>"You mean to tell me your going to the gym on a friday night?"
These gains don't make themselves.
>>38191497
yup i have to catch a flight tomorrow morning
>>38191549
One way flight to virginville....
>Yep going out with the lads tomorrow so just having a quiet night tonight
>>38191497
Actually I'm going on a date, and I'm DYEL as fuck
>I have to catch flight tomorrow morning
ftfy. Leave humanity behind!
>gym closes at 7 pm on a Friday because all the normies are out partying/drinking
>>38191497
How else am I supposed to get a pump before I go out to hit on sloots?
>>38192852
>not going to a 24 hour gym
>>38191497
I love to go the gym on Friday nights, there's no one there because they're too busy out drinking and partying to lift.
Fucking casuals
>>38192852
>Gym
>Closing at 7pm
Get a new gym.
>>38192852
>tfw I know tfw
fuckin normies
normo gencide when
>>38191497
Nothing real happens in this town before midnight.
>>38191497
I just want someone to love me, and I saw the girl I like tonight, she winked at me. I swear to god I'm coming for her when I look better. She's fucking amazing and she makes me weak in the knees. I want you maddy, I want you so bad, we've been through the same shit and I know how you feel, just open up to me plz.
i want to party and drink with normie friends but i have no normie friends
>>38192979
she winked, so she likes you how you are now. you're a man. make a fucking move before she loses interest or thinks you've lost interest. fucking beta piece of actual shit will never make it like this
>>38192860
The only 24 hour gym here is almost all machines though
Who are you and why are you driving my car
>paying for public transportation
>TWENTY SIXTEEN
it ain't gonna make itself
>>38192887
Whenever I go to the gym late Friday or Saturday it's always the buffest dudes their, kind of motivating....
>>38192993
>tfw you drink and "party" by yourself in a dark, monitor-lit room trying to fall asleep
>>38191497
>"Y-you too..."
>>38192979
If u winked at a girl and she didn't do anything you'd think you blew it, she'll think the same if u don't act now
>>38191497
I don't go to the gym on Fridays because I want my gym bros to think I have a social life unlike them. Fuck my life
>>38192993
>think about going to bar
>would probably just get depressed seeing people with their friends
>>38193065
TRUE. It's generally awkward in many ways to go to bars alone
>>38192852
>gyms closing when everyone gets off work
When does your gym go out of business
>>38193085
how do people do it?
being sad about being alone seems like a recipe for alcoholism desu
>>38192979
What kind of faggy name is Brandon
>>38193098
a faggy one
i work out in the morning like you should
>>38193090
From what I've heard most people don't. People usually go with friends or a wingman (aka a friend). Maybe if you are really really good looking you can get away with going alone and still have success
>>38191549
Read this as i have to catch a fight tomorrow at first
>>38191497
"Ssssshhhhutttt up ppppppaaajeet at least I don't drive a cab"
Coworkers would always pull this shit on happy hours. Every time, no faggots, I've got gains.
I mean only one thing.
Invasion.
>>38193120
so what do you do without friends on the weekend?
I want to go out and do stuff but being solo sucks
>>38191497
>Uber driver tries endlessly to make conversation
I'm paying you to drive me you fucking wagecuck normie now shut the fuck up and drive.
>>38193015
>current year
With Uber and Lyft public transportation is more popular than ever
>>38193146
I used to go to traditional billiards halls and just play by myself. No one seemed to pay me any mind.
>>38193085
It's awkward to go to most social places alone. That's what the problem is. Bars, Restaurants, Etc
Places where people are with their friends, they don't want random creepy loner guys coming to them
>>38193161
its funny, lifting heavy weights is easy compared to meeting new people
thats the hardest lift of all it seems
>>38193146
that's the struggle, anon. when you find a loophole please let me know
>>38193162
yep. that's definitely the unspoken vibe.
>>38193169
Not really. I've been a shut-in for like 4 years but by choice. I generally don't have anxiety or spaghetti meeting new people or talking to girls, I just prefer to be alone most of the time.
In school, especially college, it's really easy to meet new people at the start of every quarter or just around campus, just be decent.
Back when I went to billiards halls I met a few people while smoking out front but never maintained the relationships for reasons mentioned above.
>>38193169
>tfw grew up with a hard life
>parents drug addicts
>lived without water/eletricity
>grew up in homeless shelters and projects
>can fight really good
>have stabbed people before
>have sold drugs to crips and been offered weapons by the age of 14
I can do all that without a change in heart rate, I can get in a fight with a gangster without any reaction from my adrenal glands
But when I walk up to a cute girl and try to talk to her my heart gets pumping like crazy, it's amazing
>>38193187
people say to put yourself in social situations, I go to the mall and do some shopping, walk around the city, whatever.
thing is, I dont think people will give you a chance unless you look good enough that they think you are worth talking to. so perhaps the gym is the best option of all: after all, we ignore ugly people all the time dont we?
it does suck though, being lonely makes you doubt yourself even if you like how your body looks. "confident" people are confident cause they have a lot of friends/peers who like them.
but what do you do if you dont have that? how can you be confident with nothing to show for it?
>>38193202
>But when I walk up to a cute girl and try to talk to her my heart gets pumping like crazy, it's amazing
people say to just treat girls like your guy friends, dont put them on a pedestal. but i dont know what it is that makes it nerve-wracking for some of us. is it because we want a different level of intimacy and feeling than with anything else?
>>38193252
Here's the thing, when I'm in a work setting or friend setting there is no issue.
It's when I approach a random stranger and I'm trying to pickup that my adrenal glands react
>>38193215
When you mature enough to realize that you shouldn't derive self-worth from the validation of others, and realize that most other mature people don't either.
>>38193202
thank god i'm not black
>>38193288
I'm white lmao
>>38193285
I dont feel entitled to anything, or think I deserve friends
I just want people to do stuff with now that im fit
you mean to tell me you don't realize that you can go out after you work out?
I was going to be a sarcastic asshole to you guys talking about your lady problems. But here's a tip. Get a job in the public sector. Working with people you're forced to be friendly and nice to will help you with social situations where you want to be friendly and nice. It'll teach you charisma.
>>38193285
this is a bad meme. validation is a direct cause of self worth, be it internal or external. you are an idiot if you think that having constant support and care from others doesn't make you a happier and more confident person.
edgy picture, weeb
>>38193332
>tfw asset protection
>tfw have to be meaner and more aggressive with my interactions
>>38193313
You asked
>how can you be confident with nothing to show for it?
Friends will come when you sort out your own warped sense of self.
>>38193333
I guess we should all just feel bad and wallow until other people love us or we finally meet their expectations and we finally get our praise then. That sounds failsafe to me.
>weeb
>posting on 4chan
>>38193361
I mean, I have stuff to show for myself, im well educated and now im not a fat fuck anymore, im more fit than most people
my point is, being lonely fucks with your confidence because you dont feel great without other people around you.
>>38193361
friends don't just come dude, you have to be lucky and meet someone you click with then go through all the phony shit up until you start getting to know them. this isn't some anime where the protagonist just has to figure himself out then he gets all he wants. is that your failsafe?
and we aren't wallowing or promoting wallowing. we are sharing our social experiences and dilemmas
>>38193012
Machines are bad meme
>>38193355
Feels bad dude. I remember cute quiet girls would call in to the call center I worked at sometimes and they'd be so quietly and cutely asking questions. so cute. One time there was this one girl I had on the phone and the sexual tension was just crazy. It's so weird to describe. I had her laughing, she had me laughing, I felt like we were on a date or something.
>>38191497
"Honestly, yeah. My girlfriend here enjoys going with me to train, and then we cuddle afterwards on the couch while we drink water and eat peanut butter sandwiches. I'm going out with my buddies tomorrow. Sunday's my rest day anyway."
>>38192852
They close at 20:00 here. It fucking SUCKS, because it's literally a 2 minute walk to this gym, or a 10 minute drive to another that's open until 24:00.
>>38194745
>10 minute drive
get a bicycle you fat fuck
>>38194749
Bicycle? That works fine in the summer, but we have six month winters where I live, where it gets down to -40. And autumn and spring are wet and cold too.
>>38192979
your 5'5 and you got a boner while wrestling another man brandon, thats why she doesn't want you
>caring about the opinion of a fucking taxi driver
Lmao
Also who the fuck takes a taxi to the gym?
>>38193065
>>38193310
Still a nigger in my eyes.
>>38192979
>I swear to god I'm coming for her when
lol
>>38192897
This is what my gym does (world gym kw). The other option is 24hr goodlife which is 4 times as expensive