Anyone else depressed and disgusted at the amount of attention

no one wants to associate with losers who can't take care of themselves. get over it.

oh no people are shallow :(

Just ignore them then autismo, the best part is now you have a reason to.
>"oh now you'll talk to me"

>attractive people attract other people
>unattractive people dont

really makes you think

>>38144990
This desu

>>38144980

nah mate i love it

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>>38144980
>become more desirable
>suddenly more people want you

what is this black magic?

OP, if it helps, try putting yourself in her position. Imagine how bad she'll feel to get rejected and ignored by someone she used to ignore.

Imagine if there was a fat bitch who used to crush on you, who then got really sexy years later. So you see her today and hit on her, but then tells you to fuck off and doesn't give you the time of day. You'd feel like a piece of shit, right? That's the feeling you want to instill in your old crush, and in others that used to give you shit.

Don't be a dick about it, though. There's no reason for you to be depressed or disgusted if you're doing well, now is there? You're making it now, so own it. Smile, be polite, and kill them with kindness.

>>38144980
I didn't get any attention back then and I'm not getting any now.

Technically yeah I'm depressed about the amount of attention I'm getting since I got fit.

>>38145066
This is exactly what keeps me going. Not just to show everyone that i could do it, but to show myself. After years of telling myself i'll cut, i finally followed through with it. First month, the weight was just coming off like nothing. I felt great.

I thought i'd ask her out. She basically said no (no reason, but i understood). I don't hold it against her, never will, but that rejection has helped me break past so many walls, it's unbelievable.

On reflection, i realised that i was chasing companionship because i was so lonely. I was trying to find solace in people who aren't really attractive (she has no hobbies and isn't that nice to other people). I recognised that and moved on, but i still tap into that energy on days where i'm feeling weak.

>>38144980

No, that's how the world works. It's pretty simple: look better, appeal more to others.

Really, you can find just about any reason to be suspicious of someone's affection so why not just enjoy it?

>Fat fuck
>Talk to girls
>They're friendly and genuinely enjoy talking to me
>Meet some really interesting people

>Lost 100lbs
>Put on a bunch of muscle
>Got contacts
>Started wearing better clothes

>Girls are now vapid as fuck
>Some cool girls I met before all turned in to boring cock hungry cunts
what the fuck
I don't even like casual sex.

>>38145205
wtf I guess I'm with her now

Would you want to date a whale? no. life is not fair.

>>38145588
>life is not fair
It should be, though. And we should strive to treat well those who deserve well, and treat badly those who do not deserve well.

Personally, I don't think it's disgusting how superficial people are, what disgusts me is society's, mainly women, hypocrisy of lying about it. What disgusts me even more is people that treat you badly, then jump on your lap after you made it.

There is this girl that tried to fuck my reputation and turn people against me in the past, I would never give her a good fuck now, because she simply does not deserve it.

>>38144980
>female attention REEEEEEEEEE

Shut up nerd

>tfw getting fit didnt change anything at all

the joys of having an ugly face

>>38144980
>It was supposed to be a romantic journey where I lifted for myself!
>Females are supposed to be attracted to me for my rich and cultivated soul regardless of outer appearance!
>I do the same too, I hit on or stroke my penor to girls who are smart and funny instead of beautiful with a nice body

Just embrace it you faggot, what did you even expect
At least you (presumably) have game and a pretty face
Fuck off

>>38144980


Ok OP, if you're not a hypocrite, why don't you start dating girls with mediocre looks to prove that character is more important than beauty.

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>>38144980
>tfw I've got a dad bod and the ladies love giving me attention

>is anyone surprised that people don't like fatties
No. When was the last time you approached an ugly fat woman?

Idiot

>>38146201
why are you here

>>38144980
Yeah it annoyed me but you've got to let it go. You have to. You can't make it if you get hung up on this. Just let it all go, let the old you go, forget the ego, and live for today. This is what you wanted.

>>38146164
I'm trying to find the right one, sure.

>>38144980

It did depress me for a while, it made me realise how shallow girls are and how horrible this world is, just fuck all these bitches and make money, then when you're ready to have kids go to Iceland, find a virgin waitress cutie and bring her back to the USA and impregnate her, it's the only way to spend your life with someone who isn't a whore

Girls from the USA = 50+ sexual partners
Fucking repugnant

Yeah I got up to 245lbs when I was really depressed, and now I'm 6'3 205 and in good shape.

Both men and women are 100x nicer to me and I get treated better.

Guys will comment on my sports shirts "Wow! no sox fans allowed in here!"

And women always smile at me and are more receptive and helpful.

Really just makes me feel a bit bitter inside. I was always the same person, just different looking.

>>38144980

Am skelly, lifting for myself. If I get /fit/, will I get more attention? I already do alright with my 9 inch biceps.

Yeah, hate fucking the sluts that ignored you is just awful. Stop being an autist and have a little fun.

>>38144980
>Wahh why didn't people love me unconditionally when I had nothing of value to offer?

Grow up.

>>38146463
Pretty sure that is a european chick abagail johnson

>>38146506

It's not that, it's more of a realisation of how shallow the world really is compared to what I was brought up to believe, got redpilled hard when got jacked

>>38146463
sauce?

>>38146519
Yep. The world is not a Disney movie.

>>38145068

Just be yourself.

a little at the start

but who cares? You wouldn't date an obese chick, so no need for double standards

I get hit on all the time, but I never know what i'm suppose to do to take it to the next level.
Like I have no problem flirting back with them, but where do I go from there?

>>38145813

>We should strive to override millions of years of biological imperative because I don't like it

ok buddy

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>>38146471
>I was always the same person, just different looking.

This anon gets it.

Why don't people want to hang out with people who are disgustingly fat and greasy and smelly and moldy?

I guess people are just shallow and can't see true inner beauty and stuff

>>38144990
/thread

Seriously Anon, get over it. Don't hold a grudge against your crush just because she has standards. You meet them now, dude. Crush that puss!

I was nearing 300 a while back. Not that long ago even. When I was still in HS. I was harassed, abused all that shit. Guys would slap my mantits, girls would jokingly grab my ass. I suppose it drove me on some days to keep going, but nothing really stuck like my mother telling me why. Telling me to do it for myself. That the one thing I do have total control of is myself.

Lost a bunch of weight, put on muscle and I stuck by the people that stuck by me even near 300. Did date a couple girls that introduced themselves to me afterwards.

My way is: if they were actually nasty to you when you were fat, fuck them, who needs them besides anything but a fling. But if they just didn't want to date someone who was so incapable of taking care of themselves? I don't blame them.

>>38145813
Don't be a faggot.

>>38146519
>compared to what I was brought up to believe
blame your parents and the media

>>38144980
Ask yourself this, how many fat chicks do you seek out?

>>38146445
As soon as your Icelandic princess talks to an American hambeast she is ruined. Stay in Iceland with her.

>>38146471
>And cum receptacles always smile at me and are more receptive and helpful.

No shit.

>>38146503
Hatefucking is the best sex. Try it, OP.

>>38146519
Wall E is just a movie, anon. It's not a documentary.

>>38147099
Ask them what they're doing after whatever they're doing now. Ask what they're doing friday night. Suggest something, anything. Ask if you can add them on whatever social media that's popular this minute.

>>38147099
Take her to a dark deserted movie theater and get your dick out.

>>38145066
>Imagine if there was a fat bitch who used to crush on you, who then got really sexy years later. So you see her today and hit on her, but then tells you to fuck off and doesn't give you the time of day. You'd feel like a piece of shit, right?

No, You move onto the next prospective girl. This is pedistal shit.

This OP's girl is retarded enough to get oneitis on a person she passed up, he should grind her self-confidence to the point that she's the one overeating and getting fat.

>>38147545
>he should grind her self-confidence to the point that she's the one overeating and getting fat.

And then hate fuck her fat folds?

>>38145038
Underrated

>>38147513
This anon gets it.
>>38147506
This anon wants to see you crash.

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>>38144980
Related

>>38147632
>7/10
really nigga?

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>>38144980
>>38144990
Listen to this guy, OP.

>>38146483
Anyone able to answer this?

>>38147756
No. Fuck off.

>>38146483
Lift, bulk, and you'll get the mirin'.

You need both low bf% (which you already have) AND muscle mass.

>>38146014
only one way to decide.

post pics.

Not really the same, but when I was overweight I was still decent looking as im tall, good hair, well dressed, good face, wide shoulders/chest. And I would constantly have 7/10s hitting on me and trying to hookup. I thought to myself if im already getting pussy, Ill probably be bathing in it if I lose this extra weight.
It was worth it.

>>38147632
fuug.
zyzz was based.

When i lost weight i felt like i just didn't understand the world anymore. So used to just being given the up down look that ends with a disgusted face, and people interacting with me the bare minimum that when i was actually in shape it was a massive culture shock.

Like i genuinely didn't know it was normal for cashiers to smile at you, or for people to randomly walk up to you and start a conversation. Before when a girl made eye contact, i just looked away immediately, because otherwise i would look like a creep. And people actually move out of the way for you in a busy street, rather than shoulder barging you, because you actually look respectable.

It's nice, i just didn't have anything to compare it to before. If i knew the difference i would have started a lot sooner.

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>>38145038
This.

>>38147297
Yea, i dunno what it is about high school that makes people want to go out of their way to just be a massive cunt to people.

Regular thing to see someone just get verbally torn down in the halls, didn't even have to be anything wrong with them.

>>38146201
Pretty sure this is not true.

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>>38144980
Am i the only one who has gotten LESS attention/positive remarks after getting fit?
Dating has been going alot worse since i started getting in shape and i cant possibly see how it can get any worse at this point because im pretty damn sure i couldnt even manage to drag a drunken fat chick home at this point since most of those already got boyfriends

What the hell fit? you promised me getting juicy would make me more desirable

>>38148313
Do you have a good face though

>>38148328
Does it matter in this regard?
Same face before got me more attention and positive remarks, the only difference is ive gotten fit and its killed my dating game

>>38148368
>too hot for fatties, not hot enough for normies

Sorry, anon.

>>38145023
It's not shallow to be repulsed by unattractive people

>>38147747
>guy

>>38145066
nah, I rejected her, can't be mad at her rejecting me

>>38147169
> we are the most evolved species we know of, but since we are the bar we should compare ourselves to lower life forms
Don't tell me you aren't posting from your cave on an iRock.

>"waah people only like me because im attractive"
>posting this on a forum with a Fat People Hate general

>>38146471
>I was always the same person

No, you were a slothful person with no discipline. You changed for the better. The ancient Greek awareness that physical beauty is a product of inner virtues is something society needs to bring the fuck back.

not disgusted, but it's weird.

>>38145066
Saddest fat fuck ever right here. How about don't be a fat shit to start with. Then, if you recover, recognize that you're still a worthless shit who got fat in the first place because deep down you have no self control and want to die. Then kys because that brand of loser is totally genetic. Don't pass it on.

lmao you are a fucking crybaby

In my case it put a lot of mass during a year and half and people still doesn't care about me at all

probably my personality or my ugly face, or that i'm a manlet

I haven't made many gains, but this one girl who rejected me asked if I was working out

It doesn't sound like a big deal, but the way she asked sounded like it meant something at least minor.

>>38147632

is 28 too late to be zyzz status

>>38153938
>edgy summerfag detected
Shoo shoo gains goblin, here's your (you)

I enjoy talking to former-me type of guys/girls. Never forget

>>38146201
no, they don't

>>38153938

Sir, carrying edged weaponry is against the law. I'm going to need you to come with me.

>>38152090
>No, you were a slothful person with no discipline
>You changed for the better

I would agree with the second point, you are better than your past self in some regard, but I think the first point is bullshit.
Fitness and working out aren't the only things that take discipline, and many people here think that.
A fat neckbeard who is at the top of his class for programming isn't slothful or undedicated, the guy works his ass off and it probably takes more hours than going to the gym.

It's childish to think you're better than others for lifting, you're better than your past self before you lifted, and quite frankly you always become better when you follow through on a goal (be it fitness or not).

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>>38144980
>started lifting 3-4 months ago
>lost 22kg now
>made some noob gains
>one person notices without me saying anything

>>38144990
fpbp

Don't be such a bitter cunt.

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>>38146201
>tfw a friend of mine is fat and lazy but charismatic as fuck
>crushes more pussy than me and my fit bro's combined

>>38156608
>disregard important area of your life
Sure it might not be slothful, but I understand why that would cost one some respect.

>>38154125
Ganbatte

>>38156850
Yeah I'm not arguing with that at all, it's just egotistical to look at people who are out of shape as lesser, fitness is important but it might not be to them.

>>38144980
>PEOPLE WHO DIDNT LIKE ME WHEN I WAS A PIECE OF SHIT DONT DESERVE ME NOW THAT I AM """NORMAL"""(on the outside)
cry me a river faggot
T

he way you look is a representation of who you are inside to a certain degree, people judging you based on that is natural.

>>38156888
>fitness is important but it might not be to them.
No but that's just it, fitness and physical health is objectively important because they have a big influence on mental health too.
Even if your studies are your focus, having an in shape body and eating right will help you accomplish your academic goals as well.
Eveyone has time to think about their body and to work out, maybe not everyone can afford to go to the gym for an hour a day but every little bit helps.
I'm not the anon you were arguing with earlier by the way, and I don't judge people at all to be honest.
It's just that I find neglecting that part of your life to be kinda sad.

>>38156938
Not disagreeing with your statement at all.
A lot of people don't see being in shape as a mental or social thing really, which is disappointing because it could help so many people.
Personally if it was just getting swole and getting girls (which a lot of people think) I wouldn't do it.

A lot of people here judge people too much on what they pursue in life, and really that was my point.
People have different priorities and even if fitness really is one of the more objective (since it helps so many other things) you shouldn't think other people are undisciplined or lazy because they don't have it as a priority.
Some people are lazy but others either don't correlate it with all the other good things it can bring, have other priorities, or are put off by selfish cunts who think they are better than everyone else.

TLDR: Be a sickcunt in whatever you choose to do, fitness or not.

>>38157133
This is fatlogic man, dont fall for it. There's no excuse to be a fatass. 45 mins a day is all it takes to be in shape and moderation when eating.

Why should people have given you more or any attention when you were unattractive and not taking care of yourself?

When a person looks unkempt and unhealthy on the outside they are oft times unkempt and unhealthy on the inside as well. It permeates their entire being and even affects any offspring they might concieve at the time.

That's how it is.
Stop being a selfish waste of spunk and just accept the fact that you're now, in the eyes of others, worth talking too, and who you were before wasn't.

>>38157217
T. college dropout

>>38157217
The only excuse is someone not having that as a priority.
It's stupidly easy I know, gradschool + gym has taught me that.
Just have to accept that different people have different ambitions and goals, some don't care about their health or their body.
Some of these people do it out of laziness and some honestly don't prioritize it, I know some hardworking geniuses who are fat, it's less to say about their character or more about what they prioritize in life.

The only fat people I "judge" are the ones who make fat about their life, the ones who make all these excuses and try all these shit workouts or say fat is beautiful.
It's less judgement and more sadness, these people have the goal of being in shape and are too weak willed to do so.
Fat people who don't give a fuck on the other hand I honestly don't care about, they do them and I do me.
If their goals are different than mine and they work to achieve them and hopefully they go for it.

I don't judge or look down on people for caring about different things in life, or having different ambitions.
I'm perplexed and confused at people making excuses about their goals and ambitions though, giving up on them and lying to themselves and others about never having it.
It's a very sad thing, if you didn't want to be healthy or in shape why would you form your identity around being fat or make excuses about it in the first place?

It's not even shallow, fit people put hard work into some facet of their lives. It's clear to anyone that a fit person is doing things to actively improve themselves, people will always ignore the unfit guy that does nothing and go for the interesting guy. I lost weight and put on muscle in hopes that [she] may want to be with me at some point.

>>38157275
Life is sad, people is stupid. I have friends, coworkers, even family, not giving a shit about their health, their appearance, smoking, drinking and binge eating. Thats not different priorities. Thats a lack of self control and discipline, and when you grow old, theres no excuse, you are no longer a child that needs to be told what to do.

>>38157307
You're a faggot.
You're literally implying a lifeguard (supposedly fit) is better than a surgeon, simply because he prioritizes his body.
Dumb people are dumb.

>>38157317
I think if you have children (or a life partner) it's your obligation to be healthy for them, but I don't think it's something everyone has to do.
Lots of it is because of what you say but there are also a lot of people who genuinely don't give a fuck about the things you said, and some of those people really do have discipline but in other things.

Maybe it's not the best comparison but the idea that everyone is terrible for being out-of-shape reminds me of Gene Simmons.
Simmons believes that every artist that performs or creates is doing it purely for money, and that they are liars for trying to say otherwise.

People project their own thoughts and ambitions on others and judge them for not meeting the expectations they set upon themselves, regardless on what that person might feel is right/wrong.
Take a step back and realize you are one perspective and never will fully understand another person's psyche, >>38157325
a surgeon had to go through years and years as hard as fuck schooling and works hours that would make many want to kill themselves.
I would consider them dedicated and in no way lazy, yet many of them are fat.
Others have different ideas about how they should live their life, stop caring so much about what makes others happy.

>get off on wrong foot early
>really really fucking wrong foot
>fatplanet wants d in highschool
> get on right foot
> every girl wants d
I cant explain how much tail was thrown at me other than by saying all of it.
>fatty gets skinny
> still don't want it
Being fit isn't the answer to anything. I feel bad. She just never clicked for me, and I would be destroyed if someone said that about me if I was in her shoes. Weight really isnt even an issue. Shes not ugly or anything. I am bout dat der fit life but id rather be happy than in a cum coma any day, and usually the former begats the latter if you did right.

Theres definitely a line in the sand to be drawn, don't be mistaken. But the obese mentality is what you're really wanting to avoid- it's not a meme. It's a brutish, ugly homage to actual addictions with none of the self corrective behaviors and double the defensiveness..

>>38157382
No, I get where you are coming from, people are free to do as they please, and its understandable when they really cant. Most people can and dont though, and I hate when I see people I care about not reaching their full potential in whatever it is they want just because they are lazy or dont wanna work too hard.

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>>38144980
I wish someone would talk to me

>>38157496
I think we all can agree on that bruh, it sucks to see someone not want to achieve something they really want because they are too afraid of failure or work.

>>38157510
Hey buddy, how you holdin' up?

>>38157546
don't talk to that guy, he's a weirdo.

>>38157570
And you aren't?

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>>38157546
not great Tbh

>>38144980
I was bullied my entire life and isolated myself for years at some point you learn to be happy with whatever life throws at you.

Not like halo effect was a surprise either, I'm rather surprised by people who were blind to it before experiencing it themselves. Was it not obvious to you before that hot people get more free shit handed to them?

>>38156836
zero multiplied by two is still zero anon

>>38157757
>
#savage

damn bro that happend to me / old story
>be me late for something
>walkin in town
>pretty crowded
>see friends of friend who were always bitchy but I was cool
>now i just nod and hi and keep moving
>literally 2 meters away i see that friend
>stop for quick chat
>shitstorm
>whyd you stop for her and not us
>i will never say hi to you ever again
>i only say ok
>they leave
>i keep talking to friend like nothing happend
>not sure if autist or alpha

>>38158084
this was after i turned to butterfly

>>38146201
>anime reaction image
>dad bod

I'm sure buddy, I'm sure

>>38147169
I can treat well people that treat me well, I can treat badly those who do not deserve it. If I am capable of doing that, anyone can. Your biological imperitive also can make you fat fuck if you let it.