How does your girlfriend feel about you being so into fitness?

>/fit/
>girlfriend

pick one

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>>38634955
Only had 1 gf..think it made her insecure desu because she didn't go to the gym(was like 15 lbs overweight but so unbelievably sexy). She was worried I'd leave her for a cardio bunny

In the end, she left me..good times

My gf is ~50 LBS overweight but wasn't like that when we got together. I used to think she looked amazing. Been 5 years, so no going back now. Whatever, I have my guns and the gym. Also slowly finding out she doesnt share my values on child raising and schooling.

Tries to workout, but sucks at it. I am absolutely nothing special, but I care greatly about my fitness and excersize every day. Its getting to where Im fapping twice a day.

Such is life, /fit/. Such is life.

>implying

>>38635046
>not breaking up with her

you're literally falling for the marriage meme WITHOUT EVEN BEING MARRIED

>>38635046
>Also slowly finding out she doesnt share my values on child raising and schooling

Yeah, you definetely shouldn't break up before impregnating her. I mean, why would you?

>>38635051

Since I've stopped smoking pot, most of my friends have bailed on me, so I already feel isolated (kinda did that to myself, dropped off of all social media three years ago), she helps. I love her family to death and I do love her too, and I know she loves me, I'm just not very attracted to her anymore. I guess I'd rather have her than nothing.

>>38634955
>still not being gay

lurk moar newboyfriend

Just realized recently my girlfriend is scared of losing me and tries to keep my confidence low.

She constantly puts me down for working out. Emotionally and psychologically tries to manipulate me in thinking I'm not good enough. Found out her friends have been mirin' me hard, and shes definitely jealous when she catches another girl looking. Shes good at hiding that part, trying to make me think she isn't offended.
But then comes around and berates me for being so vain, how I'll never be good enough to be happy, and so on.

The worst part is I find it so fucking attractive that shes trying so hard to keep me. Really fucked up desu, but I'm manipulative myself so I appreciate it.

Jokes on you i haven't had a gf in 6 years

>>38635111
It's pretty normal to lose physical attraction to your significant other over time

If she cares about you and you care about her and you feel your relationship is worth it then what would it matter if you disagree about some stuff or if she can't keep up physically (since you said she tries, which is important)

But at the end of the day, don't be afraid to break up and end a poor relationship just because "it's better than nothing"

>>38635241
If one day she started being nice about your fitness would you stay?

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>>38634955
That face when the pic you use for most of your posts here is used by someone else D:

>>38635384
I dunno, I'd be worried she found someone else honestly. I'd just confront her and ask what changed her mind, but she'd probably just give a bullshit answer.

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Here's an alphabetized list of my gfs and their opinions:

>>38634955
she's into fitness dick in her mouth

Mine likes the physique but there's obvious insecurity at times.

I think she preferred it when I was injured so could only really do cardio, in terms of how secure she was.

>>38635392
shouldn't choose a picture that's all over the internet, dick face

>>38634955
She's 17, she thinks I'm super ripped despite just having an average bod.
She's a twig, I wanna make her thick.

>>38635046
>tfw gf can be a 10/10 if she lost ~50 lbs.
She's one of the proportionate chubby girls with a very cute face.

>>38635429
Kek

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>>38635046

>sacrificing your values for fear of being alone
>giving your future children a mother who won't raise them right

If you have kids, you will resent her, so she will start being passive aggressive and could divorce you. Enjoy your fucked up daughter bro.

>>38635241
How do you put someone down for working out?
>G... geez anon. You gym rat. I'll bet you're all s-sweaty and pumped up from all that exercise... y-you jerk.

>>38637662
>You're so vain for focusing so much on your appearance
>You'll never be happy with yourself
>Always watching what you eat, living your life by counting, isn't that depressing?
>Changing your appearance doesn't change who you really are

And so on. Usually said in a ''nicer'' way but shes been pretty harsh sometimes.

>>38634955
this image is photoshopped into korra and I jerk off to it

>>38637691
I'm not sure I'd want to be with someone that mean because of their insecurity.
Why can't she just feel glad her bf is hot?

>>38637691
You're still with this bitch?
Just say without directly saying "I can do better then you" and start acting like it.
She will either go nuclear at which point you can dump her ass right then and there or she'll change her tone.

>>38634955
She loves it but isn't into it. I actually fell off the wagon for the year we've been together but still eat right. Worked out for 5 years prior just fell hard for each other and can't get back into the routine. At the start it was spend all the time together but now that its died down some trying to pick it back up.

Actually one of her birthday presents that I gave her was that I would start back lifting and that was 2 weeks ago. Haven't been back yet though.

>>38637740
Or she'll just cheat on him to prove to herself in some bizarre way that she is better.

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>>38634955
my girl works out as often as I do

pic unrelated

>>38637740
>>38637739
I may be physically attractive but I'm pretty fucked mentally. The idea someone is trying to manipulate me in to staying with them is appealing to me. I pretend to care or act self conscious but really I love it. I'm a manipulative cunt and so is she, it just werks. I know it sounds terrible, but it helps me improve myself even more.

If she cheats on me shes gone though. Draw the line there pretty strongly. Wouldn't get a second chance.

>>38637759
Who cares. Bitch is a loser. Her cheating would give him an easy out and free access to the pussy of all of her friends.

>>38637812
Dump her ass. If she's making you feel bad to stay around and not trying to make you feel wanted then why stay with her?

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>>38634984
kek, girls and their "beat them to the punch" breakup mentality

>>38636130
>She's 17
Isn't that illegal?

>>38637912
Mate, it's not even illegal in half of the united states.

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To the extent that men generally age so much better than women anyway, I'd be anxious about marrying a girl who didn't work out.
The way things are going I think I might be looking my best when I'm 35-40 - or at least not much worse.
Most of my girlfriends from late teens/early 20s are now already heading over the hill now they're 27-30.

>>38637919
It still doesn't sound right, specially that part where he wants to THICC her up

>>38637715
What?

>>38634955
We work out together, she's pretty athletic herself and likes doing bodyweight exercises and light cardio daily because it makes her feel good.

Also my gf is a manga character.

Only had one gf who was overweight.
I lifted a little bit when I was with her but didn't take it very seriously.
She had a membership as well, but she fucked around on the treadmill once a week and didn't change her diet.
I knew the relationship wasn't going to last so I didn't try and convert her to lifting or anything because I knew she'd flip the fuck out.

I once told her verbatim that I loved her despite the fact she was overweight (an obvious fact, but poor wording). She sent me dozens of messages telling me I was a piece of shit and deleted me off Facebook.

>>38634955

Does anyone have a higher res of this image?
I've done a few reverse image searches and can't find anything

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>>38634955
She doesn't exist.

>>38634955
She's happy about it thus far. I just got back into it after a year of atrophy though, hoping to get my gains back.

As far as her goes, I'll have to get her to either start working out, or prepare to dump her in the future. She's pretty much the textbook example of young, tight 20 y/o that's going to hit the wall like a ton of bricks due to being wholly dependant on her youth for beauty.

She thinks I'm too big. Not even that big... Eh, girls.

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>>38634955
>your girlfriend

>>38635241
stop having sex with the bich and she how she reacts, she will Think you cheat on her and than you can see how weak she really is keep in mind if she starts to cry and get bitchy dump her and get togheter with one of her friends. sorry for bad English

>>38639333
>checked

at least you got trips, bruh

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>>38634955
>She shits on it?

This. Claims I'm "ignoring her" every time I work out. Often "surprises" me with ice creams I keep telling her I don't want to eat.

Such is life.

I had to get my bf into it. It took lots of convincing to get him to even step into the gym with me. Now that he's past the 1 year mark, he finds he actually enjoys it and looks forward to it.

Guys, your gf will love it if you workout. Just don't obsess over it.

>>38635111
Relationships arent meant to be about lust or pleasure. So dont worry about it. But of course dont let your girlfriend become obese.

>>38639894
>Often "surprises" me with ice creams I keep telling her I don't want to eat.

Live a little mang, have some every once in a while. I treat myself to some every couple of months

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>>38639894
Why haven't you left her.

At first she was jealous because me starting lifting coincided with her having been a bit of a bitch for a while and also me flirting a bit more with other girls, so she figured I wanted to leave her. Which was kinda true, I guess? She did all kinds of gains goblin shit to get me to fail, but I didn't.

Now she's pretty supportive and has, slowly but surely, started to work out herself, watch her diet more, etc. Clearly happy with my progress and obviously finds me more attractive (she used to claim she didn't care and found a bit of a belly attractive - that has been demostrated to be a lie).

My fiance is like 10 lbs overweight at all times and she goes through phases of being really into going to the gym with me and then she'll stop altogether. She does yoga a lot on her own time.

She is a fucking gains goblin sometimes tho. Buying stupid food or peer pressuring me into going out to drink/restaurants

Hey /fit/. Gf is 5'9 145 atm. I loved when she was 135, how can I get her to drop 10 lbs? It doesn't sound like it should matter but she doesn't have a lot of ass but she has a stomach lol. She looked more curvy with the thinner waist.

Unfortunately we don't live near enough to go to the gym together.

>>38640167
>>38639894

For me the only thing that worked to make this stop was telling her outright that I took my training seriously, did not want to eat crap, and that she was obviously ruining things for me and that needed my gf to be supportive of mine trying to change.

Yeah a little treat is OK, but only when it's on your own terms. Do not let a woman push it on you out of obvious jealousy. You need a supportive person in your life and not someone who's insecure to the point of sabotaging you.

>>38639333
>>38638690
Why not, bros?

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>>38634955
>gf

Hahaha you're funny OP.

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>>38634955
Had one gf and like to think that we loved each other. Didn't party, do drugs, drink etc. She was always insecure with me and thought I was out of her league. I ended up getting cucked. Now I just fuck sluts desu.

>>38635046
Get out while you can bro. I got married to a cardio bunny. Super sexy. 4 years later I'm married with a kid and she's 5'6 189lbs. She'll only get bigger. Only reason I haven't left her is because I'll get cucked financially and I don't wanna have my kid choose like I did growing up.

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>>38637923
This

>>38641556
Insecure gf's are dangerous

>>38635046
>Been 5 years, so no going back now.
Get the fuck out of there now you weakling. It's never to late to dump a woman.

>hs gf
>go to uni
>strong but havnt made it by fit stands
>she still in hs
>becomes jealous/insecure while im away
>fight and on short break
>all of a sudden has new bf after 2 years
>wtf...
Shit ruined me for a year but now ive come out on top. She tries to hit me up lol.mpeg

>>38634955
My bf is not into fitness. he used be fit in the military etc but now he's just skinny. He loves to eat shit like taco.bell and smokes regularly. These are probably my biggest complaints though. I date him for him, not his body. He teases me sometimes for being fit/what I eat but I know he appreciates me being fit when most girls are already dumplings by the time they hit 27.

my gf is supportive of me being into fitness but is apparently scared of me getting "too big"

>>38635372
I've been with my bf 4+ years, and I've never been more attracted to him in my life. If you're losing physical attraction, its a sign your relationship was based purely on "passion" , aka neurotransmitters that make your brain light up like a drug addict the first year or so of a new relationship. Basically you were never truly attracted to them. However if you truly enjoy someone, your liking of the intangible will make them physically appear more attractive as well.

>>38637919
It is if you're a decent amount older than her(5 years I believe) . Laws are more complex than you seem to think. Enjoy jail pedo.

Ruined my relationship. I began to resent her when she quit working out and ate like a pig. I kept looking better and she was getting worse. Lost my boners and things fizzled out over the next year (after 4 years together)

>>38637662
My bf says my lower body/legs/ass are too big from bicycling so much and that I'm not balanced. Thing is I have plates and screws in my wrist and perma damage to my lower spine so working out upper body is difficult . I mean its not so much mean as much giving me some shit.

>>38637812
Did one of your parents manipulate you a lot? It sounds like you're rehashing past experiences with your gf. People who learn to "love" unhealthy behaviors usually learn them from their first role models, the parents. If this is so, maybe you can explore why you keep getting driven to repeat the same mistake

>>38637923
>to The extent men age better than women
So not at all? Then there's no point reading the rest

>>38640167
Ikr. Ill go eat junky fast food with my bf like once a month even though I don't really like it. Its nice once in a while.to.compromise and really a necessity in any healthy relationship

>>38640236
145@5'9 is perfectly healthy dude. If she looks fat at those stats its because she need to ADD muscle weight, not lose weight. The whole
>you need to make the number on the scale.go down
Bit is not only stupid but its detrimental to growth. The number on the scale doesn't make her fat unless she's bmi 25+. Her body composition is what's making her fat.
Frankly I'd suggest you leave her the fuck alone since you're obviously quite clueless about health and fitness and would do more harm than good.

>>38640270
Because heaven forbid you compromise, even once. You sound like a whiny baby desu

>>38641781
You sound really sad and pitiful

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>>38634955
>tfw gf works out with me

>>38642109
Is this supposed to be an NMH reference, or is that incidental?

>>38634955
shes mrin all the time
she is a bit chubby but dont want to change
i try to stopped having sex with her but damn shes is so good at blowjobs

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>gf
>not gymbuddy bf
n-no homo

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>>38634964

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>>38637923
>men generally age so much better than women anyway

nah

society allows men to age, women aren't

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>>38635050

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When I was pudgy I ended up getting a chubby gf. We were great together, lasted damn near four years, was my highschool qt. Then I started wanting to get fit, was pushing 250 at 6'.

Long story short, I'm down to 200 and counting and she's alone and fat. Feels good man.

>>38642509
>nah
Delusional. As a man gets older, he becomes more describable. He often dresses better, has a nicer car, makes more money, has his own place, and so on. Men can age nicely too.

Women tend to just get fat and let themselves go. Their skin becomes gross, the grow up with no fucking hobbies besides watching TV and instagram, they've ridden on at least 20-50 cocks and are only just now trying to settle down. They bring little to nothing to the table as they age.

I'm insecure af after my last attempt at love, can't really find it in me right now to like any girls. it just feels a bit hollow and I always freak the fuck out if I remotely start to think about it seriously. I feel unappealing as fuck on a physical and emotional sense.

comes to the gym with me, but only lifts half-heartedly. thinks muscles on girls are gross and that i should feel bad for liking it.

>>38634955
My gf actually comes here for inspiration.

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>>38642615
this is why you are here forever, making tfw no gf threads

dont ever change /fit/ <3

>>38642681
I don't want a girlfriend. I'll continue fucking 18-23 year olds till my dick stops working and I'll die alone as we all do.
Not being tied down is fantastic. I can do all my hobbies, spend all my money, travel, and so on without needing to worry about someone else.

>>38642715
How old are u now? I sure hope your outlook on life wont change when you are 20 years older

>>38642715
How old are you? I'm 30, man... wish there was a way I could pull 18 year old pussy, but I think those days are behind me. Or is there a way?

>>38642732
28.
If my outlook on life changes when I'm 48 that's fine, I'll nab myself a girl 10 years younger and marry the bitch. Doubt it though.

>>38642082
It's not about compromise. Like I said, eating some crap once in a while is OK. Allowing your gf to treat you (mine like making me pancakes for breakfast) is OK. But when one's partner is not listening to what one wants or giving the help and support one is asking for - or even outright sabotaging or dragging you down -
you have to put your foot down no matter what form that destructive behaviour takes.

A woman, is she is to be more than a hole for your dick, should be a partner - someone who supportive, caring and helpful. If you can't trust your woman to do that even for something relatively minor like working out, how can you trust her to be there when the real shit happens?

>>38642740
A robot once ran a social experiment on tinder or some shit. Basically grabbed a pic of a ripped cunt, some big dick picks and acted like a total tool when trying to pick up Staceys. Got shitloads of nude pics, even from chicks who he knew simply because he was a total asshole.

Don't have the screencaps cause I'm on mobile (working out), but if you have a good bod, give it a try.

Even if it doesnt work, you will have some good stories to tell.

>>38634955
She doesn't want to hurt my feelings but i think she hates it.

Considers it narcissistic probably. I could give a fuck, but I don't.

>>38642740
Im 30 myself

you can probably pull them if u are rich and good looking... but desu u dont gotta b good looking if u r super rich. Lots of younglings looking for a sugar daddy if u know where to look

>>38642740
Have a six pack and not look really old.

>>38637390
This. But homeboy won't listen.

But it's cool. Bc sometimes we all need a girl to throw away. Homeboy and his shitty future-wife will provide it.

>>38640233
>Pressuring me to go out to restaurants

And this shitty attitude is why girls have deluded themselves into thinking that they like a "bit of a belly"

>>38634955
My gf is 5'4, 105 lbs and constantly worries she's too fat. She loves that I'm into fitness, but doesn't want me to get "too muscly". I try to get her to lift and she does some light weight stuff, but mostly cardio.
>tfw no gymbuddy to spot me on bench.

>>38642715
You should buy a dog tho

>>38637691
>Changing your appearance doesn't change who you really are
>who you really are

Oh how I hate that shit.
People aren't set in stone.
In just the past few months my personality changed a lot. I strived to be something I wasn't, and I succeeded? How? Because there is no "real you". That's feel-good bullshit people keep telling themselves for never bothering with a change.

The only "you" is in the current, and many different "you's" were once in the past. What you'll be in the future, is up to you.

This is the type of shit people use to excuse themselves for never improving. Never overcoming a bad habit. Never try to be less of a cunt, because "lol that's just me :))))"

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>>38638457

>>38634955
>girlfriend
AAAAAAAAAA

>>38641781
>>38642094
Don't listen to this faggot fuck. Get bitter and make gains.

>>38645040
Angry gains are not good gains, bro

>>38635046
Values are pretty important Anon. Do you get the impression that you guys can't come to some middle ground?

Sounds like something worth examining during a jog.

>>38639894
If you've actually had a conversation about the ice cream thing, this is really uncool behavior on her part.

Wife and I both got a little chubby after kids. She joined an all-woman gym and started getting into it. Her sessions last no more than 30 minutes though. She has a little progress. Mostly building muscle/ losing fat... but she still hasn't been able to slim down to what she'd like.
About a year ago I join the gym and get into it. I spend around 2 hours in the gym, 3 times a week. She tries to get all preachy with me about my routine and form. I shrug it off and a year later I've had pretty massive transformations. Still making progress towards where I wanna be. She's hit the wall. I keep telling her to join my gym and step that shit up, but she like's being worshiped by a bunch of grandma's.

>>38634955
She helps me with literally half of my upper body training

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>>38634955
>>38637715

>>38647586
sounds annoying as hell, id rather be alone desu

>>38641870
nice bait dude

>>38634955
I struggle with mental illness and talk to myself sometime

>>38634955
>not ripped looking
>women ignore you
>look ripped
>women get insecure and drag you down
If any fool here let women control any bit of your life then you're a beta nu-male

>>38637923
If anyone has a thinking brain here, listen to this bloke. Women's age curve goes down significantly after mid 20's.

bumping for feels

>>38634955
She's actually more into fitness than me, and scared shitless of getting fat

Feels good man

My imaginary gf encourages me before every session. She says I have to get stronger so she and our children don't get culturally enriched.

I actually inspired my bf to work out - he had steadily been losing weight even before we met (from 290 down to about 200 now), but now he started actually working out and not just cutting calories. Feels good man, we're keeping each other going and want to be in our best shape for both of us.

>>38634955
My ex girlfriend before she cheated on me was 5'3" and fluctuated between 55kg and 70kg. She didn't seem to give a flying fuck about gym/ my gains even though I got mires from other girls constantly. It was either because I was bulking or because she genuinely didn't care that much about me.
Girl I'm presently seeing I've been trying to take to the gym but she has just gotten fatter somehow. She looked a lot better when she was thinner. She loves the gains though.

She's been going to cardio classes for a year or so to avoid getting fat. I started lifting more recently and she's crazy jealous of how much muscle I've built in such a short time and realizing her cardio classes aren't doing shit. I love making her jealous of my body.

>have a 3 girls I'm fucking/dating
>nothing serious
>they all love my fitness enthusiasm
>constantly telling me I'm getting bigger every time we meetup
>one girl loves feeling my back muscles
>other girl likes to feel my quads constantly
>they love to talk about my gains, genuine interest
>nothing, nothing has ever come close to how good it feels to nail a girl and have her submitting to your strength
>feeling your body up while you're on top, holding your pecs
>picking them up and tossing them around, THEY FUCKING LOVE IT
I'm intelligent and fun to be around too, these girls can't get enough. Won't gf them though, I'm not ready for a cucklationship right now.

>>38637906
KEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My gif got me into actual roller blades since she used to play hockey. Uphill rollerblading is way better than squats. Squats are great if you hate your spine.

>>38642509
What does this even mean?

>>38650550
I know you're just being a faggot but I hope you don't actually believe that last bit.

>>38650525
Lmfao. Nothing feels better? Try fucking a girl you care about deeply and honestly and where you both make each other better people and help shape each others world view and evolve into a better person.

Oh also my gfs a cuntlet and fucking her is straight up like excessive death grip. Kinda hurts honestly.

>>38650597
I've had that before and had my heart broken several times m8. It's different, I prefer several casual girls vs one ltr. Sometimes turning into an animal and succumbing to base desires is where it's at. And I do care about these girls, there's an emotional bond just not exclusive to one person.

>>38650550
Why is my mental image of /fit/ uphill on rollerblades Flanders on ski's "It's like you're wearing nothing at all"

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>>38650550
The hardest part about being into roller blading is having to tell your parents you're gay.

>>38637749
The reason it's died down is that you are letting yourself get sidetracked off your purpose. It's emasculating; if you don't want to kill the passion in your relationship and life till it gets so bad you lose both gains and girl and start over from scratch, then get back in.

>>38635439
Heyoooooooo!

>>38634955
My ex gf hated me spending time at the gym, she was chubby so i figured it had something to do with it
Relationship ended because she found a fat guy she wanted to be with instead of me, kind of hurt but i dont really care about that

I care more about the fact that its hard to replace even the shittiest of gfs nowadays

>>38650658
kek

>>38634955
chubby cunt had a problem with it.

needless to say, I rid myself of that problem.

She's cool with it. But she's a yoga instructor so she's into it too.

I want to give sandra prikker a rimjob so bad

>>38654419
You should send her a message and let her know.

>>38654427
She's such a normie and I don't want to fly to cali.

Also she'd say no

>>38643752
thiisthisthisthisthis

There are so many different mes I've been and I'll keep finding new ones.

>>38635111
Yeah kinda feel the same.

GF was smoking hot when I met her, tall and natural big d's on a slender body.

Over time she gained weight, I on the other hand kept training and now am even in better shape than I used to be.

I lover the person she is, our personalities really match, and she's really sweet, but she's gotten chubby and I do feel less attracted to her.

She has tried going to the gym with me but then she always ends up slacking off after a couple of weeks. Also with dieting, she always wants to go on these crazy diets starve her out and naturaly she just rebounds. I've tried telling her but she keeps saying "I've lost weight in the past I know how to".

There's always some reason for her to slack of eventualy, it might be a colleague she got into an argument with or just her being tired or whatever. Granted she does work alot of hours.

It sucks because I put alot of time into keeping in shape, while also holding a full time job.

>>38654540
literally this is my situation. My girlfriend has gained 15 pounds since we met a year ago and shes only 5'1. She is an amazing person, has really helped me tremendously in many ways, yet i am less and less physically attracted to her. Shes also stubborn as fuck and says "i know how to lose weight stop preaching to me". Even recently bought some obscure "cleansing pills" online to help her lose weight. All this while i own my own supplement store, and have all the resources available to help her get in shape if she really fucking wanted. Its truly painful

>>38634955
She lifts, but she's full momscience when it comes to nutrition.
>counting calories, isn't that a bit extreme hehe?

Worst part is I know it's just because she's insecure about her own weight.

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My girlfriend seemed meh about me going to the gym at first, but when I started getting gains she suddenly became much more supportive of it. The more gains I get the more loyal and submissive she becomes, and I haven't even made it yet.

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>>38642501

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>>38643752
Truth

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>>38634955

She doesn't mind my commitment to fitness. It's my commitment to shitposting memes on a chinese hieroglyphic generator that worries her...

She helps me bulk and cut, works out with me often and knows my routine. Did I do good?

>>38635241
> Tfw no femdom mistress girlfriend

my gf wants me to beat her up and spit on her and stomp her in the gut while fucking her ass

what do lads?

i feel rapey

>>38657282
Give her to me you numale cuck. You don't treat women how they want to be treated

My wife is very supportive of my fitness goals. She even cooks my meals to fit my calories/macros. I gave her a little sheet of paper with the number of calories I'd need for dinner, broken down into protein, fat, and carbs. She keeps the paper on the fridge and comes up with a tasty new meal every night that meets the requirements. All I have to do is eat! I'm a lucky guy. She tells me often that she gets distracted when she looks at me sometimes because I'm getting in great shape. Life is good!

>girlfriend

Why does it matter what they think? They are there to have our children, not chime in on what we do with our free time.

Last year she said it's harder for women to have a physically good body kek, but she was ginger skeleton lanklette who starved herself so I disregarded it lmao.

I've literally never had a gf

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>>38635046

>50lbs
>Doesn't share values on child raising and schooling

I'm assuming you hold good values and this is going to turn into a thing eventually you numbskull.
>No going back now
What in the fuck is wrong with society, you sure as fuck can. Why do people want to be miserable?
>Nothing in common and not attracted to one another
>heh fuck it it's been 5 years

THATS EVEN BETTER JUST WALK AWAY IMAGINE BEING MARRIED AND FEELING THIS WAY. NOT ONLY ARE YOU SAVING UR SHIT YOU'RE ALSO SAVING THE EMBARASSMENT OF HAVING TO GET DIVORCED