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How do you stay motivated with a gf?

This is how it goes:
> Be single
> Lift 5 days a week
> Do it for 2 months
> Looking fucking great, feel great
> Get a girlfriend
> Sex everyday
> Gradually start skipping gym
> Feel worse and worse
> So unhappy I leave gf

It's a cycle that's been going on for YEARS. If I have to choose between the gym and getting laid, I always choose sex. How do I balance it? How do you guys do it?

> Live like a monk
> Get a fit GF
> Other?
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>>35123437
Hookers and moderate vodka
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>>35123437
it's all part of being a man. if you cant balance your life you cant have everything. that simple.

think about lifting as a chance to impress her even more
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Luckily this has never happened to me because I have never had a girlfriend.
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>>35123437
What the fucking fuck, so you can't spend 1-2 hours for gym +3 times a week just becouse you have a gf?

Oh god
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>>35123462
This.
Fucked a hooker and it felt gr8, but not so much that gains and freedom should be sacrificed for it
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>>35123437
Luckily this has never happened to me because I have never had a girlfriend nor I have never lifted
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I started going more frequently after getting a gf. +alone time +makes her more insecure and lovey, so when im out the gym she wants me.
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>>35123437
I know that feel bro. I know.
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>>35123454

>impress her

no you beta white knight faggot

lift because you want to, because it makes you mentally and physically fit, because you enjoy it.

if you just want to fuck girls go out every night and talk to them until you get an understanding of how to get their pussies streaming wet for you
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I'm engaged and that's been the biggest motivation I've ever had. I work out extensively if only to make her feel self conscious and get off her fat ass.
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>>35123473
I hate to play this card but I am a busy guy, and my free time usually comes down to either visiting gf's house to fuck and eat a home cooked dinner or workout.

I'm not breaking up with girls because they're gains goblins, I just get insecure when I don't lift. I'm a 6 and I date 8s. And it could be because I'm going but I can never say no to pussy.
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>>35123525
Young* not going
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>>35123525
All im reading are excuses

There are people, with kids, wife, 2 jobs and still manage to maintain a hobby
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Bulking after cutting like 65 lbs as a former fatass.. seeing gains daily. That's my motivation.
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>>35123524
nice
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>>35123569
Sex > Wife & Kids
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>>35123437
>not taking your gf to the gym
you're not going to make it
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My friend used to cheat on jet to stay motivated to look good to attarct sloots
But really
>lifting for girls
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>>35123510
This, I love lifting in itself that feel when you get new PR is fucking great.
>That feel when you get stronger
>Lifting for women 2000+15
>Picrelated
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>>35123437
Are you me OP? I always get gradually more miserable in relationships and lose motivation.
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>>35123525
Bullshit excuse. Get up earlier and lift then.

>tfw have gf, and kid
>full-time job
>get up at 5 am to lift
>no distractions
>get my lifting in
>still have time to make breakfast after
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>>35123462
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>>35123454
>impress her even more
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>>35123691
normal day of a german
still totaly proud of you
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>>35123591
Jesus christ No, don't listen to this faggot.

Taking your girl to the gym will result in one of two things.
1- She's a cardio bunny which is a good result since at least she wont gain weight.
2- She will start liftan but won't want to put the effort into it and you have to baby sit her.
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>>35125289
>settling for a gf that doesn't lift
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>>35125289
Or

>3. She'll stare at everyone else considering you're dyel mode.

Im coming back to my hometown in a few weeks after months of gains. Feels good man.
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>>35125311
Brah if that is your gf you need to teach her good form, her hips are shooting up before the weight leaves the ground.

Looks qt 3.14 though (inb4 neckbeards call her a 1/10 or some shit)

>>35125322
Thankfully I go to a commercial gym so my lmao3pl8 squat x5 is pretty much the best around.
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>>35125311
Can't really tell if guy or girl 2bh familia.
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How do I get gf?
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>>35125352
yeah, her form wasn't good, that's why we posted this video /fit/ for critique

doesn't matter now, though, she's already cremated

>>35125358
flat girl
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>>35125352
>>35125358
That's a dead girl who used to post on /fit/
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>>35123591
Holy shit are you back? How are the no gains?
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>>35125311
>dating that
She's a 1/10 or some shit anon.
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>>35125352
Making leg gains is so satisfactory. Before i dumped her i was squatting lmao 1.25pl8 but now im at 2.5pl8 eat that bitch.

Stupid gay blonde ottermode swimmer can kiss my glorious ass.
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>>35125384
>>35125374
Jesus christ wtf lad.
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>>35125393
I'm starting to get back into lifting more seriously now, I did a little bit of maintenance when my gf had cancer, but I could have done a much better job

>>35125398
mirin' her gains?
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>spends time with a succubus
>surprised when you don't have any energy

seriously though get into meditation, that's a typical example of your stress talking.
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>>35125435
M8. Why are you posting her? You know she's just going to get shit on (rightfully so).
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>>35125435
>tfw I like that game
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>>35125454
>having a DYEL gf
are you even trying?
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>>35125495
>posting pictures of your dead exgf
>posting pics of her as bragging
Bruh she is/was gross. I'm glad she shared your hobby but you are a low quality male if you couldn't do better than that. She's basically an ugly boy with a vagina.
>dating a dead tranny
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>>35123437
The single most important thing is to NEVER EVER fall into the "oh fuck training, she does not care that much how I look."

I've been with my gf for 9 years, was a 187cm 65 kg skelly, started lifting, gains gains gains - 90kg, met her.
3 years ago I got fucking sloppy. Began a bulk, lost all motivation, unemployed, ended up 110kg looking like absolute shit before getting the reality check from her..
Down to 82kg now, so yeah, my main motivation is to never end up like that again
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>>35125289
3 realizes you're a beta faggot and flirts with the guy deadlifting 500lbs.

But honestly, I lift to get away from my gf.
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>>35123437
Get a gf with some active hobbies.
Can be anything.
Gym, Hiking/Camping, Diving, Running, Biking, etc.
Something that she does on her own (so it's not she's only doing it because you dragged her along, because she will stop doing it as soon as you stop dragging her along) but that you can do together if you want to. Ideally both you and her will do whatever active activity together when you can but also feel free to do it on your own if either wants to or the other is not available.
If you're looking for a long term relationship (especially if you're planning on eventually having kids) taking a hit in the looks department to find what you want may be advisable. A 7/10 girl that goes hiking on her own will prove a better partner in time than a 9/10 "foodie" who never does anything active.
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I have my scheduled lifting days and my gf knows when im training and doesn't fuck with it.

Don't be a bitch OP
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>>35125435
your gf a qt
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>>35125435
>when my gf had cancer

I can't belive I have a fetish for that...
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Guys... I'm scared to come up with a routine and go to the gym... That makes 4 years in a row at college. what do?
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>>35127726
read starting strength and then when you go to the gym you'll be thinking to yourself "hehe, they must match his purse"
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>>35123438
For the glory of mother Russia's gains
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>>35127768
wut
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I have only ever had one serious relationship.

Basically it resulted in me leaving my current job, wasting lots of money, getting fat and a lot of other shit things.

So now i just live like a monk, sometimes i will fuck a chick but never ever do i want to have a girlfriend again.

I have hobbies like skydiving and tunnel flying and video games, so I'm pretty busy with work and my hobbies to even waste my time with some stupid fucking bitch.

Just remember apart from sex what can the woman offer you? honestly have at least two wanks and then think about the woman you are with. .
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i've had a gf for three years, lifting for 2.
The way i look at it we could break up tomorrow and part ways but i'll always be stuck in my body. I always put gym in front of her. At first she hated it but now she seems to respect it. Don't let a grill control your life brah.
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Take her with you? Find a GF that you share hobbies with? Me and my GF go to the gym 5 times a week, give each other deep tissue massages afterwards while watching movies, its GOAT. We do mealpreps every sunday and motivate each other do to well in uni and workouts. Don't settle for some basic bitch.
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>>35128940
Uni is not real life nigga. OP probably has a job and more to worry about than his grades
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>>35127918
nigga, read SS and stop asking stupid questions
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Know the struggle, gains>girls just ditch em
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>>35129406
>implying that working is harder than uni
Unless you work in a coalmine or in a pressure cooker gtfo. This is coming from an electrical engineer
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>>35129862
Wew. Lad.
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>>35123510
>>35123620
Yeah, no fucking shit you should lift for yourself, but one of the benefits is that women will be impressed.

I don't lift for women, but there is no reason to shit on people who use that as their motivation. Whatever gets you in the gym, to each his own
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>>35123437
pussy
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>>35123437
>Other?
get a bf
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bring that bitch to the gym with you dumbass

>its something i love to do, and i want to do it with you, and we'll both get really healthy!
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