Ive drank 300ml of pure vodka this afternoon to forget her and

>not drinking 750ml at the very least

It's like you don't even really want to forget her

>>38453875

occupy yourself with whatever you can

try literally everything

start with all the things that aren't drugs

>>38453884
Isnt 300ml alot? Or am I just new at drinking in 20 and ive never really drink in my life first few times

>>38453900

I usually do about 400-500ml of whiskey shots to get drunk before going out. Anything beyond that and i usually don't remember much.
I'm a 5'9 skinnyfat manlet too

>>38453900

New to drinking/don't abuse alcohol desu. I can down a 750ml bottle and still function. Although not on an empty stomach and not over a short period of time.

>>38453900
Meh I regularly drank 450ml of dark rum a night when my gf left me (also for no reason). It helped me to sleep and postponed my anxiety but was far more harmful in the long run. Please don't make it a habit Anon. Work on improving yourself and don't waste time being sad over her.

>>38453875
she already left, and this cannot be undone. You need to realize that this event happened like any other and you need to move on.

>>38453988
How do I move one when I cry myself to sleep 3 days a week thinking about her

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>>38454508
I'd suggest going outside, don't dwell on shit thats what bitches do. godspeed

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>>38453875

You know, maybe there's a reason.

Maybe the fact that you're susceptible to drinking and being depressive like this is tied to things she left you for. It's not like you didn't do anything wrong.

You get over it by realizing out of the millions of people available to you, she isn't even a drop in the bucket.

God speed op. I don't mean to put you down further, but a bitch isn't worth you doing this to yourself.

>>38454880
Today I went outside it was good weather so I actually drank the 300ml of vodka on the beach tanning

I was around slutty women all day not feeling any attraction whatsoever even when I was drunk

Sluts bore and even worse disgust the shit out of me man I dont see how all these men hang with these characterless women all day

>>38453954
This desu famalam

>>38454508
Dont be a pussy

There are billions of women

>>38453875
>Pure vodka

The drink is called neat or straight, not pure. Stop triggering my alcoholism.

>>38453875
pussy

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> mfw waking up that one night i drank 700ml of vodka

>>38454968
Sorry im not into alcohol that much I dont know the correct terms

>look at how cool I am I drank THIS MUCH of my fathers PURE vodka

>>38455002
My father lives on the other side of the country with his wife and kids(not my mother)

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>>38453875
Post her nudes first off so we can assess the damage.
Post your weight so we know how much you should drink.

Let us help you sadnon

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>>38454914

Welcome to the post-feminism dating pool. Go back to church, seriously.

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>>38455020
I dont have her nudes all I have left is this

Im 6'0 208

>>38455047
You could get a gf with no effort with this body,you are not too musclar and in the good height range.
Dont fall to the "loving gf" meme,as you experienced no girl will really love you,fuck it and move on m9

>>38455168
Thing is something in my head is still waiting for her to say sorry and return

I dont know how I can explain this feeling well but when I talk to other girls she is still on my mind and i even compare A LOT of girls characteretics (nose mouth hands style nailpolish this that) to her is this normal

>>38455047

are you 17

>>38453875
Where is this "rest" muscle and how do you train it?

>>38455220

It's normal man. We're hardwired to do this kind of shit, it's terrible. Not all guys suffer from it so bad but to an extent we all experience this.

I'm lucky to have never gotten burned in a long term relationship but I've had a few bouts of oneitis that screwed my mind up.

>>38455233
No im 20 why

>>38455258
cause you talk like a fag and your shit's all retarded

>>38455254
>not all guys do this

I know dude I have a few friends who literally change girl every 2 months and are happy about it and make jokes about how they fucked them up and that shes a dumb bitch

Inb4 true ALPHA
I just dont see how a man could talk like that about somebody they loved

>>38455285
Thanks I appreciate it

>>38455297

I don't want to say it's a "dumb guy" vs. "smart guy" thing but there is a difference in the ways approach getting with girls

I'm really selective and tend to develop big crushes on individual girls who I exclusively talk to, I have a lot of friends who just talk to a lot of girls at once and play the odds game, it's hard to not make something bigger than it was. For you you saw and planned a future with a girl, for her it was just a fling and she moves on, tough stuff but it's reality

>left me without a reason

That reason always has a name bro.

>>38455345
Maybe

>tfw pre-drinking a bottle of vodka before spending £150 on drinks in a club of strangers

The world is awful. Dancing helps. The gym helps too. Making out with random sluts that I don't know the name of is mildly fulfilling too. I drive to and from work hoping for someone to slam into the side of my car, but only in a way that i'm not at fault.

How do I fix it /fit/?

>>38455047
I don't believe you, if your this torn up over such a basic looking body she would have sent you nudes.

/threads over

>>38455527
You dont have to believe me
Why would I lie

I'm sorry OP we were already fucking. She said she was tired when you wanted to hang out and fuck presumably the week before, she told me she just wanted to see what would happen.

We were fucking when you were at class, you called her and she left the room. I'm sorry anon, how about a slice of za on me.

>>38455024
What do you even mean

>>38455574
>she said she was tired when I said I wanted to hang out

Dont make me open another bottle man this is literally what happened

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>>38453875

>pure vodka
>300ml

I think you mean straight vodka, all vodka is pure since it's literally just vodka. Also, stop being a pussy, 300ml is 6.7 shots, I'm not impressed.

>>38455047
buy some clothes baka

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>>38453875

Go back to /b/ faggot

>>38455604
I never was on b how can I go back

>>38455591

We went on a proper date mate its cool, 9 months and you'll realize at a year...it was for the best.

I got some creamy garlic dip and a half a pep z with your name on it bro, clen yourself up and lets go get big cmon

"I really hope you're doing well. I know it's meaningless coming from me, but I wish you all the best. I know I fucked up, hard, but I hope you're doing well."

She sent that about an hour ago. Am I gonna make it, brehs?

>>38455702

no stop texting her

>I know I fucked up bad, after the gym, before class, when I said it was a long week and I needed the Friday off. I feel terrible *slapping noises*
>Are you fucking someone right now?

>>38455717
I didn't start it. She did.

>>38453875
Date other women.

>>38455682
Tell me country and im gonna flip my shit cuz

I know this is 4chan but stop teasin

>>38455518
You're depressed, most likely. The car thing is very familiar to me. It might turn into self-destructive behavior bro. Better to stop it now before it consumes you.

>>38453875
pussy

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>>38453875
Fuck her, her loss.
Block her and move on, replace her with something new and stay busy.
You have more time to work on yourself now.

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>>38454914

>>38455819

I've already been through a course of therapy. My doctor wouldn't give me anti-depressants.

I argued it's not self destructive, it's negligence at best. I'm not going to put myself in a situation that I believe is going to have a negative outcome. But I also make a point of driving at least 100mph for a couple of miles each day.

I don't want to die, I just want to skip the boring parts

>>38455859
Lol funny bro! Nice

>>38453875
>She left me 9 months ago without a reason
Aww come on man... Surely there must have been a reason. Take an honest look at your self or something. Has to be something right? nobody is perfect?

(its been 9 months ago and you are still drinking because of it, that sounds rather unhealthy and not something which the average person would do. Maybe this is something which is related to the reasons she dumped you in the first place? ) Or maybe i am ignorant about heartbreaks. Idk

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>>38455891
I havent been drinking for 9 months dude this is literally my first time drinking more than 2 beer I never drink

God I miss cuddling her or even talking to her on the phone at 2 midnight

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>>38455922
helpless cuck

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>>38455922

>>38455922
Dude she's not even worth it. Go watch some bro science, go hit the gym and go get fuckin huge.

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>>38455922

>>38455702

She misses the shit out of you

>>38455939
>liking to hug the girl you love makes you a cuck
>talking to your girl at night makes you a faggot

?what kind of people are you? Its 2 midnight its americas time to post i forgot

I dated this girl for a year (5/14-5/15). I eventually broke up with her and ended it because it was becoming really not fun and we fought all the time.

For a year after that we were intermittently hooking up (5/15 - 5/16) and staying in touch. Still had feelings for one another, but she wanted something more serious, like to start dating again, but I was comfortable with where things were at.

Then it started to die down over the summer and I didn't hear from her much. Finally got a drink with her last week, and found out she's dating a guy now and doesn't want anything more (she knew I wanted to date her again).

Why do I feel like such fuck? I see pics of her on Facebook and Instagram and regret letting her go.

I'm not doing well, bros.

>>38456101
Women are strange objects

>decide to do a drink with ex-lover
>tell him youre dating somebody else knowing the person ure doing a drink with NOW wanted to date you
>not telling your ex this online and avoid murdering him from the inside

Quit being a pussy and play some video games.
Hell watch some shows or shag a slut. Nothing is sweeter than being single and having a nice stable number on your bank account

> tfw dated a girl for four years
> broke up and became depressed
> became borderline alcoholic drinking almost every night for a year and gained 50 pounds
> turned things around a few months ago
> started working out again and lost about 30 pounds so far

You're gonna make it breh. If I can turn my shitlife around, you can too.

>>38456090
>She left me 9 months ago without a reason how do I get over it on rest days
>God I miss cuddling her or even talking to her on the phone at 2 midnight
this makes you a cuck :^)

>>38455871
Antidepressants are generally unhelpful in non-clinical situations. If you feel unfulfilled, lonely, or angry like that on a constant basis you should talk to someone.

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>>38453875
>bragging about a mere 300 ml

Where my fellows alcoholics with 700 ml a night MY BOYS

>>38456166

I think that after a year of not being able to get over me, she wanted to see my face when she told me she was seeing someone else.

And I still consider calling her and telling her that I want to be with her again.

>>38455047
sauce on hoodie?

>>38455339
What you're describing is "alpha" vs "beta" and indeed has fuck all to do with intelligence

OP you have to realize for yourself what a fag you're being, no one can do it for you. Stop drinking the pain away and face it

>>38456698
H&M man its pretty legit for summer days. Its sleeveless

>>38456860
thanks brah

>>38453887
This OP, its the second post and nobody has replied to it so I'm going to point it out again.

Stop the booze, I've been and done that myself, it fixes nothing and in the mid to long term makes shit worse.

Do things, both at home and outside. Anything, whatever you're in to. Gaming, go for a walk, hike, learn a language, play an instrument, learn to code, woodwork, metalwork. If you have friends, go hang out with them. If you don't, find a social activity/group

>>38455345
Fuck anon...

Fuck.

>>38455859
That tshirt hes wearing IS pretty edgy

have you tried grief banging?. worked for me when she left i took a 1 week vaycay to another part of town and grief banged most of the women when i came back i couldn't even remember her name

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>>38454892
fuck, you just remind me of so many old pictures I have.

>>38456517
>not doing a liter a day
WHAT YOU WANNA BE A FUNCTION MEMBER OF SOCITY OR WHAT ANON

>>38453900
People have died from 400ml before.

>>38453875
listen to drill music it will get you over oneitis
love no thots ma nigga

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>tfw single

hehe suck it nerds you don't see my crying. just lifting, getting huge, and making lots of $$$

>>38458437
i dont get it

>>38453875
Not drinking a whole fifth?

>tfw 6'4
>tfw Croatian
>tfw go to party's with my friends
>tfw end up drinking a fifth of stoli and how ever many beers
>tfw everyone passes out
>tfw drive home and shit post on fit about my drinking problem

>>38453884
>>38453875
4x300ml C'MON

>>38458803
take a color blind test.

>>38453900
If you're an average weight (say 160) and you don't drink I'd expect you'd get pretty drunk from that.

Alcoholism is a bitch though. I could chug 750ml right now and function fine, because I've been drinking that much regularly for years and I'm 205 lbs.

there are worse things than
being alone
but it often takes decades
to realize this
and most often
when you do
it's too late
and there's nothing worse
than
too late.

I was driving down Wilton Avenue
when this girl of about 15
dressed in tight blue jeans
that grip her behind like two hands
steps out in front of my car
I stop to let her cross the street
and as I watch her contours waving
she looks directly through my windshield
at me
with purple eyes
and then blows
out of her mouth
the largest pink globe of
bubble gum
I have ever seen
while I am listening to Beethoven
on the car radio.
she enters a small grocery store
and is gone
and I am left with
Ludwig.

I drink half of 1.75L is a day. I chase it with beer.

My lifts are losing. My arms are shrinking.

This is the end.

>>38453900
sometimes i drink a 1l bottle a day just because my life sucks

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>>38453875
Just suffer about 30% of length of your relationship. Unless it was babys first love, then it might take bit longer.

>>38453875
Hep OP, sorry for your loss, man.
Women are fickle as fuck and are always looking to upgrade, that's why you never make your girl the center of your life.
Your priorities should be:
1, yourself
2, family
3, friends
4, your dog
5, your hobby
...
n+1, your girl

You are gonna be okay, you are young as fuck, I'm envious of you. Just work out, study/make money, invest in yourself. If you are a high value man, than you can pick your next girl. If you are some runner up, your next girl will be the first who let's you fuck her.

Drink with a friend if you have to, get her out of your system. Go make some money and gainz. Godspeed OP.

>>38458942
I still don't get it. Elaborate.

>>38459450
Was with someone for 15 years. Love of my life and my best friend. She died from breat cancer at 38. Biggest regret is we never got married. It was something she wanted but i kept putting it off because i would save money and we would travel together instead. We visited every continet at leas 3 times except antarctica. I dont think 30% will be enough to forget or get over.

>>38459526
Sorry for your loss anon.

Just take your time to think about things for a while, there is no one else but you yourself that will figure out how to properly go on with life.

May I ask how long ago this happened?

>>38453875
Omg you're the biggest pussy whipped bitch ever. 9 months ago LOL.

I never post in these threads but I actually have a real issue now that idk who to talk about with in person without looking like a lunatic.

I'm starting to dream of my ex again. haven't even spoken to her in over 5 years. but when I dream about her it feels so real, her voice is exact, her face and body. they aren't good dreams either. usually we meet again for the first time after the breakup. we chat and catch up but it's really passive aggressive until she tells me how she was cheating on me during the relationship and I get that sickly anger feeling in my core. other times we get together and we can't help but fuck. and I feel real genuine love for her. then she tells me about all the men she's been with during our time apart and again sickly anger.

I have a fucking gf too and I love her but this shit is really fucking me up. I'm going through some radical life changes rn too so I'm chalking it up to that.

but does anybody have similar experiences or advice to share? I wake up in the worst moods

>>38459599
They will go away eventually.
Nothing you can do.

>>38453875
> 300 ml
Are u a fucking pussy or something? Unless you drank that in under an hour u aint gonna forget her breh

>>38453875

>drinking because some toxic cunt left you
>drinking alcohol at all

It's like you even don't want to improve yourself and make her regret the choice she made.

>be a former ultra low test fatass SS+GOMAD victim
>gf of 2 years cheats on me
>find out about it and end the relationship
>feel extremely butthurt and heartbroken for the first 3 months
>meanwhile she gets more and more active on snapchat and slutty in general (cleavage shots for horny guys on SC)
>I gradually start losing weight
>after losing 40lbs throw some cardio in
>hear that my ex sits on different dicks every weekend when she's having the 'girl's night out' and gets shitfaced every time

A year later...

>best shape of my life, lost so much weight that her friends didn't even recognize me
>can bench lmao2plates and run 1/3rd of marathon in a row now
>I'm energetic, positive and full of happiness that has attracted lots if good people around me. Not a hint of the former person I was left in me
>heard that she dropped out of college and is on some kind of meds now, friends don't talk to her and she sits at home all the time.
>I keep focused on my career and fitness goals, while enjoying attention from other girls.

Some people need a tragic event in their lives to make a change in the way they live. You and I OP are no different. We both had the same kind of tragic experience. It's up to you what to do with the pain - sink or swim.

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>>38459526
You never should forget anyone you once loved.
Time will heal wounds, even though scars still remain. You will meet her in better place.

>>38459094
Thank you for this beautiful poem

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>>38458912
Kaj si be brate!?
I can do 1.2 litres fine.
I'm a 7ft Macedonian man mountain with a pencil dick tho

>>38459094
Bukowski my man.

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>>38460107
Nice bro, I'm proud of you.
Having a successful life is the best revenge you can have

>>38455047
she looks like a slut

>>38461673
What makes you say this

Shes everything but slutty

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>>38460107
same happened here, you can use this as an opportunity to grow or an excuse to bitch and moan

>year ago, no friends
>she left
>was alcohol, smoked, spooky skellington, depressed, suicidal

>now
>not an alcohol, no smoking after 10 years of addiction
>gained 25kg (97kg at 190cm)
>strongest and aestheticest in my life
>got drivers licence, bought car
>bought motorbike
>new positive friends, happy at life. occasionally banging sloots
>want to help everybody make it and improve

>>38454508
there's 3.5 billion women on this planet stop being a whiny little bitch. no wonder she left you you're fucking pathetic