How many of you are actually /fit/ and kissless Virgins? How?

not a kissless virgin but i catch girls mirin sometimes i know what it means but what the fuck do i say?

Some designer shirt will attract as much attention from girls as huge muscles, let aside an expencieve car.

The most difficult part is what to do next.

>>38210771
Walk up, smile, and say, 'Caught you mirin. Sup?'

>>38210747
Crippling fear of rejection. Even when a girl's mirin it doesn't mean she's actually available.

>be hungry skelly with long hair
>repulsive to all women
>decide to lift and get bulky
>2 years later
>cut hair, new form fitting clothes
>go to clubs
>drunk girls touching me all the time
>don't even say anything, just grope them and make out with them
>'wanna get outta here?'
>"Yeah! :)"

Happens every time I go out clubbing.
Getting /fit/ was the best decision of my life that has made me hate women even more than I used to. Shallow bitches.

I will bet my savings that you are not the hot playa that you want others to think you are.

If you were you would know that starting a convo with a girl, merely going talking to her is NOTHING. Literally nothing, they get approached over 25 times a day easily. If they go to a bar or club over 80, also easily. Not even her phone number means jack shit.

>>38210807
>mirin
normies dont know what this means, right?

>>38210747

I am far from hot, more like average, decent phisique for my age(college freshman soon to be). 3x5 80 kg bench, 50 kg OHP, 120 kg squat, 140 kg deadlift, 5¨10.

I am virgin. When I go to parties I catch girls mirin, most of them are 5-6-7/10. But this means jack shit if you don't approach, if I wanted I could lose my virginity this weekend, heck even today, all the girls who approach me first are always little below average.

For example when I was last time at some random bday party I can see this hot tomboy girl mirin me all the time when I am dancing, I get tired and go sit to drink up a littlle and she comes with me, sits near me and goes "checking out her phone", if I said just " hy my name is...." I could have probbably fucked in bahtroom stall, but I didn't because I don't care.

I am not gay, but I am just asexual, I see no point in catching hot girls,its just waste of time, girls and relationships and all that bullshit.

What I don't understand you, pathetic ones, who actually want to get laid and still can't do it. All you have to do is get 1/2/3/4 while having lower bodyfat, get a decent haircut whatever fits you, dress up nice, get a nice parfume, get a few jack rounds at club and you are golden.

> used to be really fat but got fit
> Still kept fatty state of mind and still feel uncomfortable all the time

How do I get over it?

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>at work
>help girl fix a problem with her computer
>she says that it would be great to have a guy like me at home
>just laugh it off and leave
Not sure if she wanted the D.

Lifting doesn't make me any less boring. I can't even hang out with my closes friends for more than a few hours because i literally have no idea how to start a conversation

>>38211137
>"Yeah? Maybe I could make that my part-time job, earn a little cash for errands like this." with a cheeky smile

If she giggles then reciprocate with a chuckle and ask her out after work.

>>38210747

Nah, I'm better than most of them.

>>38211012
>who actually want to get laid and still can't do it
Its not that easy
Ever since i got fit i noticed girls mirin less and less, its getting much harder to catch their eye and even harder still to get their attention

How do you guys do it? i mean...i thought i was average looking atleast but fuck me i was aparently mistaken

>>38210811
>fear of rejection
You're afraid of people rejecting you, so you reject yourself.
Great going, dumbshit.

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>>38211137
you should have sex with her

>>38210747
i'm not a virgin but I'm fat and look like shit so...

>>38210747
I lack the financial security to "go on a date" or have a significant other.
I need a couple of months. It hurts with it being summer.

>>38211137
You probably just could have stealthily slipped her dick in one of her cavities then and there tbqhwy famalam.

>>38211444
>slipped her dick in one of her cavities

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>>38211444
>her dick
Fuck I'm tired

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>>38210747

My dicks 5 inches at best and not even that thick
The overcompensating by getting /fit/ didn't help

Rly makes you think (about suicide)

>>38210778
Yeah, that's not true

>>38210747
I have horrible anxiety
>22
>speech impediment
>live with my mom and sister because dad skipped town
>just started CC
>have a job working front desk at a clubhouse
somehow everybody thinks im some ladies man because I'm not dyel
I get mired and can keep basic conversation. but beyond that I'm hoping she makes the moves for me.

>>38211474
>being this worried about having a small dick at 5 inches
Son, you're barely below average.
Stop being so damn hard on yourself, it's unnecessary.

>>38211565
8x6 minimum in 2016 buddy

>>38211553
Dude just fucking man up and crash and burn a few times, you'll get better at it.

>>38210857
Aren't you the same?
Would you touch a short-haired fatty?

Confidence is surely a major factor too

>>38211094
Maybe hit the beach, realize you look better than anyone else.

But are you sure you're fit? Play sports n shit? Because there's much more to fitness than lifting

>>38211223
Golden rule:
If you have nothing to talk about, Gossip

>>38211575
Luckily I'm 9x6

>>38211474
Realize that if a girl likes you, she wouldn't give af about your cock

>>38211616
/fit/ btfo in one sentence.
Of course nobody in a club wants to fuck ugly people. You're there to have fun and possibly get laid, not to form a deep relationshipt and look past physical flaws.

>>38210980
They don't know what the word "admiring" means?

>>38211684
>Gossip
Fuck off, woman.

>>38211576
Thanks I will

>>38211407
That's sad, I feel sorry for Jodie

>>38211317
What the fuck? That's the worst response ever. It doesn't mean anything. Fuck.

>>38211565
It's hard man,
huge mental block that's killin me
I can get some good flirtin goin cause of my bod and I get complimented alot but i end up backing out everytime before anything goes anywhere.

>>38211701
I kinda act cocky alot so i feel like whatever girl 'liked' me expects me to be at least be fucking average in dicksize

Just wanted to vent a bit brahs, sorry for sounding like a bitch but it can't be helped

>>38211553
Took me long to realize no one gives a fuck about my speech

>>38211800
>huge mental block
Everyone's self conscious about something, I've got a giant fucking discolored patch of scar tissue on the side of one of my legs and that bothered me for ages.
It became a complex for me, I didn't want anyone to find out.
Until one day someone did.
And they didn't fucking care, at all.
Then I got a gf and she didn't give a single shit either.
These things you worry about are blown way out of proportion because you've been thinking about it for so long.
Just bite the bullet, you'll see they won't care.
I mean you're fit as fuck right, if a girl is going to drop you because your dick is .2" below average she must've been insane to begin with.

>>38211800
>huge mental block
This guy >>38211886 is right
Youre making a big deal out of it and its hurting you more than anyone, let it go anon

>>38211718
senpai...
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-83255/Men-likely-gossip-women--survey.html
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/5082866/Men-spend-more-time-gossiping-than-women-poll-finds.html
http://www.today.com/health/gossip-guys-men-women-dish-dirt-differently-789520
https://nicolehart8.wordpress.com/2014/05/08/facts-on-why-guys-gossip-more-than-girls/

>>38211800
>It's hard man
Really? didn't notice

>>38211982
>men
Nope, women.
Gossiping is not manly, talking behind someone's back is sad.
I'm standing my ground.
They're probably talking about numales.

>>38211545
A good car and 'hip' clothes on a skinny faggot will make him a pussy magnet.

>>38212002
Heh

>>38212047
>Good car
yep, probably

>A skelly in a designer t will attract as much attention from girls as a fit guy
no

>at work
>girl tells coworker that I'm like a cute bear
I just escaped skeleton mode at that point. Not sure what she meant.

>>38211317
autist alert

I am currently trying to get fit, but even after I do, what is the point? My dick is 2 inches hard. What am I ever going to do with that?

>>38213161
>2 inches hard
What.

>>38213234
At least its not a micropenis??

>>38213325
But it is.

>>38212002
underrated post

>>38210747
Because I have many genetic diseases, from birth, and I refuse to allow any woman to waste time with something that should not exist. I am an overall negative on the human race because of the way I was born, and I cannot with good conscience allow myself to behave as though I matter.

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>>38210747
>How many of you are actually /fit/ and kissless Virgins
me haha

>>38211137
Get red pilled bro.

>"she says that it would be great to have a guy like me at home"

Translation:

>"It would be great to have a guy giving me attention, and making me favours like fixing my stuff without the need to reciprocate those favours."

>>38211752
whats even more sad is the "lets get it #trending." fucking ridiculous.

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>>38210747
>How many of you are actually /fit/ and kissless Virgins?
/25-year-old-kissless-virgin/ checking in.
>How?
I gave up years ago after trying without any luck. I used to be bitter about it but not anymore. Accepted it and moved on.

>>38210747
Last fit survey said around 50% here a virgins. No idea how many would be KV but I couldn't imagine image being more than a quater of that

I'm stuggling to lose the last 15-20 pounds of belly fat and I've had sex before. Basically if anyone is even remotely skinner than the lard I'm carrying you should be fine

>>38210859
Where in the literal fuck are you getting those numbers, avg cutie gets approached maybe twice at the bar a night, zero times on a normal day.

>>38210747
Low test->low confidence/little gains->worse confidence -> immediately reject any and all compliments as lies internally

>>38211137
She sees as you as beta free tech support.mpro tip never help out a women till you already fucked.

>>38211012
>I am just asexual, I see no point in catching hot girls,its just waste of time, girls and relationships and all that bullshit.

I'm asexual too but flirting is fun as fuck.

I don't dig casual sex either, but I want to be in a relationship one day, so if I end up with a non-asexual I'm willing to have sex.

>What I don't understand you, pathetic ones, who actually want to get laid and still can't do it.

A lot of people on this board are socially retarded

>>38210747
as soon as I open my mouth they realize I'm an unexperienced nerd with muscles.

>>38215941
>>38211012
>I'm asexual

so you don't ever masturbate?

>>38210747
I haven't talked to a girl in a non-work related context for about 3 years. I haven't been out to a party or a 'night out' in about 4 years. That's how.

>>38215977
Being asexual means you don't feel sexual attraction towards people, it has nothing to do with your libido or whether or not you crave sexual activities
I masturbate plenty and, like I said, I'd have no issues having sex with a partner, it's just that I can't look at a woman and subconsciously want to fuck her
Don't know about the other anon but it's a spectrum and I'm definitely closer to the gray area between asexual and not

>>38216006
>Being asexual means you don't feel sexual attraction towards people

so you watch animal porn then?

>>38216060
No. I'm sure you're just trolling at this point but I'll elaborate in case anyone's genuinely curious

Heterosexuals are sexually attracted to the opposite sex, homosexuals to the same sex, bisexuals to both sexes, asexuals to no sexes--it's all in the prefix

If you're sexually attracted to animals, no matter your sexual orientation, you have a legitimate problem

>>38216060
How dense are you? Maybe spend a little less time in the gym and more in the library anon, because it seems education thus far has failed you

>>38210747
What is the definition of /fit/?

Sub 15% bf and 1/2/3/4+....or

30%+ fatass lurker who's never smelled the inside of a gym let alone the scent of a woman?

>>38216206
Not the same guy but desu senpai I would say having no sexual attraction is an even bigger problem. That a basic instinct that you are neglecting

>>38216353
I'm not 'neglecting' anything if it doesn't exist, though. That's like saying gay people are neglecting the basic instinct to have offspring with the opposite sex, but the fact is that gay people don't HAVE that instinct--that's why they're gay

In any case, having no sexual attraction =/= having no sex. I've mentioned twice now that I'd still have sex with a partner, and when it comes to producing offspring, the only thing that matters is the action

Before anyone says anything stupid, no, it's not just hormone levels or any other ridiculous excuse in my case.

>>38210859
Even if you exaggerate a lot those numbers are waaaaaaayyyyy over the top. i'd say the hottest girls (and i mean katy perry hot) get approached 3 times a day max and maybe 5-7 times at a club. And getting her phone number means she's physically attracted to you and wants to know you better

>>38216436
if you watch porn, get boners, orgasm to the image of sex, then you ain't asexual, you're just someone who can't get laid/is too insecure about being naked with somebody else, but tries to find bad excuses.

>>38216436
How do you make the correlation that no sexual attraction doesn't automatically count out you having sex?

Are you planning on raping some hole or are you thinking there's this perfect being out there some where far far away that will take you up off your feet?

To use a similar stupid metaphor: this would be like me saying I am drug free...except don't say I'm straight edge because MAYBE at some point there's a possibility I might do drugs. It's retarded.

>>38211553
you'll probably have to try about 7 or 8 girls before getting a steady gf (at least that's how many i went through) btw it hurts like a bitch but keep trying anyways, you won't regret any of it once you're good

>>38216551
If you look at an attractive woman on the street, it's very likely your first thought will have to do with fucking her
I just appreciate her appearance without that thought even crossing my mind

I'm not aroused by other people, I can get aroused by the *feeling* of having sex

>>38216590
Rape is absolutely disgusting to me.

I can love someone and enjoy their physical appearance without actively wanting to fuck them. But if I were in a relationship with a non-asexual, of course I'd have sex with them--for most people, sex is very important to romantic relationships, so it would be unfair of me to withhold it simply because I don't crave it to the same extent.

Also, like I said to the other guy, I can be aroused by the feeling of sex, it's just that the arousal isn't directed at the other person as an individual

>>38213161
get great at oral. here's a good link to start. http://www.youporn.com/watch/200577/pussy-eating-lesson/

>>38216658
Either this is bait or you have an amazing case of denial, but whatever brah.
Have fun being asexual except not asexual if you ever happen to get an opportunity for sex I guess

>>38216735
I know you're just trying to get a rise out of me, but I thank you for the relatively-civil discussion anyway.

As I have nothing else to add, if anyone else is looking for more information, the AVEN forums are a good place to start.

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i know i'm a skinny dyel requiring goodlighting and have poor posture but i thought abs meant getting laid either way desu

i've never kissed a girl senpai

>>38210857
Are you Ryan Gosling from Crazy Stupid Love?

Then you don't say "wanna get out of here?" like you didn't just make all that up.

>>38210747
Kissless virgin checkin in.
>how?
You tell me.

>>38211317
fag

>>38210747
My incredibly small penis.

>>38211223
pro tip: most people love to talk about themselves, or express their opinions, or talk about something they spend a lot of time on, etc. So if you don't have anything to talk about, be attentive, listen and make them talk with good open questions. Also, read How to Win Friends and Influence People, it has a lot of good common sense social skills that some may have missed.

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>>38210747
>What's stopping you from talking to her?
Underdeveloped social interaction skills stemming from being introverted af in highschool (as well as being switched schools).

So pretty much I'm playing catch up in learning how to act in a social setting. It's been a long slow process, but I keep telling myself "one step at a time".
>Pic related

>Fat kissless virgin
>Decide to start lifting
>Now a strong fat kissless virgin

T-thanks /fit/

>>38211616
this

>>38216510
ask me how I know you don't know jack shit about getting girls.

>>38210747
I'm so pathetically ugly anyways and worthless as a person that it isn't in anyone's interest to spend time with me. So I don't even try anymore. Who cares if they're mirin? I'm a shell of a person.

>>38210747
My shit personality, low self esteem and just being boring in general.

>>38210747
I've long since accepted that I'll never have sex or date any one. It lets me trick myself into making days seem easier if you just accept it.

>>38216006
LOW SEX DRIVE YOU FUCKING RETARD

>>38217031
Thats a shit book and ur retarded

Askin girls questions or anoyne a ton of questions is a bad thing to do when u meet ppl. Its just low energy and not makin it a win win for them by talking toul. Basically u wanna have as much fun as possible and make those around u have fun too.nasking stupid questions over and over... The girl already knows this shit, ur not providing any value to her by doig this

18 kissless virgin, I'm very good looking, maybe 9/10, started gym 1 month ago but was already fit thanks to judo for 8 years. I'm Algerian but people don't believe me because I don't look like an arab. I'm fucking hilarious and it makes it super easy to flirt with girls and get pretty far .. but then I'm fucking scared to do any moves. I seriously had over 20 opportunities to kiss/fuck but I just can't make the first move. I always think they will do the first move since i'm good looking. What do?

>>38211137

don't fuck a co-worker you nimrod

do you like not working where you work? because that will probably happen.

>>38215064
nah... the fact that she says at her home implies there is more going on than this superficial "translation" you offer

>>38210747
>What's stopping you from talking to her?
Severe general anxiety. If I can't shake this soon I'm going to have to go for some pills, its been holding me back far too long

>>38219263
That said, I could lose my virginity pretty much right away, but I'm not interested in going there with the chick who it would be with

>>38210747
>what's stopping you from talking to her?
Light paranoia, low self worth, bad at anything social, making contacts, making friends.

I have friends tho and they seem to like me, never understood why because I don't like myself (used to be complete utter self hatred for years so eh I guess it has improved atleast) but I've sort of learned to accept that they do and it no longer bothers me.

Physical/emotional attraction is a complete different story, I have 0 experience and know my flaws, with this insecurity if I try to get close to someone I'll only end up hurting myself and possibly that other person because chances are high I'll just go NOPE halfway and shut myself off from whoever it was I fancied, happened countless times before, the worst ones are where there was a mutual interest cause you end up causing doubt in their minds as well.

If I ever do reach that point and if I do get emotionally invested what do I do if my lack of experience becomes a deterrence? what if the patience she'd need to put up with me is bigger then I would be able to handle should our positions be reversed?

Fuck man, sometimes I think not everyone is made for love or intimacy, but then you look around and you see it's mostly just you.

I see my friends meet new people and make friends like it's nothing. I mostly just leech on them because their new friends become my new friends (at first by proxy, I end up sometimes but never too much to show any of my issues)

So yeah, that's my reason.

>>38220783
>I end up opening up to them
tl;dr I suck at anything social, intimacy is a part of that.

>>38210747
I've never even held hands wtf.

I was a skelly in elementary school and transitioned to fatass in middle school and high school, while being an autist through it all.

I've accepted wizardy, though. Just ten more years of being alone, then I can spend the rest of my life alone, too.

I want to get /fit/ to better self-insert myself in my animu high school romance fan fictions, though.