Yo /fit/, how not to be boring as fuck to females? >get super

>>38651322
maybe dates that were more interesting, like hiking, skating etc..... obviously though, it ant just be you only doing dates, she should be doing stuff too.

Also, have you thought about asking her?

and what are your stats?

>>38651322
>get a hobby
>learn how to have a conversation
Easy as that, it's mostly practice. Most people develop these skills while they're children.

She has somebody else on her mind that she wants to be with.

>>38651322
Easy. Flirt with others girls in front of her. Let her know that she's the one chasing YOU and that she's the one looking for valadation.

>>38651322
you like what you like, and that's ok
if you find someone that shares your hobbies everything will work by itself
if not, keep yourself in the "mistery zone" to mantain the interest up
just completely ignore the girl from time to time and don't be so upfront with your interests if you detect incompatibilities
with this kind of girls you can do "generic" things together: go for an icecream, eat outside, see a generic movie that everyone likes, nightclubbing... that kind of things

understand, of course, that this kind of relationship is completely vain and draining in the long run. It only serves the purpose of regular sex and female company

>>38651322
mirin'

>>38651334
Don't listen to this guy. You'll be bored (and boring) again in six months once you realize how much work it takes to become exceptional. You need to go on an adventure. .they don't make movies about a man and his hobbies.. This is why pua tards will never have successful relationships.
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If a girl finds out about that part of my life they always immediately get more into it and want it to go somewhere past just sex

>>38651435
That's retarded almost everybody travels it's not special. If OP went across the country drinking by himself and taking pictures of tourists traps what kind of fucking story would that be. If you're bored, you're boring.

>>38651461
I didn't say anything about traveling dicknuts

Going to a tourist trap>>38651461
isn't an adventure

>>38651322
You develop a personality. Mot of that should have occurred before the age of 22.

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>>38651322
You're supposed to date people with similar interests and hobbies

If you want to hookup, thats a different story

>>38651603
How to develop interests?
The only thing I do is studying and lifting, apart from the other necessary stuff.

>My only interests are weight lifting and gaming

lol

>>38651322
>implying being fuckbuddies isn't better than having a stupid nagging gf

OP, are you fucking stupid? Look at it this way: you get to fuck her while she dumps her problems are on some other poor faggots shoulders.

>>38651637
Follow a sport, get a bike, watch certain TV shows, go diving, read books etc

>>38651461
That's exactly the problem by the way. I say 'adventure' and all that comes to your mind is 'traveling.' That's not a sense of adventure .that's moving around and staring at things.

>>38651322
It's normal. Happens to the best.

You get used to someone, things get boring, other people seem more interesting for the mere reason you don't know shit about them and they could be anything.

The frustrating thing about this is, it even happens to yourself and it even happens when you KNOW it's happening RIGHT NOW. You can't help it. Same with wanting things you can't have, for example, you KNOW one girl is much better, more intelligent, traditional, fun etc. but you still want the other girl BECAUSE of all the issues and because it wouldn't be easy to get and specifically keep her.

What you can do?

1. Finding a girl that's possessive and jealous as fuck, you will probably get tired of her but maybe not. Those girls can be dangerous, though.

2. Not indulging in relationships at all until you're like ~40. Or at least don't take them that seriously.

3. Become a fucking mind reading magician. Get into their fucking minds and that place good. Make them believe you are the most intelligent, sophisticated, strongest and unique person in this world. Learn phrases inside out, Google specific words or scientific backgrounds for something, completely focus when talking to that person. And take breaks, don't spend any fucking second of your life with that person. Just leave her from time to time, stay interesting. Just say you have to do some things, maybe go out, explore the world, meditate, be for yourself, do a retraining, for a better job, just get better.

There also is one amazing trick you can keep basically every girl that already likes you forever yours, I'm absolutely proud of it. But I won't tell. However, keep her on distance a bit and reject her without actually rejecting her. Won't say how, maybe you find your own way.

>>38651322
Don't spend too much time on lifting, use your autism for other things.

At one point it's really just a waste of time.

>Changing who you are for women

Just keep dating people till you click with someone, stop being a cuck and thinking you need to change who you are.

>>38652009
That's some wishful thinking not helping anyone, especially if you don't feel liek dating 5000 women.

>>38652046
Not really, you're just impatient.

>>38652071
Do you know how much money the average date costs? lul

>>38652071
You're not even on-topic here. OP is talking about relationships getting bored after months or years, it has nothing to do with dating "until it clicks", it can click and a girl can seem to be your soulmate, it can still be boring as fuck after some years.

You are a fucking retard and should kill yourself.

>>38652083
boring*

>>38651435
>>38651934
This. You really have to become some unique shonen/storybook prince. And even better when you feel like one yourself, better than other dudes.

>>38651334

This is retarded, OP has a hobby and that's the problem, his life is based on routine.

>>38651322
You're not there to entertain her

have more self respect and remember relationships are 50/50

also relationships arent your life, if she was sat around all day bored because you weren't doing things to interest her maybe she should get a fucking hobby

your doing fine bro, if you like fitness and vidya, then fitness and vidya

>>38651537
elaborate

>>38652272
This
I've had girls message me "entertain me"
Bitch I'm not a fucking clown you should make some effort yourself sometimes

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>>38651322
Did you share any hobbies or interests with her?

>>38652082
Yeah, if you're spending money on first dates you're already doing it wrong

>>38651322
Don't try and be interesting just for her. Do shit that you wanna do. If she does't wanna be apart of it, no sweat off your sack, you're still gonna have a good time.

>>38652299
Aight one sec

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>>38651322
8 years and counting. Been gaming and working out with no issue what so ever. But, you'll have to agree to doing shit that your girl likes once in a while. For me example, I hate movies. But sometimes she wants to watch one and I'll agree on it if it seem interesting.

It's all about finding a girl that like You, not what you resembles. My girl likes me because i get things done and don't half ass shit, also I stand by my words and don't lie to her.

I've also told get how I hate her family and I don't want to socialise with them ever again and she agreed on that.

Stay safe brah

>>38652082
I always go half on everything, if the girl wants money from you she can fuck of.

>>38652458
you told a girl to not socialise with her family?

>>38652645
No, that's not what he said. Just read the words, retard.

>>38652212
>people can't get multiple hobbies

>>38652762
>I've also told get how I hate her family

read the words retard

>>38653111
Those words don't mean what you inferred. Are you pretending to be retarded?

>>38652299
Had to take care of something, ended up taking forever. Anyways, basically most girls don't meet really interesting guys. This isn't about hobbies, this is more 'what stream of life are you paddling down.' If your stream happens to fall into something not horrifying (neckbeards and rapists would be a rare stream but also horrifying) and is considerably rare, girls are just drawn to you. some of these streams are generally labeled bad, which seems like a red flag to you, but you're a guy. Probably pretty normal too. but not to the girl. They always want to hop on your boat, maybe just for the ability to say they did. but when little miss some guys oneitis or accountant or professor or sorority girl meets me and finds out, (it's almost unavoidable since I don't like lying) it's pretty much a done deal. I'm not going to get into what I did/am doing. but they're attracted to the rarity if only for rarity's sake. they feel like they're in a movie because you just don't meet people like me. and there's so few of us- especially in their age range. The point is, I made lots of strange choices and went down the strange stream no one gets to go down. And because of that I get options wayyy above my league. So when I say go on an adventure, I mean go on a fucking adventure. You're the only person that knows where your stream is and what it is. Maybe you already missed it. I can't tell you. But do whatever you wanna do. Do something worth telling your grandkids about instead of something that gets you social/romantic brownie points.