

Im shaking with rage right now. I broke up with her. shes still denying it.

>>38922512

Ouch. It doesn't necessarily suggest cheating, but realistically your relationship is over regardless.

For the sake of your own mental health, assume she didn't cheat, consider your breakup to be the only way to end this and move on with your life. Stable well adjusted girls do exist, and if you want stable well adjusted relationships in the future you have to be able to look at something like this and learn rather than become resentful and hateful

>>38922512
Good, she is damaged goods. You can't repair her, only a lot of therapy can. She probably wasn't worth it anyway. You'll find someone else.

Why were you being cold though, I question that. Be yourself, don't conform to some elitist method of dating.

>>38922267
Yeah, she's not even interesting, but living with a qt is hard when you miss sex. Just want a bank account to get a gym membership here and lift the feels away

>>38922512
You did the best thing. You are way more than she deserved anyways

>>38922512
You got attached to a slut with major red flags.

You're emotional now, go lift and get it out of your system.

Learn from this: recognise the fact that you misjudged the situation, and do a better job next time

>>38922585
>therapy
>Why were you being cold
>Be yourself
>elitist method of dating

Fuck off roastie

>>38920443
>she has great genetics
>5'5

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>>38921608
>>38921625
>>38922512
Dump her right now and be smarter next time

>fucked the first night you met
>overly attached
>lots of guy friends
>rape claims

Jesus dude, use your head

>>38922512

Good man. Have a beer and chill.

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>>38922578
>>38922585
>>38922616
>>38922638
>>38922652
>>38922703
>>38922720


thanks /fit/ bros you are making me feel slightly better. I know the signs were there and i was stupid to ignore them. I feel sick to my stomach.

To answer the question, i was cold because i wasnt really clicking with her to begin with, she had some nice personality traits but they just seemed to evaporate within the last week or so.

>>38918883
Just wait till she leaves you. Just got broken up with yesterday. Last week I felt the same way you did...

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>>38922776
we all know the feel...you'll get past it

>>38922776

Relationships and women aren't the be all and end all pal. Don't beat yourself up too much about it. Focus on yourself and your own interests, try new things and keep to your own stuff, relationships should be supplemental to that, not the main facet of your life.

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>>38920431

>> Wonder who's going to smell the perfum of her hair on a sunny sunday morning

>>38921345
I'd say you're fine, every doctor I've been to has told me waiting 7 days is fine, and I've never had a problem. Your girlfriend would have to be extremely unlucky/fertile

>>38921290
Yeah I know. I asked for her email in class for pictures of the textbook. I didnt ask for her number in person then.

>>38922970

Are you a girl?

L O N D O N

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Anyone else get suicidal thoughts without being sucidal?
Like i might be be happILy making dinner then go to wash my hands and when I look in the mirror my brain says "hey what if you blow your own brains out?!"
I get a lot of intrusive thoughts like that over the course of a day

>>38922253
>disobedient avacoda
gets me everytime

>>38920717
Because men don't cope by being sluts and then turning around and telling your SO that you would rather be a slut than feel good with them

>>38919536
would have* been happy

>>38923087
Yeah m8, they're usually followed by "lol, shut up faggot" thoughts

>>38923087

maybe you are suicidal m3

not that is something uncommon around here

>>38923087
seek professional help please

>>38921203
>>38921889
/bris/ bros, unite.

>>38920431
fuck you

>>38920952
sounds like a bae level girl. Have fun and dont think too much about it and you'll be fine my nagger

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>>38921116
>Some friends at all would be nice.

>>38923143
Yeah, true. I dont actually know what suicidal is. Maybe its exactly what I feel and I just think suicidal is something entirely different.
I dont think I feel happiness anymore, and the only reason I think that is I experienced one fantastic weekend a few months ago where I came away with a spring in my step and a grin on my face and soon thought, "hold on, is this how people are supposed to feel all the time?".

>>38923148
I think I will. I have to go see the doctor about a skin condition I seem to have, so Id like to talk to her about mental health too. My problem is I have trouble putting my feelings in to words, especially on days i dont have bad feelings.

>>38923160
hello boys

>>38923087
Lol, yes.
>Anon, you could jump in front of that bus.
>Anon, you could touch that high voltage.
>Anon, you could jump headfirst from here.
>Anon, you could eat like, all the pills.
>Anon, I bet you could tie yourself into a tree and basically crucify yourself.
>Gosh anon, look at all the flammable materials you have access to. Not to mention the other harmful chemicals.

I haven't had a friend in 8, almost 9 years. There was a point in high school where I came to peace with working a 9-5 type job and watching youtube alone for the rest of my life. When shit didn't change in college I really thought that was it. Losing my extra 50 and gaining muscle seems to make people mildly more receptive to my shit but I just don't know how to be with people. I think I might actually be broken.

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>>38920431
I didn't ask for this.

I really didn't

>>38922512
Guy looks pretty Chaddy, just let her ruin her and you'll win in the long run

>>38921547
Hang in there buddy

>>38920431
I wanna die

>>38923220
>I just don't know how to be with people. I think I might actually be broken.

I somewhat know how you feel. Though I do have a large group of friends, but sometimes I have to force myself to go see them, even when theyre calling out for me to join them (many times ive sat in the car outside the pub theyre in fretting about what will happen if I walk through that door, thinking stupid shit I cant even put in to words). But i dont feel like them, and I look at them interact with each other as I have done over the years, and I still dont understand how it works. I consistently feel like im an outsider.
As much as I want a gf and would love a relationship, I dont think theres a hope in hell I know how one works well enough to make a good stab at it. Im 32 now, I think im single about 11 years. Broken is definitely the way I feel.

>>38921185

I was going to elaborate about it, but this guy gets it. You don't really want to be with that kind of girl,

>>38923305
I started on this because /soc/ rated me an ugly fat 4/10, worst on the thread, which fit in well with the no friend/gf thing. i don't know what they'd rate me now but even if it was a 7 or better, it wouldn't change anything. Mires are meaningless now, even though they're increasing in frequency, because I still have no social life anyways.

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>>38920431
shut your fucking mouth

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>tfw i was at my computer and she would kneel next to me and make cute kitten noises to make me smile

>tfw she would hug me while we went to sleep and said she would always love me

>tfw i believed her

>>38923733
>make cute kitten noises

Is your gf in this video?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvozYm3S-kw

>>38922349
OP here...

How in the world did you read it like that?

Nah, my man, she was feeling me and is still glad it was me. And I'm still glad the first thing I did after coming back from her place was jump under the covers, because a shower later and I can still smell a faint hint of her perfume and smell in my comforter.

Feels man. I see why people say relationships can make one soft. It only actually opens one's heart to new states of emotional vulnerability. It's the individual's choice to transform into a wimp or a stronger, more emotionally mature human being.

>>38923784
Her kitten noises weren't nearly that annoying.

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>>38923784

>>38923784
Fuck dude thanks for posting that. I'm the >>38923390 guy. I'll find my way someday and at least I can come out of this /fit/ journey with some semblence of pride, unlike that shit. That could've been me if I had went to /a/ instead of /fit/, fuck.

>>38919662
Buahahahahaha as if. If anything the people letting their emotions get to them are the ones that don't know how to cope

>>38923784
I recognise that fucking thumbnail, there's no way I'm clicking that shit again.

>>38923935
We're all gonna make it brah.

>>38918883
>new girl at work
>Click on basically everything, finishing each other's sentences kinda deal
>Ask her to a movie, she says yes
>Have a lot of fun, goes perfectly
>Wants to hang out again
>No fucking idea what to do

Help /fit/ what's a good second date

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>>38920431
Anon why u do dis??

>>38922512
Anon. Don't let this dumb bitch get to you. You've survived for years through shit that could kill you. You were the one, out of millions of sperm, that got to fertilize an egg. Your entire life, you've rolled the dice, with infinitely small odds, and you've managed to come out on top. You are more than some dumb, vapid whore, and don't let anyone bring you down otherwise. Hang in there, brother.

>>38924254
Idk where ya live, but if the weather's okay either frisbee golf or rollerblading/skateboarding

>>38918883
Faggot

Shes sucking off chad when ur not around

>>38924317
There's a mini golf nearby, is this okay?

Fuck I'm too worried about this shit desu she literally said "I'm down for anything, I always have fun around you"

Fuck being an introvert sometimes man I never go anywhere

>>38919536
man mad max is shit. At least the new one. You better of chasing pussy. Actually both stories look almost same so you didn't miss much. Anyway don't chase them. The truth is girls are choosing man. They givr you oppurtunity. You either take it or not its up to you. The only thing we can do is make ourselfes better so more girls give us oppurtunity, but if girl don't want you, then that is a lost case. You can't win her with getting better or shit romantic gestures. Just move on.

>love my gf and she loves me, but we've only been together 3 months
>people tell me we act like a married couple kek
>we hang out all the time, have never had a fight, very good relationship
>I'm always irrationally thinking she's gonna cheat on me, and I can't get it out of my head some days
>constantly thinking about what I'd say to break up with her if it happened, etc
It's because she doesn't have very many female friends, and a lot of guys like her, but I can't imagine her cheating. It still nags at me all the time though

>>38924347
Mini golf should be fine. Play some mini golf, get some cheap food (not fast food ie McDonald's/Jack in the Box, but something like Pizza My Heart/Chipotle/cafe) afterwords, so you have time to sit down and talk to the girl, since the movies aren't exactly a real social time.

>>38924349
That's not true man. You get better in life and you can choose women. Then you make oppertunities yourself, when you've got control of yourself.

>>38924386
I know the feeling. If you give her good dick and nice cuddles when you're together, she'll probably stay with you.

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>see ex add some dude on facebook
>look at dudes pictures
>my mind plays out scenarios of how she meets him
>consumed by thoughts of her in bed with him, orgasms, squirting, uncontrollable pleasure
>rinse repeat for every FB add

is there a worse feeling than thinking, NO - knowing she is being satisfied more than you ever could provide?

how do you cuck lovers do it?

>>38924438
Block your ex man. Been there, done that. It's a shitty path to go down.

>>38924402
No. I know what I'm saying. I moved to another country, I finished school there, I make shitload of money, I go to gym everyday, I made shitloads of friends and when I walk to my club everyone knows me and they know what I drink they high five me and shit. And yet the one girls I know doesn't give a shit. She treats me like shit. I noticed that when I was shit and poor no girl would be interested in me. Now when I go to dancefloor immedietly I am literally surrounded by girls. Yet still if i choose one that doesn't even look at me I have no chance. Girls are weird. If on first look she won't like you at all, you stand no chance, no matter what you do or how hard you try.

>>38923087
>watching stranger things
>cute girl making out with her boyfriend and I realize I'll never have that again
>think "I should go load the shotgun now"

Then it goes away

>>38924254
ask her how she feels about avocados

>>38919675
Wasn't this faggot killed by friendly fire

>>38920187
Here's the thing... anything this board labels as "high test" is going to turn fucking disgusting as they waddle through their 20s. It's fine and can even be cute when they're teens, but that same lifestyle is going to make them gross later.

This chick just gave you a super obvious reaction that says danger.

1) She blames her weight on work food or events or whatever. Anybody who's serious about it can resist the temptation or plan accordingly.
2) Stops talking to you because of a helpful comment.

You didn't fuck anything up. We call that fukken saved, bruh.

>>38919675
Your daily reminder that pat timlin was assasinated by the cia

>tfw sitting at comp listening to Hotline Bling on repeat

kek. This is the kind of mood I'm in, but I can't help but laugh at the situation.

I haven't had sex in a year and almost four months, which is when my fist (and only) gf dumped me. I haven't tried to pursue anyone, as I feel like it's best to not make the first move. With my first gf, she initiated all communication. I feel like otherwise nothing comes of it. idk. I remember getting girls numbers and texting them, only to have the conversation go nowhere, falling back to dull small talk. The only problem is I haven't had anyone genuinely interested since she dumped me. meh

>inb4 thread is pruned or deleted

>>38919536
that's why you just let her come to your house when she wants

>tfw in love
>no pic to describe

>>38920610
Race traitor

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>feel like relationship is not going well
>instead of talking about our problems I conduct a pre-emptive strike and ghost her

>>38919900

...babe.

cmon

but srsly

T
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T
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>>38924723
I get that so much too
I have to be the one that initiates everything in the conversation and after a day or two all I get are one word responses.
I am trying so hard not to red pill myself but this shit just seems so one sided.

>>38924723
>only to have the conversation go nowhere, falling back to dull small talk

Talking to girls over the phone is a dumb fucking move. Use your phone only to set up things, don't have entire conversations on it.

>>38919536
Girls blame their "unexplainable" behavior on their gender fucking retards lamo, she just cucked you breh, when they call out their own behavior labelling "chick stuff/issues" that means she ain´t into you.

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>>38920431
WHY DO I EVEN BOTHER COMING TO THIS SHITFEST OF A BOARD I DIDNT COME FOR FEELS REEEEEEE

>tfw still waiting for her to reply

>>38924386
>I'm always irrationally thinking she's gonna cheat on me, and I can't get it out of my head some days
Man I got this too, and with the sweetest innocent Christain girl. I can't say anything with certainty as idk this girl but there's a good chance it's all in your head

> tfw she tells you not to pull out.
> tfw you cum on her and her friends ass
> tfw when your having a hard time cumming, so she shoves you down her throat and makes her tongue do the wave.
> tfw you make sex tapes and sell them online, making enough to pay for college.
> tfw she looks up the best asian massage girls, and send you out for handjobs.
> tfw she sucks your dick, as you watch porn.
> tfw she follows you to bed and cuddles you to sleep, even if your not tired.

I love my girl.

>>38924254
Make her pick. "I picked the first one, you pick this time" fuckin ez

>>38920182
Do you have a glass/messed up eye? If so I know you.

>>38925177

Can confirm, this works. If not, just choose something you want to do, if you guys really do get along well, it won't fucking matter what it is.

>>38920279
Lol bro u srs? Any non-autist would have had her on guaranteed fuck in three turns of conversation or less

>>38925425
No

>>38925443
" if you guys really do get along well, it won't fucking matter what it is."
Yep

Girls are not rocket science. You already like each other, the hard part is done.

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>>38920076
Kek

>>38924349
>he didn't like Fury Road
>he doesn't want to be a Warboy

Lemme guess: you can't stand an action flick having a female lead?

>>38920431
>no man has ever felt this way about me.
Wtf?

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>not even 2 hours ago
>walking to the gym in dark
>white grand cherokee pulls up at a stop sign next to me
>qt rolls down the window and asks if I need a ride
>natural instinct kicks in
>"I'm good, thanks though."

>>38922512
Good choice. If you had the will to go through with it don't go back on it now.

She looks pretty so you're probably able to do well enough anyways. Making some rape victim a gf is asking for trouble, especially if she's a dumb cunt that clubs a lot. Fuck, if she actually WAS raped she'd probably have genuine trauma and not want to be in a club environment.

But nop. Probably a shallow cunt looking for validation by the closest warm body she can tease.

>tfw smash a girl
>tfw you get mad at guys that like her pics now
>tfw get mad if she hangs with other guys
>tfw rage if she hooks up with someone else
>tfw act like shes your gf now
>tfw you scare her away
>tfw she blocks you on everything

back to fapping i guess

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>>38925855
>tfw clingy
same here fampie, every girl who shows even a ounce of interest in me i immediately get super clingy and weird so they run away.

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>>38920692
>I smile often now
Implying that when you didnt have a significant other you didnt smile?
Jesus christ you're a beta if iv ever seen one. You shouldn't look for happiness in others, especially woman.

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>>38918883
>19
>hear about how slutty women are and how much sex normos are having
>im having none
>lose interest in women due to my bitterness
>have a hard time even fapping
their time will never be up, it will never be my time

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>>38925920
>18
>hear about how slutty women and chadius thundercock are having so much sex
>im having none
>grow to hate women in my bitterness
>have a hard time fapping
right there with you

>>38925904
Fuck I know this feel so hard. And it's always either I dial back the cling and end up becoming just friends, or show too much cling and push them away (which desu, i prefer over being friends)

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>>38924826

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>>38925855
>>38925904
I recently ruined an opportunity by doing exactly this.

I don't really even care about sex, I just don't want to be lonely anymore.

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>>38925956
>growing up friends would always ask me to hangout, but i just ignored them and played vidya
>every day i became more alone, stayed inside for a good 4 years playing vidya and lifting. have 0 social skills at all.
>being around other guys makes me nervous
>being around girls makes me clingy
>i realized my clingyness and dialed it back, then girls complain in "too distant and cold". it all just feels like im right where i started, ignoring people but secretley wanting to be loved
/blog

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>>38925920
>>38925940
>break up with gf for a number of excellent reasons
>get on okcupid, start looking for a girl with decent breasts
>flat chicks message me, ignore them
>message big titty chicks, they ignore me
>ex moves to another state
congratulations, I just played myself

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>>38925986
To add to this, it really does feel like I've missed out on the best part of my life. i'll never get to experience young love or fucking around with friends. its all just passed me by.

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>>38925986
>>38925920
>join a fraternity
>nothing changes

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>>38926017
>I've missed out on the best part of my life. i'll never get to experience young love or fucking around with friends. its all just passed me by.

>tfw midlife crisis at 21

I am crying real tears right now

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>>38926031
>no interest in collage
>have no idea what i want to do with my life
>have a job interview for a seasonal job next thursday and worried i'll fuck it up and disappoint my family even more
i want off this ride.

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>>38926033
Cheer up bud! you still have a great 9-5 job to look forward to!

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>tfw not fat nor butterfaced yet no man has ever been in love with me

k den.

>>38926052
fuck off

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>>38926063
Anon don't be like that! You still have 40 years of working 9-5 minimum every single day, don't be so moody!
So what if Chad has a gf and friends, at least you have a nice comfy job!

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>>38926088
please stop anon

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>>38926088
wew

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>every time I read a feels thread I'm reminded of my own
>sometimes I post about it
>but at this point its even sadder that I haven't gotten over it
>meaningful interactions are so far and few that something that happened years ago will stick because nothing has happened since then
A part of me doesn't even want to move on, hanging to the sadness at least makes me remember experienced I've had, and occasionally good memories will come flooding in with them

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>>38926108
>meaningful interactions are so far and few that something happened years ago will stick because nothing has happened since then
I still think about the subway girl who complimented my shirt, that was 2 years ago.
fuck.

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>>38926103
>>38926098
Cmon get excited! You have a great opprotunity to work for Mr.Shekestien for 40 years, getting the glorious opportunity to do the same thing over and over each and every day!

Meanwhile dumb ole' Chad wastes his time fucking his GF, going out with his friends, or going to his daughters dance recital while you get blessed with overtime $$$ and knowledge from 4chan

dumb Chad, glad im not THAT schmuck; idiot spent his Highschool and College years with women and friends while we got to play some of the best video games and study

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>>38926140
i cant take this anymore

>>38925956
I know this too. Any work around?

>>38926140
I was chad. Gf and friends left now im a neet. What the fuck happened

>>38926173
You got blessed with the opportunity to work for Mr.Shekelstien for 40 years

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>>38920431
>tfw completely desensitized to this bullshit now

FEELS GOOD MAN

>>38923139
>"lol shut up faggot"
ahahaha, hello brother

>>38923203
If you have trouble in the moment, write it down before you go. When there's something important that's usually what I'll do to collect my thoughts, and worst base of you sperging out you can just hand over what you wrote.
I've been sucidally depressed for about 10 years. The worst part can be realizing what it feels like to be actually happy, and to know you probably won't ever have that. So you get to decide whether to let it control you, or use it as fuel.

When things don't make you "feel" happy, when you consider ending your existence, yet still can rationalize a reason to live, you gain a great deal of power. I've been able to channel this thing that tries to force me into a soulless zombie, and am basically able to work for 80-90 hours a week without losing momentum.
It's partially escapism, but it's like I'm turning into a Vulcan or something: I'm just coldly observing my despair. Using the fact that people and things won't make me feel anything, that at best I'll have a moment of joy before being torn apart by the expanse that separates how I feel from the norm, I decided that I could either try to help people or kill myself.
If I can ease the pain for anyone, then I can take a little more.

This got rambley, but basically I suggest finding something that interests you and try to separate who you are from how you feel. Best of luck anon.

>>38920554
She clearly has some emotional issues on the matter, maybe some trauma.
On another faggy emotional occasion tell her you care about her like you never did anyone and she made you so happy abd you wanna help her, and try to understqnd why she "wants" that. A normal person doesnt just decide to preclude themselves from love

>>38920678
>She went through a terrible relationship about a year ago and it took her a long time to recover
Ding ding ding

Listen dude, people here will just say drop her because they're either damaged, virgins or shitposters.
I say you try and workit out with her.
She went through some tough times and has now trouble putting herself in a vulnerable positio n again.
Show her how much she means to you and maybe she will be able to feel safw with you

>>38918883
I finally got to have sex with my oneitis last night after 6 years.

Feels good bros.

>>38919662
Says the guy promoting a hugbox. Nut up or shut up.

>>38920279
He shoulda said

"MMM MMMM MMMMMM, DAYUM GURL YOU LOOKIN' FINE ALREADY. U DON'T NEED TO LOSE ANY WEIGHT BABY, YOU HOT AS FUCK AS YOU ARE. HOW BOUT I TAKE YO' FINE ASS OUT TONIGHT GURL. MMMM MMMMMMM, DAYUM"

>>38920554
You're only gonna get hurt Anon.

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>>38920431

> Been over a year since I last saw her.
> Best few months of my life.

y?

>>38927077
You'll be ok Anon. Theres another out there some place, you just gotta get /fit/ so you got the sex appeal.

You can do this.

>>38927096
Im not him but why bother?
I mean there are so many wonderful things to do out there in the world, so many achievements you can fulfill
You want to waste it all to chase some girl who most likely will treat you like trash and then dump you?

If it happens it happens but why spend energy worrying about this, out of all things?

>>38927096

I've been lifting 3 years. She was damaged goods and I missed the red flags.

> tfw 6 women are talking to me.
> tfw no motivation to talk to them
> tfw they keep bugging me "Hey, you there?", "Hey, how are you?" etc.

My perception of women is skewed really badly.

>>38923784
Kill me

>>38927110
If it's what he wants it's what he wants I guess. I was just telling him that because it's true, we all have different goals in life Anon just because they don't meet your standard doesn't mean they're any less important.


But I agree with you. I've been single for 3 years and it's great, I've reached lots of my goals and I've matured. I'm busy constantly and I'm really enjoying life the freedom it brings. Theres more to life than pussy and I totally agree with you. I've had a bit of sex over the last 3 years but to be honest I even got tired of that, I asked myself what the point of the hassle was. All the hard work to get laid and then once it's done you're just left with a problem.

That being said, i fucked my oneitis that I've been after for 6 years last night and it was great, but I'm a different guy now and I don't really want her like I used to, I just want to focus on boxing and achieve shit.

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>tfw i've absorbed too much secondhand /r9k/ women hatred
>tfw it's blended with firsthand experiences and the loneliness of the past 3 years
>tfw too far gone to deal in romantic love
>tfw too disgusted to want to pump and dump sluts
This isn't what I meant by wanting to leave humanity behind

>>38927122
Then take some time off the bitches my Brother.

Half the world has a pussy and they all do the same job, theres more to life than just busting nuts and watching TV. Do the things you always wanted to do, don't focus on chasing happiness when you're young because you're wasting all these years for potential disappointments. Focus on yourself and when it happens it happens. I wasted so much time chasing happiness when all I needed to do was stop chasing and realize I'm good with the shit i already got. Now I'm focused and more motivated than ever because I don't have anything holding me back, I travel and do all sorts of cool shit whenever I want. Maybe I'll find her and maybe I won't, it's cool.

>>38927144
>All the hard work to get laid and then once it's done you're just left with a problem.
Exactly
You work hard to make life harder for yourself, it doesnt make sense.
I work and strive to make life easier for myself so i can evolve and tackle new things, not struggle with the same old crap

>i fucked my oneitis that I've been after for 6 years last night and it was great
I managed to do that aswell but for me it was an underwhelming experience
Could be because i wanted to see her more than just a few times to fuck but i dont know

I personally think every man needs to hit that brick wall when he gets his heart broken by girls so he can move on and discover new things in life

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>>38927167

It shows that men are much better than women, some random guy on /fit/ knows what it's all about.

I did chase pussy through 2014 and it was a successful endeavour but I always felt empty. I'm going snowboarding in the next few weeks as it's something iv'e always wanted to do. Just booked it to force myself in a position to actually live life.

>>38927196
Preach it Brother.

>>38927156

Take some time away from 4chan, this place is great for picking up useful information. Problem is when the meme's start taking hold.

>>38925509
You're making the film sound gayer than it actually was, faggot.

And yeah, it would have been better with less women shit in it.

>>38921564
>It takes a while to get over someone

Tell that to bitches that run away with Chad after 10+y relationship

>>38924254
Bowling?
Some gay shit annon.

>>38925679
In all fairness senpai, sounds like you dodged being drugged and waking up in a bathtub of ice with one of your kidneys missing

>>38925636
Most likely some ugly / mediocre guys have felt that way about you but you were preoccupied with thoughts about Chad.

And it goes both ways. One time this ugly chick I had never noticed beyond thinking "I'm 99% certain she has a full mustache that she waxes" got drunk and spilled spaghetti about how I have no idea how [some favorable adjective] I am. I literally hadn't had a full conversation with this girl, I was shocked. Didn't want to hurt her but also didn't want to give her any false hope. Really awkward situation. I heard she later puked a lot, I hope for her sake she forgot it ever happened.

Any way, if not for that situation I never would have gotten the idea that she was into me even a little bit. Now imagine how many guys could at one point have had feelings for you.

>>38927536
I can second this

You autists say you can't get a gf and you're forever alone, but you could get a gf if you lowered your standards.

Not that I'm advising that, just pointing it out. We all want a qt deep down. I recently lowered my standards and fucked my friend because it had been 9 months and I just fancied a fuck. I regretted it instantly afterwards, I made it clear it was just sex but shes already getting clingy. I'm not attracted to her both physically and mentally, shes good for a laugh but shes too emotionally weak for me.

why is this thread still up?
not being mad
but as you can see, threads like this actually help anons from /fit/

>>38921608
>>38921625
are you like 17 or something? Tagging on FB? wew

yeah, forget her.

>>38923139
"Don't be a fag"

Amen