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Not to sound negative, but getting a girlfriend/fuck buddy just

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Not to sound negative, but getting a girlfriend/fuck buddy just seems impossible.

What's the point of talking to all sorts of girls (smart, dumb, fat, slim, young, old, white, black, etc) when you get rejected all the time ?

Lastly, I'm not from /r9k/.

I can honestly say that I'm a nice/normal black guy who has a job, isn't overweight and doesn't know how to attract girls.
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>black

theres your problem
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>>38586859
That girl isn't 18 please delete.
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>>38586859
Go back to africa nigger
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>>38586859
>black
Jamal pls, leave the poor girls alone
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Stick to meeting black girls, unless you say you don't like them. That would be the same as you saying your own race (including you) is disgusting.
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>black
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>>38586859
Where do you live?
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keep it with your own kind you piece of shit. you're the problem with this country right now
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If you aint the same color as me, you can go hang from a damn tree
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>>38586859
Do you make friends first or just pressurise random strangers to let you fuck them because you like what you see
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>>38587047
>black
>just pressurise random strangers to let you fuck them because you like what you see
sounds about r8 m8
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op your fuckin boring LOL
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>>38586921
>t. cucked trump voter
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I'm surprised the libtard MODS havent 404d this.
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>>38587047
I do my best to become friends with them.

I sometimes ask girls who I've spoken to (at least once) for a coffee date or watch a movie (mostly Starbucks) just as friends.

They say 'no' everytime.

And I shouldn't have posted this on 4chan, because the amount of racists here is unbelievable.
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>>38586859

work on yourself buddy, stop 'wanting' it so much, girls can smell desperation and it's just about the worst thing imaginable.

just be yourself, be cool, don't care what girls think, and they'll come to you. Then you need to pick up on those signals and swoop. It's easier said than done but get into your own head for a while, love and work on yourself, instead of looking outwards and trying to chase pussy.
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>>38586859
Because you're don't act like a nigger anon. And that's a good thing, forget those girls.
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>>38586905
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>>38586905
Is this guy trying to do the Pacha pose? He needs to look at it again.
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>>38587262
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>>38587144

>And I shouldn't have posted this on 4chan, because the amount of racists here is unbelievable.

>shouldn't post
>black
>posts anyway
>black

im starting to see what these racists are talking about
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>>38587144
You probably have the fundamental problems white guys have with this plus an extra layer of bullshit because you're black. Just do what the white guys who get laid do and at the very least you'll have fixed that which is in your control to fix.

Also, these retards may be trying too hard to show how racist they are, but this isn't even fitness related so the shitposting shouldn't be too surprising.
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>>38587290
>when the bat hits you just right
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>>38587314
>these retards may be trying too hard to show how racist they are

Cuck fag white knight for that black cock. OP asked for help pickin up chicks, not dicks. Get ur cum guzzlin ass out of the thread and back on grindr
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>>38587350
You don't have to prove anything to me, anon. I believe you're an idiot so stop trying to convince me.
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>>38587144
There are a few different things that could be going on.


1.
>>38587102
You are boring as fuck.

2. They just don't Find you attractive. Despite what the media says the majority of white women (especially those that aren't lower class) tend to find African American men unattractive.

It's a numbers game, but the odds are against you.

It's not a racist thing, but it is a race thing. Different races find different facial features attractive. I don't care what you were taught, we are different and like different stuff. The differences are greater than just the color of our skin.

3. You are objectively ugly
You are not attractive in the face at all.

4. You creep them out by presenting yourself inappropriately (suddenly sexually overt with no buildup, etc)

5. Leads back to 4. As >>38587191 said, you may be too desperate. They can pick that up (subconsciously or consciously-it doesn't matter), and it affects how they think of you
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>>38586859
>black guy
found your problem. good luck anon but stick to non-white girls.
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>>38586859

What does this have to do with /fit/? Do you even lift?
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>>38587290
>the guy right above the dude getting hit
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>>38586859
You're getting rejected because the little neon sign that a girl has in her brain doesn't flash "PROCREATE" when she is around you. You're trying to trick nature versus working with it. I could tell you what to do to fix your problem but it wouldn't matter because you're so hyperfocused on all the wrong things, and nature knows that.
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>>38586859
>What's the point of talking to all sorts of girls (smart, dumb, fat, slim, young, old, white, black, etc) when you get rejected all the time ?

You should be interested in meeting *people* and interested in getting to know something about the *people* you meet.

If the chemistry is there, great. If not, you still met someone.

YOU ARE DOING LIFE WRONG. All you're doing is looking at the world and asking what it can do for you. "Hm, what can I get out of this person? Can I fuck this person? No? Meh."

Get interested.
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>nigger

Back to Africa you go famalam
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I literally met an attractive girl the other day who literally approaches groups of niggers (actual niggerish black people) based solely off of their skin color and niggerish attire/demeanor.
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>>38587862
Did she tell you this, or did she come up to you and your homies?
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>>38587862

The media jew affects some sluts more than others. I bathe in the joy of knowing she'll be a single miserable mom
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>>38586859
stop being black
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>>38587862
So?
Ive met incredibly hot chicks who only wanted sand niggers aswell, doesnt really mean shit what you and me say since we combined havent even met 10% of the women in our respective country
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#DicksOutForHarambe
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>>38588081
>>38588089
>they completely switch sides at the bar
Immersion ruined.
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>>38586859
>black
>not dating nubian queens
>pic related
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>>38586859
I'm pretty sure I work with this guy. He's a fat fuck.
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>>38588094
it's a change in perspective, you fucking retard
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>>38588094

This is now a WE WUZ KANGS thread
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>>38588111
Why are there two bars on either side of them smart guy? Did your brain switch perspectives?
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>>38588118
hol up
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>>38588135
>exact same nose

Wew
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>Nigger OP got his thread derailed this hard
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>>38587204
Sauce? This was from a game right?
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There's this girl who works at this one restaurant, she's very pretty and I'd like to ask her out or something but I'm unsure of how to
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>>38588309
A game that is never coming out.

NEVER EVER
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>>38586859
Mods do your fucking job
>Lastly, I'm not from /r9k/
You belong there
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>>38588335
:( you got a name anyway?
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>>38586859
>black guy
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>>38588405
Wolf Girl With You kid
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>>38587144
>I do my best to become friends with them.
>I sometimes ask girls who I've spoken to (at least once) for a coffee date or watch a movie (mostly Starbucks) just as friends.

Dude girls can tell that you don't want to just be their friend, and when you're trying to sneak your way into fucking them by pretending that you want to be "friends" it's creepy.
Just be honest and ask them out, no "friend" bullshit.
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>>38586859

Go for latinas. Oddly enough, black guys going for latinas seem to have better luck if they don't speak any spanish so don't bother learning the language.

Just be sure that when they get disagreeable you never, *ever* give in. THey're more concerned with testing you for weakness than they are about getting their way.
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>>38588325

Do this:
>When do you get off work?

She'll respond:
>Fuck off

Then you move on to the next girl, rinse and repeat until you get lucky.

If successful (unlikely) exchange numbers and tell her a time/place that you will meet her.

Don't develop feels for a girl until you bag her. Chances are you won't succeed, even if you are Chad. Chad's fuck/date any random girl they deem acceptable, they will struggle just as much as you to pick a specific target and win.

Remember: no feels until you're already dating her
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>>38587792
Blacks only have 8% lower chance? not that horrible desu
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>>38586859
Listen to Black Phillip and Beige Phillip

Helped me get girls and I didnt have to get /fit/

Being /fit/ helps though
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>>38586859

Literally doesn't matter what you are or what you look like, If you can convince a girl, ANY GIRL, that you are a thing, you will get into her pants.
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>>38586859
GF is fucking easy, but they never just wanna be fuck buddies. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. How am I supposed to build my harem like this?
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>>38586859
are you talking to black girls mostly?
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>Meet girl i like
>talk to her
>ask for date
>she says yes
>go on more
>she is now my girlfriend and all over me
I feel like i've cheated, it was too easy, soon it shall all blow up in my face.
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>>38588811
how do you think it's supposed to go?
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>>38588818
I was supposed to get rejected and feel bad
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>>38588335
>>38588405
>>38588425
>>38588309
>>38587204

The game is out, it's average but you'll love it.
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>>38586859
Fucking with white women is a different ball game entirely and it will end bad. Try fucking a fat white woman.
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>>38586859
>black guy

there's your problem
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>>38587144
Should not of mentioned you're black at all if you didn't want racist comments. Come on man this is 4chan. Good on you for going out on a limb but generally speaking people on 4chan are white people who are racist, it just is that way, probably just like the white girls you've been trying to ask out are. Asking girls out who hardly know you is also super hard unless they're a slut. Better off building a friendship up with some one and then eventually building up to asking them out. Unless of course you just want to fuck sluts all the time, then just go crazy. Also, don't be boring, you could be a fat guy and score a girl if you are interesting enough and have enough rapport with the grill. God speed anon!
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>>38586859
ooga booga
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come on there's gotta be something interesting in your board, just click it
>>>/pol/
get in, check it out, and try to avoid coming back
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Damn, so many guys traumatized by the BBC in here, your tears and hatred feed my urge to fuck more white girls, this month I'll only hit on blonde girls and post of my nuts hanging out of them for you cucks.
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>>38589819
except...

it probably wont happen, will it
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Real advice? Get a part time customer service job. Bar tender is best. Develop some social skills doing it and if you're somewhat attractive the women will throw themselves at you
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>>38587454
'suffered a broken rib'.
no mention of jaw implies it was intact, holy shiet
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Fuck off to reddit, nigger
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I'm black and have no issues getting girls
also stop trying to get white girls only faggot. date sistahs also nigga ffs

seems like you're desperate and boring.
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>>38587144
>I do my best to become friends with them.
This is the first mistake
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>>38587809
>All you're doing is looking at the world and asking what it can do for you. "Hm, what can I get out of this person? Can I fuck this person? No? Meh."
This is not how you must see the world?
Sheeeit. I guess capitalism is the devil them.
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>>38589826
It's happening
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>>38587454
look at the fucking grandma in the striped pink tank top to the left.
>fuck this shit i paid for these popcorns
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My fuck buddy is a qt 19 year old Vietnam twink boy.
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>>38586859
>nice/normal
>black guy
pick one.
just rape them OP. then go shoot some kids in a driveby
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>>38586859
It's pretty easy to get a girlfriend. Getting a super hot girlfriend who won't cheat on you is pretty difficult.
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>>38587144
>letting the autists trigger you.
fellow black bro no. this is why none of us mention our race
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>>38586883
kek'd
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>>38586859
>black guy
>has a job
nice try nigger
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>>38587191
This is probably the most helpful post in the thread. Good on you, anon
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>>38586859
The problem is that you don't act nigger
Your type is popular now solely because of the Jewish media. Without Jews pushing black "culture" for years you'd be fucking hung on the tree

So use it nigger. Go rap and thug up. That's what people look for in you. Lol you expect people see niggers for stable job and enjoyable life? Fucking delusional m8. You're allowed to talk to girls only because of the Jews and TV.
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>>38587144
4chan can be pretty horrible, even if you're not on /b/. we can choose to leave or become anonymos so people just assume you're white and male.
As a gay jew, I sure have had my share of shit before i gave up.
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>>38587454
that kid in the middle is some renaissance shit.
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>>38590447
Found Milo
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There was a pretty good thread about being 'alpha' the other day.
Basically it came down to, do your thing, be cool fuck what anybody thinks.
You're a hero on your own journey, if anybody else wants in on the ride they're welcome to join, if not, we'll then they can get the fuck out of the way.

One last thing is you mentioned you're black, around here at least I notice it's only a certain type of white girl that goes for black guys.
It's the same for me, I'm a Eastern European immigrant, and I only seem to have luck with a certain type of woman around here, and I hate women of my own race.
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>>38590526
> around here at least I notice it's only a certain type of white girl that goes for black guys.
yeah those are called snow bunnies
I'm black and dislike those type of girls tbqh.
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>>38590386
This
And the daddy issues
Use the tools the hooked nose's gave you while pussy is still at an all time low
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>>38588076
Where do you live? 20 year old forever a virgin sand nigger checking in
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>>38589474
What a fucking retard. You people have reddit so getting out
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>>38586859
Dude don't let these bitter /pol/-/r9k/ hybrids try to make you feel bad about something out of your control. Be the best person you can be, and be honest with yourself and others.

You aren't the only person having this problem, and it's not because you're black. There are people of every single race here in the same position you are. Just live for yourself and do things you enjoy, and you'll find someone.
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>>38586859
>meet girl at party
>talk her up all night
>kiss her & ask phone
>next week she comes home and I put penis in vagina
>been fucking every 1/2 weeks since then
>sometimes she cooks for me
>she's not my gf so I can fuck other bitches
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>>38586859
>I'm a "nice" guy
>there's nothing wrong with me
>must be the entire other gender of the species who is wrong
Delusional almost doesn't cut it.
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>>38587144
take a girl out, doesnt matter who, maybe you met her on tinder, maybe you met her out, either way, shes going to know whats up when you ask her to hang out alone

its key that you lay pipe just right, if you lay that daddy d on her she'll think shes in love
message her like once a week at max, keep things distant. you can do this pretty organically if you get 2-3 girls going at once

however if your problem is getting to step 1 i dont know what to tell you man. maybe you're just ugly, maybe your vibe is off, i cant say without meeting you
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>>38588818
She's suppose to cuck me over a black guy, get fat, then take half my stuff in a divorce then force me to pay money to raise her son. Then I'll have to get an awful haircut and lose all my gains. You know, standard marriage stuff
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You have to actually talk to them Anon. And also

>HEIGHT
>FACE
>FRAME
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Ignore the racist haters m8, Ive seen plenty of good looking white girls who are into black dudes in my high school
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>tfw feel like the black elliot rodger
just... fuck my mind up, dudettes..
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>>38590545
>>38590526
>>38586859
>>38592227

Pro tip for all my homies ITT:
If she has a shit ton of makeup centered around her eyes (eyeliner)... shes probably a snow bunny.
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>>38590386
>You're allowed to talk to girls only because of the Jews and TV.
I'm backward buggermerica
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>>38590386
Blacks men act more dominant, especially niggers. That's why girls date them, you sissy white boi.
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>>38592356
gonna need some examples my man
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>>38592283
Wh-whats happening in this picture
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>>38592411
Trust me my good man.

Just don't stick around too long.
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>>38591570
It's a nigger. Their entire culture revolves around the gimme gimme mentality due to white guilt and spoonfeeding.
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>>38586859
im a complete autist and white girls love me OP

perhaps youre just stinky?
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>>38592422
Examples as in what the fuck it is and how to spot it famalam
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>>38586859
>I can honestly say that I'm a nice/normal black guy who has a job, isn't overweight and doesn't know how to attract girls.

Stop looking for it. Focus on yourself and you'll find someone. You sound boring though desu, find something you enjoy doing and go out more.

If your life is just work, or work and lifting (and you're not a greek god by lifting standards), you won't find shit.
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>>38592392
Lol no. Go out and you'll see being disrespect and rude=\= dominant

And the media make them all rapper, gangster, violent apes. That's why girls think they're dominant. Irl these apes violet law then get thrown into the jail

You think you can sell cracks and rap in the 87 towncar to "make it" irl? Lol grow up kid. Blacks are victims of Jewish media too. They could live such a normal good American life but been told to act nigger all their life
They have no choice but follow the "rule" created by the Jews and society

So nigger up or else you don't get white pussy. Every race is not that different when you live together long enough. So there's nothing special about blacks. After white girls get bored they'll leave. Don't expect your special nigger aura would make girls stick around for years
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>>38592419
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>>38592471
even tho you're memeing this has a lot of truth to this. My friend is black and doesn't get much white pussy because he isn't that much into hip hop and likes indie shit like vampire weekend and nick drake.His family calls him an uncle tom
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Damn I'm glad I'm not a nigger lmao.
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>>38586859
Her armpit looks like an old vagina
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>>38590447
>on 4chan
>not assuming everyone is a trap loving white male
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>>38586859
>haven't gotten laid or anything really in 4 yrs
>never had gf
>talking to random 5/10 at house party
>asks me if I want to go home with her
>end up hooking up at her place
>the fucking was okay but sleeping next to someone was actually really nice

That was on thursday, we were texting the next day but I let the convo die off and we haven't talked since then. Idk bros, I don't really want a relationship with her even though she seems cool enough, I guess fwb would be okay but honestly im not super motivated to pursue that, but I'd also feel like an asshole for not at least talking to her again.

Its probably best to try and turn this into a fwb situation right? I'll hit her up tonight/tomorrow ask her about her weekend and then invite her over to netflix and chill or something. I live by myself which is convenient but I'm pretty boring and do absolutely nothing aside from school, smoking weed, watching Netflix, and lifting and I always feel super self-conscious about the thought of bringing a person into that, even just for casual sex.

I just feel like it's something I "should" do rather than something I "want" to do, even with the initial hook-up was only cause she asked and wouldn't have happened otherwise desu. I mean I could probably go my whole life without talking to her again and she'd forget about me eventually and I'd be alright with that, but then again that's how I feel about 99% of people I know.

The whole situation totally takes me out of my comfort-zone but maybe that's not such a bad thing because things are pretty boring and lonely here and some change will probably do me some good
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>>38592447
What is a snowbunny?
Control + F 'snowbunny'

What is eyeliner?
Pic related

Extreme eyeliner = Snowbunny (typically)
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>>38587144
It's pretty fucked up, it makes my blood boil when I see mindless racsim but there's not much you can to about it.

Also don't tell them you're "just friends" because that makes you seem really insecure and shit. Be a man, go ask them on a date. Mak sure they actually know what you want and be confident with it. Don't be too pushy but don't lie. Because if you tell them "as friend" and then try to get your dick in she will she you as untrustworthy.
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>>38592972
I mean look at this post
>>38590545
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>>38590455
severely underrated post
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>>38592972
thx f4m gonna keep my eye out on tinder
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>>38588470
Yeah no feels, just seen her working at this place twice before, think she's really pretty, I'll probably try and say something if she's there next time I am
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