No matter how big I get I still get pushed around, seen as weak,

Don't put yourself in positions where you're getting pushed around/confronted.

>>38550853
Confidence comes from accomplishments. Pick up an instrument, or drawing or woodworking.

>>38550853
Just take small steps to man-ing up.
I'd start by beating your dog's ass the next it he looks at you funny

You need more confidence man. Maybe a great job or more education will help. Also a new car or clothes. Shit like that. Even a new look. Nothing wrong with reinventing yourself from time to time

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In work I got asked to do something involving a lot of human interaction, I told a colleague I didn't think I could do it, my voice going high as usual, he turned around and said "YOU'RE A GROWN MAN"
Why must life be so harsh.

>>38550941
How old are you man?

You need to be more responsible for your life

>>38551267

I'm 23 next month

>>38551283
Yeah I'm 23 too. Basically you feel the way you do because you fail to follow things through. You'll know where you're messing up. You'll be like "damn I should've done that"

>>38550853
Do some martial arts.

psychologist

>>38550853
B8

>>38550853
Bjj boxing muay thai kickboxing or mma. Problem solved.

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I know this feel mate. I'm 23 this month, I honestly thought it would get better with age.

You gotta learn to stop giving a fuck, man
It's a mindset you need to grow in to, but it makes life so much easier
Be like your favourite movie character, he's probably cool as fuck, doesn't give a damn about petty shit
Anytime something bad happens, either take action if you can, or ignore it if you can't, but don't worry about it, because really, it doesn't matter

>>38550879
So you're saying he should just be a doormat? Because that's the only way to avoid confrontation.

>>38551379
this

do something full contact like kyokushin

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>>38550853
Same, I even started to cry at work one time when I got into a confrontation with my boss. I wish I could stand up for myself but as soon as shit gets real I always start to panic. I'm pretty sure I'm autistic.

Not same as OP, but tfw no matter how fucking loud i speak, no one still hears me..What the fuck i am almost shouting and still no one notices i said anything. How to fix this shit its a pain

>>38552075
How do you know they're not just ignoring you? People do that

>>38550941
>In work I got asked to do something involving a lot of human interaction, I told a colleague I didn't think I could do it, my voice going high as usual, he turned around and said "YOU'RE A GROWN MAN"


ahahahhaha i actually believe this happened

>>38550853
Mast put yout trip on