>first serious relationship >genuinely in love >it

Find your ex and slit her throat

>>38483805
So she found your cp?

>>38483805
I would just assume she cheated and was too pathetic to own up, using this to rationalize the breakup and move on.

>>38483805
>>first serious relationship
>>genuinely in love
does not compute

>>38483824
We're several states apart now.

>>38483834
But I didn't start to like lolis until after that, anon.
>>38483849
Probably. I don't feel that I'm hung up on the relationship anymore. For a long time I wanted to go back home and confront her just so I could feel like it properly ended but I never did and don't feel like I need to anymore. I just can't seem to fall in love with anyone anymore.
>>38483899
>date a few girls
>short term shit
>date girl
>ohshitwhatisthisfeeling
>it doesn't go away
>genuinely happy when she's around and just spending time with her makes everything better
>her smile is worth more to me than anything and all that gay shit
>this carries on for just shy of four years
>now don't feel that anymore

I don't get what's so hard there.

>>38483939
sounds like you needa meetup and talk to her. you need closure bro. that's just my advice tho. do wateva the FUCK u wanna do

>>38483805
this shit is the reason I am homosexual guys, fuck roasties

Feels and relationships are weird op. I just broke up with a girl who I was with over 3 years because I didn't love her anymore even though she was pretty great and I'm not sure what my approach from here is.

All you can do is keep pushing forward improving yourself and take advantage of future opportunities.

>>38484233
Problem is that I have no idea where she even lives anymore or how to get in contact with her.

>>38483805
I would love to know too.

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>you've been working out anon, I bet the girls at school are fighting eachother over you.

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>>38483805
you're literally free now to do ANYTHING go ANYWHERE with your life and you choose to cry on the fitness section of an anime board about how your ex left you

just hang yourself

>>38483939
You're jaded and afraid of letting people in so they can hurt you. We're all like that, and that might be better that way. If you're building a relationship on only love, then you're gonna have a bad time. There has to be some compatability there. Everyone i've seen base a relationship on love only, except for a rare few who got luck, turn out like shit and they either end it in a fight, or they're still together and fight all the time.

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>genuinely in love

>>38483805
She cheated on you and didn't have the balls to tell you, so she just broke up with you. Have heard same stories before.

>>38483805
>iktfb
ive never felt the same as i did with the first one. maybe its just a side effect of being young and naive. once you learn what women are, it makes it more difficult to look at them that way.

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>>38484617
It's okay anon. Not everyone knows what it's like.

>similar situation as OP a couple years back
>find old flash drive
>oh I wonder what's on here
>pictures and videos she sent me over the years
>first thing I opened was a video of her just saying "I love you"
>mfw

>>38483939
Find her through facebook, confront/meet her, and tell her to what extent she ruined you emotionally and psychologically and how much of a cunt she is

>>38485772
She doesn't have a facebook. Not an active one anyway. Plus neither do I. The rest of that sounds kinda beta desu.

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>>38483805
>gf broke up with me even though she says she loves me and evidently does so, since she kept texting me
>during the relationship we agreed that we wont have children, she thought they were annoying and i didn't want to work hard to support the family (live in a pretty poor place).

>out of the blue she breaks up and says she will want kids in a couple of years and she needs a beta provider, and i'm evidently not up for the job

>>38484776
FUUUCK, that sounds hard to handle

>>38483805
Hey there anon. I'm in the same boat, albeit earlier in the game. Stay strong, and don't force yourself to be in a relationship because you're lonely. If you're feeling lonely, get a one night stand, a FWB, or at the very least a pocket pussy.

But stay strong anon. You can't choose who you want to be, but you can choose to keep progressing in your career, hobbies and fitness. Just be you, and let the feelings come back whenever they want to.

>>38486972
>you can't choose who you want to be
With

Same anon. Don't try to force yourself to forget about her, if you still do. Don't hate yourself for doing it too. It will pass when it wants to pass.

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>>38485772
>>38485815
this

fuck it, keep lifting, keep getting better, strive forward towards something you want to achieve that (mostly/only) depends on how hard you push it.
you will find a sense of purpose to achieve this vision, this will free you up to connect emotionally again, provided you thought long and hard about the time with your first gf and the moved on.

you can do it anon, cmon now

>>38483805
>first serious relationship
I wish I had your problems normalshit

Remember you didn't love the girl- you loved the way the girl made you feel. She's replaceable.

fuck a relationship for now set some goals and crush them.

>tfw got rejected today
time to lift the pain away I guess

oh my fucking god. my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me and it came out of nowhere for me too. i thought we could overcome any problems. i never expected this. i want to cry. i want to die.

>>38487747
cry if you need to

dont for the love of god let anyone see you tho

lay in bed for a few days, covered up, staring at the ceiling.

post-breakup depression is also great for cutting.

>>38487791
the thing is that i go to uni. i have to find a job too. i cant just lay in bed as much as i want to.

Just stay alone mate. You don't have to be in a relationship all the time. Find things and hobbies you enjoy, and move on with your life.

Eventually, you might fall in love in the future.

>>38483805
2D women will never do this to you. Choose a waifu and lift for them.

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>>38487929
That's more or less where I'm at in life right now.

>>38487511

Really makes you thing

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>>38487511
This is something I realized recently but I still struggle to remember it. In reality my ex was a bitch but goddamn she made me happy.

Fuck

>>38487747
>>38487791
>>38487800


Man up faggots. There is more to life than settling down young.

Now you're free to chase your dreams and achieve. SO FIND SOMETHING TO ACHIEVE RATHER THAN BUYING INTO THE WAGESLAVE DREAM OF SETTLE DOWN AND LIVE A BORING LIFE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.

You might not think it right now but you will be happy again; even happier if you work for it. Get /fit/ and find another qt who isn't going to dump your ass; or better yet actually stop chasing tail and realize you could achieve greater things.

>be me, 15, skinny fat,
>get a qt Korean gf, 7/10, 8/10 body (no tits but great ass legs
>she's 6'0 and i'm 5'7, loves cuddling me between her B cup tits
>everything goes great, dating for 8 months
>summer comes around
>she goes silent on me and refuses to talk when school starts
>spend a year trying to win her back and hurting myself
>deep depression, lots of drinking and smoking

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>>38488576
>tfw date a girl that wasn't very attractive but I'm a faggot that can look past that kind of stuff
>she made me incredibly happy
>she was a good person and I enjoyed spending time with her
>after a little over a year she breaks up with me and starts dating some other guy
>one of her friends that I had become friends with explains that apparently dating me boosted her confidence and made her feel better about herself
>she thought she could do better than me

3D women are fucking monsters.

All of them.

>>38488640
>SO FIND SOMETHING TO ACHIEVE RATHER THAN BUYING INTO THE WAGESLAVE DREAM OF SETTLE DOWN AND LIVE A BORING LIFE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.

But anon, what if all I've ever wanted is a wife and a couple kids on a decent size piece of rural property in the midwest because I come from a broken home and a loving family is my dream?

>>38488690
Everyone has suffering.

The single man has lonely suffering.

The married man has too much commitment and responsibility suffering.

The rich man has boredom suffering because he has everything he desires and it's no longer special.

The poor man has not enough suffering and he'd be happier if he was rich.

The good looking man is tired of sleeping with QT's and just wants to settle down with a loving girlfriend


The guy with a loving girlfriend is bored and wants to sleep with multiple QT's


Careful what you wish for Brother. The grass is always greener on the other side until you realize the grass you're stood on has been beautiful all along.

I stopped chasing tail and instead fully committed myself to boxing and I've never been so productive or so peaceful. One day I'd like to settle down sure but I want to actually achieve something rather than settling down in my prime.

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>>38488734
>The grass is always greener on the other side until you realize the grass you're stood on has been beautiful all along.

>beautiful all along
>no relationship with any of my family whatsoever
>haven't spoken to them in years
>last time I saw my dad he was an alcoholic piece if shit
>last time I saw my mom she picked her piece of shit husband over me and I came home to my shit all over the yard and a note telling me to get it taken care of that day or it all went to the dump
>siblings are all jaded as fuck from similar experiences and none of us want to see each other
>have pretty much bounced around my whole life

Nah. I want the commitment and responsibility. That says "stable" and "loving" to me and I'd rather be there.

>>38488780
How boring

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>>38488811
>implying I don't want a plain boring vanilla life

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>>38488734

Great post man.

But once you realise all these things you say are true, the only thing you actually want to do is to kill yourself.

Because once you achieve your goal, you will realise that everything is the same as before, and there is no point in EVERYTHING you do.

I achieved a few goals, and yet I still feel empty inside.

Now my only goal is to find peace and happiness after I depart from this shitty life.

Are we just /r9k/ with weights?

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>>38489107

A fast scroll down through the catalog will answer your question.

>>38486904
>out of the blue she breaks up and says she will want kids

I was with a girl older than me for more than a year, she promised to love me forever but when she saw her Facebook with everybody marrying at that time and having human cubs she planned it and didn't even broke up with me face to face.
She told me later, when I asked "I love you but my head is above my heart", since then I don't believe in womens capacity to love men, they love what you provide to them (feelings, money, house, children, a wedding ring, etc) but not you as a person, that's why if they have to leave you they do it like you were some stranger on the street. Women are very cold blooded and egotistical in nature, just look at every every break up story and the ratios of men vs. women ending the relationship and above all the ways and reasons they do it.

>>38488734
>>38488734
Well put, brother.

Focusing on self and growing an individual is one of the most rewarding things out there. If you can lock down some partners to have a regular sexual release, even better. We will have cognitive dissonance reguardless of where we are in life, just don't let it get you down.

I don't chase tail anymore, I focus more on living my life as full as I can. Explore your passions! The more you achieve on your own, the more confident you become. Money, status, friends, lovers... Everything finds it's way to you.

Life is beautiful, and suffering just provides contrast to appreciate true happiness.

We're all gunna make it.

>>38489253
this.

the way bitches can just leave someone and hop on to another dick in a matter of hours is fucking scary yo.

>>38489253
Feelings like love?

can anyone help me out here?

>be crushing hard on girl I met like a week ago
>last night we semi-hook up, i.e. we start making out
>she seems extremely into me, hugging, grabbing and cuddling me all night and I'm happy as fuck
>ask her today if she wants to hang out
>tells me she's not looking for anything right now because of reasons, she thinks I'm a really great guy but that the timing is really bad
>tell her fair enough, had to try

so basically what I'm wondering is was I completely rejected or is there still hope?
I kinda wish it's the latter just so I can move on but man I want this to work so bad

>>38489350
only one way to deal with this

>DO NOT MESSAGE HER

if you still have a chance, this is the best way of going about it.

>>38489350
it's over anon, don't contact her. put it into your lifts.

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>>38489350
Fuck women ... on one hand we have anons whose girls left them out of the blue and just hopped on another dick few days leter, then on the other hand we have this poor lad, who acually got to making out with a girl he really likes, but next day she tells him "its just not a right time for her".
WHAT THE FUCK DO THEY WANT? Why can't they all be the same?

I feel like life would be easier if I was gay.

An ex of mine broke up with me through WoW during BC when we had just seen each other that night.

Permanently soured that game for me.

>>38489500
lol that seems pretty great

>>38489480
yeah this is what I was planning on... not contacting her and then linger in hope for 2 weeks waiting to see if she'll message me and if not, to just completely cut her off.

>>38487733
rejection is good.

IT MEANS YOU FUCKING TRIED.

fuck the result. focus more on performing the action.

>>38489492
You wanna be gay together anon?

No homo.

>>38489330
I recently had a heated argument with my gf because we hadn't seen each other for a few weeks due to my responsibilities regarding my family etc. I understood the reason she was unhappy and I know that I'm not very talkative online, so that's why I thought it would be better to put our issues aside quickly and talk in more detail when we would see each other next week. She was still talking to me in a very aggressive manner and since it was quite late I told her "I'm tired and I would like to go to sleep now. Talk to you tomorrow, bye."
Next day I got no replies and when we met the following week she told me that she had been to a nightclub and hooked up with her friend. Her explanation was that when I told her bye in the middle of our argument she believed I had dumped her. What a shitty explanation but being the beta that I am, I forgave her and now I am getting used to the fact that my once special girlfriend is a slut like any other. I can't dump her tho because I'm afraid to end up alone and I am not a perfect guy.

The moral of the story is - don't be like me. Live for yourself not others and every woman is the same when they get (or you give them) the opportunity.

Thank for reading blog post.

>>38489828
>Her explanation was that when I told her bye in the middle of our argument she believed I had dumped her.
That's a real shit excuse.

Honestly I'd drop her fucking quick regardless f how alone it may make you. She's probably fucking around and if she isn't she will again.

I really need to move to the middle of nowhere Montana or some shit and find me a nice quiet simple church girl.

>>38489828
holy fuck dude

dump that train wreck

you are no longer a man in her eyes. you know that, right?

>>38489828
BTW it feels fucking awful to get cucked. Like I am not good enough even for the most basic things in a normal relationship. And reading other posts in this thread makes me feel even worse.

Thank again.

>>38489876
You are probably right, but I am one of these people who really needs companionship but I my social circle consists of my parents. That means I have no choice but stay with my current girlfriend unless she leaves me.
The good thing is that we will be living in different cities in a few months so maybe it will help me become more independent and get a few friends.

Gonna piggyback on this because fuck it it's shitposting anyway

>Been 2 years out of relationships
>New girl at work
>I think I've caught the feels

Help /fit/ it's a small workplace and I would have to work directly with her should things go to shit, should I go for it?

If it helps my coworker says he thinks she'd go for it but fuck I know I'll just spaghetti all over the damn place

>>38489952
>i have no choice

this is how a /fundamentally beta/ person thinks folks. cant make this up

>will be living in different cities

you know as soon as you split up she will have at least 3-4 dicks around her mouth, right?

please man, please dont be auch a cuck and tell her to fuck off.

please man.

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>>38489952
You are a cuckold, no joke mate.

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>>38489985
>>38489952

fucking this. if you have an ounce of self respect you will end this. You will make it past a few weeks of suffering and you will have stood up for yourself. She is a fucking slut and is outright admitting it to you.

just end it.

>>38489985
Ok I will think about it but first I have to find some friends or else I will become an even more miserable human being.

>>38489952
i feel so sorry for you. You genuinely seem like a pathetic person.

>>38490020
lonely is better than willing cuck
blind is better than willing cuck
hell, i would even take being fat over being a willing cuck.

i feel so sorry for you anon

>>38490020
You might be miserable for a brief time, but you will never be able to regain your sense if manhood if you don't dump that bitch. Bite the bullet and cut her out of your life.

>>38489828

>I forgave her

Holy shit anon. She didn't think you dumped her, she was mad that you stood up for yourself.

You want to even half asa save yourself? Text her. RIGHT FUCKING NOW
Sat nothing more than "We're done. Fuck you. Good riddance"
Then block the number, block her on all social media, and burn every thing you have of hers.
Then go to the fucking gym.

>>38488641
That's what you get for being a manlet

>>38489828
You missed your chance to say "You thought that meant I was breaking up with you? Then, I'm tired and I would like to go to sleep now. Talk to you tomorrow, bye." and walk out.

>>38488489
>>38488650
Honestly, I started making comments about the wonders of 2D women as jokes, but I'm no longer sure if I'm joking...

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>tfw I install Tinder today
>only have 1 shitty picture, shit bio
>get my first match with this girl
>google reverse search picture - no results
>she is not a bot
>/fit/ never prepared me for this moment

I am not even that autistic in person but I just cant write her. I know she expects something funny or witty or just something to make me stand out. I honestly dont know what to do, I thought Tinder was easier, it seems it's harder than RL.

>>38488650
this happened to me

never try to build a woman's confidence or self esteem, if you succeed they'll just leave you for someone else

>>38489828
You're a fucking idiot.

>>38489979
There's a reason literally everyone says don't shit where you eat.

Date her, find the reason for yourself, then you can say that to others when they ask stupid questions.

>>38490825
since you seem to like her, what do you like about her?

>>38490020
would you rather have pride, no friends,and misery, or have no pride, no friends and misery?

>>38483805
wow the exact same thing happened with me, turned out she was sleeping with my friend though lol

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>>38490921
well I like her smile, eyes, hair. she seems like she is nice. I dunno Tinder is mostly just about looks I guess but still dont exactly know what it is she just seems like a normal and cool person.

>>38490825
She's absolutely gorgeous. I wouldn't know what to do either. Pretend she's just a random 5/10? Worst thing you can do is tense up or put her on a piedestal.

>>38490979
Jesus christ

>>38484281
Are you me? Literally exact same thing 2 weeks ago...

>>38491006
I know it's pathetic that's why I post about it on an anonymous rice cooking forum.

>>38490825
>get a few good conversations going on tinder
>last week autism kicks in
>don't reply to anyone for a week
>some bump the convos and I really don't know what to do
>literally just say "hello" or some other random shit
>can't think of anything to write

>>38490979
it is about looks, both you and her know that. tinder is like a digital barscene. you approach whoever is good looking.

now, you like her eyes and smile and whatever.

i would srsly just ask "your smile is charming as fuck, did you wear braces as a kid?"
she prob did, too which u can respond "yea guess nobody is born with a smile like that, it's fucking gorgeous" or whatever.

if she doesnt smile showing teeth, she is prob self conscious about her teeth. if so;

"your smile is charming, but why wont u smile with your teeth? self conscious?"

basically the point is to give a compliment that could be seen as something "mean" or "douchey" since it isnt a 100% sincere compliment. aesthetic enhancing (such as braces, haircolouring, getting nails done, make up etc) are done by her to look good, and if you bring that up she wont feel actually hot, since its not actually complementing her. explaining this further will make me look autistic and prob just make this harder for you to understand.

bottom line is this will result in her tryin to qualify herself to you ("i might have braces to look good but i swear im still hot!")

i guess u can only try. and be 100% honest when u talk to her. once you have established that you think she looks good, ask her something along the lines of;

"so are you just a pretty face or are u cool and chill irl aswell?" using more suitable words than "irl" etc.

>>38491077
text her

>i bet you think you're hot shit

you will be able to hear her panties get soaked

>>38491077
No i meant jesus christ she's hot

>>38483939
>We're several states apart now.
Even better, no one will suspect you.

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>>38490650
2D women can't hurt you anon

>unless you remember that they aren't real

>>38489828
holy shit, dump her dude.

GROW A PAIR

>>38490979
DON'T FOLLOW THIS RETARDED ADVICE: >>38491190

just don't make compliments, she knows she's hot, don't give her validation.

use tinder to set up a date and then escalate further in real life. don't talk too much on tinder, or you'll be seen as a beta bitch.

>>38492140
mate, its not a compliment. thats the thing. it doesnt provide any other validation besides you acknowledging her on your tinder.

>use tinder to set up a date and then escalate further in real life. don't talk too much on tinder, or you'll be seen as a beta bitch.

this is true though. however, u need to start up a conversation.

>live in tech sausagefestland
>online dating
>message like 100 women over a year
>20 reply
>10 first dates
>only 1 actually says she doesn't want a 2nd date, silence from the rest
>basically my own personal echo chamber

Why are women so flaky? I can't seem to find anyone who takes a relationship seriously or communicates like a normal human being. Is it just because I'm in techland with about a 75% population of rich nerds, or that most guys are assholes on dating sites so its easier to just disappear? Or am I expecting too much?

>>38492753
>finding a nice respectable woman
>online

pick none

>>38493362
>Don't like club sluts
>All the local bars only have 40+ women
>Friends are all married and only friends with other people who are married

Guess its time to leave humanity behind

>>38484281
Has she been clingy before you broke up?

>>38492753
Online is where chicks go to get their ego stroked, the last resort for women who fucked it all up in real life, and chicks who just want to get their brains fucked out/teased while they masturbate/romanced hard core on the DL.

If you're looking for a real relationship, look IRL.

>>38492753
The way you actually get into a good relationship with someone is by meeting them organically and preferably knowing them for a reasonable amount of time before dating them. Basically by making friends with single people and then dating people you meet through them.

>>38493408
There are a shit ton of other ways to get to know girls. You just have to strike up a conversation in some place (can be pretty much everywhere), flirt as good as you can. If the situation allows it ask for a date or something (for example if she's been saying she is hungry, you could say lets grab some fast food) but usually ask for her number.

This sounds totally surreal I know but it's actually what a lot of people do and it can work for you too. Start with a context related ice breaker, try to be creative, situational and/or funny. For example you're standing at a bus stop, next to you is a cute girl, you both seem to be waiting for a bus. Now your bus comes late, just say some generic line like "I wish that stupid bus would be on time once" - definitly not really funny or creative but situational, enough to start a convo. From here on you can basically go.

I am a top tier autist, not remarkably good looking, 5'4 and it still works for me sometimes. Give it a try whenever you see a chance and you'll get successfull too.

>>38493362
>>38493481
>>38493534
>>38493693
Thanks brehs

As someone who hated himself until well after graduation, I have a ton of catching up to do so any advice helps

I've kind of readjusted, but the idea that I could ask for a phone number and the response might not be 'fuck no you human garbage, why did you even ask' is still kind of alien to me

>>38493827
Girls usually aren't that level of mean even if they don't like you at all. It's much more likely that they give you a fake number or just ignore your texts. And if they actually do say no, they usually do it in a nice way.

Source: I've been doing this for years and only ever got like 2 refuses and lots of times where they did the other shit

>>38489828
My ex argued with the same shit, because I told her she didn't need to come to my place to sleep over. Except the reason for my rejection was that she's been throwing herself at the other guy she slept with that night since a few weeks and I knew this. I went fucking nuts because I couldn't handle the pain of having been cheated on. Yelled at her that she was a fucking whore like her whore mother. I could've strangled her on the spot I was so mad. How in the fuck didn't you get mad over this

>>38493827
Don't feel like a fucking failure if Internet advice doesn't work for you.

Your best bet is to put yourself in a lot of different situations, figure out which ones let you be your best (most confidant, comfortable, charming, etc) and then organize your life to get yourself in as many of those situations as possible. From there it's basically just showing up and waiting.

>>38483805
What a literal faggot. Tryou being a 20 year old khv you disgusting faggot

>>38483805
>How do I feel again /fit/?
You don't.
That one you truly loved ruins all your other relationships forever.

>>38493910
Oh, I never got that response even once. Kind of the opposite, a handful of times women would basically stare me in the eyes and smile and clearly wait for me to make a move but my internal thought process would go along the lines of "she's just being nice, stop imagining someone might like you, retard" or "she's a nice girl, you're a fat boring piece of shit, let it go".

One girl in high school built up the courage to ask me out about once a year, but I thought she'd just noticed that I liked her and was mocking me.

I didn't even realise until I thought back on it years later and went "wait what if some of that was for real... oshit what am I doing".

Sorry for the blog but its kinda therapeutic to write this shit out.

>>38490020
Dude, this:
>>38490927

And she's going to just hop on some dicks and leave you for being a colossal bitch, it's only a matter of time. She's gone either way, so might as well dump her and at least have some of your dignity. You wait, and that shit is gone forever. Man up before it's too late or you'll hate yourself forever, faggot.

I'm 24, kv, socially isolated with no fucking clue what to do. I've never even approached or flirted with a girl. This thread is like reading shit from a different planet, I'm never going to make it

>>38483805
Stop being a bitch.
That'd be a good start, I think.

>>38494607
I recently realised that you just have to try. I was so afraid of rejection all my life but I just realized that nobody cares, even if you embarras yourself that girl is not even gonna remember it a year down the line and so on. it is like lifting, if you want to bench 2pl8 you are gonna have to load up more and more weight and you are gonna fail. If you dont push yourself because you are afraid of failing and embarrassing yourself then you will never bench 2pl8. Same with girls just go for it, they are just people like you and I not magical beings. If you talk to enough of them you will find a girl that likes you.

Tfw ruin relationships and people. I'm always trying to push things one step farther or take it to the next level.
No one has crazy that matches my crazy. 2 ex's in therapy.

Drug addictions are starting to turn girls away.

Lost weight and look better, but now my circle of people look better on average so I made no real progress.

Joke too much about suicide. Make a half ass attempt once a month just to not feel numb.

>>38495239
>>38495239
Took the gak test the army makes recruits take.
20/100 on family. 40\100 on the rest.

>Tfw am a failure at normal emotions.

Have actually depression. Fucking sucks. Pills make me nauseous all day. Anti nausea pills give me head aches, headache pills make me tense, muscle relaxer makes me sleepy. Ritalin to keep me focused and alert. Good, but im prone to abuse it and can't go a day without it or I go into terrible withdrawals.

>>38487511
Holy shit dude, that kinda makes sense. Smart man

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>>38484776
Fuck, bro. similar situation here.
>dated for a few years, got dumped
>currently moving to a new city (where she happens to live)
>find old handmade card she gave me for our 2 year anniversary
>it's a long note about how she loves me and how I bring out her favorite part of herself
>mfw

>>38483899
If anything your first serious relationship is the one you love the most, if it ends badly you could possibly be left with problems and never love someone the same again

>Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me last month
>Friend moves out of state for college
>Two other friends are always busy
I'm so lonely, I miss my ex and hate life at the moment

>>38484776
I've never been in love and that green text made me shudder.

Good luck man. I hope things are working out for u now.

>>38494607
you just have to keep doing it. every girl I've ever been with is a girl I feel nothing for. every girl I've ever felt anything for has rejected me. I got rejected pretty badly a couple of weeks through a combination of my hesitance and some out of my control factors and I was in a pretty bad way. it sucks. the rejection sucks, the constant rejection sucks more and people will tell you "who cares bro there's plenty of girls" but the people who say that have previous success to fall back on to validate themselves. you'll have nothing to fall back on other than your previous lifestyle. you just have to grind through it and take the leap of faith that you're doing everything right. it does get better and it does get easier, whether it's through practice socialising or a gradual jaded realisation of what it is you're doing. you'll get there eventually if you keep trying, keep your head and keep your standards and you'll either realise you love the feeling it gives and seek it out more, or how little it gives and focus on other things.

>>38485772
Kek why give her the satisfaction

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>>38495331
>>38484776

great thread buds, my gf of 1.5 years just broke up with me last Wednesday, did not even try to talk it out or put in work, and we were very close. It is very painful but I have been through it before with an ex fiancee and one just needs to fight or embrace the pain and keep a positive mindset. I have barely eaten or slept since but it will pass and it gives motivation to become the best that one can be.

this thread really brightened my spirits and I hope my contribution does likewise. thanks.

>>38489348
No, I meant vain emotions

>>38489330
Yes man, and it's not like some isolated case it's like the fucking rule, ask your friends and look on the internet is always the same shit.

>>38483805

You don't feel. keep it to yourself

you're a man. its a ruthless world. women look to you for strength and meaning, despite what feminists say.

most is you'll have a convo with another man while you are both tired from work or half dazed in a beer, because you're both men in the world, staking out your claim

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>never in relationship
>no one ever loved you
>no one will ever love you
>just keep lifting
just end it all

>>38496735
Keep lifting man, don't ever you hear me ever fall for love, it's a trap.

>>38493962
tbqhwy lad,

i would rather be a kv again then go through what i did with my first gf.

i almost died yo

>>38490020
Dude. Break it off right now you are a pathetic excuse for a man otherwise. Anything is better than being a cuck