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>>36894409
>like legit 5kg
>6ft
>19
>is it possible to be a virgin with tinder?

current stats
>28
>5'7
>90kg
>187.5kg back squat
>146kg front squat


goal stats

>21
>6'2
>100kg
>220kg
>180kg

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>>36894409
>325 lb
>5'7"
>25
>Lmao manlet + I lift for my waifu.

>>36894409
>135kg atg
>6'0
>almost 22
>also bad decisions, not really trying and isolation

315lbs
6'
25
Dad was hardcore Roman Catholic, told me not to show girls my benis if they asked. Also he divorced my mom, I didnt see her much and my dad never remarried and kept any relationships he had a secret. He's not gay though, caught him dating women several times, thanks caller ID. I guess I was just never taught how to interact with girls. Was also fat all the way until high school.

>>36894491
I wish I had religious/militant parents growing up so I could at least have an excuse for being a pathetic virgin at 28 years of age.

My parents were/are major hippy leftist and were all into teaching us about sex and shit and how great it is etc and to get a GF.
I turned out to be a massive racist bigot that hates everyone and isolated myself for all of my youth and adult life so far

>>36894439
Yes because even 2s are hard to get.

>>36894462
>>36894491
How do you stay strong mentally? I nearly exploded when I got rejected because of inexperience I couldnt hide.

>>36894409
>bad decisions, not really trying and isolation
Which is it fag? What could the bad decisions be if you not really trying? How could you make bad decisions if you're isolated? Classic fucking weenie faggot saying "I could do it if I tried..."
Yeah, maybe if you started trying when you were young, but guess what, you fucked up, it's too late, you're too far behind the rest of the world. Fucking faggots man.

Anyway,
I'm 5'9"
175 pounds
25
Squat 405 for 5 and 435 for 3
I lost my virginity at 14, a little young but it gave me a head start I guess.

6'2
23yrs old
182kg 1rm

Stay mad virginfags

>>36894529
Having parents like that is a far better excuse. Most growing up kids would become disgusted to sex.

>254lbs this morning (from 290)
>5'10
>23
>low self esteem, isolation, and 0 social skills

>>36894570
Oh I put my weight, max squat is 2*42.5+20 = 105kg 3x5

>>36894539
I'm not whining. I rejected a fine girl at 15 moved in another town next year and became an outcast. Thanks for asking.

>>36894409
>squat: I don't squat
>height: 6'3
>age: 25

Not a virgin and have turned down some tinder chicks for sex. I find one night stands nasty for some reason. I doubt I could even get hard without knowing the other person

>5 reps with 70kg
>190cm
>19
>autism, isolation and depression.

>>36894533
I'm on the verge of breakdown daily, but the end goal keeps me going. I just want to be happy, I want to be normal. Might as well try until i die. I got sick of "what if" scenarios.

>>36894796
Stay strong bro. Crying squats will pay off.

>>36894409
>205kg squat
>6'3"
>25

>>36894796
>get a hooker
>seriously

>>36894409
>55kg 10 reps
>179
>21
>still with my highschool girlfriend

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>>36894533
I really just don't care.

3D girls are terrible in my opinion. I'm waiting for VR and matrix style brain implants.

I lift to stay healthy enough to make it to the singularity.

>>36894409
120kg
5'8
21

Squat: 135kg
Height: 5' 8" (173cm)
Age: 22

I just never really got many opportunities because I lived at home and studied a lot during uni and was too frightened of getting hit with sexual assault charges to ever make a move.

Eventually a girl came onto me in a club when I was 20 so I managed to get a makeout but that's been it.

Now I work full time (70 ish hours a week) and don't really have much time outside of lifting/work so it just doesn't happen.

>>36894888

Oh look it's the self pity weakling faggots thread.

I only say this because you're literally drowning in a pool you've created while holding on to a rock. It's ridiculous to see this much disdain to change, but even worse is to see this many people allowing menial circumstances to stop from progressing past them.

Seriously, get over it. Accept it. Be at peace with it. Embrace it. And do something.

It's not easy and is not supposed to be easy. What are the other choices? Keep crying about it? Reinforce that it's everything else but your fault? That the cards are against your favor so why even try? Keep regressive habits instead of moving beyond them? Not taking control of your well being?

The very first thing you need to figure out and continually develop is a list of principles. However dumb, simplistic or self-evident they may be. Have a set of principles that should guide your actions. Write them down. They must be progressive, fulfilling and important to you, whether you follow them well or not. Just have them and have them somewhere where they are reminders. Either in a piece of paper, picture frame, in your journal, computer background, etc. (An example would be "Strive to be positive" or "Be clean and organized").

The next step is to try to implement these principles into your lifestyle. Try, because you will fail many times at first and occasionally later. But why? Because confidence comes from having integrity. When your actions are aligned with what you believe in. When I say integrity, I don't mean simply having good moral values, but rather doing what you believe is right no matter what. What you define as "right" is up to you. Seriously, the aggregate of your actions that are aligned to your principles give you confidence and a happiness of who you are as a person.

>160kg
>6'3
>22
Straight up, I'm ugly as shit. Feels bad bro

>>36895143
You didn't quote me but I already made a lot of progress and felt doomed when I fucked up due to inexperience. The part about writing down principles is pretty good and striving to be a good person and progress got me halfway out of my hole. And yes the past is the past.

>>36894409
> 140kg
> 5'7"
> 29
> I am perfect okay with this.

>>36895143
>REEEE but what does this have to do with my le virgin problem ;_;

Well, it's a definite part of the process.

Women do search for congruence. Someone who seems to know what they're doing. Someone who can lead. Someone who takes action. Having your principles the fundamentals of your actions is the core. Everything else follows.

>b-but my spooks

Yeah yeah, Stirner is right. He talks about the inevitability of the human condition to depend on fixed ideas that are essentially meaningless. The fact is our experience to be alive seems to be temporary. Searching for meaning, when instead you should seek to maximize your well-being and improve your conscious experience, is fruitless. It will yield nothing, so embrace the spooks that you feel are right for you and get the best out of life.

Now, in order to develop the social skills that are required for interactions with the intent of creating a connection with a girl, one must above all force yourself into social interactions. Force yourself into social interactions. One more time? Force yourself into social interactions.
This way you will develop a personality. It's harder when you're older, but not impossible. Everyone can change. How do social interactions develop your personality? Simply by putting your behavior, what you say and how you say it, through the judgement of others. How they respond tells your brain automatically what is acceptable and what brings you the most value socially. This is why people repeat that one joke, they tell that one story, they act that one certain way. You will become better at reading social cues. You will be able to express yourself and lead. Reading about this is good, but it helps with focus. Going out and first hand experience is crucial and unavoidable if you want to succeed.

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>>36895316
Doing things for women is over-fucking-rated.

I'll never understand this mindset of "Well women want X Y Z so that's what a real man does"

Like fuck all that noise. Instead of bending over backward to try to attract female attention I'd rather just do stuff I like, focus on my hobbies make money and not feel the need to validate my existence to a bunch of cunts.

I can't wait for VR and sexbots to finally introduce some real competition for the one thing women offer.

I'll be happy here with my Waifu, mankind has used technology to improve every aspect of our lives women are just the next thing on the check list. They're about to be obsolete.

>80kg
>6"5
>25
>i actually lost it last night, always dealt with depression

>>36895439
Tell story if it was not a hooker.

>>36895316
Again, the hardest thing is to not depend on others for validation. Re-read this sentence again and again. You should let your actions being aligned to your principles be the source of your well being. Not the rejection from Stacy, Jennifer or Emily. Seek validation within yourself. Screw what society thinks. Screw what girls do to you. Screw your failures past, present, or future. AS LONG AS YOUR ACTIONS ARE IN LINE WITH YOUR PRINCIPLES, YOU SHOULDN'T CARE FOR CONSEQUENCES OR OUTCOME OF A SITUATION.

It is such a great feeling reaching this type of mindset. You literally feel okay with things that before brought you down. You don't put hope you value yourself on externalities, but rather out comes with an internal congruence. It's an unbridled happiness that nobody but yourself can breach. Why care that you're a virgin? You can't change that right now. You can't change the past. Here's a principle that you should write down: DON'T WORRY ABOUT THINGS YOU CANNOT CHANGE. As a corollary, put your focus on things you CAN change.

Don't put yourself in the judgement of others but your own. Let go of outcome of what you're doing is something you think is right. Live through your principles.

So stop being pussies and circlejerk reinforcing misery. Be honest with yourself, change the things that are regressing you. Put positive things in your head. Learn to deal with the world and make it yours. Set goals and try to reach them. Learn happiness from within. I know this all sounds cheesy and for many self-evident, but the fact is that we tend to forget and we still get brought down by failures and things that can't change. Internalize this. Make it your life. Define yourself.

315 5x5 last year. Barely squat now

5'8, age 22
Not a virg

>>36895457
went to some nightclub some random woman invited me to hers after we danced for a bit
for some reason it just felt really natural but ive rid myself of depression in the past 2-3 years

>>36894409
>Height is all you need to get women bro - /fit/

Evidently not...

>>36894409
>160kg
>6'0''
>28

not a virgin, lucked out and got a smoking hot gf at 17 and another after that relationship ended
now im single though and i think being single after having a gf is actually worse than being a virgin. i know what im missing relatinship/sexwise
Still, its litterally comparing death by horse dick up the ass to elephant dick up the ass. neither is "good"

>>36895376

What a sad mindset. I do agree that you shouldn't change for women, other than yourself, but what you're saying is to forego women in general. When I say "live by your principles, and nobody else's" it doesn't mean that there shouldn't be an overlap with what women want. Plus, we're male human beings and social interactions and relations with females is ingrained in our brain and it leads to a lot of social goods, such as the institution of marriage and family. There's a lot of happiness and satisfaction that comes with looking back at your life when you're older and seeing your family growth and togetherness. If you want to make your life about quick and empty pleasures, hey that's your life. Don't disregard your programming or the benefits of social relations. I think you're right, more people are becoming appealed to the satisfactions of technology above other things, and that technology will continue to grow towards this. I will fight to the death against it, not legally but culturally, and will try my best to persuade my fellow man not to give up to the type of idle and selfish narcissism behind your motives.

>365lbs
>6'0"
>22

Obsessed over a girl on and off for 7 years. Don't know many girls, so who cares, I'll just be alone forever

>110kgx5
>5'9
>18

>>36896014
Then stop obsessing. Why do you think there can't be change for you?

>135kg PR about 2 months ago, did 112,5x5 yesterday
>178cm (5'10) king of manlets
>21
>not a virgin, lost it almost a year ago

>>36896007
>try my best to persuade my fellow man not to give up to the type of idle and selfish narcissism behind your motives.
hey screw you! no but i had the thought of investing in sex bots when it comes to the main market because that shit will take the fuck off over night basically.

I think most guys want a family deep down and the love and compassion that comes with a commited relationship, i know i do.
problem is finding a girl who wants the same, yes on the internet every guy blows girls off and is only looking for sex but everybody lies here so we cant count that
Finding a girl to actually commit to who wants it and who would like a family is hard bro, fuck after a year of digging as deep as i can im willing to say its impossible

Its not so much as we are giving up as we are being forcefully pushed out of the social interaction by women

>>36896027
Obsessive personality in other things too. I'm a perfectionist and I always end up thinking they're perfect without me. I've been sorta ok this year. I see women as a different species; Its too late for me

>>36894409
>135 (just hit the 1pl8 dream)
>5'10
>22
>I was a fat friendless virgin shut-in neet all my life. Now I'm a dyel virgin shut-in neet

>>36896131
I understand your position fully. But I think you're too quick to give up, and to find the right solutions. There are girls out there that are still marriage material, and yes, you will find most of them in religious institutions, which is something I feel that you would not form a part of and/or have a degree of disdain for. What you need to ask yourself is what causes this mindset on women? Dig in into the psychology and you will see that its mostly a deep rationalization for social acceptance. Women draw their happiness from their environment, from social acceptance. Why do you think they get offended most easily? Why do you think they go to clubs "just to dance"? Why they prefer fun guys than boring guys? It's a need for emotional well-being. They love to drink and screw, well, they are now participating heavily in slutshaming walks. Why? because they have the conflict of the emotional well-being they get from the "slut/party" lifestyle and the emotional well-being they also need that stems from social acceptance.

Okay, so lets say you agreed. Where does that leave you? Well, I strongly advice that you yourself became an advocate for the social order. Against the things that are under the banner of feminism today. Help create the appeal that there is emotional comfort in the institution of marriage. Believe that, and convey that. You will most likely convince a girl that this is the right way to go, and at the same time you will help change the tide.

>>36896377
What you say is true and i cant refute it.
Im honestly sick of the dating market right now and its non-existant payoff so im gonna take a break
It would be lovely if girls were simpler to be with but they aint

I still think my idea of the sexbots(such an ugly name...eugh) is going to take off...gonna look into that asap
Combine the new VR equipment that exists today with a fleshlight and some programming skills and boom, instant milionaire overnight
p.s dont steal my idea plz

>>36896253
But you're 22. You know how moldeable your brain is at this stage still? Do you know how long you have to live? Giving up so easily when the answer to change is right around the corner. Seriously.

Ask yourself the following: Do I think that I can't change the way I see the world?

It's a hard question if you're in a self-defeating mode, or suffering from the conditions of some form of depression. I've been there and many times I still get very depressed. But realize what depression is, and you realize that who you think you are and how you feel is subject to a number of different factors (the lack of serotonin when depressed, the dopamine high you get from jerking it to pornography, the endorphins released during exercise, etc). So, what do you do with this information? you realize that your mood depends on externalities. What can you do about it? You realize that you can have control of your thoughts. In eastern philosophy there is something called creating a distance from these thoughts. You realize that these thoughts are not really you, but a consequence of externalities. So you don't relate to them. You can be positive, even if you don't feel like it. When you think "life sucks I can't change", force yourself to think "these are not positive thoughts, this is not coming from who I really am, I must power through". The same methodology is used for when you get those thoughts about women. Change the way you see them. Become more positive and stronger, its a process that takes a while, but over time you will build those neural pathways that will automatically direct your thoughts from negative, self defeating, and hopeless, to the ones that can get you out of that hole. The wall you've created because you've lost control to the way you feel is further bringing you down. Know that you can change, that its not going to be easy and you will likely fail many times, and will continue to fail but with less occurrence as time goes on. Know that you can.

>>36896436
Well, you seem like a pretty honest person, but I still wish you failure in your business, solely because of the nature of that business. Either way, you will still be filling a hole that someone else will occupy, as I also think that the whole sexbot/VR thing is going to blow up.

People are too lazy to do what's necessary or to do what they think is right. I know I have a hard time too, it's not easy. But I think the consequences are very high, and that my individual actions can make a difference. I wanna see the world the way I want it, even if I'm destined to lose.

>>36896697
>People are too lazy to do what's necessary or to do what they think is right.
Well i dont see it from that perspective really, i dont think me opting out of a failing market is being lazy and sometimes cutting your losses is actually the right thing to do
Think of dating for guys as a business venture, how long do you wait with no customers? a day? a month? a year?
Sure, you try and improve your business but when it all fails what would you do? just keep on bleeding money daily?

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>>36894458
Those goals

>155lbs
>5'11
>22
>I'm not a virgin tho

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>150 ibs
>5'11"
>16
No need to discuss