>tfw one day you're happy as fuck, making great gains, new job and the next some slut you fucked tells you she's having your baby
what the fuck do I do /fit/
>>38915852
this is why i dont have sex ever
push for abortion
>>38915885
Yea, "push" as in push her down the stairs, easier than abortion and faster
>>38915852
Use a condom you fucking moron.
>>38915852
Man up and be a Father.
It's all great apart from changing shitty nappies. My son was an accident but hes 9 now and I'm glad I fucked my life up by having him.
Has it held me back? Yes. Would I change anything? No. Having a son and being a part time Dad is based. I spent so much time chasing bitches and happiness when in reality it was right there in front of me in the form of a boy who loves his Dad.
If you have a daughter though then it's probably going to be boring asf, best thing you can do right now is pray to Satan for a boy.
>>38915913
>It's all great apart from changing shitty nappies
My flat mate has a kid, he literally does nothing but watches over the kid and watches tv, then when his 12 hours are up his girlfriend takes over, for the past month they literally had no life what so ever just take care of the kid
Also OP tell her to get abortion, there is no reason for both of you to ruin your lives and then try to convince yourself that it was the right thing to do at the time
>>38915884
That is completely the reason why, yes.
>>38915951
I have literally no life when I don't have a kid anyway. The fuck is the big deal? At least you have a purpose to live for.
Go no contact. Literally avoid her at all costs.
Get a fucking dna test done
>>38915852
serves you right for being sexually active degenerate
>>38915951
>My flat mate has a kid, he literally does nothing but watches over the kid and watches tv, then when his 12 hours are up his girlfriend takes over
Because hes a lazy bastard. When it's the summer holidays my ex gives me my son for 4 or 5 days at a time. We do shit together and I still manage to go boxing in the evening, i take him with me and he chills on my phone playing angry birds for 45 mins - an hour while I train.
Your friend is a lazy asshole.
Give her some vitamin C
>>38915967
Get a fucking dog then
To have a kid you have to be emotional grown and stable, if you don't have anything to live for why the fuck could you ever teach the kid ?